My boyfriend isn't very talkative. Even before we admitted to having feelings for eachother, I was always the one to pursue the conversation. We're going out tonight & I'm worried we'll totally run out of things to talk about. Can anyone help me out with some topics to bring up? By the way, we don't go to the same school. Thank you!
~Allie
That's how my ex was, here's some ideas:
If you saw a movie, talk about that.
Talk about how things are going at your school.
Talk about the people you know.
Sports
Your friends
Ask him about himself
Tell stories, jokes
Sorry that's not alot
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I just inserted my first tampon about an hour and 15 minutes ago. Well, half of the string is covered in blood and i still have blood dripping out into a pad. Why is it doing this? IS the tampon full already?? I used a playtex gentle glide regular if it helps. I also have a heavy flow. Should i take the tampon out or what?
If half the string is covered in blood, then you need to use a larger tampon. If you're using junior, use regular, if you use regular, use maxi. If you use maxi and it STILL leaks, then you might have to stick to pads. Or using a maxi tampon, and putting a pad underneath it. I say you should change it right now. As for it being up too high, you're supposed to stick it in until all that's sticking out is the string. Hope I helped!
Tasha
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is it true that if you sleep without ur bra on that you breast will grow bigger faster???
No, there's not really anything you can do that will make your breasts grow faster. But it won't hurt you if you sleep without a bra or anything.\
Tasha
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ii have a seriously bad habit of biting my nails ii would love 2 have some long nails by the time school starts, does ne1 know of some really good tips and/or products or something that would get me 2 stop? -[(nail polishes? medicines?)]- any good answers get 5!! thanx loads!
OMGGG I had this same problem! There are a couple things I did, that worked:
1. Get a bag of jelly beans, or small candy to chew on when you want to bite your nails.
2. Tell your friends that everytime they see you bite your nails, they're supposed to pinch you (not hard).
3. Put a rubber band around your wrist, and everytime you wanna bite your nails, snap it!
Another thing that's bad, that I got in the habit of doing is biting my knuckles which sounds gross. Don't do it thought, because it's bad. My knuckles are all cut up!
Hope I helped!
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You know how everyone will tell you " do it when the time is right " well how do you know when the time is right?
Well ask yourself four questions:
1. Do I REALLY want this?
2. Do I love this guy?
3. Does he love me?
4. Am I willing to take resposibility for the consequences?
If you say yes to every one, then you are probably ready.
Tasha
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14/f
How often should you change the your razor head for shaving your legs/under arms/pubic area? There's nothing on the box. I use Venus if that helps.
If you shave everyday I would change it after 7-10 days. If you shave every OTHER day, then probably 14-16 days.
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iok yesterday i went to my friends house and she told me there was a guy that looked like a guy that i used to like and had the name of my ex. so i wanted to see him.. nothin else. but then my friends cousin hooked us up and i dont even noe the guy i would have said no but her cousin told him i liked him. the problem is he is 20 and i am well 14.. he didnt care about the age but i have a clsoe guy friend that i like a lot we are planning to hook up we just have to find a way to see each other more. (he lives 15 min. away) and my friend is 15.. i want to give this guy a chance because he was all sweet to me but i think the only reason why he asked me out was 4 my looks. but we were taking pictures and he had his hands all over me and he didnt even noe me. here is what i would like to noe:
*should i give him a chance? if not how can i break it to him but still wanting to get to noe him better?
*should i tell my guy friend about this?
i want to tell my guy friend but he thinks i dont like him which isnt true i tell him i like all the time and he does the same to me..
thanks!
Your first question, no. I think that you should break up with him for 3 reasons. 1. You don't know him. 2. He's 20. 3. Because you were planning on hooking up with your other friend. Tell him you want to get to know him, but you aren't ready to date him yet.
For the second question, I would tell your friend about it, but make it CLEAR that it was an accident and you and the 20 yr. old AREN'T dating anymore.
Hope I helped!
Tasha
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i have a few questions about getting your belly button pierced.
1. About how much does it cost?
2. How long do you have to leave it in before you can take it out?
3. How long can you leave it out before it closes?
thanks and ill rate you!
My mom and sister have their belly button pierced, so I asked my mom she said:
1. It was around 25$ for her. But it depends where you go.
2. 2-3 months for it to heal properly.
