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okay ive had discharge for a while now and i styll havin gotn mah period where the hell is it? ... im turn 14 in april! what the fuckin hell! help me out people
thanx bye
-wtf-

i kno at yooh mean .. i had it like 4 mnths b4 i got myn but i got it earlier but still it may take while .. i hope i helped nd if yooh need advice on it im me [ LyL qT x lOnLy ]
[ . megan . ]

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see, i LUV this guy..and im pretty shure he luvs me too! & we are soooo close! we have tonz of insiderz n stuff but he just wont "pop the question!" hahah i mean b/f g/f not getting "hitched" hehehe! well anywayz! PLEASE HELP ME!

well sometimes guys wnt yooh to make the first move.. it sux nd its scary but thats the eway it is sumtimes .. but if yooh dont want to then telk to him bout it .. bout where yooh stand wit him nd stuf .. i hope i helped nd if ooh need to talk im me [ LyL qT x lOnLy ] .. [ . megan . ]

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OK, so I have a boyfriend and we've been going out for about 7 months. The thing is.. Ive never met him b4. He lives in the same state and everything. But we live like an hour away from each other :(. I mean we could probably meet some how but i dunno. we hardly ever talk too. I havent talked to him in 2 weeks, partially because i was away but he still hasn't called either. He knows im home. I jus wanna kno if I should stick with the relationship or just be friends. I love him with all my heart. I am just really confused right now :(. Please Help!

not tryin to be mean but im gonna be straight up .. dump him .. yohhve never met the boi .. man yooh shouldnt do that .. yooh live an hour away nd yooh have plenty of chances to go wit boys yooh cansee .. wats the oint in havin a boifrined yooh never see .. i see no point ..well im jus sayin dum him nd get someone yooh can see like every day .. i hope i helped .. [ . megan . ]

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Hey, i hope someone can help me out. I'm gonna try and make this as short as i can. I'm 17 and me and my boyfriend just recently became sexually active the 17th of July. We had sex about 3 times and used protection all 3 times. The condom did not break and i'm pretty sure about that because we checked. My last period was on the 6th for like 3 days and i normally have a full 7 day period. It was a little weird. I had sex "after" my period and it was my first time. Anyway, today is the 15th and i still haven't started my period. I have had irregular periods before but i'm just really worried. I have taken two pregnancy test in the past two weeks and they both have came out negative. They weren't cheap tests either.. (E.P.T Certaincy) I've been really.. stressed out about this situation. I've lost sleep and i think about it day in and day out. The only time i never really think about it is at work when i'm busy. Could i be just stressin my self out and causing my period to be late? I'm really confused.. some people say that when you first have sex it can cause your period to be 2 or 3 weeks late. Is that true? I would like to hear from someone about this please. Thank you.

i dunno if thats tru but if the test says negative then its usually right but if yooh really ewana kno the best s to go to a doctor unless yooh dont want your parettns to kno then buy another one thats good price nd do it nd im sure if it sayss negative it is but wait bout a week .. sometimes yourperiod does that .. its all mixed up .. dont worry so much . i hope i helped .. [ . megan . ]

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Does anyone know any really good concealer, foundation or powder? I don't know which make-up brands/kinds are the best, so any help would be appreciated.

well i use covergurl nd it works real well for me .. i really like it .. al my make up is covergirl nd most of my frineds have it .. i hope i helped [ . Megan . ]

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I have been in a relationship for a long time. I recently discovered that my girlfriend wants to bring another woman into our sex life...what should i do??? I realy care about my girlfriend i wonder if it would ruin what we have???

well try it .. i mean why not it wont hurt anything nd i doubt it if yooh won bt if yoh dont like it then rtal to her .. tell her yooh feel uncomfortable .. nd im sure shell understand ..

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Ive been with my boyfriend for about 3 years and when i entered middle school everyone started making fun of me because my boyfriend is a different race. He means alot to me but i am soo tired of all the laughs and jokes i get from a lot of people. What should i do??

Sincerely,
I really love him.. but just annoyed

im really surprised cause i thoguht eamkin fun of race was over .. if yooh love him it shouldnt matter tell every1 to fuc off if they dont like it cause i mean same race or noy their still a person .. so fuc peoples belike ilve him nd thas all that matters ..
i hpe i help .. [ . megan . ]

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I have a really good friend (thats a guy) and well we have gone out a couple times. And i like him again and he told one of my friends he kinda likes me. i wanna just grab him and kiss him one day but im scared he'll push me away. what should i do.


