My name is Christine. I live in a popular town in The Caribbean island of Jamaica. I grew up in China, Texas (not a very popular town though) and then moved to Crystal Beach, Texas. We finally moved to Jamaica, and as i got older, i had to deal with the experiences of friends, teachers, school, family, mental illness, drugs, and others. I know a lot about sex, though not enough to get completely by, because i want to remain fresh until i am married. NO offence to others, because as an advice giver, i have no right to judge. I am catholic, (which is a denomination pf Christianity). I am part French, Indian, Spanish, and British. My mother was adopted, so i dont know the other side of me as much. I took my father's side more, and i am as you can say cajun which is mostly french. I look like i am American, though i can look like other races if i spoke the language. I really do hope you like my advice, i am very sweet, and experienced in certain fields, and I try to help my absolute best with anything you give me. If there is no happy answer or postive one, i will try to calm it down for you as much as i can. I am sorry if i fail to give good advice, but i try my best, Thank you in consulting my opinion, if you ask for my advice.
E-mail: lilgothicbiotch@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: texas
Occupation: student
Age: 13
AIM: xxlunaxspikeyxx
Yahoo: yes i do now sweetybodeety@yahoo.com
MSN: yes i have msn lilgothicbiotch@hotmail.com
Member Since: May 20, 2006
Answers: 145
Last Update: October 25, 2011
Visitors: 9620
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What is novacaine? (link)
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Usually, they use novacaine at the dentist before they do something that might hurt you a lot, like pull your teeth.
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How can I make my hair less frizzy? Like more smooth and shiny? Thanks!! (link)
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try fructice sleek and shine shampoo, spray, leave in treatment.. that helps... also try frizz ease, sometimes those commercial items dont help so much, so try isoplus "hair and scalp treament" it comes in a blue and white jar.. its jelly that you can put on your fingers and rub through your hair.. my hair wasnt "poofy" like some people say but i had kind of firzzy hair that when it gets humid or dries so if you have my kind of hair one application and its like medicine u wont have to apply it for days though i suggest if you have POOFY hair you can apply it everyday
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My friend is leaving so me and some friends decided to make her a 'bebo' and 'myspace' flash box with pictures of everyone on. We just need a song. Can you suggest any good songs with lyrics relating to missing people/friendships.
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ok well i am jut gonna give you once song.. im sorry but how about avril lavgines' under my skin albums' song 'i miss you' its her last track on her cd...ok well i am really sorry the song is called "slipped away" i havent listened to it for a while so please dont get it its actually sad u dont want that
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Is there a way to find pictures, documents, files, etc., after you delete them from the recycle bin? (link)
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no, i am truly sory, i feel your pain i have been through this once...unless you have saved them on a disk then i guess they r gone, or u couldve doubled the pic or something for safe keeping somewhere...... :'((((((((
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When I had my last boyfriend everything would always go so great and after about 6 months we were both inlove and I really loved this guy! But then about 3 months later we were laying in his backyard in the hammock his arm was around me and we were just relaxing then i decided to put my hand on his chest and give him a kiss so i did and he pushed me out of the hammock smacked me and told me don't touch me so i ran away crying...i didn't talk to him for a couple weeks but he kept calling so i answered
~Convo~
me-what do you want?
him-im sorry i love you
me-too bad
and i hung up
then when my dog passed away he came over with flowers my mom didn't want him to come up to my room because i was really upset but she finally let him, then he started kissing me and telling me he was truley sorry so i forgave him and for about 3 more month it was all good and back to normal then again one night we were watching a movie in his basement (his parents weren't home only his bro and his gf) and we were all watching a movie and he kissed me and we started kissing then i put my hand on his cheek a little bit and he pushed away and was like dont ever do that again and threw the movie case at me and his brother tried to stop him but he just went mad at started punching me and his brother while his girlfriend tried to do somethin --im not really sure what--
So my question is I still love him, I know I shouldn't but I really love him I mean we have been together for about 2 years but stuff like this keeps randomly happening! I thought this guy was really right for me and sometimes he treats me really nice but others he hurts me phsically and mentally...I just want a guy to treat me right thats why Im trying to forgive him again but I can't just forgive and forget I'm scared something like this will happen again PLEASE help! (link)
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Men are great, you cant live with them, but you cant live without him, this one you can live without. I am not saying every man is this way, just some men want to kiss you, but not do anything to them, because he might be using you. i am really sorry i had to be this way, but its just not right for a guy to be violent and hurt you, you may still love him, and he may still love you, dont forgive him, he will do it again and again and again and then trap you and say he loves you and makes you feel he is truly sorry, but he probly doesnt mean it...you deserve better, one who wont be violent and ... will like you to touch him lol please you may love him, but all of that will go away when you find a guy who treats you better.
