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♥ Hey everyone, my names Michele and im 17 years young. I love to give advice to everyone and i usually have the anwsers to almost any question! Please dont be shy (I wont bite) and ask any question that you need anwsered! Feel free to IM me if you have a question you really need anwsered fast. The picture i have is not of me its just a regualar picture that i pimped out!!


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Hey I'm going to a party and my period is still irregualr so theres a very good chance that I'll be on it during the party/sleepover because in May I had it from the 23-30th or somrething like that so I'm expecting to have for the sleepover. And I'm kinda scared to wear a tampon to sleep because I don't want to get TTS but I know a ton of people who do. So like I'm not totally sure what to do. I mean if ther is a way to wear a tampon I will but I just don't know weather to not sleep over (but I don't really have a reason not the besided that one), wear a pad, or tampon. So any advice will we great.

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Alrighty i cant really tell you what to wear but when i go to a sleepover we usually dont get any sleep but like its going to be a bunch of girls and i think they will be understanding if you say your on your period i mean they have them to so like if you wanna were a tampon then wear one but if u wanna wear a pad wear that but like i wouldnt be to worried and you cant just not spend the night cause your on your period.... thats stupid ... just go have funn and dont worry about it to much and if they ask why you keep going to the bathroom just saay your on your period... i doubtr they will care=) Have Funn!!

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Dear Ask me247,

Im having a hard time choosing what i should do on this. You see, I have this friend, and I'm in love with her. Ive loved her since we began to talk. Shes been my best friend for a while now and yeah, we have our ups and downs and such matters, but nothing really bad. Shes suffers from alot of things...Depression, and a bad homelife make her the person she is today. But i love her anyway. It seems that when your friends with her, nothing is as it seems. When we were in the beginging of our friendship, she started to liek me, and it was mutual, but then it just disappeared. Then she told me she loved me. But once again it just disappeared. I mean yeah, i still love her, but it seems she is playing games. I mean now she is treating me like shit. Ive been there for her through everything that has happened to her and ive been the only one whos ever stuck by her side. And to repay me with being a bitch to me. I measn wtf is that? I got so pissed at her that i told her i hated her, and i kno she is sad about it but she told me that she was gone for good. But right before she stopped tlkn to me, she said that she had always loved me. Now when she said that my heart sunk, and i knew i had made a big mistake. I still love her but i jus tdont kno what to do. I mean everyone knows i hate her, well they think it, but i do hate her. But i love her at the the same time. I guess in this case its loves fault...its to complicated. But i really need to kno if i should say" hey, i still love you but we need to work this out" and be friends again. But if i do then i look like a jackass to everyone who i told that i hated her. But if i dont tell her then i loose my best friend and a girl that i love with my whole heart. Im so upset about this, its just eating away at me and thats all i can think about. Please help me.

P.S. And yes michele you probably already kno who this is...in fact I kno that you kno who this is. But i dont wanna make a big deal outta it and i needed to get it off of my chest before I seriously killed myself. You can talk to me about it later i guess.

O Wow! Okay i think i can give you some advice right now but most of it im gunna have to tell you online one on one... but i think you have to tell this gurl that you still love her i mean i know you are going into 8th grade and like youll have to spend another whole year with her and that wont be good if theres bad vibes between you to... and i dont think ur ur a jackass and i know for sure that she wont think that because i know she still loves you like a brother and she wants to still be your friend because you have always beeen there and she honostly loves you but shes just not showing it...but thats just how she it....and who cares what other ppl think the only person that should matter in this case is her.. well ill talk to you more bout this in person

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I have this friend who I said something to (not thinking) and she got all mad at me.I know that I'm to blame but i need to find a way to get her back.

Alright i think that u need to just explain to your friend what is going on i mean you just need to apologize and keep reapologizing that all you can do

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Is Brendon Urie bisexual? He's the Panic! At The Disco lead singer.

Ummm ... yes i know he looks a lil bit weird and "fruity" in his video but im almost 100"% sure hes straight

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okay so my boyfriend wants to have sex but i don't..i love him so much but he says hes gunna break up wit me what do i do

I think that if your boyfrend is going to break up with you just because u wont have sex with him that he is just useing you and he doesnt really love you.. but i think i you should tlak to him about it and see what he says but if he does break up wit you it mnight accually be for the better... But if you feel you are reay to do that then i guess thats your desion

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okay so yeah im new to this site and stuff so...i've been in my house for the past like 7months doing NOTHING and i wanna get out and im only 13 so i cant get a job..well i can but not a good one or anything, so yea my parents dont let me go to camp cuz there scared im gonna come back and be on drugs or something...dont ask why....(im a good kid really!...) so any way i was wondering if anyone had any ideas on something i could do to get out of the house and not b so bored all of the time..well thanks!!!!=) ~ Rosemarie

You could join a club and go to that and plasn something like every few days with your friends so you always have something to look forward to ... like bowling swimming skating... just anything.....

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What are some tips to getting the guy you want to want you?

