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Well,where should I start? My parents split up when I was 5 1/2. I have moved about 6 or 7 times.My dad doesn't pay child support.My parents call each other retards,bitch,idiot,bastard,loser,and so much more.Now we live in an one bedroom apartment with my grandmother.we don't have enough money for me to buy a skirt or somethin.My mom pretty much depends on me for money.I don't do that good in school either,and i think it's cuz of all the stress.Now i don't no what I should do. SOMEBODY HELP!!!!!!!
.:.Ashley.:. (link)
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im really sorry that your life is so hard! what i would do is try to stay with some friends or relatives for a while and take some time off. what you need is to relax and not have anything to worrry about. try talkin to your parents, and tell them how all this is making you feel. your mom should think about you more, and try to help you out. im really sorry! hope i helped tho!
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My friend and I have to make up a dance for our school's talent show and i know this is the gayest question but:
Which Ciara song is better: 1,2 step or Goodies?
thanx.
i rate- HIGH! (link)
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1,2 step is an easier song to dance to. goodies is t=good too, but 1,2 step is better good luck!
~*ana*~
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ok, my friend, lets call her jane is going out with this guy, lets call him joe. i like joe, joe likes me. jane found out but she didnt have a problem with it. i was home sick from school today and even before today, everyone was telling me that joe was going to dump jane for me. if he really does ask me out and all, should i say yes or what because i am so confused and caught in the middle and i feel really bad cuz i think that i'm the cause of them breaking up. help! n thx ahead of time (link)
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i think that it should be ok because she said she was ok with it. maybe b4 u say yes, talk to your friend about it. see how she feels. if she doesnt feel ok with it, try to explain to her that this shouldnt ruin your friendship. if she doesnt want to be your friend because you said yes, she proly wasnt a good friend, bcuz she was too selfish.
hope i helped!
~*ana*~
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ive going through alot of changes and i have new friends.. so yea but one firend, sarah, introduces me to alot of people in High school.. whateveer and i meet new people. I sometimes get the feeling that they dont liek me. and every guy ive ever liked likes her and gives her the attention, all of it. Id say shes loud and can be mean but i love her..advice? (link)
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i just got done going through the ecsact same thing!!!! i was talkin to my mom, n she said that sometimes there are some guys that like others more then some, ya no what i mean? you cant be mad at her becuase guys like her more, or whatever. its normal to be jelous, but there's nothing you can do ya no? dont worry, someday someone wil see you for who you are. if she makes you that mad, maybe you should choose your friends more carefully. thats what i did, n im a lot better now. :) hope i helped!
~*ana*~
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This may seem like a random and completely dumb question to some, but I'm actually quite serious in asking this. My question is that why is it that young girls ages 12-14 and some even younger, feel that they NEED to have a boyfriend just to fit in? You girls don't understand, when your time comes to have a boyfriend, you'll find someone who will like you for you. Also, my other question is why do you feel the need to dress provocitavely, exposing your breasts, butt, and stomach just to look "sexy"? You don't need to be showing all of that to look sexy. You can be completely covered up and still look gorgeous as ever! That was just my random question for today. Any young girl that feels that way, you can feel free to answer.Thanks. (link)
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to tell u the truth, i have no idea!!! i agree completly with you. girls these days are becaming little machines that think that they have to look good 24/7 and what takes to look good is 20 thousand pounds of makeup, clothes 10 sizes too small, and big boobs. its horrible! im really sorry that i cant do anything about it :(
hope i helped!
~*ana*~
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ok, i like, fell for this guy who reallllly liked me(let's call him "michael"). then we got into a BIG fight, and i didn't like him anymore. we didn't talk for like 2 weeks.Right, right. Then i fell hard for "matt". man, then i told my friend that i liked.. "matt".i think he told him i do, and he said he likes me. the only thing is.. me and "michael" resovled our fight, and i fell for him....AGAIN... and 10 x's harder! typical of me, yes. but now, "matt"'s moving to like south america in a few months, so if i want to go out with him, i have to do it now, or never.. and i'm like in love with michael again. gahh, but.. "matt"'s PERFECT for me. what do you think i should do.. (link)
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dont go out with matt because if you do when he moves you wont be able to get michael back if you like michael that much then go out with him cuz if u go out with matt for the little time hes here you might end up loosing both guys!
hope i helped!!!
