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Gender: Male
Age: 18
AIM: bsphil101
Member Since: October 5, 2005
Answers: 287
Last Update: April 30, 2006
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My friend Melissa is having a HUGE party at her house tonight..
but she didn't invite me.
We're friends..but not BEST friends..like on a scale of friendship..(10 as BFFs)..We're like a 5-6...you know?
Do you think I should ask her why she didn't invite me?
*One time, I confronted her about another party that she had..and she denied she ever had one.
I've never been over her house; vice versa..
Her parents like me though..I think..Why wouldn't she invite me? I thought we were friends :(...It's a HUGEEEE party..I'm sad. (link)
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She probably only thought to invite her 7-10 rank friends. Maybe she secretly hates you.
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Is it possible for a 14 year old girl to get a job on a cruise line over the summer as a waitress or table busser or clean up or anything like that?
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No.
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i dont know whats wrong with me. lately i have been thinking of killing myself. i dont know why. i have a bf and a wonderful family and friends but it doest seem worth it. i just keep thinking why not? i cant help it. i also draw the pictures of death. im a very good artist so the pictures are really good. i will sit with a pen in my hand and its like they just jump on the papper one mminute i will bethinking of what to draw and then im done and looking at this picture of death.i just think somethings wrong with me. i just want to die you know nothing can help i try leaving my house adn going fro a wlak. i just quit using and am trying to quit cuting but i only have one good friend i can depend on. do you think i have a serious problem? shoudl i tell me mom? shouold i try to get help? do u have any ideas that could help me? im just afraid that one day i m,ight end up trying to kill my self. please help i will rate really high. love the invisable girl xoxo (link)
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"do you think i have a serious problem? shoudl i tell me mom? shouold i try to get help?"
Come on now, don't jerk me around. You already know the answers to those questions. If you honestly didn't know, you wouldn't be on this site. Cliche but true, this is a cry for attention. Hopefully you can realize that and do something positive for yourself by seeking for help.
http://www.suicidehotlines.com/
Your situation really depends on how you view life. Why should you bother getting an education or a job if no matter what you do, you're only going to die in the end?
The way I see it, after you die, there is absolute nothingness. Your mind will no longer function, and any "soul" you may or may not have will cease to exist. There is no heaven or hell. There is nothing but an eternity of unconsiousness. So why not utilize the time you have on Earth to get to know people, to experience new things, to have fun, and just to live life.
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16/f
i really want a baby really bad. like i dont want one for "love" like most of those other girls out there but i think i can really do it and raise a child. ive been having dreams for monthes and ive wanted a baby since i was little but down its been driving over the edge. every night i dream about being pregnant and i want it to be real so badly! im not worried about the money or anything like that but mostly how my parents will react. i think i can haddle it and my parents say i am always great with children and i really feel like god wants me to do this or something.
what should i do?
ps i have no man and the father just wont be anyone so im def gonna wait till i atleast find someone but i have to have a baby in hs (link)
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Well, you should be worried about the money because there is practically no way you'll be able to support a child on your own at that age.
"i really feel like god wants me to do this"
That's interesting.
"...or something."
Well, you sound so sure of yourself.
If anything, God would want you to have a stable relationship and for you and your spouse to be educated and each have a job that is not only paying bills, but is generating enough cash flow that you can safely store money away for the future. Why would God want to be this picky? Because God would want the very best mother and father for every child born. Any less is depriving a helpless child of opportunity.
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okay well i have something really big to tell my parents and im not sure how to tell them. well i really want to tell them that i want to have a baby (16/f) everyone says i should but i really dont get along with my parents.. well its not that we dont get along its just that we arent that close. should i tell them now or should i wait till have a bf that i have been dating for a while because i am currently single. i know eitehr way they are going to flip but i dont want to screw things up. so how do i tell them and when? (link)
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Whether you've considered it for a night or several years doesn't make it any better of a decision.
Everyone says you should? Odd.
You're currently single? Well, that makes the baby situation just a tad bit more awkward.
I'm not finished answering this question until YOU tell ME why you want to have a baby right now.
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"i cant just say why well i can but its one of those things that you just can explain"
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Well, good luck explaining your reasoning to your parents. "It's just one of those things" probably won't fly with them (just guessing).
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alright well my name is alyssa and im 14...well this christmas we were supposed to go outta town to pick out our presents and well i thought we were going on a thurs. and i made plans with 2 girls (leanna and emily) well i was at a friends house wed night and i didnt get home till late and i got on the computer and emily popped up...hey thanx for calling leanna back. I was like no one told me she called and so she told me she did and all this stuff and then she asked about our plans we made and i said i couldnt go becuz i was going shopping and she flipped out and now we are in this huge fight for me canceling on them and leanna wont talk to me and i dont wanna say sorry becuz im not...and i still wanna be friends with them they just dont wanna hear me out..they want it to go on....ahh drama drama drama!! i hate it!! since they arnt talking to me...does anyone have a good email i could send them? please and thanx!! (link)
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The reason this question has been rated 7 times but only answered once (until now, of course), is because it is such a pain to read. PLEASE try to organize your thoughts clearly. This includes using correct spelling and punctuation, and paragraph breaks when necessary. Not that you have to have even the toughest of words spelled correctly, or master the usage of the semicolon, but at least make it presentable. It makes the question *so* much easier to answer.