Ummm.. i suggest just being yourself around hiim and if he really does like you then he'll ask you out but if you change yourself your realationship is prettty much based on a lie... but i do suggest flirting with him more and you two talking more and you guys just hanging out 1 on 1 so you can accually talk to him

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ok well u no who i am but anyway there are these 2 people i lik a lot n they lik me but 1 is goin back out with his ex and the other 1 i will barley get 2 c n i want them both at the same time i jus dont no wt 2 do ?

Okay 1st of all you CANT have both of them ou have to pick one and stick with him... do not keep going back and forth between the two because that will only hurt your relationship with both of them.. i think you should pick out the qualities of both of them and if that means making out a list then i think you should do it. But befor you go any further with either of the relationships you HAVE to have made a choice a real firm desion and you have to stick with that desion. I think if one of them is going out with another girl they might not like you that much anymore or he is trying to make you jelous and even though you can see one of them doesnt mean you cant still talk to them alot but i do understajd that you want to see him.. you have to make a desion here

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hey...so the guy i like..hes like really punk..but im really prep..and all of his friends are gonna be all like omg! i cant belive a prep like youu! and from there on idk what i should do

Well i mean if this guy accually like you it shouldnt matter what his friends say... he should go with his heart not by what his friends say and if he goes with what his friends say he obiously doesnt like you like that. Also if they were his true friends they should support him no matter what desion he makes. I think you should tell him about your feeling and if he listens to his heart mabey you two can become more than friends.. but if he doesnt wanna be more still be his friend and dont let that interfer with your friendship

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me & my boyfriend are great together we`ve been together for 4 months and everything is great its just im afraid that were not gonna be together for a long time & i really want to be ; i mean we talk about this a lot how were gonna be together forever and he says hes never gonna leave me and stuff but i just wouldnt know what to do if we broke up. please help

Well i mean if he is talking to you about it he obiously isnt going to do it any time soon because if he was going to he wouldnt talk about being together forever... but if he did break up with you then its going to be hard for you because i can tell that you accually like him but you have to try to move on as quickly as possible.. but i dont mean just get some random guy i mean wait a few days or possible weeks to see if anything might happen between you and your ex... but dont wait around forever... also it would help you deal with losing him if ou still kept him as a friend or better yet your best friend because if you know that he is your friend you might not want to be anything mope

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i have a guy friend who i wanna b more than friends wit. We went out once but i found out he cheated on me but it turned out it was all lies. I told him i still like him n i wanna go bk out but hes already got a gf. It makes me sad b cause i really liked him. Now he never calls me. This always happens 2 me. It seems like love has turned its bk on me.

what should i do??
*** teary eyes ***

Well i think that if this boy doesnt want to be more than friends with you rigth now i think you should try to become better friends with him and when him and his new girlfriend break upi you be there for him the whole time and mabey he'll wanna be more than juust friends.... you need to be the one to call him every once in a while but dont be like stalking him at all and just like tlak to him online and stuff...When you say you think love has turned its back on you i think you just need to wait for the rigth guy to come to you and mabey this guy is the right guy and mabey you should mabey wait for him because mabey he did love you but mabey he thought you didnt trust him so you need to get that trust back to normal and i think you need to become good friends first and then try to become more i mean he might be reluctant to get into a further realtionship because of what happend but just give him time thats all he needs

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I'm worried that my friend will tell my biggest secret! If he does I'll be the laughing stock of the school. I'm not sure what I should to convince him otherwise. Please help.

Well i think that if this 'friend' will do something like that to you then that person isnt a true friend... but the perfect way to stop this person from spreading this rumor is to talk to them about it and ask them not to do it and tell them that if he/she was really your friend they wouldnt tell.... also if he or she refuse hold one of there top secrets against them and say if you tell ill tell people...but i think if he does tell people against what you say do not deny it but mabey your other friends will back you up and your true friends are the ones that wont laugh at you and wont judge you ... i just think you need to talk to this friend.... OR if none of this works you can always try to bribe him but i my advice is to try not to do that cause then you know he/ she isnt your friend at all but they are just using you... hopefully he/she will understand and keep there mouth shut

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ok i have no friends really and i want more..how?

Okay making friend might be difficult for some but i think i could help...
1) make sure you look nice werever you go
2) talk to people without being shy
3)If you can make one good friends they might be able to introduce you to many more
4)Go to school functions like baseball games were you can meet many people
5)Dont be to pushy with people but dont just stand there get into a conversation with your piers when you think you might have something to say
5)also you can meet alot of people by having a party or just going to some1s party
6)DONT BE SHY


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My ears kinda stick out a lot. And my hair is straight, so when I wear my hair down my ears stick out of my hair and I look like an elf! Is there anything else I can do besides surgery so that my ears don't stick out? And what do I do about my hair?

Instead of just straitening your hair you might want to curl your hair or scrunch it... but if you dont think your hair would look good curled you might want to bye some produst for the store that makes you hair fuller and thicker... it wont make you hair that thick just enough to cover up your ears

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ok..i have like some friends that i just cant seem to stay out of fights with..they are always taking everything personally or misunderstanding wat i say..but instead of coming to me and asking me wat i meant they just get pissed off and treat me like shit..now dont get me wrong i want to be their freind and stuff but i dont know how much more i can take!!! wat should i do?

