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Stay best friends with him
I have had this best friend for about a year,and he is a really special guy, and I love him to death. We are reeeaaallly close, but I am going to a different high school than...we go to the same church..but I am so afraid that we wont be as close...We are going to be an hour away from each other. I have neva cared about someone as much as him and only as a friend. I afraid that he will find another best friend. Cuz every year both of us have had otha best friends...ery year...but neva as close as us..and I wont be there wit him in High school...I dont want to loos him...he says that it wont happen and even if he has another Best friend it wont replace me..but Im afraid he cant faithfully promise tha....I am stressing myself out ova it..and I dont know what I should do, or think...help
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I just moved and I'm goin through almost the same thing. Me and him have been friends since like 6th grade and now going into 9th. I moved 1/2 hour away into another state and I only get to visit 1 weekend a month. I constantly think he's gunna fing a new best friend to replace me with and push me to the side. He says he wouldn't do that (as your friend did,too). I think we both need to trust our "best friends" and keep in touch with them and we'll be fine. Trust IS what makes you guys the title of Best Friends isn't it??? If he doesn't make an effort to keep in touch, at least you'll know who your true friends are. In my opinion, I think you'll stay friends since you go to the same church. Wow...I just gave you AND ME advise at the same time.lol
I hope I helped you.
Ashley
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Well , you two will deff. make new friends. But that doesn`t mean you can let something huge come between you. & as long as you guys keep in touch , you`ll be fine. I really wouldn`t worry about it so much.
I hope I helped. <3
Oh & sorry , my profile doesn`t look to well. I just joined.
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Well, you still have church in common. But, the truth is, you both will probably make new best friends, but as long as you two still make plans to talk to each other (whether it be online or on the phone), your friendship will not change. One of my best friends started college, on my last year of high school, and we were 5 hours away, but we spoke online all the time and talked on the phone as well. And hey, we still have an awesome friendship. As long as you both make an effort, nothing will change.
Good Luck!
-teacup
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