3. You shouldn't leave it out for more then 2-3 days.
Tasha
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I'm 14/f and I know I should be reading advanced books because I'm in 11th grade Honors english even though I'm a freshman. And, generally, I do. But a lot of the time I like to read books that are, well, sappy romance novels. Like the book version of soap operas. Big time guilty pleasure!!! I feel so guuuuuuuilty about it. It's like cheap candy, tasty to eat only not very nourishing, but it's a book. And since my family is big on reading "advanced literature" and my mom would freak out if she knew I was reading them, and I don't know whether it's ok for a person of my level of reading to be reading these!? I know it sounds like I'm being a snobby bitch that needs to be reassured of her own level but I'm not!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Thanks a lot!!!!!
x0x0
♥ Lulu
No, you don't sound like a snobby bitch! It's okay to read romance novels. I mean, reading would be NO fun if you couldn't read the books you were interested in! I like romance novels too, it's okay. Really. I mean, what's wrong with reading books you find interesting? And if your mom happens to find them, explain that you like to read these books, no big deal. =)
Tasha
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Hey !! Im 15 and have had a crush on this one guy for over 4 years now (on and off) Ive had boyfriends during this time period but for some reason I keep going back to liking him. We've never been extremely close but we are friends. He's extremely cute, and has a good personality. We see each other out of school sometimes, but for some reason he will never talk to me online, wby is that? He was at my friends Swt 16 and we danced and I actually thought he'd ask me out but soon I found out he wouldn't date me because im quote "beautiful and too perfect" and he wouldnt want to just use me for sex because im more then that and im one of his friends. Im flattered but in the pit of my stomach I cant stop thinking about him, should I go on liking him or just move on and maybe one day he'll realize what he has lost? Please help me, thanks so much ! xO
I think maybe the reason he won't talk to you online is because he's talking to his other friends. I have a guy friend that does the EXACT same thing. I think that you should keep liking him, tell him exactly how you feel, and tell him that you're NOT perfect. Just let him know, and see how it turns out!
Tasha
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I'm being blammed from my friend that i have been hacking onto her account on another site!well, i'm not!how do i convince her i would never do that to her?
Well if she's your true friend, she would believe you. Tell her that you wouldn't do that! There are computer GENIUSES out there that know how to do that stuff. If you really didn't do it, then tell her that!
Tasha
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well see last year i had a HUGE crush on this guy and then i stopped liking him because i thought i could nva happen. Then at the end of the school year he started walked with me to my math class everyday and i started and still do talk to him online for hours and we talk about everything. then the other night he sleptover in my brothers room and right in front of my brother we were fliritng iwth each other unitl 3 in the morning then the next moring he tried to wake me up by thrwoing things at me and we chilled until his mom came to pick him up. but the problem is hes one of my brothers best firends..do you think he likes me? or that anything would happen between the two of becausehes my brothers friend?
If I were you, I would have one of your friends talk to him and be like.. "So.. I saw you flirting with (your name)... do you like her?" Then it wouldn't be too obvious. And because he's your brother's friend .. that shouldn't be a problem, you can't help that. I'm BEST friend's with a lot of my brother's friends. And it's not too bad. But from what I hear, it seems like he likes you!
Tasha
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ok well 've never been tanning before like in a booth but i'd like to try it but i dont know what to wear can sombody please tell me?
Well, you have to be fourteen to tan (at least where I live.. Illinois) I don't tan, but some people tan naked.. haha.. some tan with underwear and bra. Hope I helped!
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my older sister is 15 and i am 13, and i can't stand her! like she just bugs the hell out of me. she tries to be like her "own person", she is obsessed with animals, mostly horses, and reading. but i am the exact opposite, i hate reading and i like partying, boys, music, and tennis. she is trying to act like me though. i mean she likes country music, and i like rap hip hop and r& b. now she is starting to like maroon 5 and stuff that i like it is pissing me off and its just cause she is trying to be cool because she knows she is really annoying. and my mom is making me spend the day with her at the pool tomorrow, which i really don't want to do because there are only 2 days until i go to camp and i would rather spend my time with my friends! how do i get out of it?!?! please help me!