To answer your question, the best e-mail you could send would be one to apologize to them. Allow them time to get over their anger, and try talking to them again in a few days.
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can any body tell me the importance and significance of gurupoornima for a sadhaka? and how he should celebrate? (link)
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I can't, but I know someone who can.
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I have a long distance relationship with my bf. He had to move away for a job in an oil rig camp. He can't email me because his internet hasnt been connected yet. So the only way we can contact each other is by phone.
Well since he moved 2 months ago he hasn't phoned me once. I phoned him on Xmas day(I just happened to catch him on his break) and he was being pleasant and said he'd phone me on New Years Eve. I never got a call. I know he works crazy hours and probably can't get a hold of me. I also work but only part time.
He told me also to never phone him before 6. He has a cell phone.
I'm getting really sick of this whole long distance thing. I also think he should be phoning me more than say, once every 2 months.
Should I cut this dead and try to find a local boy? And if he really loved me wouldnt he be contacting me more? (link)
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End the relationship.
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okay i really like this guy like Alot and we were talking durin the summer but kinda stopped cause we go to differnt schools and all so it wasnt working and now i still have feelings for him and all but we agreed to atleast wait till we can drive which is in a month or so but how will i know if he still likes me or wants to still make it work? i dont want to come out and be like do you still like me cause im not that forward with people but what are some ways i could tell him with out making it obvious (link)
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You can start by organizing your thoughts into sentences. It just makes the question so much easier to read and give advice on. You would be shocked at the difference it makes in the responses you get - not just from me, but from the site as a whole.
Well, seeing as I don't know how far away you two live from each other, I can't really comment on whether the long distance relationship would work out, or if I could even call it that.
In the meantime, be a friend and just talk to him occasionally over the phone or online. If you make a habit of talking regularly (not necessarily constantly) to him, chances are you'll already know when the time comes.
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hey. theres this guy i cant get out of my head i know he likes me but he likes other girls i think more. we dont go to the same school. i really want to meet someone new so i can stop thinking about the other guy. is there any like camps or anything? im open for any ideas!
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Oh yeah, go to that one camp next to that one place where you live because you told us where you live and everything so we'd know how to answer your question properly.
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i'm 13/f and i know its too early for me to have sex. but sumtimes i get rele horny and i get fantasies about me and a guy or occasionally a friend not minding masturbating with me. i'm not a lezbian and i kno that this doesn't make me lesbian but i dunno wut to do. i'm not very farmiliar with masturbation and i kinda want to but i'm also kinda scared. anyone have any tips? (link)
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Experiment. Put an a rubber glove and just go nuts.
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There is a guy named John I recently met who has really taken a liking to me. We've gone on a couple of dates, we get along well and I know that he'd probably be very good for me, but of course, I'm still hung up on my ex, Tom. What's more, Tom and I are still kind of seeing each other, too. We've decided to just go with the flow and seeing what happens, rather than just jump back into something or decide against it.
I made this clear to John on our first date so that I would not be maliciously leading him on. This didn't change John's stance at all and he still seems to want to pursue me. Even though I've told John everything, am I still leading him on by talking to him on the phone and texting him a lot? John and I haven't even so much as kissed but I still want to be careful about this. (link)
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Pick one guy and go for it. If you can't, flip a coin.
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My last relationship didn't end well. My ex broke my heart and it was just horrible. Since then, I haven't had a boyfriend because I never let my feelings show and push any potential relationship away. I'm so scared of falling for someone and having them not catch me. A certain boy has come along and he's very interested in me. He says it's not fair I compare him to my ex and assume he's going to hurt me too. I can't help it though and I'm scared I'm going to push away this great guy, who I actually like. How do I let go of this fear and take a chance? (link)
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Don't. It's not worth it.
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i have a wonderful bf of one month. we were friends beforehand for 8 months..we got so close..we have so much respect for one another and such a strong bond.
the problem? last night i was drinking with a bunch of friends..some of our guy friends wound up coming over. i was the drunkest i have ever been..i went up from behind 2 of my guy friends and hugged them from behind and my hand went over their crotch area. a little while later the guilt sunk in and i feel so horrible. i told my bf and he doesnt know what to think, he said we will talk today. my queestion : if this were to happen to you what would you do? what can i do to make this better? im thinking like making a solid promise to NOT drink again for as long as we are together... any other suggestions? what i did..is this understandable or is theere no excuse?
ive liked my bf for soo long..since the summer..and i finally got what i have wanted for so long. i dont want to ruin this relationship!!!!! i DONT cheat..what i did..that wasnt me!! i feel like crap omgg :(
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If that were me I would probably not be so stupid as to get plastered and start feeling up other people.
