Ok so I have these 2 best friends, they are always soo clingly, they do everything together and i hate it!!! Like one day I came to school we were all cool and everything, the next day they were mad at me for no reason!! Then the next day I went to ask them what was wrong and the "leader" of the two (one of them follows her every move) said they were just kidding! I was so upset. They always talk about me behind my back too. They even tell me they call me abd names behind my back. I'm not even mean to them!!I'm not like jealous or anything it's just i'm the third wheel and i want things to go back to the way they were b4 all this drama... (middle school drama) and I really need help I am stuck and I have no clue what to do!! PLEASE HELP ME!! I need help fast!!!!(i rate high)
Thank you!!!
JazzY answered Friday January 21 2005, 10:26 pm: Well, you defintely should talk to them. I know how you feel, my two old best friends always left me out last year. Tell them that you really wish that they wouldn't "act" mad at you for no reason and that you'd like them to hang out a little more with you. I talked to my friends for awhile and it helped me out, so I hope it helps you. And be calm! Tell them that you're not jealous, you just wish that they didn't do the things they do.
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sweetjewel answered Friday January 21 2005, 10:23 pm: wow... it sounds like you guys were all friends but then they got closer. theres nothing you can really do, maybe just make new best friends and still stay friends with them [ sweetjewel's advice column | Ask sweetjewel A Question ]
lildiamyn_69 answered Friday January 21 2005, 10:23 pm: i know how you feel:(
i think your friends have decided amongst themselves that they no longer need you or something. No matter how bad you want things to back to the way it was, you have to do just like them and move on, because you don't want friends like these anymore.
I hope you find some better friends because you deserve better. [ lildiamyn_69's advice column | Ask lildiamyn_69 A Question ]
BabiiD answered Friday January 21 2005, 10:22 pm: Girl, they might not be your real friends if they talk about you like that. that's horrible!! Tell them how you feel and if they don't straighten themselves out, leave their untrue lil a$$es behind and get you some real friends cuz u dont deserve that at all!!!!!
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