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Hey! My name is Ashley. I'm 15 years old and love to give advice. I am a Moderator on this site. I have blonde hair but in that picture I have brown(the one in the middle). I love to dye my hair, I've never dyed it the same color twice. I also have bluish/greenish/greyish eyes. I am Wiccan, and I am very in touch with Spiritual things. I love my friends(but who doesn't love thier friends). I listen to screamo, emo, punk, techno, and hip-hop music. I am very short compaired to my friends. I'm 5'2. I used to model, I don't anymore because it's too expensive. I have 3 sisters, 1 niece, and 3 nephews. Ask me anything I DARE YOU!!!

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14/F
Me and my best friend have been best friends since 4th grade, and now we are in 8th. We heard about the whole blood brothers thing and we want to do it, because we're not related but we're like sisters and we kink of want to make it official, but heres the bad part: She takes marajauna. She's knows it's bad for her but she's addicted. I was wondering if doing the whole blood brothers thing would affect me since she's a stoner. I love her and we want to be sisters I just want to know if her taking drugs would affect me in this.

I know you don't wanna hear a huge lecture....but I don't think you should go through with this. She or you could have AIDS or a form of it and it could transfer into the other person. Me and my friend have been like sisters since like 5th grade and we're going into Freshman year and we thought about it and we didn't go through with it because there is a great possibility that in a few years when we graduate high school we will go our own separate ways. I'm just concered about the heath issues that could be involved in the whole "blood brother/sister" thing. Her doing marijauna wouldn't affect you.

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im going school shopping tomorrow. i get like $100-200. but my style is like delias but they are pretty expensive so i dont want to waste half my money on one outfit. what are some stores that have those kind of clothes but are cheap? thankss.

Ok...I have the same style as you do and I get around 300-400$. I go to Rave. You can find it in almost any mall. Shirts are around 5-12$ and pants are around 19-30$. They have really cute vintagy outfits too!(If you like that type of stuff) Thaey have punky/cute style also.
Hope I Helped You.
Ashley

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MY mom is like super emotional and my dad is horrible to her. He yells and screams at me and her. I have nightmares about him and I'm like really scared of him. please give me some advice, he is very mean to us. One time I ate an apple that he told my mom not to touch and I didn't know it was his but he like screamed at my mom and all. Then he went to slap her so I told him it was me. I got a big beaten. Help!

oK.........What I want you to do is to call this abuse hotline I'm gunna give you. You Dad physicaly and mentally abuses you and your mom. I'm sure you guys love your Dad but he need's to be put into anger management and any other help he can get. A normal Father would buy another apple if his daughter ate it and he wanted it that bad. I really hoped I helped and will pray for you and your family. 1-888-767-2445 is the child abuse hotline. If you need anything else e-mail me Kpp_baby91@yahoo.com or IM me youdreamxaboutme
I hope your dad gets some help too
Ashley

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ok so ya kno tha lil cosmetic sponge thingies you put on liquid foundation with ?? ya so like how often should you use one before you throw it out & use a new one ?? thx.

I use them for about a week and a half if I use foundation everyday. If you use it for too long it starts to not obsorb the foundation and it starts to come apart.
Hope I helped you.
Ashley

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I have had this best friend for about a year,and he is a really special guy, and I love him to death. We are reeeaaallly close, but I am going to a different high school than...we go to the same church..but I am so afraid that we wont be as close...We are going to be an hour away from each other. I have neva cared about someone as much as him and only as a friend. I afraid that he will find another best friend. Cuz every year both of us have had otha best friends...ery year...but neva as close as us..and I wont be there wit him in High school...I dont want to loos him...he says that it wont happen and even if he has another Best friend it wont replace me..but Im afraid he cant faithfully promise tha....I am stressing myself out ova it..and I dont know what I should do, or think...help

I just moved and I'm goin through almost the same thing. Me and him have been friends since like 6th grade and now going into 9th. I moved 1/2 hour away into another state and I only get to visit 1 weekend a month. I constantly think he's gunna fing a new best friend to replace me with and push me to the side. He says he wouldn't do that (as your friend did,too). I think we both need to trust our "best friends" and keep in touch with them and we'll be fine. Trust IS what makes you guys the title of Best Friends isn't it??? If he doesn't make an effort to keep in touch, at least you'll know who your true friends are. In my opinion, I think you'll stay friends since you go to the same church. Wow...I just gave you AND ME advise at the same time.lol
I hope I helped you.
Ashley

Myspace.....www.myspace.com/allyouneedisashley
AIM........youdreamxaboutme

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Ok, for the record, I searched through some questions before I asked mine. [:

Alrighty,well,

I'm looking for a mascara that doesn't run(start to smudge right under your bottom lashes.) after about 5-6 hours.

I'm currently using Bag Gal Lash, from Sephora.And I love it, but after awhile it just starts to smudge on the bottom. Even though I don't apply mascara to my bottom eyelashes.

I really like big brushes.If that helps.

Thank youss :D

I was at cvs and was looking for mascara the other day and i had about 20$ and thought "what the heck...I'll spend 6.95$ for mascara" It's Physicians Formula Eyebrightener Mascara. It works REALLY GOOD!!! It was worth spending almost 7$. It's a mixture of black and grey and has medium sized curved brush. It makes your eyes look more open. It doesn't smudge and I wear it on my bottom lashes too.
I hope I helped you.
Good luck if I didn't.
Ashley

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I'm moving from a really small school to a huge public middle school (7th grade) and i am so worried about not knowing anyone. and cliques will have already been formed. Plus i have acne do you think that will lessen my chances of making friends?

I'm going through the same thing except I'm going into 9th grade. I've been in Dracut,MA for 9 years and I'm moving to Londonderry,NH. I have Acne too and sometimes I think it will make people think I don't take care of my skin even though I wash my face everyday. You'll know who will be you're real friends at your new school if they come up to you no matter what you look like. I just got Pro Active about a week ago and it works really good. You should try to use a cleanser, toner, and a moisturizer everday and that will help your skin alot. I'm pretty scared to go into a new school myseflf. We should deffinatly keep in touch and share our expiriences in our new schools and give some advise on it to each other. My AIM is YouDreamxAboutMe if you wanna im me or something. I hope you have a good start to your new school and you make a few friends. Just be yourself....I'm sure you're a pretty cool girl.

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