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i have played basketball for 2 years now im pretty good but not the best well now i moved and i made alot of new friends i really wanna play basketball next year but they all keep saying no dont play only popular girls play ( im not a nerd or geek, im just also as my friends say not "popular" ) should i listen to my friends or should i just try out for the team (link)
Try out because you can make friends who appreciate what you want to do.


ok so i asked a question a long time ago about my boyfriends best friend kinda took advantage of me well to day i was talking to my boyfriend on the phone and he said that we needed to talk so i called him and he said i've been acting kinda shy and he said whats wrong?
and then it was quiet and he said again Your mostly shy when my buddy comes around Did he do something to you? Luckly my mom called and i had to go so i told him i'd talk to him about it later. What should i tell him or What should i do Please help me ASAP!
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Tell him a good relationship never has secrets he will not b mad at you unless he isnt a good bf and over time of making him trust you again he will forgive you.


Okay. I was at my friends house and we took her parent's smirnoffs and drank them. Her mom found out and said that if I don't tell my parents about it then my friend's grounding will be even longer. What should i tell my parents? They are really strict about everything. Thanks (link)
ummm thats tough i would tell them that you just wanted a little bit and were very responsible while drinking it and that you didnt get drunk cuz if you say that you did your parents will b realy mad at you.


Well, I used to go out with a boy, and he was like my first kiss and everything. And I still love him and its been 8 months. But, he has a girlfriend right now. I know he would go out with me if I asked him, but I dont want to break them up. But, I think I really do love him and he means the world to me. We broke up because my friends were being really arrogant and kept telling me lies and false stories about him so I broke up with him. Do I brake them up? How do I get him back? Please help me you have no idea how much I miss him and would literally fo anything to be with him.
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I would not break them up that is the worst thing you can do i would wait and jsut be friends but not to good becuse the gf might get jelous and that not good because you dnt want him to be mad at you.


My friend is REALLY shy..and she wants me to help her get over it..and i have an idea..I'll take her to walmart and we'll just kinda walk around while my mom shops for groceries and she likes to sing and has "stage fright" so i figured what better way to kinda bust her out of her shell by walking thru walmart singing. The reason i say this is because she is shy singing infront of people..even with one person she gets nervous..i was hoping to get a second opinion on this..would this be too hard on her? i figured i would have her sing for me a little bit then maybe for my parents (or go around the block singing) and then take her to walmart..i'm open to suggestions if anyone thinks they have a better idea! Thanks! (link)
I would start out little and work your way up.


Whats some good hairstyles to wear to weddings? Thanks soo much (link)
def up doos which you can find on ask.com


What is a good and healthy/safe way to loose fat in your inner thighs?

I'm 15 years old and a girl. I don't have access to a gym so please don't suggest working out at a gym


thanks a head of time. (link)
running


so im considering getting a perm. my hair is naturally straight and its not thin but not thick either its sorta in between. i dont want like really tight curls i want loose ones that are sort of wavy. the reason im considering it is because it takes a long time to curl my hair. i go to a salon to get my hair cut so i know it wont turn out bad but what do yall think? do you think its too drastic? im worried it will turn out bad and i want to know if you can straighten your hair after you get a perm. thanks! (link)
You can straighten your hair after a perm but it will ruin it i would go for it i think it would look good with your hair and it would come out gr8.


I am/was i'm not sure if i still am pregnate but let's say i lost my baby would i be able to tell by a pregnacy test like of you lost the baby or not througha pregancy test please help me i need to know soon. thanks



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No you would not i would go to a doctor.. because you need 2 see a doctor it could b serious.


This question is directed toward all you christian colunists. I'm planning to get a tattoo soon and I'd like to get the opinion of other christians. So if you are a christian, I'd like to know how you feel about tattoos. (link)
I am a Christian and i have a tatto i think it is perfectly fine but you go w/ what you feel is right.


Heres the sitch...im a 16yr male senior at my high school, and ive been BEST friends with this girl since sophmore year...problem is, ive fallen for her...hard. i cant get her out of my head, i get jealous of any other guys she talks to or who like her, and im really protective of her...but she doest like me when i like her, she said she had a crush on me back when i had a gf soph year, but now she doesnt like ANYONE. what should i do? ive liked her for two years, but she says it would be wierd to date bcuz weve been friends for so long... (link)
I would let go she is not intrested find some one who likes you and you care abouut too.


ok theres this guy that i have known for a little over a year. and lastnight my friend had a party. and i dont know what happend..i just like fell in love with that kid. i would ask him out, but i dont want other people to judge me for going out with him. hes really cute and really really nice. and i like that in a guy. we were flirting with eachother and one of my friends only knows and she said i should go for him. but i dont want other people to think im like weird for going out with him. i dont know what to do!! and my friend, who told me to ask him out, was like i think he likes you and all that stuff and im confused!! please help. ill rate high!!
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It doesnt matter what they think go for what you feel is right in my opinion i would go out w/ him he seems decent not liek other jerky boys lol.


okay see i have these amazing best friends...and we've been through everything toghether...but there is this guy who i like so much....and i can't stop thinking abnout him...and my best friends think all i talk/care about is him..but i don't i love my best friends...i guess you can say i have a huge crush on this guy. but its like my friends hate me now and they don't want to even like talk to me they don't even care anymore.this has been going on since the middle of the school year ..and now its summer..
i need help (link)
Well i would try telling them how you feel.