I think that if your friends cant come to you if they have a problem with you then they might not be your honost to god TRUE friend.... there is a differnece between a true friends and just a friend I cant tell you what you would consider you true friends because that is somehting you have to find out.... but if more drama starts with your friends you have to confront them about it and you have to be the one to make it better... as weel as just talking to them you have to SHOW them how much they realli are your friend... like when someone asks you for advice regardless of whether or nto you mad at them, give them the advice..... I guess thats all i can do for you


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Ok, my best friend, a wonderful beautiful girl. I'm in love with her, she knows i'm in love with her, but she's dating someone else, she refuses to tell me how she feels, she also refuses to tell. I'm 15 going on 16, she's 14 going on 15. I'd do just about anything to be with her. I'm a musician right now and that is my future but for her i'd give it up just to be able to hold her in my arms and kiss her for an instant. What should I do, how can i get her back?

Well hey if you honostly feel this way about her yoou need to tell her ASAP!!! but i mean you might want to tel her in a letter so she can find out all the information withought jumping to conclusions..... be super nice to her!!!!I mean if she loves you they way you love her i think she relize it and talk to you and if she wont express to you now she might be hiding her feelings about you but i mean if she reads the letter she might be ready to tlak to you


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I want to tell my friend something..It's a problem I've been having and it's kind of serious. I've never told this friend anything this serious before though. How do I know if she'll accept me and keep it a secret?

Wl the way you are talking this is very serious i think you should tell her a very less serious secret first to build up her trust and see what she does... thats the only true way to find out

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I am 146 lbs. and am only five feet tall. I recently started a new diet and joined a gym. My boyfriend has been VERY supportive of me through this. I recently said something(dont remember though) that brought up a conversation and he said "I dont think you're fat..you're just big boned" ..and i got soooo mad...then he said he was just kidding. Should i be hurt by this??

Okay the joke about not being fat just big boned is from South Park.... dont be offended he probably just heard it on there... and the other one guys like big butts. that almost like a compliment!!!!!

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im going to my first concert in a few days.its hello goodbye,panic! at the disco,acceptance,and the academy is..my question is how do you act at concerts-what do i do?

OMG!!I am soooo jelous of you1!!... i really wanted to go to that one........ jsdut hacve funn theres no certian way to act i mean scream.... yell the lyrics with the band.. jump around..... wel thats all i can say!!HAVE FUNN!

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recently, ive been cutting. i cut because i have so much emotional pain, it relieves me when i cut. it makes me forget all about my emotional pain because i focus on the physical pain. well, just this morning, i found myself thinking of suicide. this afternoon during health class too. We were talking about cutting in health class today and i just wanted to die. i was so uncomfortable. only 2 people knew about me cutting in my health class besides me but i still wanted to die. I dont have a boyfriend. I dont think im pretty enough to. My life is fucked up. no one cares about me. my parents are never home and when they are, they just yell at me. They always fight too. But the thing is, i wouldnt trade my life for anybody elses. its the way that i know life. I wouldnt trade it. and im serious. I wore a belly shirt to school a few days ago. Bad choice. some people saw my cut i made on my stomach and they said stuff to me. No one understands me. They think that i have the ideal life and they even tell me that. i dont. every one thinks i am perfect (or have to be) becuase my dad is a pastor of a small hick church... which i hate. I dont believe that shit. w/e. i wanted to stop cutting until today. i did it again today. its just a bad habit. any suggestions? anything anyone wants to say to me?? yes i have contemplated suicide. several times.

O wow!!! well im really sorry that you are in this situatuion but i think that is you are uncomfortable hearing about it in a heaqlth class then that might be a sign to stop.... cutting NEVER helps anything and it is not good for you or the people around you...your friends are probably very worried about u i think that if you are truly hurting yourself than you need to go to your school conciler and i think you should talk to them and tell them everything you to here... if you dont have a school conciler than the next best thing is to talk to your friends..... make a pact with them saying that they wont be your friend if you keep doin i t.. i know that you want to keep doing it but it is not good for you i mean one slip of the knife and you are dead.. ya i know your saying it wont happen to you but it might if you keep doing this...DO some reaseach on it and find out som information about how to stop and how to cope wityh your pain in a better more succesful way...It might even help to read some stories about the dangers of cutting and to read/see true stories about cutters your age and how much damagew it has done to them. or it could be about how they died I know that it is a way to let out your pain buyt think of something else to do.. like writing poetry or listening to music... try to get your mind off of it .... do something that truley makes you happy. just go to your happy place i guess... just please be careful because i know that everytime that you do this that it hurts your friends more than it hurts you.. you cant do this to yourself and you should try your hardest to stop. and when you say that that you thought about suicide i mean ya that might be scary but i mean just think about ofther things.. go out with your friends as much as possible get out of your house(were the knifes are)and get your mind off of it.. even if it is only for 1 or 2 hours i mean that ius one or two hours that you didnt think about death... Just try your hardest to stop and i mean if you truley need more informatioon on this or you just need to talk to someone my screen name is....

IRideShortBUs180

I hope i helped and i hope that we can talk sometime... i think i can help

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