Gender: Female
Location: Texas
Member Since: July 11, 2005
Answers: 126
Last Update: October 23, 2005
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ok.. i get my braces off soon (august) and i was wondering if anyone knows any good products to whiten your teeth??? i checked my dentist but the lazer treatment is 500$ and not including the stuff you have to keep putting on your teeth every so often.i just want something cheap and easy to start out with. Thanks!!! (link)
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Crest White Strips are easy. Honestly. They only cost $30 max. and they work really well. I guarentee.
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Okay, im really like overwhelmed. Like 5 guys always iM me and are like would u fuck me? and, there really nice people but like to joke around with me, and they say there jus messin with me. but its hard bc all the guys are all really hott. but it gets really annoying bc now i dont know who to trust. ive been in relationships where ive been cheated on, and theres rumours going around about me having sex with diff people. one of my guy friends said he heard im "loose " an that it seems like i have sex alot which isnt the case at all. i jus feel like giving up on guys all together and jus...be lonely the rest of my life.....any advice on what to do? (link)
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Well, when people IM you, tell them you won't fuck them, they need to go fuck off. And people are always going to spread rumors. You just need to state to a couple of people you know you can trust that you're not screwing around, and then tell them to spread that. Don't give up on guys, they're just assholes until 25.
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hi, ive been going out wih my girlfriend for like 4 months now. we are in love. now i know what your gonna say, its only been four months. well, screw you. if your gonna say stuff like that please dont answer, because you dont know the whole story. anyway, im a virgin, and i want us to make love. i am waiting until i am sure who i want the first person to be, and ive found her. im not nervous of i or anything, but i want to know it is a good idea. I mean i love her, i really do, and i dont want things to get screwed up because of this. shes had sex before, so she warns me that you can take back your first time, and i know that. but im sure, i just want outside input... thanks (link)
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She's right, you can't take back your first time. If you honestly think it's the right time, then you should go for it. But wait a little while longer to make sure shes the one, because you don't want to want to take back your first time.
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What are some workout moves or anything that makes your butt smaller and lose some wieght around that area. Don't make fun of me in anyway because I don't care and neither does anyone else. Thanks in advance! (link)
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Doing squats really works out your butt and thys. Make sure you do them right, or else you can injure your back. What you do is, stand up straight with your feet shoulder width apart. Take a bar ( a bench bar, I forget the name right now) and put it resting on your shoulder blades, holding it with your hands, palms up. Then, squat down so your legs are at a 90° angle, or just above it. Then go back up. Make sure your back is straight, or else you can hurt yourself. Hope it all works out!
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ok, i've been going out with my boyfriend for a month, a week, and a day.. :-p and i havent seen him since the 22 of June. I've talked to him tho. I called him twice since then. Once on Fourth of July and then last night. We didn't talk very long tho. Cuz he was playing a game on Xbox. haha. But, I wanna do something with him. But my mom is all "blah" and she wont let me. I'm planning on saying im going to the movies with my best friend and shes planning on doing that with her mom...well cuz we are going together. but we want to sneak our boyfriends but since my boyfriends moms car broke down and he cant drive, someone needs to give him a ride...so how could he get to the movies? help...and thanks (link)
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Well, you two go to the movies, and then get your friends boyfriend to give your boyfriend a ride. Then, meet up. Hope it all works out.
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okey...i'm gonna be a freshmen in highschool...and i need to get a new pair of shoes that are a reasonable price and that are totally in thx!
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Go to Journeys in your local mall, and look at the sale shoes. They are amazing, and I got 3 pairs for $15 each.
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How do you tell if shortening is good or bad before you use it? (link)
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Look at the calories from fat. If it is over 40, its bad.
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Okay, i need help, well I have a myspace and my boyfriend does too. and he comments on some of my friends myspace's saying that they have a nice ass, and look hot etc. but when i confronted him about this he said "i was only playin please, dont be mad at me i love you soo much ill cry if your mad at me. etc." and i forgave him .. but now i found another one of my friends on myspace and she is flashing the camera and he said. nice pic. then commented again and said take off the bra lol j/p.....but the thing is i dont think he was just kidding. i mean wow .. i didnt know he was like that before i started going out with him? i dont know.. but can you guys help? please? (link)
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He won't cry if you're mad, he just knows he is wrong. Call it on him again. He needs to stop that, because the next thing oyu know, he could be cheating on you.
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Ok well the guy I kinda like I just found out has a girlfriend aww i know im sad... I cant get him out of mind, i have a myspace and hes one of my friends on it cause we go to school together and stuff i mean i didnt just meat him or anything and I use to like always look at his sight and leave him friendly comments and stuff but now the picture thats his main is of him and his girfriend kissing... I respect him and respect the fact that he has a girlfriend and all that cause were good friends and Im happy for him i just want to try to think of him as a really good friend and not get sad when i see thier picture... any advide please help...
signed I respect the man (link)
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Stop looking at the picture. You should also tell him how you feel, because you never know, he might like you, and is just going out with her because he is lonely.
