Aloha, guys. I am here to help anybody that needs some help, lol. My name's Caydee. It's prounounced like Katie. My cousin thought of the spelling. I hope I can help you guys out and if you wanna know some stuff about me, read on!
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NEED HELP NOW!!
Ok so the other night me and my boyfriend had a talk about about porn and I asked him all these questions... and he told me that he'd only looked at it/watched it three times on kazaa... so I made him swear on us and on my life and he did, but then today me and his friend were joking and he said my b/f just had porn on his computer so i was joking around and I said I was gonna check his computer and see and he got all defensive and wouldn't let me, but then when I did... I found like 10 different websites on his computer... They're all from a long time ago, but still he lied to me! Do I have a right to be mad at him? especially since he swore on us and my life!?!?
WHAT SHOULD I DO???
PS: he appologize a LOT and said he was sorry and he loved me "so much" but I feel like an idiot now for believing him... I need help please give me advice!! (link)
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Yeah, you can be mad at him. I would be mad too, especially if he looked at it more than once AND swore to you. I think that you should talk to him about the way you feel. Just to let you know though, lots of guys do look at porn, but I get why you're mad and stuff so defintely talk to him and just tell him that you really are upset that he would lie to you because you trusted him and you would like to be able to trust him again. Then see what he has to say and tell him your opinion.
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Okay, well I just got mine, tonight...and I am NOT telling my mom. At least, not yet. I just have a few questions about periods....
1. How often should I change them?
2. Should I wear them to bed?
3. How many should I carry with me?
4. Where should I put them? I don't carry a backpack...or a purse.
That's it. Thank you! =D (link)
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Well I just want to say first that I've told my mom and it's not a big deal at all and also Congratulations on entering womanhood!LOL! Anyways, Change your pad about every 4 to 5 hours. You can wear them to bed. Carry one or two with them and you can carry a little purse or if they fit in your pocket you can put them there. Also if you wear a big sweatshirt or jacket put them in there.
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my boobs are uneven one of them is smaller. i have to wear padded bras to make them even! is this normal?thanks appriciate it (link)
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YEAH! Thats totally normal, lots of girls and women have uneven breasts...don't worry about it!
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Ok so I have these 2 best friends, they are always soo clingly, they do everything together and i hate it!!! Like one day I came to school we were all cool and everything, the next day they were mad at me for no reason!! Then the next day I went to ask them what was wrong and the "leader" of the two (one of them follows her every move) said they were just kidding! I was so upset. They always talk about me behind my back too. They even tell me they call me abd names behind my back. I'm not even mean to them!!I'm not like jealous or anything it's just i'm the third wheel and i want things to go back to the way they were b4 all this drama... (middle school drama) and I really need help I am stuck and I have no clue what to do!! PLEASE HELP ME!! I need help fast!!!!(i rate high)
Thank you!!! (link)
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Well, you defintely should talk to them. I know how you feel, my two old best friends always left me out last year. Tell them that you really wish that they wouldn't "act" mad at you for no reason and that you'd like them to hang out a little more with you. I talked to my friends for awhile and it helped me out, so I hope it helps you. And be calm! Tell them that you're not jealous, you just wish that they didn't do the things they do.
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is 12 too young to wear thongs? (link)
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Personally, it's totally up to you...But if you're going to wear them to attract attention from the guys, I wouldn't wear them. If you wear them just cuz your pants are weird or whatever, it's fine! But it's totally up to you, so do what ya want...I say go for it, lol!
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is it ok to curl ur hair with a curler when its still really wet? (link)
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NO! I would NOT recomend doing that. You should blow dry your hair really well first. Then curl it...hope I helped!
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i no this is stupid but, what the heck is a condom? (link)
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LOL, it's fine! A condom is this rubber thing that a guy puts over his dick when he and a girl are going to have sex. This way, the girl shouldn't get pregnant. There's still a possibilty that she may though. The condom could break too. Hope I helped you out!
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Hey everyone, well i'm a little late with my period this month. I'm definitely a virgin but i was wondering if there was a reason that you could skip a period one month without being pregnant. answers anyone? (link)
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Sure you can! Your period is so weird...you're fine. It happens to me too-don't you just hate it? lol, hope I helped and you are totally fine!
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hi... after about a week after i had my period i had sex for the first time.... and i didnt use protection. ( bad mistake) and.. now its been about 4 weeks and ive been feeling abit sick ( but i usually get like this when im going to have my periods) and i havent got them yet and im really scared that i could be pregnant.. and when i felt up my virgina i felt this weird thing inside me.. could this be and unborn baby i might have??? pleace help, im really scared about this (link)
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Well, next time you should use protection, but no, you didn't feel an unborn baby in you. I'm sure you just have PMS. Don't worry about it too much. You could always get a pregnancy test too. I hope things get better and I think it's just PMS. :)
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Im sorry you guys, but I noticed that a LOT of youngins say they love theyre boyfriend or gf...so I was wanting to know, what do you guys consider love...because 13-16 is really young, i dont know I could be wrong, but what do you consider love?? (link)
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You know what? I totally agree with you. I think people try too hard to grow up fast. It's not worth it. I mean, when you're like 18, you're going to be wishing you were twelve again. I think love is when you know who the right person is. You've gone through tons of people trying to find that right person and then, BAM! It hits you and you just know...love is when you find somebody that you can be yourself around and not be embarressed. Hope I helped!
