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Candace Rae- the topic of everyone's coversations. Keep my name in your dome & out of your mouth. :] My parents were blessed on March 31st, 1994. I'm 13 years young, but I stride to act mature but it's not usually easy. I'm a good time. I'm a learning wakeboarder and my longest record of staying on the board is 13 seconds. WOOHOO! My second home is the soccer field, no lie. If I'm listening to hip-hop/rap/r&b I'm usually happy. Try to take my music away from me & see what happens. I can't stand people who haven't listened to 2 minutes of my music & assume it's negative. I will speak my mind until I knock some sense into them. Anyways I live in New England so I'm at the beach A LOT. Don't be stupid and ask if I live in England because I will tell you to pay more attention in geography class. I'm the type of girl who'd wear Red Sox clothes to a Yankee Game. Now let's see you top that, biotch.

I have a problem with liars & ditchers. I also have a problem with people who diss soccer. Soccer is the national sport in every country except the United States. Yeah foo' I think that speaks for itself.

I love love love Dunkin Donuts. Yummy! Coconut iced coffee & Tropical Fruit Smoothies make my day. Speaking of things I love, Abercrombie and Fitch is definitely one of them. I have a Sidekick and I treat it like my baby. It comes with me everywhere and that's the way I like it. =)

Ima huge flirt & if I see a hot guy, I'll go up to them and say "I'd tap that, bang that, slap that." Haha I don't care. [:

I tend to cause a scene.... EVERYWHERE. =]

Ask me for advice, I promise I won't give you the answer you want to hear. I'll do my best to help you though.

advice

Well I'm 13 and I am a girl.what happened was my brother found my message to my boyfriend about us planning to kiss. Then He confronted him, and now I think my boyfriends hates me. What should I do?


aww =/ that sucks.

first talk to your boyfriend. explain that this isn't your fault and you didn't even know he saw. and tell him that your bro was prying through your personal business and you're sorry if he's embarrassed and that you'll be more careful next time.

now about your brother. tell your brother he has no right prying through your personal business and if he doesn't stop, you can just as easily pry through his. then change your myspace password and make it REALLY hard and whenever you leave myspace, log out of myspace so he can't get on.

sorry you have to go through this =(
i hate sneaky brothers!

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I am doing a project for my english class. i need to find a song that expresses american life. it can be positive or negative. but i would prefer a negative becuase i like a good laugh. i would also prefer songs that are in the rap or rock genre.
Thanks


where is the love by black eyed peas

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does anyone know who won american idol?
thank you so much!


Jordin Sparks won...

I wanted Blake to win though =(

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theres this like 6th grader that me and some of my friends in my neighborhood see while walking home and they always like call out to him.. i swear its kinda embarassing. he's kind of a popular 6th grade boy and we're like.. middle-popular seventh grade girls. like today.. his name is Justin, one of my friends is like "hey Justice!" and then he went "Hey retards!" and then we tried thinking of good comebacks and cause his hair is really long so it looks like hes a girl and i say something like making fun of his hair.. but i accidentally didnt pronounce "girl" fully so it was like "gir".. haha so embarassing! i need good comebacks incase this ever happens. i swear lol i wish these friends would just shut up sometimes and we'll just mind our own business as hes doing, or think of good comebacks.. like im trying to do. so.. gimme your best shot! :D


umm.. a bit childish doncha think?

the best comeback would be to leave him alone and ignore him. he already must think you guys are lunatics and weirdos, so trying to make comebacks will conclude to him that you don't have any other way to spend your time besides making fun of popular 6th graders...

if you make fun of him you obviously don't think he's worth your time.. so if he's NOT worth your time then why are you still asking this question?
hmm.. doesn't make sense to me..

just move on with your life & leave the kid alone.
i'm not trying to be rude but he's acting more mature then you..

well, hope i helped even though it wasn't what you wanted to hear.

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Does anyone know where I can find cute stuff for my AIM profile? My myspace? thanks. :D


AIM profiles-
www.buddy4u.com

Myspace-
www.whateverlife.com

You will spend a day finding everything you need!