*female 15*

jus do it .. one day jus grab him nd be like mwah .. he'll love it .. i kno it .. i did it nd he waslike wow!! he was speechless then he asked me bac out .. he'll totally love yooh for it ..
i hopei helped yooh .. [ . Megan . ]

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When me and my boyfriend first got together he asked me how long i wanted to be a virgin and i said until i was atleast 16.. well we have been together so long and i am ready to go that far with him but we made a promise to wait until i was 16.. long story.. I confronted him and he said i wanna see if we can keep our promise.. i really want to loose my virginity to him.. what should I do?

well talk to him bout it .. be like i kno we mad e a promise nd all but i really ylike yooh nd trust yooh nd im ready to do it .. your the person i want to be my first .. im sure he'll understand .. well i hope i helped ..
[ . megan . ]

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how long should i wait b4 i tell a girl how i feel about her after she breaks up with someone she really loved.the only reason they broke up was because he was moving to another state. thanx
dan

at first show her how much yooh care by jus bein there for her .. shell appreciate that alot nd after she has had some time to get over him then go ahead nd talk to her bout it ..

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My boyfriend and I have been going out 4 about 10 months. Just a lil while ago he told me how the first few months of our relationship he was in2 porn, but then (him being his sweet self) said that the reason why he stopped was me bcuz he didn't wanna hurt me. Of course I 4gave him and everything, and I no I should b happy that he stopped cuzza me, but I still feel kinda hurt. I also feel... I don't really know... but I have a very small chest and just about no butt, and I feel kinda like he would want more than just me. He always says he loves me and I'm so beautiful and everything tho, so I'm happy about that. I think I'm just bn paranoid or w/e about this... but should I still feel a lil hurt that he was in2 porn instead of me? Also, should I worry about how he thinks of my (pretty flat) body?

dont be hurt cause i gaurentee yooh most boys are into that .. it doesnt mean he wasnt into yooh .. he jus was into well yooh kno .. nd jus cause yooh dont have the best body doent mean nuthin .. hes still wit yooh isnt he .. obviously yooh got a good boifriend cause yooh kno he stayed wit yooh nd if yooh ko bois these days they are disgustin ..if yooh have the boobs nd the butt then your it nd of course the face yooh have to have to .. but yooh got a keeper it sounds like so dont lose him .. he stays wit yooh even though yooh may not have a body nd as long as he doesnt care why should yooh .. be like if yooh dont like it fuc yooh .. well i hope i helped nd if yooh need any more help .. im me [ LyL qT x lOnLy ]
i hope i help but if yooh ned to talk im a good listener nd im here [ . MegAn . ]

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I'm goiing into 8th grade and have never had a b/f and i think i no y. In school and in my neighborhood i'm constantly playing sports. I've always loved to be involved with the diff. kinds of sports and wen i'm playing(which is A LOT of the time) i'm mostly playing wit guys. So i've been known as "one of the guys" wen i'm playing basebal nd stuff. Since i like never do any of that gurlie stuff no guys have crushes on me(or even like me as a girl). Are there any ways I can SHOW them that Sports aren't my life and get them to take me seriously?

hey like that girl said yooh shouldnt hae to change yourself .. but who said change .. yooh can still play sports but try doin some things girly .. like wearin a little bit of makke up nd may b some clothes that show off oyur body .. like a kinda tight shirt ns mayb some short shorts or tight pants .. not like slut or anything but yooh kno something to show off wat yooh have nd let them notice yooh nd sorta lirt wit them .. but yooh dont have to totslly change .. but try that nd if yooh need nething ese or need to talk to someone bout it then yooh can IM me [ LyL qT x lOnLy ] well i hope i helped some .. [ . MeGaN . ]

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alright me n mai boyfriend broke up about a week ago cuz he cheated on me. i really love him n im hurt soo bad. he says he still cares n he wants to be w/ me, but now hes w/ sumone else. i think hes tryin to make me jealous but i dont really kno. i cant live w/o him, he means the world to me even after what he did. i really wanna be w/ him but im scared to tell him how i feel cuz im not sure if he cares or not. should i give up on him or take him back if he feels the same?

well i think that yooh should think do yooh really love him like yooh think yooh do nd if yoho do then give him another chance .. tell him how yooh feel .. if he doesnt like yooh yea beleive m eit will hurt but someday yoohll find someone better nd if he does then yooh never kno but talk to him bout it before its too late ..
i hope i helped nd if yooh need to talk then im me at [ LyL qT x lOnlY ]
good luck [ . MeGaN . ]