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Myself and my fiance are 26 and I have a 2 1/2 year old from a previous relationship. We have been together for 1 1/2 years and engaged for 1. Last week my fiance had a couple of friends that were looking for an apartment to live in. They are supposed to be moving into the ones where we live. Without asking me, Josh invited them to stay with us until their apartment is ready. It has been almost a week now since they came to stay. It made me really angry that he did not ask me if I cared if they stayed, he just invited them and told me they were staying. I'm upset because I am the one paying all the bills right now because he just finished college and has not found a job yet. Our apartment is really small and was cramped with just our stuff in it. Now our dining room is stuffed with their things and they have taken over our living room too. We only have a couch in our living room because it it tiny. At night after I get home from work I like to make dinner then lay around and watch TV for a while before I go to bed. Since they have been there I don't get to sit on the couch or watch TV. I have been coming home and going to my room to read. Josh gets upset with me because I don't want to sit out there with our "company". I wouldn't mind hanging out with everyone, but when I do sit in my living room I either have to sit on the floor or pull a chair from my dining room to sit on. I feel like my son is getting shorted by them being there too. He is used to having free roam of the house and playing where ever he wants to in the apartment. Now he is confined to his room and can not play anywhere else and when he tries to he gets into trouble for getting into their stuff. Then over the weekend we had a birthday party to go to for my grandmother. I made it clear to Josh the night before that I did not want them in the house while we were gone. When we got ready to leave the next day Josh handed them his keys so they could come and go as they please. It's like my thoughts and opinions don't count anymore. Then when I try to explain to him how I'm feeling he gets angry with me and thinks I'm being rude to them. I like my personal space and I hate it when I don't have it. Right now my space in majorly being invaded. I don't know how much more of this I can take. Josh thinks I'm too controlling on things like this, but I'm tired of being stepped on and used. How can I make him see my point of view before I just get angry with the situation and just kick all 3 of them out so it's just me and my son again? (link)
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well first of all every josh i met in my life is a pushover...this one is different....well if you do love josh....you will explain to him and say you cant take it anymore.....or go to the guests and say i need help with the bills or we are ALL getting kicked out.... i know i didnt help much....sorry
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Are cramps bad for you? Is it bad when you get really bad ones, like unbearable? Any solutions?! (link)
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YES OH GOD YES!!!!!!! on my 12 birthday.....i had the worst cramps! i cried and cried....it was worse than my first period and well....it sucked unbelievebly... i cried and cried and had no painkillers and the pain was unbearable i couldnt eat couldnt sleep.. i just cried and i cried so much that my tear ducts actually got sore and then i couldnt blink ..so what works for me is MIDOL MENSTRUAL COMPLETE that stuff really works for me and i cant live without it and yes you can take it while taking other medication like if you have a cold and take medicine from a doctor to treat a throat infection or cold...
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I planned on having sex for the first time a few months ago with the amazing guy i was dating. He is 16, im 15. Neither one of us have ever had sex. The time came and we messed around a little (fingering and handjob) and then we tryed to put it in and it didn't fit, like at all. Me and him both were surprised and a little embarressed. Him and i still talk about hang out alot but we only kiss now we have never tryed again. I have been masturbating with a toy alot since then to try and make me loosen up. Do you think that since i have been masturbating alot that it will help us when the time is right? (link)
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yup im sure of that ....you have to relax n stuff..oh and make sure ...lol that your wet ok?