Well it sounds to me, like you guys are a normal family haha. Me and my sister fight ALL the time. She wants to be like you, right? So take that as a compliment! That means she likes you. You sound like you don't like her very much. Just be nice to her, explain that she can do some stuff you like, but to stay with some stuff she likes too! You might just WANT to go to the pool with her. Because she's family, you won't see her for a while, and family will always be there for you. Sorry if this advice kinda sucked!
Tasha
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Everyday, my neck hurts really bad. Sometimes it hurts worst one day, and feels better the next. I've got into this really bad habit of cracking my neck. My neck cracks so loud that my dad was a room away, and he could hear it. I've talked to my doctor but she told me to keep cracking it and stretching it. But I'm not sure if cracking helps or hurts me. Do you think I have arthritis? I'm only 13! Does anyone else have neck/shoulder problems? What can I do about this?
Well, just the other day I popped something in my neck and I couldn't move it at ALL. My suggestion, would be to go to a chiropractor (sp?) Because she would probably pop it back into place if you did something to it, and she could give you information on if it's bad, she could also tell you if you have arthritis. (which is doubtful because you're only 13.)
Tasha
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ok i just got back from my 5 day cheer camp and we stunted almost 24/7 and i am really sore! i've taken advil to try to get it to go away but it doesn't seem to be working! i can barely walk and pick things up its so bad! what are some good ways that you guys use to help the soreness go away? thanx!
Well that happened to me, expect with conditiong-ew. I was SOOO sore! I used a heating pad, and I took a LONG, HOT bubble bath. It really works! Also make sure you get a lot of rest. And I know it hurts, but TRY to stretch, because after you stretch it's a little better. IM me if you need anything: i X HEART X YO0U
Tasha
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hi
i am 16/f/uk
i used to cut last yr then i stopped cos things got a bit better in my life
but since about feb this yr i ave bn really depressed i cry my self to sleep every nite i ave started to cut again over the most stupid things. i cant find another way to let it all out. its like an addiction, when i get angry or upset i have an urge to cut.
my parents ave split up n i wanna be with my best boy mate hu is leavin to live in aussie and i wanna tell him how i feel i also hate the way i look i am over weight i have spots and i am just so low at the moment i dont want to see any doctors i just want some one to listen and not judge me
can some one tell me why im feeling and doing these things?
sorry its so long
you should talk to a friend or counselor, and you could get help. also, when you feel the urge to cut, snap a rubber band on your wrist HARD.
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what are some things to do on the internet when your stuck inside and verry bored cuz of like a rainy day or something?
Well, depending on how old you are:
www.bored.com
www.gaiaonline.com - this one's fun
www.myspace.com
www.xanga.com
www.madprofile.com
www.neopets.com - haha unless you're 10...
www.coffeebreakarcade.com
www.ebay.com - lol this seems stupid.. but it's fun! me and my friend bought a sandwhich off of ebay!!
IM me if you need more: i X HEART X YO0U
Tasha
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how do you know if that one friend is that one true "best friend" that will stick with you for life, thru all the bad and good times. i cant really explain what i mean by that one best friend but i think you might be able to get what i mean. thanks
Well, she has to be faithful, trusting, loyal, nice, etc. But I can't exactly explain it. You just know. Sorry this advice sucked. IM me if you need me again: i X HEART X YO0U
Tasha
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a few days ago, my friend slept over at my house. she's worried about me because she thinks im starving myself!! i dont eat breakfast ; ususally have a pop tart or a bagel for lunch ; and mostly crackers for dinner. i dont think im starving myself.. but she does and my other friends are seeing it too. what do u think? im scared.. i dont want to be starved. please help .. ill rate high for good answers!!
Okay, I should probably know how old you are, how tall, and how much you weigh to really decide this. But I don't, so I'll make do with what I have. It really depends on your build. If you're small, then you probably won't eat a lot. But everyone is different, I have a very tall, very skinny 12 year old friend, and she doesn't eat a lot. Then I have an average height, very skinny 12 year old friend that eats a TON. Then I have a veryyy short, very skinny 14 year old friend that weighs 100 pounds. See? It just depends on the build. If what you eat, fills you up, then you are fine. But if it doesn't then you should probably eat more.
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