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hey... my boyfriend and i just had a big talk and he wants to be in "time-out"
i have no clue what that means just that theres no kissing at school (so he said). now i dont know how to act around him or what to say to him
My questions are ... what do you think time-out is and how should i act around him at school???... im so confused and lost in all of this
Time out is crap he might be cheating it would make sense this time out would let him makeout with you outside of school all he has to do is ask doesnt matter if you two do that he now has the power to and he also has teh power to say "time in" anytime he wants and if there is another girl he can try it out with her and if it doesnt work you right there "time in" tell him No time out its either a relationship that your comfortable with or No relationship at all. if he says time out still you walk go find a better boy who knows better to relize that your relation isnt a game.
Hey i my girlfriend broke up with me becasue i have something like bio polar anger problems and we got in a fight and i fought back 4 once and she dumped me me and my friend thought she kinda liked me a little but i just found out she doesnt me but i really really still love her and i didnt mean to scream and theres no hope to get her back but i love her still and cant get her out of my mind
okay tell her you love her and miss her and that you feel so strongly for her that you want her to know even if it means making a fool of yourself and telling her you love her without her telling it back. Ask her if you can try it out again. If she says no im sory theres nothing else yo ucan do.
I need help on asking a guy to come and watch a movie with me...i don't know how please help!!
I don't wanna look like a doofus.....lol:)
Aloright go like this "Omg you know what theres this great movie out i totally wanna see it looks really good, Wanna see it with me"
I have an extra curricualr activity. There's this guy there. His name is Gabriel. He's not the hottest guy in the world, but I think he's totally nice. We have a lot in common. We see eachother once a week, and talk on AIM. We're in different grades. He's in 8th, I'm in 7th. We don't go to the same school, and won't be able to see eachother over the summer. I really care about him, but he doesn't know. My friends think he's ugly, and that even if he is nice, he's not worth it because he's ugly. I don't care about looks so much. I'm really shy too...
What should I do?
Ask him if he wants to hang out NOT a date cause you shouldnt do that yet until you have hung out just one on one. Act friendly and see if it all goes well from there its all about if you like him enough to say it to his face make sure you hang out with him plenty like just hang out wherever it doesnt matter if you see eachother 24/7 and in school cause my bf is in a different school to and me and him are great. hang out every weekend if its possible.
On me n this guy's first date, we went all the way to 3rd base... and thenw e went out for like a week or 2 longer and then broke up.. rumors flew around the school which caused the break up.. now he and I merely talk.. but consider each other as friends still... I think i still like him.. but I don't think he likes me... how can I change his perspective of the relationship.. and why do I still like him? Thanks ahead of time!
Thing went to fast for you wheteher you know it or not so your still confused tell him that you want to try it out again cause you think you still like him if he says no ask if you two can hang out again say it would help you two clear things up.
What can I do to help myself get over an unforgotten loved ex, and move on with a new one, without feeling like I'm just with the new person to make the other one jealous, or hurt? My ex treats me like crap no doubt about it, thats gotten so bad that him and I can't even remain friends, but getting with this new person that I've known for a long time, practically 5 years will be very strange because I've known the person for so long. People are telling me to follow my heart, but my heart is leading me wrong. What can I do to help this matter?
do you like the friend who youve known for five years, if your unsure then go for it, and not cause you want to make an ex jealose but you should do it so you can get over him.
I like this guy.. we hardly ever talk but I still like him.. what to do?
start talking lol i know it doesnt sound like much of an advice but it really is.
ok i'm a 15 year old girl and i need some answers about 2 or 3 weeks ago me and this sophomore that goes to my school we did some "stuff" we went to like 3rd base. I went over to his house like 2 or 3 weeks ago on monday and we just made out ALOT then on tuesday was when everything else happend everything was fine before that and then on thursday i asked if he wanted to come up to school and just hang out or w/e and he was like "no thanx" and so i asked why whether it was b/c he couldnt or there was nothing to do there and he said both and that i didnt talk and i was clueless after that i obviously wanted to kno why he said that so i called him and talked to him and all he gave me were half ass answers and he was being an ass the next day at school when i was trying to text my brother and he texted me and was like "stop talking to me" so i was like wtf but i didnt care i was mad at him than and still kinda am so my question is what is his deal and did i get used?
Sadly yes, next time make sure you get something more out of the relationship wheteher fwb or bf and gf.
ok i'm really good friends with this guy, and we have been friends for almost two years, and friends with benefits since february. we decided that we weren't gonna try to go out (i'm 17, he's 16). recently he got a girlfriend, but things aren't goin that well between them. i tutor him twice a week, and recently he tried to hit on me and stuff like that (we stopped the benefits when he got his girlfriend). he says he's gonna break up with her, but i don't want to do anything with him until they've actually broken up. how do i get him to understand that without being mean or making him think that i want them to break up?
Remind him he has a girlfriend say that he needs to watch what hes doing cause hes giving you an impression and it might be wrong
I got my first period in January. I haven't gotten it since then! I know I'm not pregnat.
What's wrong with me?
I went four months withoput my period ANOREXIA maybe? Your just not getting enough nutrition start eating right.
There's this guy I like... he's amazing. But the problem is... he has a girlfriend. Hes a good friend of mine and he used to have a crush on me, and we still flirt but I keep reminding myself hes not single. I don't know what to do. On top of this he and his girlfriend never kiss, or hug or do anything girlfriend/boyfriendy stuff with eachother..and they have nothing in common.Do I wait it out? Or is there some other thing I can do to stop driving me crazy every day?
