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Lesbian, Bi, or straight?
13/F
I have no clue whether i'm bi, lesbian, or straight. It's weird, because I can remember liking guys. I mean REALLY liking guys, as in, my heart would beat like crazy if my crush walked by. I've gone out with a lot of guys too, but I have that problem about getting bored after a while. It seems as though my heart doesn't beat like crazy and my stomach doesn't get that tingly feeling anymore, and I miss it. I still will show off for certain guys and whatnot, but I don't feel that heartbeat thing anymore. For anybody. I don't know what this means. I'm not too fond of the idea of me being a lesbian (absolutely NOTHING against a lesbian. It'd just be weird and all of my friends are super homophobic) I've just never imagined myself that way. So, what are some signs of being lesbian or bi? Also, is there another thing that means you don't like any type? I mean, you're still friends with them but you just don't like LIKE them. Thanks :) please note that i'm NOT homophobic, if I sound that way. I'm just having a tough time typing up my thoughts.
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Your 13 sweetie, give yourself some time to grow up and discover who you are, dont worry about things that arent really important when your this young.
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oh goodness, i understand that feeling. i went through that stage when i was thirteen too. but just don't worry about it. try not to let it bother you so much. you probably arnt lesbian or bi, you probably just havent found the right guy. but later on you could discover you are bi or lesbian, but nothing is wrong with either of the three. just give it some more time. go out with a range of guys, because it could just be you're dating the wrong type. and when you're thirteen your emotions change constantly, that's what they're suppose to do. don't them get you down.
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Listen. You are only 13. Give yourself some time to mature a bit before trying to figure all this out. Try not to fret over it, because in due time you'll figure out what you want in this life.
If you do end up being into chicks and your friends are so homophobe that they can't accept it, then they aren't really friends to begin with.
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ok, wtf, girl you are 13? you are too young to be worrying about that sort of stuff.. why dont you concentrate on school and leave love for later on.. trust me... and the reason you get bored of guys and move onto the next and get bored again is because.. der once again your 13. thats what 13 year old girls do.. silly.. gees... i remember when me and my friends were thirteen, all we did was one week we liked one guy and the next we liked another... it always changed. im not saying you are definetly not bi or les but the chances are your just a normal 13 yr old girl.. nothing to worry about hunny..
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I was in your situation before, but I realized I was just looking for the wrong guy, & that made me BICURIOUS. Not actually lesbian or bisexual, just curious about the two, & there is nothing wrong with that. Just sit down and think about what kind of guy you're usually attracted to, & then try and go for the opposite of that. And if you still are getting bored with guys easily, you are most likely bisexual. But usually you are just looking for the wrong guy.
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