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Hello is it possible to find true love at a young age?

Thank you Betty.


Yeah a lot of people find love at young ages. Adults can act stupid and always say that teens can be in love, but it actually CAN happen. Anything is possible.

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and she's straight and is a homophobe lol but she hits on me all the time i mean i've turned straight girls gay but not homophobes so i don't know how i should handle this or if i should do it at all, any suggestions?


Sorry hun.. but just try to move on.
There's no way you could ever turn her lesbian...
You'd end up making a fool out of yourself if you asked her out or something.

Hope I helped.

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hi, i need aim sn ideas, my one now is getting really old. please help. it can have words like, crazii, sweet,dance or anything similar to that
thanks

CRAZii (NAME)
CRAZYYY CHICKA
DANCE x DANCE
SWE3T GURl X0X
BAM ITS (NAME)
CRAZI LIFESTYLE
x33 CUHRAZY BABE
SWEET AS CANDY
DANCE BAYBii XO

those are just a few hope you like 'em...

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ii`ve posted this question before but I still havent found anything today. Tonight im having a sleepover party for my sweet sixteen and i dont know what to do besides watch movies and eat. PLEASE HELP IT STARTS AT 4!


blast some music.. play truth or dare.. play "what would you rather"... just talk... dance ! haha... watch mtv or another tv show...prank phone calls (only a few)....ding dong ditch some neighbors...go on a trampoline if you have one.. MANHUNT! .. play some kind of fun sport.. ask your friends for games they know how to play and just have fun.

parties are more fun when you just do things whenever you want rather than when it's scheduled and punctual.

happy sweet 16!
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i got my first ever period yesterday and it was a 'regular' flow i guess, and when i went to bed last night i put on a pad just incase and when i checked this morning there was no blood. is this normal to only have your period for 1 day?


your period will be irregular for about 1-2 years. so it will come when you least expect it sometimes. yes it's completely normal to get it for one day the first time because your period is very irregular. eventually, it will be regular and you will get it every 28-35 days for 3-12 days at one time..

good luck keep some pads with you.
it will probably come back soon...
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okay i really like this guy but im 15 and he's 17. im not sure if im getting a message or something from him. he's brought me home from school monday and friday (today). and we were talking about serious relationships and how they are hard to find. On out way to my house there was this guy in his car staring at him, and i said "looks like he's checking you out" and he was like nah, i'd much rather a girl check me out. then he was like he was probably checking you out, your the pretty one in this car, or something like that.

i love the conversations we have. like its just, i feel so comfortable around him, around most guys i would have to have all my makeup on or partilly (sp). around him i could care less, and he still talks to me as if everything was still on.

any advicee?


Age doesn't matter. Some guys will use sweet talk to get in your pants because you're younger and ish. After you talk to him a few more times, ask him if you two can meet up somewhere. Ya know, mall or out to eat but not like a date. If he declines, maybe he just flirts with everyone and he's a player. If he accepts, judge him from there. If he stares at every hot girl while you're with him then be afraid. Be very afraid. If he talks sexually but not as a joke, he might just want you to get down your pants... I don't know who he is so I can't judge him but it's not a big age difference. But guys will do anything to get sex, so watch out.

But to make it clearer, if you feel comfortable keep talking and when you get into a REALLY good conversation, ask him to hang out. I like the fact that he called you "pretty" and not like "banging" or "sexy" because if he said you were sexy he might just like you for your body...

Anyway, I say go for it but don't get too obsessed because he might not turn out as perfect as you think....


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a couple days ago in school we got out yearbooks. our whole school goes into a room and signs eachothers yearbooks and stuff, it's fun.
so, me and my boyfriend don't really talk and were not very close and the only thing we have done is hugged so far. we have never kissed not even on the cheek or anything and every other couple does. we are both very shy to eachother.
so anyway, we signed eachothers yearbooks. and what he wrote was 'josh xoxo'. does that mean anything? or does that just mean like love ya? thanks.


