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Long Distance
OK, so I have a boyfriend and we've been going out for about 7 months. The thing is.. Ive never met him b4. He lives in the same state and everything. But we live like an hour away from each other :(. I mean we could probably meet some how but i dunno. we hardly ever talk too. I havent talked to him in 2 weeks, partially because i was away but he still hasn't called either. He knows im home. I jus wanna kno if I should stick with the relationship or just be friends. I love him with all my heart. I am just really confused right now :(. Please Help!
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hey..if he kno's ur home he should at least call you to see how your doing!!! and since he's your boyfriend he should at least come and see you! it's only an hour!! but it's really up to you if you want to keep him or not! but i think you should just be friends!
*i hope i helped! plx rate me!
xoxo-ashlyn
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Uh, you obviously should end it. It's also NOT the best idea to date someone you've neveR met befoRe!! And what kind of a Relationship is that anyhow?? You two only live an houR away fRom each otheR... that's not faR.. it shows a lack of consideRation and caRe if you guys have not made the effoRt to meet each otheR yet. Go find a boyfRiend you can actually see once a week, at least... you'd be much betteR off that way! I wish you the best! Hope I helped!! =D
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I think that you should go out with someone local. It's a lot more special when you can spend time with them in person. It would be hard to give up the other guy tho...stay busy and try not to think about him all the time
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be friends, you dont love him, you met him online, thats not love, if you have never met him then its not worth it, stay friends with him
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not tryin to be mean but im gonna be straight up .. dump him .. yohhve never met the boi .. man yooh shouldnt do that .. yooh live an hour away nd yooh have plenty of chances to go wit boys yooh cansee .. wats the oint in havin a boifrined yooh never see .. i see no point ..well im jus sayin dum him nd get someone yooh can see like every day .. i hope i helped .. [ . megan . ]
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First of all, here's my opinion about all this. HES NOT YOUR BOYFRIEND. YOU HAVENT MET YET. Also, there's no way you can "love him with all your heart" if you haven't met. Think about it. What you're doing can't possibly be considered going out, expecially if all youre doing is talking (which you hardly do anyway). YES you should just be friends, or at least meet him first. Honestly, I don't think it could work out.
Sorry if it's not what you want to hear, but you're here for advice and there it is.
I hope it helps at least a little.
-=wizer*wordz=-
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Long distance relationships like these definitely bring lots of confusion. You have to decide if you like him enough and are mature enough to stay his boyfriend long distance. But if you have an eye for someone else, you could always just stay friends with him - it won't hurt. If you DO decide to just stay friends, don't forget to stay in touch with him.
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end the relationship. youve never met him before? how do you know he's even the young, teenage guy he says he is? what ur doing is dangerous. even if he is the normal guy, he isnt doing the right thing but not calling you or talking to you for 2 weeks. you'll be much happier with a guy you actually know and can see more often =) trust me from experience! i hope i helped!
x00o gina <33
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hi... well i know that long distance sucks ... my boyfriend and i only see each other once a week becacuse we live like 45 min away from each otther..... but if you feel in your heart that this guy is truly ment for you teh stick with it.. just make sure you work out a schedual so you can talk ... becsue not talking will not be so good.... but if you keep talking and kow that he loves you as much as you love him and if you like each other for the right reasons tehn every thing will work its self out
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wow..7 months and you guys haven't met. I think you should just break it off, i mean if you never talk, and never have even met, and you live an hour away from each other, it would most likely be better apart. Because then you can start focusing on guys that live by you. Its not like you and your boyfriend can do anything often cuz you live so far apart, and if you havent talked to him in 2 weeks, thats like not good at all.
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