Tell him maybe hes thinks hat you dont like him so he doesnt want to ruin the relationship. Always be honest if you like someone tell them you neve want to look back and say thta you regret anything.
Okay so theres this guy that I really, really like, and I know he likes me too.. The only problem is, I know he's going to ask me out soon, but every time I get a boyfriend, I freak out and think that they don't like me and I get convinced that they're only staying with me to be nice, and I really don't want that to happen with this one.. Any ideas on how to stop freaking out and just let things happen?? thanks so much!
Okay realize that if he asks you out it means he likes you and hes just not being nice andthat he wants to call you his own. Whenever you feel unconfident and feel like he is only being nice remember that.
ok.. ive liked this guy for a while now and now he knows and i can tell he likes me too but i think that were both afraid to talk to eachother :(.. i really really like him and i wanna be able to talk to him but im really really shy. and plus ive never had to go and talk to someone, theyve always came to me. but anyways.. its been a few weeks and i jus wanna get it over with and talk to him...but the thing is.. i dont kno wut to say, and when or w/e so can u pleasssee help me?? im starting to get frustrated with myself cause i cant do it. I dont have any classes with him so i cant send a note or anything,plus hes not that kinda kid.. and i really wanna do something tomorrow so i can talk to him.
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So my boyfriend and I started officially "going out" on wednesday. Whereas before we were just dating and such. We were never really talked on the phone before other than for him to call and make plans and to tell me he was coming to get me. So anyways I would really like to talk to him, I texted him yesterday but he hasnt called me yet. Do I just wait untill I see him again or untill he calls or do I just get over it and call him.....(thanks)
Seems to me your boyfriend isnt a talker. Some guys arnt talkers its perfectly normal. if it really bugs you though call him and tell him say heyy i would love to talk to you more see how it takes it from there.
i was thinking of getting a pedicure for my feet because i really dont like them, the toenails, and i was wondering if anyones got one before what do tthey do? and how much does it cost?? i really need to cost! thanks a bunch
I got a pedicure before its no big deal it cost just as much a manicure just slightly more by maybe one or two dollers (depends on the place you go to)
Hey ya'll. Thanks for looking at my question.
I like this guy, Danny. Well, I don't really like him, but you know that crazy feeling that you get when you sort of like someone yet you sort of don't? (Confusing I know..)
Well I'm 17 and anyways, I kind of have the hotts for him and we talk alot on the AIM. I've know him for all my life, and we've just sort of gotten attracted to each other.
I think I could like him more than just attraction and fooling around.
The bad part about it is he lives in another state, and he's my best friend's brother. But I go out there frequently.
But I have no idea how to present the idea of liking each other to him. He is nineteen and of course its not that bad, I'll be of age soon.
I'm really bad with words and want to ask him if he feels anything for me and would like to have a relationship with me. In a nut shell. I don't want to freak him out, or make him think that I just sit around thinking about him all day.
Help please, thanks :)
First off wait until your legal age, okay then the question is do you trust him, if you dont then realize that since hes in another state the possibilitys of him cheating are higher then if he lived near you. If you trust him then thats great you guys could proably form a relationship. To not freak him out you might want to wait till you guys are alone maybe watch a movie or something. Look at him and say whats on your mind basically say that you think you 2 should try being more then friends. Tell him hes hot occasionally before you tell him how you feel like in a jokingly way like ha ha your so hot. I know it sounds weird but its something important that way when you tell him how you feel he will be more comfortable with the idea. Its all about giving subtle signals.
I really like this guy at my school, but i know for a fact that he doesnt like me, i want to really ask him out badly but i dont want to be turned down, what should i do?
Aww wel if you Know he doesnt like you dont ask.
my friend likes this guy and they both act like there going out. But they both wont admit that they like eachother. how can i find out if they like eachother or not?
Maybe their happy doing that dont ruin it for them when their ready they will admit it.
Sometimes I think that dancing rules my life. I take a very rigid, strict class where everything must be "just so" and I can't do anything when I want to. One day when my friend tied a friendship bracelet around my wrist, my dance teacher saw it and personally cut it off my wrist so I wouldn't wear it again. Also, when I want to try a sport like soccer or basketball, my dance teacher is the one who refuses to let me, saying that I will twist something or break something and I wouldn't be able to dance. My parents just stand around saying "Listen to what she says, dear. Listen." Now I really want to get some gentle highlights in my hair and my parents said yes at first, but they changed their minds when my dance teacher said no. What do I do?
Big question do you want Dance to be your life do you inspire to be a Great Dancer. If so listen i know its hard to ehar right now but yes you should listen she knows what shes talking about. If you dont want to make dancing your life quit you have time you odnt need to do it right now. If your parent say no well then quit anyways dont go or if you do go dont dance. Another thing you can do is talk to you teacher tell her how you feel it maight make things alot better
I'm a bit overweight and so I've always been a little bit embarassed to exercise in front of people. It seems to just make things worse for me, because then I don't feel like I get enough exercise in the day, but I hate running because I'm slower and always afraid somebody will see me, and I don't even like doing stuff at home because my mom and dad might see me. Any good tips for conquering my fear or ways to exercise alone?
Aww honey I know exactly how you feel, You really need to realize taht big is beautiful. I was anorexic for a year and It was horrible i would look in teh mirror and all i saw was where i was fat then i realized so what if im fat ill do something about it so heres what you do Eat right, and exercise if someone sees so what if they say something say to yourself "Im doing something to make me feel good theres nothing wrong with that".