Aw, that's cute. Sorry, but personally I put in my friends year book "xoxo" and I never mean that I want to kiss my friends I'm just saying that I love them as friends ya know? I'm sure it didn't mean anything and he just couldn't think of anything else to write. If you wanna kiss so bad, either go ahead and just kiss him or talk to him about it. You need to open up because he's your BOYFRIEND... And he might be shy so don't expect him to make every move. Go up and kiss him on the cheek and see his reaction..

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were getting our yearbooks in a week and i would like to put in my boyfriends yearbook that i want to kiss him(accually kinda make-out) but i dont know how to tell him in his yearbook. im to afraid to ask him in person so i want to put it in his yearbook. we have been going out for almost two months and we havnt kissed yet and im dying to make-out with him.it would be my first time making-out(ive alredy had my first kiss) and for some reason i really want my first time to be with him. can someone give me some ideas about what i could write?i have one idea and that is to put after p.s. im still waiting for my kiss but thats all ive got.thanks to anyone whoe trys!


don't write anything about kissing him because it's just kind of weird. you might come off to him as kind of scared if you can't tell him something that important such as a kiss to his face.

anyways, if you ever break up and he shows people his yearbook and how you wrote "i wanna makeout with you" than people will laugh at you. so just don't because you can never erase what you write in a year book and he can use it against you one day.

if you wanna kiss him so bad, go up to him and kiss him. any boyfriend wants to kiss their girlfriend, trust me it's just a known fact. or just like get on the topic when you are texting him or online.. just don't sound desperate or anything of that sort. send him a kissy smiley face when you're online. or be like "yeahh we gotta kiss soon. lol" but of course talking in person would be a whole lot better but i understand it's awkward and embarrassing.

just remember actions speak louder than words.

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i was looking through my boyfriends calls online and he keeps saying hes not talking to this girl and the girl has the same story I SEE THE CALL IN his call log though hes so stupid why dont guys just admit to you there cheating?


a lot of guys just can't help but cheat. they have no respect and they will do anything to get with anyone. boys are liars and cheaters and you can't stop them. not all of them are, but your boyfriend could be one of them. i'd sit him down and tell him what you saw and if he still denies it then please walk away and don't come back. once a cheater always a cheater. some boys just can't help but cheat because they just don't have the feelings that girls do, or maybe no conscious. just forget about him. if he thinks he can cheat, then you have the right to think you're done with him.

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me and my ex "dj" are talking again. we had been together for 5 months and drifted away. well we might go back together. i finally told him how i am leaving for boocamp this coming up wed. "may 23" and my question is "should i continue our soon to be relationship or wait until i get back"


wait until you get back. that way you don't have to worry about him cheating on you while you're gone and feeling the pain of not being near him.. let me tell you long distance NEVER works because you never know if they can be trusted, even the most trustful people can let you down.. just wait until you get back so it will be more meaningful when you get back because you haven't seen him in a while.

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well, he txt me sayin dat he do LUV my ex-best friend n dat he stil wanna b friends w/ me..i told him id rather 4get him dan b friends w/ him...do u think i did the ryt thing?


Yeah you handled it the best you could. Because if you decided to be friends with him, oh that would have caused even MORE problems. Being friends would have caused you to still think about him and possibly fall back in love with him! Until your completely over him, don't talk to him. It will make things worse.

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I need to ask a guy out on a date [1st date ever!] and i need cute [but cheap, please] date ideas. NO movies / dinner / my house [ew]. The first 2 are cliche and the last one will sound sl*tty lol.

Thanks in advance =] i'm 14 years old btw and the guy is 16. so no things like "local coffee house" lol

also, FOR GUYS...what's your dream date? [WHAT, not WHO. and no sexual things please haha] & would you rather call it "hanging out" or a "date"?

haha i'm so wound up about this


how about....
-bowling
-minigolf
-roller blading
-ice skating
-carnival?
-friends house
-the mall (good one)

and that's all i can think of haha. but i'm sure he wouldn't mind one of those or maybe you could just let HIM choose. i dunno.