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i dont know what to do anymore. my ex boyfriend mike and i were perfect for eachother. we were from different towns but i went to his house and hung out or we went some where else. anywayz we went out for 9 mounth but like every once in a while we broke up and got back together agian. then he dumped me and went out with someone else and they went to second base in 2 days! and i went to 1st with him and we went out 9 mouths. and then he dumped her after 2 mounths because he said he still loved me. so i went out with him for about a mounth and then he broke up with me for this other girl in his school and i was like crying for ever. and then after a week he asked me back out and he was still going out with that other girl (but i didnt know) and we went out for like 4 days and he cut me because "his parents said he had to" which was a lie.. i tried to OD and i was in the hostipal for over 2 weeks for it, and everyone knew about it and as soon as i got out he called me and said he loved me.. i just broke down crying because i still loved him. and he asked me back out and i was soo week i said yes and we went out for like 2 weeks untill i found out he was cheating on me agian so i broke up with him and i havent been out with him since. then like last week he called me and was like talking to me and i told him to never call me agian because i was over him and then after i hung up i cried because i still love him but i cant call him cuz im not allowed to.. his parents would freak. (they think im crazy) and i dont know what to do. i love him but i hate him too. hes my first love. and i miss him. theres just so much pain inside of me im like crying. i miss him. i think im gonna kill myself. because i cant live without him. please help me over come this.

dont kill yourself over a boy .. he may be your first ove nd i kno exactly how that is but dont do t over him cause he obviously isnt good enough nd im sure yoove heard it a illion times nd beleive m it gets annyoin cause even thoguh he may noy be good enough or he may be a jerk yooh still love him .. well ive been through it nd yooh kno wat yooh need to do is forget the jerk .. i knoit shard ... im still in pain over my first love .. yoohll always have those feelins but think if someting happened wit yall guys nd he hurt yooh again yooh would be hurt again .. so try to go out wit other guys to try to get hiom off your mind cause one day your goin to find the a guy who yooh love nd he loves yooh bac nd hell treat yooh like we women were supposed to be treated but please dont kill yourself or hurt yourself .. inko people jus need to talk to peoples so im me [ LyL qT x lOnLY ] if yooh want
.. i hope i helped .. [ . MeGaN . ]

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im 12 nd ill be 13 on sept 5th nd im goin into 8th grade nd i kno im kinda young to say im " in love " but wen i was in 7th grade the 1st day of school i saw this kid dylan nd omg i went crazee nd couldnt stop tlkin bout him nd i kept tellin my friend that id never get him to look at me or even talk to me nd then we got called in r teams nd i swore i hurd my friends last name called nd i was like oh theres ur team nd then wen i was goin in my team it turns out she was in my class nd i thought i hurd her name b4 nd i was like whoops lol nd wen she got to my class nd i was like omgg im soo srii nd she sed ull be happy wen i tell u this .. nd she sed that dylan was talkin to my other friend frank nd sayin how hott i was nd i was like sooooo happy nd i couldnt breathe nd then soon enuff tha day b4 my bday he asked me out nd then we started goin out nd then i hurd one stupid rumor bout sumthenn he sed to me nd i believed it nd dumped him nd then we were still close nd then we went out again for a 2nd time nd then i got confused nd dumped him again nd then we were close again but then he gotta nother gf nd we didnt talk for a while nd then i realized wutta mistake i made nd how much i relii relii like him nd then he started sayin mean shytt bout me nd then after a while we became close again but he kept gettin new gfs nd now he has this gf hes had since like may nd i even tho i broke up wit him twice i still liked him nd havnt stopped ever since i saw him nd we talk on the fone a lot nd he tells me he still loves me nd tells me he always will but im juss soo depressed tha onli time i was happy was wen i was with him nd i want one more chance to prove how much i care for him nd i dunno wut to do .. his gf is from a diff town nd shes in a grade higher than him nd shes movin to our town now nd she needs to learn the school system so shes gonna be in r skool = \ nd i mean shes nicee but she has the one thing i love nd kare for nd ive never liked sumone for soo long in my like its almost a year! nd i relii want him back nd it helps that i kno he says he still loves me but .. wut do i do?!?!? plzz help

- sadd = (

i dont think its crazi to say yooh love someone .. i kno sorta how yooh feel i fond someone who i love to death nd would do anythin to get bac .. i told him i liked him if ound he like me a week later we were goin out nd wen i was with him i was so happy nd i couldnt think of anythin or talk bout anythin but him .. then i heard a terrible rumor nd of course beleived it nd i broke up wit him .. sorta long story .. but yea i still talk to him nd he tells me he loves me nnd misses me nd all this stuf that i wana believe nd i do sorta but .. nd i dont wana sound mean or w.e but yooh have to kno wen to let go cause it took me a long time to realize it .. i odnt want to i want him bac but i have te realize im goin to 9 grade nd even though its hard to realize nd face your young nd theres goin to be plenty of other boys in your life .. mayb not as special but if its meant to be it will happen .. try bein wit other boys to try to get your mind off it .. if yooh need to talk to anyoe bout this im me [ LyL qT x lOnLy ] i hope i helped some nd if yooh need help im here to talk to ..
[ . MeGaN . ]

