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should i tell him
iok yesterday i went to my friends house and she told me there was a guy that looked like a guy that i used to like and had the name of my ex. so i wanted to see him.. nothin else. but then my friends cousin hooked us up and i dont even noe the guy i would have said no but her cousin told him i liked him. the problem is he is 20 and i am well 14.. he didnt care about the age but i have a clsoe guy friend that i like a lot we are planning to hook up we just have to find a way to see each other more. (he lives 15 min. away) and my friend is 15.. i want to give this guy a chance because he was all sweet to me but i think the only reason why he asked me out was 4 my looks. but we were taking pictures and he had his hands all over me and he didnt even noe me. here is what i would like to noe:
*should i give him a chance? if not how can i break it to him but still wanting to get to noe him better?
*should i tell my guy friend about this?
i want to tell my guy friend but he thinks i dont like him which isnt true i tell him i like all the time and he does the same to me..
thanks!
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
If you think maybe you could have a future, give him a chance, and about the picture thing, tell him not to go to fast. If you really like your guy friend, tell him, because honesty is good, and if he is insecure, reassure him that you like him so much, and soon enough he will finally get it.
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Your first question, no. I think that you should break up with him for 3 reasons. 1. You don't know him. 2. He's 20. 3. Because you were planning on hooking up with your other friend. Tell him you want to get to know him, but you aren't ready to date him yet.
For the second question, I would tell your friend about it, but make it CLEAR that it was an accident and you and the 20 yr. old AREN'T dating anymore.
Hope I helped!
Tasha
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I would just explain to him how he might be comfortable with the age difference ; but you aren't... and that theres also a guy that you really like that's your age...but also explain to him that you want to still talk to him and get to know him better and hang out and stuff, but just friends. And I don't think there's really any need to tell your guy friend about this...cause then that might make him mad at then he might not talk to you and stuff, and really you didn't do anything at all so it's not like you cheated on him or something and you'll have a guilty conscience.. I don't think there's really and need for him to know..hope I helped!!
Love,
MELii
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Tell your 20 year old boyfriend that there is too big of an age difference, and that you know someone your age that you are really into.
im out.
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i wouldnt hes 20 ur 14 he may not care about the age thing but alot of people who care about you will and just tell him the age thing is just too weird for you and that hes moving to fast bc hes all touchy feely i dont see why its any of the other guys business but if you want to tell him go ahead and if u know he likes you and you like him make the first move were capable of askign guys out too just tell him how you truely really feel. hope i helped!
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You should definatly break it off with the 20 year old guy. Skip the whole being nice thing because any 20 year old guy who's wanting to date 14 year old girls isn't anything but a perverted creep. If what the guy did to you made you uncomfortable, you should definatly tell someone about it, but if you don't want to tell your friend, you shouldn't do it.
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i dont think that you should give the 20 year old guy a chance.. to me he sounds like a major perv.. but i think you should tell your guy friend about it i mean its not right to keep things from your friends but remind him how you feel about him.. hope this *helps*
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Well sorry but this guy sounds WRONG NO WAYYYYYY i think you should go for the 15 year old kid that you actually like. Plus this guy has no right to put his hands all over you, its wrong.Dont tell your other guy friend cuz knowing guys he will try to go beat him up, and probably lose (20 vs. 15 hmmmm)Try everything you got to tell him that you do like him.EVERYTHING. The guy friend sounds much better than the 20 year old, but thats my opinion. No matter what, folow your heart. Youll find the right answer somewhere. Well i hope i helped! Sammerz
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Dont go out with this guy, i usually tell people to decide on theresleved BUT THIS GUY IS 20 YEARS OLD! Maybe when your older you can have an older brother. Just let the guy know that you want to get to know him first, if he says no then obvioussly he likes you for your looks. Personally, seems like he only likes you for your looks, he should respect you and by touching you all over isnt respecting you. Go for you guy friend deffinitly. Good Luck!
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