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What are some things to talk about with friends and stuff. I always have trouble starting conversation over AIM, and I really need help. Thanks (link)
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Ask them what they did tht day, and elaborate on a subject. If they say nothing, ask them what they think about somethign that is going on in the news. Everyone loves a good debate :]
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My bestfriend is 21. She is pregnant and does not want to keep the child because she cannot support it. She wants to have an abbortion. I have mixed feelings about it, but it's her life. I don't know how I can help her..because I'm still in highschool and don't have a job where I can lend her some money. But she's lent my cousin a LOT of money because he needed help, but he can't pay herback, for other reasons. I don't know how I can help her. And she can't tell her Mom because her Mom will kick her out of the house, and then she won't have any place to live & a child.
I'm scared for her.
Any Advice??...
- If you have opinions on abortions, I don't really want to get into the subject. So thank you anyways.
Thank you
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Honestly, abortions are wrong. She really just needs a place to stay when the baby starts to show. If you can help her with that, I'm sure she'll be fine. She should stay at her hosue though, and her parents should be happy. She should let them know, because I'm sure they would still love to be a grandparent no matter what.
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Ok what do i do when my Friend says her brother likes me, but i dont know if he really does??
Ps-The boy already asked me out but i think he doesnt mean it. And how should i act when im over there, i mean she is my bff.
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Well, ask him if he does, and let him know that his sister said he did. If he already asked you out, and still seems to like you, its probably for real. Unless he is trying to just have sex, then kill him :]
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I know this may sound weird, but i'm a girl, and i like hanging out with boys more than I do girls. It just seems that theres always awkward silences and I don't know what to say with girls. With boys, I can just act like myself and whats on my mind around them. Its not that im not friends with girls, i actually do have alot. but its more fun with boys. should I try to hang out with my own sex more or is this ok?? I feel a little weird and different thats all. (link)
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Most of my better friends are guys. I just feel "safe" around them because I grew up with a lot more guys. There is no problem with that. Hang out with girls though, because later o, you will have to deal with a lot of crap if you're not, believe me. Just have a few close ones though, you don't have to have a lot. Boys are awesome :]. I understand.
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Can anybody (please!) explain to me the term(s) "equity singer" or "equity dancer" or "equity actor". I came across the term when I was looking through auditions/casting calls, and I'm really not sure what it means! Thanks in advance! (link)
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Equity- state, quality, or ideal of being just, impartial, and fair; Something that is just, impartial, and fair
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(15/f) Ok when ever I like a guy, I always want to spend time with him and talk on the phone and stuff like that but when I end up dating them all I want them to do is leave me alone and I never want to spend time with them. Am I just tired of them or what? (link)
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Well, yes, because you have spent to much time with them. Maybe limit your dates to every once and a while, same with your phone calls and such when you like them.
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today i had pop rocks and soda and now i'm being told that it's bad for you and i'm scared something is gonna happen to me!! what, if anything, is going to happen to me?! (link)
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nothing will happen to you. It just gets you on a sugar high. If you have too much, you can damage your brain, so only do it once and a while, with a soda that doesn't have an über amount of Caffiene.
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I think I’m suffering from depression. And my relationship with my family is going down hill. I feel like I’m such a burden and I feel like something is seriously wrong with me. I want to tell my parents but it’s just so hard to tell them how I’m feeling. I’m 17 and I love my parents very much but I can’t live with them and get the help I need. I'm not sure if I should tell them or just let things go on the way they are and be miserable? (link)
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I suffer from depression. You need to go to therapy, and tell your parents how you feel. They might be noticing it, but not saying anything. You don't want to feel bad about yourself, it can lead to other problems. You should tell them.
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What do i do when my mom just cares about her boyfriend and she never wants me and my sister around, and all she says to me and my sister is that were imbarssments, and i hear her having sex all the time with her boyfriend, and i found a vibrater in her room! what do i do i feels like i dont even have a mother!! when i was sick with the flu she didt come home til 6 o'clock in the morning I was rushed in emergancy room, thanks to my sister calling the ambulance! what do i do I NEED HELP!
Ps-she doesnt even make us dinner or anything (link)
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Go to your dad's or a close neighbor, and tell them what is going on. Don't go home to a neglectful family. And for the vibrator / sex deal. Throw it out, and get rid of all the condoms. That will show them.
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I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 9 months. His ex-wife was always calling and telling him that she missed him and wanted him back. She doesn't respect our relationship at all. Now she wants to pretend to be nice and he doesn't understand why I question her sencereity. I have a lot of anger towards her and I don't like feeling the way I do when I hear her voice or her name mentioned. I was never aloud to say anything to her or he would of been upset with me. How can In deal with the feeling I have for her. I don't like that she gets to me. Please help I'm at the end of my rope and I'm trying really hard to make this relationship work. (link)
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Tell him how you feel. He is her EX. If he wants the relationship with you, he has to get rid of the baggage. And she needs her own help if she can't let it go. They divorced for reason, and they both need to remember why. Tell him that.
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I grew up in a christian home. I'm almost 18 and still everything in my life is God this God that. I believe in him but that doesn't make my problems go away. I'm always crying, have the blues, feel alone, feel anger, sad, somedays I just don't feel like doing anything but lay around. But everytime I try to show to my parents that I have a problem I get God shoved in my face. Sometimes I just want to run away from home...but I know that won't solve anything. What should I do? If I stick around home anylonger I'm afraid that I'll do something to myself again. (link)
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First of all, don't do stuff to yourself. Also, just go for a walk, or a nice calm place ( lieka park) to think. Honestly, God will help you, but I think what you really need is to think about YOUR thoughts.
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