about

My name is Jessica. I'm 15 years old, and I live in M`T0WN, Delaware. I'm now a sophmore in Highschool and play field hockey. You could say I'm a total picture whore. I don't watch tv that often, but when I do, I watch The Hills, Degrassi, Friends and Big Brother. I love watching movies. I could watch Mean Girls, 50 First Dates, and Titanic over and over again. I listen to music constantly. My fave is Country. But I'll listen to anything from rap to rock (like Bon Jovi & Aerosmith.


When it comes to giving advice, I'm very honest, and sweet. I'm great with fashion, love, and friendship questions. But I can help with anything. I love helping people, so if you need anything.. just ask.


L0VE IT
- makeup
- boys
- friends
- family
- beachhh
- pageants
- tanning
- fishing
- dirt bike riding
- getting all dressed up


HATE IT
- rude people
- petty girls
- conceited people
- liers
- fake people
- drama
- backstabbers


*I'm always online so feel free to IM me anytime.

advice

I have always been friends with this gurl! We hve only had 1 fight in our entire freindship... now all of a sudden she would rather hang out with the girls she used to make fun of instead of me! i kno i sound selfish, but one minute at her house she is talking bad about them, and then the next she is linked arms with them in the cafeteria and not talking to me..even if i try to talk to her first. Is seh trying to tell me to not be friends with her?

Maybe she is giving you a hint to give her some space, or yea, maybe she doesnt even wwant to be frends with you any longer. : (
give her a little room, or just try to talk to her about it. it always works to get the truth out in the open.
Also, maybe you can try hanging out with these girls too. And then you can all be frends together!
Hope I helped

LiDdLe_JeSsiCa

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hey jessica, my question is that i have this problem with this girl at school, by the way im almost 15/and a a male, okay, well ive proberly liked her for almost a year now, and she knows i do. We would flirt everyday iv proberly asked her out plenty of times n she would always says no, but alot of her freinds tell me that she likes me and and with they way she flirts i would believe them.now me n her are really close, and so are our family's.and a couple of moths ago i had her rate me and she said 7 out of 10 being good, is that a good????, well is there any way we could go out, i mean i really Love her, and i knw LOve is a strong word but i think its heading there. how could i tell if she reli liked me the way i like her????. plz help jessica i would really appreciatte it!!!
-a fren

Well, if her friends say she does, then she probably does. A girl shares everything with her friends so if anybody would know who she liked.. they would. Anyway, when you ask her out, maybe she just likes it when you two flirt and she proabably likes it when you keep coming back for more. She might just be afraid that if you two go out and then you break up, you wont flirt with her anymore. And girls like it when guys flirt with them, it makes them feel all pretty. So, she might be scared that that feeling might go away. Anyway, 7 out of a 10 is pretty good. And, I dont think there is any way you could go out. But who knows, just keep in touch with her. She might just happen to start liking you.
P.S. a way you could tell if she really likes you is that if she calls you, or if she flirts a lot with you and giggles when you talk to her. Those are just a few ways.
Hope I helped!
if ya need anymore help, i.m me @ SunsetxoDreAms

LiDdLe_JeSsica

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Hey jessica... my name is ashley and i was going to enter a pagent because i really wanna be a model..but i dont think im pretty enough,i used to cut myself but i dont anymore and im just self concience.

First of all, let me tell all those girls out there, including you, that please do not cut yourself!!! What could possibly be that bad that you have to HURT YOURSELF for??
So back to your question..don't ever put yoursel down! Everyone is very pretty in their own special way. Besides, take it from someone who knows, the judges dont judge you on your looks, they judge you on your personality! So, if you have a winning personality... you're sure to win or get 2nd place or something honorable. So, go out there and win that pageant!
Hope I helped!

LiDdLe_JeSsiCa

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Theres a girl, but she already has a BF who i hate but im not gonna do nuttin about it cuz then i have no chance, but like what are sum signs that she likes me. Is there any signs from her friends or anything that could help me get a clue.

