my best friend of 11 years past away 4 months ago. he left a child and a wife. I just recently hung out with her for the fist time. we are both very intrested in each other and wonder if he would accept us being together. is this wrong of me to be with my best friends wife? im 28 and she is 32.
M0DERNDAYBARBiE answered Tuesday March 11 2008, 1:51 pm: if he was your best friend for 11 years, i'm sure he just wants happiness for you and his wife. when people die, they don't try to keep their loved ones from moving on or living their lives like they want to, they don't get mad or anything like that. it's not wrong of you as long as you know going into it that its a big responsibility, and that you should take the relationship seriously. just follow your heart and do whatever you truly feel is right.
jewelzx0 answered Tuesday March 11 2008, 12:12 pm: You can get many different answers to this question. Some will tell you it's a terrible thing to do and others will tell you that it's a nice thing. Personally I think when someone leaves this world, they would like for the people they care most about to move on and be happy. You two were so close for so long, so who better is there for him to trust with his wife and her happiness? Plus he would want his best friend to be happy too. Also since you two were best friends you will probably be able to have a deep connection with the child considering it has half of your friends DNA. Make sure the two of you aren't falling for each other for the wrong reasons. Make sure it is because you two reallyyy like each other, not that you both just need someone to fill the space of emptiness you both had in your hearts after losing someone so close. I hope I helped and if you have any more questions, I'm here. [ jewelzx0's advice column | Ask jewelzx0 A Question ]
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