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is it slutty to wear an oversized shirt that tightens below the butt and leggings out? (link)
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nope not at all i dont wear leggings but i wear those kind of shirts..go for it! :))))))
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I just got this shirt and it says "Dude, STFU" on it (cool points if you know where it's from). Well my mom said she doesn't mind if I wear it but my dad wouldn't like it. She told me to tell him STFU stands for something else but I can't come up with anything. Any help? (link)
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I know i know!!!!!!!!! it just came to me! i just shouted it out at the screen! lol i know it mean ... dude...shut the f*** up!!!!!!! thats what it means i can almost bet!!!!!!!!!! oh man i am clueless!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! lol i am so sorry you know what it means already lol...ok here r some things you can tell your dad......
say it is a band...
dude...sorry to fight u...lol
sing the fight ubangeee... and yeah..say the 'fight ubangee' is a song....sorry iam so stupid right now i am on cough medicine
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Tomorrow I have to get my first cavity done.. ever! I'm so scared because I know they have to numb your mouth with novocaine by putting a needle through your gum! I have such a fear of needles or anythign sharp but I still have to get this done. Does the shot really hurt that much? What can I compare the pain too! Thank you (link)
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haha sweety sorry to make you feel worse, but take your gum at the back of your mouth and pinch it hard i mean HARD IF you want to find out the pain......really dont do it...it will hurt to badly.....trust me .... i did that just for you.. i pinched my mouth to see if i could compare the pain to that... and i had it done when i was little... it will hurt a whole bunch......during and after......and since your getting your cavity done it will hurt even worse after it happens sorry..but you should have brushed your teeth and took more care... i do now considering on what happened to me when i was 6
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Is mastrubation a sin? (religiously) (link)
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well i know i am catholic and i hear it is a sin...but the bible doesnt really make it clear about being a sin.....so i would say no...cause ummm....yeah it doesnt stunt growth as you may hear....i heard it actually HELPS the process of growing up......and it isnt a sin as far as i hear... i bet you jesus did it.....
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I want to save myself for my wedding night. Is this generaly considered weird? At school people think its really strange and generally make fun of me for it if it comes up in conversation at all. I mean, its not something I go aorund shouting, but if someone asks what I think about sex before marriage because I'm a Christian, I will tell the truth. My friends were amazed that I went out with a guy I was completely in love with for 9 months and didnt have sex with him.
Is it that strange? And is it possible to save yourself for marriage? I've heard that it gets harder to wait as you get older, and it wasn't easy in my last relationship. (link)
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girl ...let me talk...my teacher told us something that gave me a better reason to not have sex 'till marriage my old reason was..'just cause' but not now..my reason that i got from my teacher was.....when all my friends arent virgins.......and i am ...... i can be like them any day and lose my virginty after i am married.....but they can NEVER be like me (a virgin) again...just hold that reason tight...... i am a virgin and plan to lose it with the one i love and guess what......just think of it...lose your virginity with a guy that your not sure you love...or loves you back....but to have a hot....sweet......n the best sex ever ..with the one you love..and you know loves you back...with rings on...and the bond of god....binding you two together....now doesnt that just sound great as heck? thats why i am remaining fresh 'till i am married and i hope peeer pressure wont hurt you.
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Ok, so I got my first period in April of this year, and it was regular for April and May (I start on the 9th). But in June I didn't start untill around the 20th and it was very irregualr. Will my period start around the 9th or the 20th this month (July)? And is it normal for this to happen? Will I skip this month? Thanks. [= (link)
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girl... dont you be trippin i started mine when i was in my late tens... i never know when my period is coming..sometimes i'll get a warning a week ahead..somtimes..i'll get the warning pain...two hours AFTER i start bleeding....it takes about four years to regulate the cycle..or you can take birth control to regulate it if your nervous.....periods....are complicated..and you never know whats gonna happen
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My best friend is everything to me, but sometimes we make plans and she ends up ditchin me. And she always says that SHE'LL BE THERE, and then I ask her if she if going and she says "no", and when I ask "why" she says "I made plans before" and that absolutly ticks me off. And I get sooooo mad at her that I end up calling her a name or something. I always think that she talks about me because we kinda fight when we're not together. What do I do? Not be her friend? or... tell her to screw herself? or just ignore it and keep being her "friend"? (link)
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ask if she has a problem...then ask why are you blowing me off so much shell probably say..no i am not..but say .. hey .....(her name) ......if we are friends... how come you dont hang out? shell say we are and just deal with it! ......so just.....well..... i gotta say i had these probs before with my friend and i said.....hey (my friend;s name) you gotta hang out with me or we are done! i mean this is bothering so much and i cant spend my life being diitched by you...." thats what i said and if you say it your friend mgith say .. like when? and give her good reasons.. i am not telling you that..but if you want to take a risk.....its your choice
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tomorro is mine and my bf's 5 months! any ideas on what we can do and what i can give him? 17/f by the way and if it help i will probably be picking him up tomoror. an ideas on how to suprise him in the car? like any food i can bring/buy for him and what i can give him? make preferably. thanks! (link)
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ok guys love this .. give him a waterproof watch totally guys love that......and cook him his fave meal and bring him home and give him one hell of a make out sesh....but if he wants to give you the same just gigle and then skip to the make out sesh (session) hope i helped ....