You could ask her friends if she likes you. However, dont get in the way of her and her boyfriend because then you will definitly have no chance! So, when you talk to this girl, if she looks you in the eye or if she sounds like shes very interested in what you are saying, thats a clue that she probably likes you. One other way to find out if a girl likes you is if she flirts a lot (sways her hair) when you and her talk or if she giggles a lot, thats a sign! So, go talk to her and see if she shows any of these signs.
Hope I helped

LiDdLe_JeSsiCa

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i really really lyke somone one but i dont kno if he lykes me and im to shy to find out so what do i do?

Maybe you could get someone to ask around and find out if he likes you. But, the only way to find out for yourself is to get over your shyness! Just go up to him and start talking, whats the worst that can happen? Be confident. You never know, even if he doesnt like you now...the more you talk to him, he might start to like you!
Hope I helped!

LiDdLe_JeSsiCa

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Im 13/m and how would i know if a girl the same age likes me or not with out telling me straight up?

Some ways to tell if a girl likes you is if she flirts a lot with you, or if she laughs a lot when she talks to you. When I like a guy and I don't want to tell him straight up, thats basically what I do to give him a hint that I like him.
Hope I helped!

LiDdLe_JeSsiCa

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how do u get a girl to want to go out with you?

You can't GET a girl to go out with you. If she doesnt like you, then she doesnt like you. And if she does, thats great. But still.. you can try to get her to like you by flirting. Yes, guys can flirt too. lol. s0.just flirt, and get to know her a little better. Once she gets to know you, she might start to like you because of who you really are. But if she dont.. then you have to just live with that.
Hope I helped!
if ya need nething else.. i/m me at SunSetXoDreAms

LiDdLe_JeSsiCa

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Well.....me and my friend like the same guy.I'v like him since i was little and he likes me to.But then there my friend she likes him.And I dont know what to do cause me and this boy want to go out but then there my friend.What should i do about this cause i dont want to lose a friend but i want to go out wit this boy.What should i do?


-Amanda Marie

What I would do is talk to your friend about this. Ask her if it would be OK if you went out with this boy since he likes YOU not HER. Hopefully she'll understand. But if she doesnt, then do whatever you feel is best. If you think this fling with this boy will work, then go for it. But if she cant handle you going out with this boy, then thats her problem. Remind her that if you and this boy go out, she'll get to spend time with him also!
Hope I helped! rate please

LiDdLe_JeSsiCa

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there is this guy at my school, in my first period class that i really like. we have a lot in common and he's always been nice to me when we talk, and he thinks that i'm funny, too. the problem here is that his friends hate me. could his friends disliking me affect that he might actually like me? and if not do you think this guy does like me? i need help please!

Honestly, yes. I have gone through what you are going through now. I really liked this boy and he really liked me to but he didnt want to ask me out cause all his frends disliked me. So, his frends disliking you may have an affect on him liking you. A guy will choose his frends over a girl and a guy does not like to get teased so there might be a chance that he wont like you because of the fact that his frends dislike you.
I hope I helped. rate me please!

LiDdLe_JeSsiCa

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tomorrow night is the homecoming dance and i have no clue what to wear. they said girls should wear skirts and a blouse, so i wanna wear this mini black skirt with white polka dots with a plain black long sleeved shirt (its a nice shirt, not a crappy one) but its just a plain solid shirt. would that match? with like black sandals? or do i need a different shirt?