~*ana*~
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I seem to be expieriencing (link)
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im really sorry that i didn help as much as i hoped. feeling that way probaby sucks,and i dont know what else to tell you. try to figure out why youre felling this way. go tot eh doctor and maybe they'll give you some medicine to feel better. hope this time its better!
~*ana
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okay ill start at the beging, a while back my b/f and i got into a fight and he thought i broke up with him even though i didn't so a few years went past and i still had feelings for him and well now one of my best friends just broke up with him and it turns out he likes me too and i dont know what to do cux she still likes him and really wants him back but then again so do i, and im super confused cuz she told me not to go out with him but i really really want to so plz help me thanks (link)
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ask her how she would feel if you went out with him again. he does like you, and you like him too. you should give it a try, because if shes your real friend, she wont stop being your friend just because of a guy. she cant tell you what to do jsut because she wants him, so do what ever you feel is right, and what ever happens happens. hope i helped
~*ana
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in my class ther's this guy who sits behind me who's really hot and he blows on my neck and flirts with me but im not sure what to do. i mean he has this huge reputation for like having sex and i want to keep my virginity at least for freshman year! he's a year older and im pretty sure sex is all he's interested in but i really like him and he's really cute! i don't know how to handle this... (link)
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flirt back! but dont go all the way. since you like him, flirt back, but if he starts being like" ok lets go have sex" tell him that thats not what youre looking for. tell him how youre feeling, and that youre not interested into having sex yet. tell him, and if he respects you and starts taking things slow, keep hi, but if hes like "you dont wana have sex, so dont talk to me" forget about him because hes no good! hope i helped
~*ana
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I've been seein this guy for about 6 months now {he's 28} were not officially together {which is not the problem}, but he never asked me out like that, but I do go hang out at this house & we go places together, I've even met some of his friends. I know his last g/f really hurt him so he said he wanted to take thing's slow, which I understand. problem is, we go to the movies & he doesn't even acknowledge the fact that I'm more than a friend..not even holding hands. This has happened twice. We do kiss each other goodnite, when I leave his house, but no kissin while I'm there! lol Am i just stressin something that doesn't need to be stressed or is this just as much a issue as I think it is? {btw, I'm 22} thanks, I'll rate HIGHHH (link)
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dont stress bout it. like he said, he wants to take things slow, because hes afraid to get hurt again. you should respect his wishes, and not push too hard. what you're doing right now is good, and its obvious that he does like you. if you give him a little while, he'll warm up to you. dont worry about it. hope i helped
~*ana
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14 female (sry if its confusing)
1)ex boyfriend now after 9 months
2)has a new girlfriend who i hate (not the issue)
3)somtimes we talk now.. he said that he misses me.. but he's like a lunitic and isnt good for me
4)i still love him, but he's not right for me at all.. all my friends hate him
5)today he told me to stop talking to him..(but i dno if he really means it cuz he still mite have feelings for me)
6) but he blocked me, and won't talk to me
Should i try to move on ?what do i do(i rate high) (link)
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hes showing that he really doesnt want to have any contact with you. give him a whle to think about what he wants. now if hes bad for you, like bad influince, or rude, forget him. i know its hard to do, but you have to move on. trust me, youll find someone thats rite for you! hope i helped!