TSS (Toxic Shock Syndrome). - yeah what is that?? and what exactly happens?? lol
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Toxic shock syndrome is an uncommon but severe acute illness with fever, widespread red rash accompanied by involvement of other body organs. Toxic shock syndrome is a medical emergency that requires prompt treatment.Toxic shock syndrome is caused by the release of exotoxins from toxigenic strains of the bacteria Staphylococcus aureus and Streptococcus pyogenes. The majority of menstrual toxic shock syndrome cases is associated with the wearing of tampons, however the condition is now relatively rare, as most adults have developed protective antibodies to the exotoxin TSST-1. Women who have had toxic shock syndrome are at greatest risk as the recurrence rate is reported to be between 30-40%. Toxic shock syndrome and STSS share similar signs and symptoms. Fever, rash, low blood pressure, and multiple organ involvement are seen as the hallmarks of these diseases. Shedding of the skin in large sheets, especially of the palms and soles, is usually seen 1-2 weeks after the onset of illness. Individuals may experience symptoms and signs differently.In addition, toxic shock syndrome may occur as a complication of other localised or systemic infections such as pneumonia, osteomyelitis, sinusitis, and skin wounds (surgical or burns), To find out more about it go to http://www.dermnetnz.org/bacterial/toxic-shock-syndrome.html




My ex- boyfriend went out with one of my friends while he was going out with me. Now i'm going out with one of his friends becasue i really like him and i needed to get over my ex- boyfriend. Now that me and his friend go out his is mad at me.
Is that fair i mean he went out with her while he was going out with me and now that i go out with his friend he is mad at me is thta wrong or fair??? (link)
He should not be mad at you it is absolutley not wrong he cheated on you with her and so you should get back at him it is only fair.


Okay, yahoo answers wasn't much help, so i'll ask here.
and to make it clear: yes i googled this, no i did not find anything. so don't harrass me about google.

Does anyone know any websites with a how-to on cutting guy's hair? I have an idea on how to cut girl's hair, but not guy's. Or does anyone have any tips? Something?

Thanks :) (link)
I would try www.ask.com it is a great site and it is better than google and yahoo.


I know this should probably be in a health section but I couldn't find the right one. Anyways.
I have like this rash kind of thing, all across my neck and the top of my chest. I heard someoen say it might be heat rash once, but I've had it for years and it's never gone away. It's all dry and flaky, and a weird kind of colour. It sounds sick actually but its not that bad! If put a lot of moisturiser on, its goes down for a bit, but its still there, and comes back straight away.
Any ideas how to get rid of it? (link)
I would try alchohol and if that doesnt work i would go to the doctor and ask her/him what you could do.


14/f i play music (sing & play guitar/piano) and lots of it i would call country music. most kids hate country music, i know! but i love it. i really want to have a carreer in music but i don't want all my friends and people i know to be hating the type of music i play. should i just go for it or should i change my style a little, more pop or rock or something? please tell me your thoughts on any of this. thank you! i rate (link)
Go for it it is your life not theirs dont let people make decisions for you cause yo will reget as time passes.


okay i really need help..sorry this is long..

16/f

me and my best friend *natalie*..well we have been best friends since 1st grade. we were like inseperable..i love her to death. but ever since spring break, she has changed so much. she started skipping school nonstop. she failed the 10th grade. she started drinking alot but then she stopped. she had sex with a 21 year old that we all knew. she yells at me for the stupidest reasons. she freaks out on her parents and calls her mom a bitch and a whore. she doesnt respect my parents. she didnt even come to school to do her finals on the last day. and now its summer. and we usually have SO much fun. but she met some new guys that she hangs out with everyday and she gets drunk with them and gets high with them everyday. i guess she thinks its cool but i really do miss her. and ive tryed telling her that she is too wild and everything but she doesnt listen. all of our friends dislike her now. and i mean ALL of them. she likes this guy named ray but i dont think he likes her cause she is too loud. he doesnt really act like he likes her. i dont know what to do. no ones parents will let their kids hang out with her. i feel bad and i want to.. its just i dont want to get caught up with her and end up getting in DEEP trouble because of her. i really want her as a friend though. i want things how they used to be. what can i do?!?!?


ILL RATE HIGH!.. (link)
I would get your friend some help a conselour or mayb you could talk to her.


what is better for you regular or diet soda?

and is margerine or regular butter better for you?

me and my friend are debating over this. (link)
Regular soda is better for you because diet slowy eats up your insides and regular butter is better for you because it has les sodium and to much salt is not good.




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