I personally think that in your shirt there should be a little white so it would totally match. I think it would look really cute. Or an all white shirt would match. But hey, its your outfit. I mean, if you dont have an all white shirt or a black shirt with a little bit of white, then you could wear the all black shirt. Have fun at your homecoming dance!

x33-jessica-x33

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okay well me and my boyfriend were doing great. then all of a sudden he stopped calling like he used to call everyday...now he barely calls at all. i thought it was maybe because i usually dont call him so i started callin him but hes just like kinda brushing me off. we planned to go to a halloween haunt thingy this year and him and his friends planned to go this frieday (tonite) and theyve been planing it for 2wks and i was at his house and all of a sudden they started talking about how it was gonna be so fun i was like where r u goin? he was like OH HALLOWEEN HAUNT...i was like oh...and he was like ya do u wanna come i was like why didnt u ask me sooner? HE SED HE "FORGOT"....also when i went to his house he was actin kinda rude..just kinda ignorin me and stuff....what does this all mean? how do i bring it up when he calls me n stuff...he called me last nite and i acted like kinda not myself like kinda sad n he didnt ask wats wrong or nothing....so how can i bring it up n tell him? is he cheatin....im really sad...=(

Your boyfriend just probably needs a little space. When he didn't ask you to go to the Halloween Haunt on Friday, he probably just needed a night out with the guys. So, when he asked you when you were over his house, he probably just didnt want to be rude in front of everyone. So, just let it chill for a while. I'm sure everything will pick up right where it started

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Ok i've been dating my boyfriend for 3 months and all we've done is makeout everytime he goes down my pants, he pulls out his hand really fast. and i shave so i dont know whats wrong. what should i do?

Maybe your guy is a little scared. Maybe he is still a virgin and gets embarrassed easily. He probably thinks hes undeveloped or something and gets a little scared that if things go to far, that you'll make fun of him because maybe he doesnt have that large of a pe*is

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my best friend's boyfriend recently broke up with her and she still has feelings for him. but she also KIND OF likes this other guy, well she mostly only likes him as a friend. everyone wants them to make out tonight at the football game but she doesnt know if she wants to cause she doesnt really have strong feelings for him. but she already told everyone that she WILL make out with him tonight and now she doesnt know what to do. and she still likes her old boyfriend. and she likes other guys too. i keep telling her not to make out with this kid, but she doesnt know. any advice you could give her? since she told everyone that shes gonna make out with him, she doesnt know how to get out of it! so (im gonna read your answers to her on the phone because her computer is broken) thanks!

Well, its all up to her. If she doesnt want to make-out with this guy, she doesnt have to. I still have feelings for my ex-boyfriend, so I know how she feels. Anyway, just tell all these people that you dont want to make out with this guy. Thats all you have to do. Just straight up tell them that you don't want to

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I was wondering if it was ok to go shopping with your mom every now and then. Cause i go up to Pennsylvania every summer and Christmas to see my mom and i am 14. We always go shopping together because i dont have friends up in Penn. cause im only staying there for just a few weeks, so i was wondering if its strange or immature or something just cause you go shoppin with your mom for clothes and coffee, please, i really want peoples opinions! thanks so much!

Of course! go shopping with your mom. I know, I know, it might look a little corny but it shows that you and your mother have a good bond to go shopping with each other. and that is really sweet these days. So, go shopping with your mom, its OK! I go shopping with my mom all the time, and she does really have a lot of good opinions on what I should by, and she picks out some really cute things. I know it might be hard to believe but usually when my mom picks out something that I should by and I neglect it, I find out later that its actually in style. So i could have been ahead of the crowd! haha

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Hey*
Ok I am 14/f and my boyfriend and I have been going out for like 3 weeks now and he's great but lately we have been gettin into little fights. Like the other I was on AIM and my b/f and I werent really talkin that much... so I was talkin to my best friend tony... well my b/f got all mad and he says I dont ever talk to him and we made up but i really think that he is still mad... what should I do... I will rate high and I will take n e answers???
Thanks!

0k. well if your boyfrend cant handle you talking to other guys, maybe hes just not worth it. You should want a man that wont get all jealous whenever you talk to other guys! S0o. maybe talk to him and tell him to not get so upset. tell him how much u like him and that its not like your flirting with all these other guys. maybe he'll understand

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