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Hey, I would like to know if you all can tell what is wrong with my finger and if I should go to the doctor. Wednesday night, I was at gymnastics messing around, and as I went for a back tuck, my middle finger jammed into my leg... then about 3 minutes later, I jammed it again into a panel mat (a hard mat in case you dont know) same finger and everything. My coach didnt care because i shouldnt have been messing around, so I went through the rest of practice ignoring the pain. Its now 2 days later, and im getting shooting pains throughout it, my whole finger is about 1 1/2 the size of the other, and my knuckle in the middle of my finger is twice the size of the other and i cant feel from there down to the end of it. I have it taped together for now, but it hurts to even write, im typing this without it. Im sorry its long, but i cant decide if I should go to the docot Monday and get x-rays jus to make surem or relax and let it heal on its own because of an expierience with shoulda been broken foot since i didnt go to the doctor right away. Today, I had to call home for some medicine to help with the pain. So, what do you all think of this situation (any of you who read this)...? (link)
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You really need to go to the doctor! If it still hurts, you should ice it for twenty minutes. Do that about every three hours, except when you go to sleep, of course! Hope it gets better...
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Is it normal to be best friends with a girl you've known for half-a year?? This girl and I met in eighth grade this year, and I've become very attached to her. We're both best friends and we tell each other everything. We're like sisters. Is that normal to be this close after a short time?? (link)
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You can be best friends in any amount of time.I became best friends with one of my friends in like a month! So yeah, it's normal, you dont have to be so worried about it. Have fun!
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Im 14/f and lately ive been have a high amount of white discharge stuff. Ive had my period and stuff..but i don't know if this is normal..is it?? Plz Help! (link)
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It's totally normal! You got nothing to worry about.
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i'm 5'1 and i'm really short compared to my friends, its kinda embaressing since i use to be taller than most of them.. what can i do to grow taller? no pills or w/e (link)
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There is no possible way to change your height except for wearing tall shoes, or drinking tons of milk, lol. Milk does help you grow.
Being short is not bad at all, I mean, I've got friends who are like 4"11 and I just reached 5"!
The best advice I can give to you is drink lotsa milk and be happy with yourself. And I'm sure you've got tons more growing to do...so don't worry about it! My old math teacher used to be five ft! You're lucky...being short does have its advantages...:)
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my nameis antionette and my boyfriend called me a bitch.I want to break up with him because i'm such a bitch to him.I love him so much but he called me a bitch and he thinks its so funny.What should I should I break up with or try to make the relationship last.I need your help!
antoinette
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Well, i would tell him to f*** off and that I don't appreciate his attitude towards me. Tell him that if he thinks you're a bitch, there is no reason that you should stay with him. I mean, there's no reason to call you a bitch and then laugh about it! Seriously! BREAK UP WITH HIM!
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Her, I'm having a a slumber party (10 girls) What should we do? ( we aren't allowed to invite guys over, cuz we're only 13) (link)
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I think I know who you are...lol, but if you aren't, here's what you can do...Play games (Truth or dare, etc.), Watch tons of movies, give eachother makeovers, do spa stuff and ask people to bring masks (Peel off masks are fun), pig out on snacks or bake cookies or brownies, give manicures, do hair, make fun of teachers or do impressions of them and other people you might not like, listen to music and tell jokes and just talk, do whatever! Have fun!
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i am a 13 year old girl, and i got my period for the first time today. i don't know how to tell my mom. any advice? (link)
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Well, I told my mom right away. She was cool about it, as most moms are. I'm sure that your mom knows that it's a totally normal and natural thing. Just say, hey, mom. I got my period today, just thought you'd like to know. Thats what I said. Then my sister got me pads and since I had cramps, she made me a cd mix and bought me a candy bar :D So tell her just like I told ya, it'll be fine.
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yesterday i was watching tv and i changed tha chanel and it was porn!! i didnt even bother to change it and i wanted to watch it and im 15/f is that normal?!?! i got really horny and i wanted to call my bf to come over! whats wrong with me?!?! (link)
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That Bree person is wrong, you are not bisexual. You are totally normal, hun! Everybody looks at porn sometime or another! You got nothing to worry about! So you are totally normal...Hope I helped...
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I really really really hate my moms boyfriend and everyone thinks he's so nice and that im crazy but im not. It's hard to explain but what should I do! Im thinking of moving with my dad is that the right choice? I've talked to my mom but its like she wont listen she always tells me to be open minded but shes the one who need to know that I cry every night and I'm really hurt inside because I dont like him. please help! (link)
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You have every right to feel this way. And I'm sure you're dad would be happy to have you live with him. You can calmly explain this to both of your parents privately. Just tell your mom that you'd feel more comfortable living with your dad because you don't really like your mom's boyfriend that much. You can say the same to your dad too. I hope things get better for you.
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I know Valentine's day isn't for a while, but I like to start stuff early so I'm ready. Well I wanted some ideas for what to get or do for my boyfriend of over more than a year! any suggestions? thanks
>>.*. So Inlove .*. (link)
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You have about a month right? Well gather up some pictures of you and him (This is only if you have any), make a little scrapbook for him. Or make a poem about him or make it about all the reasons why you love him. Be creative and think! Why did you go out with him at first? Why do you care about him so much? What's his best feature? Hope I helped!
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