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(PROS WITH AOL.)
my mom and dad don't want me or my sister on myspace, and i've been sneaking on at my friends houses. aren't they're any sites that like...don't track it in your history? AND, i have parental blocks on my computer, and i wanted to know how to get around it...i also have AOL GUARDIAN on my account, so my mom knows what i'm doing all the time. if i use a different browswer, will it still record it?
anything would help... thanks. x333 (link)
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im sorry, i use msn and well my parents let me have freedom and i tell them when i click a link eg. i was on a green day website and it said sorry we have no news so entertain yourself, it was a link... i thought ooogames... i was wrong i saw the top of the screen and it said masturbate.. i was scared because i thought it would backtrack so i got out of there before it showed anything and laughed, but your parents are just trying to keep you safe, convince them like i did my grandmother because i convinced her and showed her the upside and your parents are just trying to keep you safe and thats why so many people tust aol because it has fort knox security and i dont think there is a way you can get out of this one, sorry but you have parents, and donrt blame them for wanting to keep you safe even though it may not seem fair
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I have an Ab Roller, and it's nice. But if I use it for too long, my lower back starts to hurt. And I'm all about the comfort. I won't do sit ups or crunches because I hate the strained feeling you get in your back and neck.
I'd love to buy an Ab Lounge, but I'd first rather see if anyone has any exercises for working the lower abs.
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it may be the product but all i have to say is dont excercise for too long because thats not right and you have to feel the burn and no pain, no gain
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i hate math...me and math will never understand each other...i always get c's on my report card...i was in tutoring but that did'nt help much....my parents give me a hard time on it all the time..and all my friends are really good at it...my parents are always saying look at my friends there doing perfect in it...wat do i do??? (link)
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I feel how you feel right now, every single darn exam, i get c's!!!!!! it pisses me off to the hilt i feel stupid and my parents dont give me hard time, but that's just beating me down worse, i think they are giving me reverse phsycology secretly, they are good. BUt dad told me, some people are artist, and some are mathmagicians, you just happen to be an artist, and yes there is a such thing as book smart and logically smart. so tell your parents that...it is true
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ok, i'm 13/f and i homeschool, so i don't have many friends. i do extra work on shows a lot, and on this one show i was there for the entire first season, coming 3 times a week! all of the other kids came just as much as me, so we became really close. i met my best friend there, let's call her *hayley* so, after being there for a few months, while i was just sitting around playing checkers with some kid, hayley, comes up to me and whispers in my ear, "ok, um...*robert* wants me to tell you that he likes you" i said, "oh, ok" robert is a really nice boy, just a couple months younger than me, and i like him a lot, but i don't know if i like him like him. after that one of our friends said a joke, and *robert* and i just looked at each other sorta awkwardly laughing. so, later that day, *hayley* said, "he just likes you as a friend." my question is that did he like me like me, or just liked me as a friend? a few montsh after that, we were at like a party for all of the extras, and it was a truth or dare thing, and a friend asked *robert* who do you like here? robert said, "idk, *mary*" then they asked me the same question and i said, "idk *mark* does he still like me? sorry that it's really long! i'll rate high for good answers! =)
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i am sorry but i can truly say i am not sure i am actually going through this boy process my self.
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