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heartbroken...
ok, so, my bf dumped me cause he seriously cares more bout my ex-best friend's feeling than mine...He left me like 3 or 4 harsh, hurtful voice messages sayin dat he dnt luv me anymre n dat he luv sum1 else. that he;s tired of me n it jus hurts hearin sum1 you luv tell you those harsh words. I dont know wat to do, i sumtimes think bout suicide then think dat hes not worth it to loose my life. Then i think bout jus starving myself.... i jus dnt kno wat to do....HELP!!!!
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if he dumped you left hurtful voice mails than he's a di*k and obviously never cared about you. anyone who can't respect you isn't worth your time.
suicide and starving yourself?! you seriously are thinking about doing that over ONE guy!! don't let him have his way because suicide is just giving up and telling him that he's the strong one. no hun, don't kill yourself over ANYONE, especially not him.
tonight or tomorrow, make a fun day out with your friends to take this off your mind. shop, watch movies, just have fun and let loose. every time you think about him is another precious minute taken away from your life, not his.
now don't get revenge because karma will get him one day... revenge just makes things worse. look around your school and find someone else who could be your boyfriend and ask them out. of course you can still rub it in his face that you've moved on and you have a new HOT boyfriend, that's okay to do. just don't get people to beat him up because it will just start more trouble.
if you need more advice contact me.
just dont starve or kill yourself because he's just one jerk and you're probably going to go through wayy more jerks before you find your true love, and you can't decide to kill yourself everytime a jerk comes into your life.
considered this your lesson learned and don't fall in love with jerks or know how to deal with them when they break up with you. suicide gives him all the power, but getting over him shows YOU are the strong one. don't let one useless guy make you or break you.
-Candace
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Grow up-- learn to spell-- learn to write and speak-- and have some darned pride.
Are you ten years old?
Suicide? Get real. No one is worth your life and happiness and future. No one.
Drop it, kick it all to the curb, and move on.
There's more fish in the sea, and sounds like he is a real jerk anyway to treat you that way.
The best way to deal with a jerk that talked to you that way is to GET EVEN...see a new boy and IGNORE the jerk from now on.
Be happy-- that's true revenge.
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