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When I was about 14 or 15 yrs old.. I dated this kid.... I wont mention a name.. and then we had broken up because he was more expierenced then me and wanted someone who would have sex with him. Well after all this we still stayed friends.. Well then he moved to Florida with his dad for a while.. and then moved back here. and when he got back up here. He told me he had these feelings for me. and that he loved me and wanted to be with me forever. Well. I wasnt ready to be with him. I was unsure of my feelings for him and I told him i didnt know if i wanted to be with him after telling him i wanted to be. and we got in a huge fight and then about a month later I had talked to him and told him i really loved him and I wanted to work things out. but the only bad thing is. my parents really dislike him and they dont really have a reason to dislike him. I mean I'm 17 yrs old I should beable to date who i want. but they say not while i live in their house... What do I do? I really love this guy. :(

well if yooh really love him then even though yooh may love your parents very much they should respect who yooh want to be with nd im sure if yooh do endup gettin bac then they will be by yooh all the way even if they dont like him ..your parents are always goin to have an opinion bout your boifriends .. usually unless thye pick them out their not good enough .. but if yooh kno its one of those feelins that yooh get wit alot of bois then yooh should wait til yooh have the feelin that yooh cant even live a minute without him .. i hope i helped .. nd if not srry but good luck .. [ . MeGmEG . ]

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If I have a crush on this guy, or like him, what is the best way to tell him and do i know if he likes me back?

ok well the last boy i liked i jus told its not that hard .. if your really shy though tell him ont he phone or aim .. its easier but tell him soon before its too late .. cause he could feel the same way but hes afraid to tell yooh so mayb yoh have to make the first move .. i told this one boy i liked nd he ended up likin me too nd he had like me for twice as long as i liked him nd i was surpsrised .. but yooh kno be careful too cause i aslon had a guy not like me .. yooh have to be real careful cause boys these days jus dont care .. so be ready for anything but if yooh need to talk cause i have lots of experience in this subject .. im me [ LyL qT x lOnLy ]
i hope i helped yooh some nd if yooh need someone jus to talk to yooh kno im here .. im me
[ . MeGmEg . ]

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My name is Leah....

Me n my boyfriend have been going out for 1 month.. but we went out before 4 four months...
Me n hym are in love like so much!! n we r perfect for eachother b.c we know everything about eachother... but
LAST NIGHT... I was on the fone w/ My friend Adam n then My friend who was sleeping over...((Lisa)) wanted to talk to ((MIke, my boyfriend)) b.c. they r tight... n i was like go head idc.. cuz i wus on the fone w/ Adam n he was leaving tommoroe...

Well i wusnt flirting w/ Adam... but to all my friends (( guy n girl )) i say I love you... but not the same way i love Mike...

Well since my friend, Lisa was on the fone... w/ mike... He heard me say i love you to Adam... he started getting pissed at me cuz he thought i was flirting w/ Adam....

So wen i talked to hym later that night im like Wait, r u mad at me..?? Mike is like ya... u were flirting w/ Adam.... i wus like no i wasnt!! hes like YeaH! im like no!! im like w.e . since u dont belive me i gues im a liar....
well i broke up w/ Mike that night b.c. i though that since we r going into jr. high this year... n since he thinks that i was flirtng by saying I love you to adam.. then i thought.. we needed a break....
do u think i was right to take a lil Break... n do u think i shoudl go back out w/ Mike.. b.c i rly love hym n hes the sweetest guy i have eva known n he treats me like a queen... n he loves me soo much!! n i love hym.. but sumtimes i like being single.. but every time i think of Mike i am always liike omg i miss hym i love hym soo much!!

PLEASE HELP ME!!
xOx-Leah...

yea well i sorta kno how you feel i went out wit this boi nd this girl who was tyt wit my boyfriend told him i flirted wit this boy named james(we'll call him) nd he was my best guy friend nd my boyfriend got totally jealous nd i i explained nd then he stopped listenin to her nd believed me .. i think if you truly love him then you should bt if you think its jus puppy love then wel your young but if you love him explain nd im sure he'll understand .. nd you should tel your friends to mind her business nd i might have a sorta feelin that may she likes him nd is jealous but im not sure but try to talk t him it helps .. i hope this helps you in some way
[ MeGmEg ]

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