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hey.. i just need some advice on sex.. me and my boyfriend have been going out for awhile now but im not sure when we'll be ready to u know.. do it.. can u please help and just tell me when u think the right time would be? by the way, your VERY pretty i love you smile.. im sure you get that a lot hahaha.. yeah well i'll let you go plz respond!!
xoxo-
shelly (link)
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i cant really tell you when the time is read. that is up to you two. if you feel like youre ready for it, then im sure it'll be fine, but if you dont feel ready, dont do something youre not ready, or dont want to do. hope i helped
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Hey, I'm a 17 Male from TN and I need a little help on how to deal with my brother. We are ferturnal Twins and a pretty close. He is a heavy drug user, smokes pot usually about twice a day and takes other drugs with it like Adderal (which he is not perscribed to). He's been doing it for around a year and a half now. He drives while hes intoxicated about everyday. He's been to Juvy, had his car taken away at least 3 times, and been on probation, but he wont quit!.
I want to tell my Mom about all hes doing, but it would ruin my relationship with him and would probably make his friends and my friends hate me (because we are twins we have a lot of the same freinds). Also, hes been in trouble so many times and hasn't changed that if i tell on him he might not change because of all the other times hes been caught. His life is in danger though and I might be doing the wrong thing by not telling him, but a lot of people need to choose by themselves or they won't quit. So I don't know what to do. (link)
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you should tell a parent or someone that can help him. you should also talk to him about it, and look at him and the eye, and tell him seriously that this could kill him. after you talk to him, ask him if he could to to your mom or dad himself, and try to help himself on his own. but if you do tell your parents, make sure hes either ok with it, or he doenst care, because then you wont hurt his feelings. hope i helped
~*ana
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I have this like rash type thing on my lip and I've had it for a while and it won't go away. I've put stuff on it to make it go away, but nothing works. Does anyone have any idea what it is, or how to get rid of it? Answer please, I rate HIGH! (link)
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um... ets see, the best thing to do is to go to the doctor. it might be because of something that you ate, or that brushed up against it. you might be alergic to something, and hopefully, your doctor will be able to tell you what it is! hope i helped
~*ana
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I've always been one of those sneaky gurlz, (16~f) doin everything on da down low. My mom dont kno about none of my boyfriends, nor does anyone else except my sister, and she just recently found out.
Me and dis n*gga have known each otha for a while, we had kindergarten together. So we always been coo i guess, never really talked tho. Now it's like...we're always together. He calls me every night n everything. Everyone keeps saying we're too friendly...
Someone wanna define too friendly for me? (link)
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its not too friendly. people are probably sayin that because they're either jelous, or maybe they're just getting the wrong idea. Maybe you should be more open, because if you are, then people wont think that youre being too friendly because theyll be able to tell the difference. srry its kinda confusing hope i helped
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is there any way to change your password once you have an account? if so how? thanx. x0 (link)
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go to profile settings hope i helped
~*ana
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I like this guy I'll call him Brian, when he had a girlfriend he always flirted with me, but Friday his girlfriend broke up with him then he was at a dance I went to and we barely spoke. I kept trying to talk to him but he barely said a word. I'm wondering why he didn't talk to me. Also there's a rumor that he likes me, do you think he does. (Sorry that its long) (link)
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maybe hes afraid to talk to you because he just go out of a relationship, and is afraid to get hurt again. give him some time then try talking to him again. and for the rumor, dont worry about it. it could be true, but it also could be just a rumor. dont get your heart set on it. just give it some time. hope i helped
~*ana
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wow okay well im 14 and im not OVERWEIGHT but im on the high level of where people my age are suppose to be i mean im not skinny but im not fat like ...i just got a little gut.but im in a lot of active thigns..over summer...but during winter i dont do any thing and i hate it ..im usualy on 3 softball leagues and then voelleyball so i loose weight from there..any idea's? PLEASE ... (link)
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if you like sports, one of the best sports to do is swimming. it works everything out, and it keeps you in shape. i used to be like you,. im also 14 and i used to weigh 130 in like may. then i started swimming, and then going into all my regular spots, and now i weigh 110. its really good because you tone yourself out. and it makes you look slimmer,a dn not bulky hope i helped
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