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ok, so, my bf dumped me cause he seriously cares more bout my ex-best friend's feeling than mine...He left me like 3 or 4 harsh, hurtful voice messages sayin dat he dnt luv me anymre n dat he luv sum1 else. that he;s tired of me n it jus hurts hearin sum1 you luv tell you those harsh words. I dont know wat to do, i sumtimes think bout suicide then think dat hes not worth it to loose my life. Then i think bout jus starving myself.... i jus dnt kno wat to do....HELP!!!!


if he dumped you left hurtful voice mails than he's a di*k and obviously never cared about you. anyone who can't respect you isn't worth your time.

suicide and starving yourself?! you seriously are thinking about doing that over ONE guy!! don't let him have his way because suicide is just giving up and telling him that he's the strong one. no hun, don't kill yourself over ANYONE, especially not him.

tonight or tomorrow, make a fun day out with your friends to take this off your mind. shop, watch movies, just have fun and let loose. every time you think about him is another precious minute taken away from your life, not his.

now don't get revenge because karma will get him one day... revenge just makes things worse. look around your school and find someone else who could be your boyfriend and ask them out. of course you can still rub it in his face that you've moved on and you have a new HOT boyfriend, that's okay to do. just don't get people to beat him up because it will just start more trouble.

if you need more advice contact me.
just dont starve or kill yourself because he's just one jerk and you're probably going to go through wayy more jerks before you find your true love, and you can't decide to kill yourself everytime a jerk comes into your life.

considered this your lesson learned and don't fall in love with jerks or know how to deal with them when they break up with you. suicide gives him all the power, but getting over him shows YOU are the strong one. don't let one useless guy make you or break you.

-Candace

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well boys in my grade (8th) are still really immature and were making Uranus jokes when we were assigned a planets project. My science teacher eventually got fed up with it and said she'd give a detention if there was one more crack. Then in my math class next period, those guys were still laughing with eachother and then my math teacher actually joined them! He said, "Maybe you'd do better on your tests if you stopped looking up Uranus!" and the boys went wild. I was sitting there in shock, like omg did my TEACHER really just say that? Am I overreacting or was that really inappropreate for my teacher to say? I mean shouldn't he be setting a better example? Thanks.

teachers aren't robots you know... they are people too and they have feelings and sometimes they just want to have a good time. my math teacher blasts rap music in class and raps all the time and swears.. he's not a bad teacher and he just likes to fool around a little bit..

just dont worry about it.. some kids dont have teachers like that and wish they did

EDIT: um i know that wasn't the answer you wanted to hear but it's MY opinion. you can't go through life getting everything you want and i think my answer deserved at least a 4.

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i have an amazing boyfriend, he does everything you could emagine a wonderful boyfriend doing. we've been together 5 and a half months now. i used to be so happy with everything, but he's 3 years older than me. i'm only 15 and everything is so serious now. he also get VERY jealous, and i'm not allowed to talk to other guy, text any other guys or anything, i barely even get to hang out with my friends. i really love my boyfriend but i keep thinking do i really want to be so serious, i'm only 15 i need freedom.

i need some advice on what to do here?


he has no right to tell you who you can and cannot talk to.. it's a free country and we fought for this freedom so he can't control you..

he probably thinks he's doing the right thing and maybe he's just used to that way.. tell him that you need a little space and you want to dedicate some time to hanging out with your friends because you feel they aren't getting their fair share of time. and tell him that there are some guy friends you sometimes just want to talk with because their your friends and say that you would never like them anymore than a friend and he'll always be your number one. tell him it's not right to control your life and if he can't just back off a little bit and give you room, then he's not worth it.

seriously if you don't talk to him he won't change. don't be mean and just say what you told me in a very nice and calm way. he should understand or he doesn't care about your feelings...

well good luck.
-candace

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