You would cheat, though, if you let go of your inhibitions enough.
You can't really say or do anything now that will help your situation, just make sure to be honest and truthful and hope for the best from him. I think you are already very lucky for keeping him as long as you have so far.
Also, to the people said that "you made a mistake" and "you didn't do it on purpose," well, that's not exactly true. You did do it on purpose. You willingly chose to drink. That comes with some responsibilites that you couldn't handle, namely moderation.
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bored.. someone tell me what to do....
there is nothing to do...
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Answer some advicenators questions.
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So, I just got a Creative Zen Nano Plus for Christmas. It has a 1 GB harddrive, and it's pretty flippin' sweet, but I'm having some difficulties disconnecting it from my computer.
I've read the instructions that came with it for disconnecting the player. Of course, I know I could just yank the USB cable out, but it's not supposed to work like that, and it doesn't. I tried, sadly. I was supposed to have about 90 folders, and only 50 showed up.
The instruction booklet says that if you are a Windows 98 SE user, open Windows Explorer and right-click Removable Drive, then eject. I've done this a million gazillion times with no gain. It still does the same thing--only 50 or so folders show up.
"If I'm doing everything right and it's still not working," I thought, "maybe there's a corrupt file or virus that's causing it to do this." So I tried to run a sweep on the harddrive. Alas, my Spy Sweeper trial has expired.
So, my question is, what the hell am I doing wrong? Is it a corrupt file? A bad USB cable? Stupidity on my part?
And if it IS possibly a corrupt file, do you know of any programs other than Webroot's Spy Sweeper that I could download to use?
Anyone computer/mp3 player savvy is absolutely welcome to help me out. Good answers appreciated.
Thank you much in advance! (link)
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I would account the missing songs to bad ID3 tags. Some players require a name or artist or album in order to sort them, so if one of those fields is missing, the song may or may not show up in the player when you try to play the songs. Not sure if this is the case with the Zen Nano specifically, but I know it has been an issue for the Dell DJ.
If you want a new spyware searching program, I would recommend Adaware. And while you're at it, pick up AVG Free for a free, updating virus scanner.
www.lavasoft.com - Adaware
http://free.grisoft.com - AVG Free Edition
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okay well me and my boyfriend were making out and i was feeling around down there. i started rubbing his nuts and then gently squezzed on one of them. not hard because i didnt want to hurt him but hes like "oww, be careful down there." so i stopped. and then like a week he was complaining that his balls hurt, even before i touched him. is there something wrong with him? i rate 5's (link)
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No, there's nothing wrong with him. Don't do that. It hurts a lot.
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i'm in a bit of a predicament w/ my boyfriend. i'm 19 and a sophomore in college and he's 21 and has not entered college. i'm not with him for booksmarts or trying to force him into going to college, but everyday i see him throwing his money away on useless things like his car.
i want him to have the motivation to have a future, to move forward w/ his life instead of living under his parents roof and job hopping every 3 months.
i've tried talking to him about it, but he always gets mad at me when i do, accusing me of lecturing him. he just doesn't understand that i'm only trying to look out for him. and i don't understand that when he says he wants a future with me, that he's not doing a goddamn thing about it? no money is saved for "us", no plans have been made, it's just an empty promise to me.
my question to you is what do you think i should do? do you think i should still encourage him or should i just let him do what he wants to do? after all, it is his money and it is his life... (link)
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If you want to let him waste his money in such ways, let him do it. If you do that, then you might as well just leave him for someone who:
1) Is more concerned about the future than just the present
2) With or without higher education, is seeking a career, not a job
3) Respects you when you try to say something helpful
Just because it's his money and his life doesn't mean it won't affect you if you keep dating him. Find someone nicer with a better sense of control over his own life.
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I am 16/F. At home I don’t use panty or any thing underneath to feel relax . I feel uncomfortable always wearing so many things, my skin not so good with elastic materials. Few days back I was alone at home in my room wearing frock, no panty. Door bell rang , my uncle was there. We were sitting in living room on opposite sofas and have a chat on various topics as he visited almost after two months. After about one hour suddenly my mind sparked and I realized that I was without underwear and uncle must have seen my private parts. So I swiftly change my sitting position. Uncle left the home after half an hour. This incident was worst for me. I am feeling embarrassment as my uncle might think about my acts and character. Please advice me what should I do for my piece of mind. Should I explain my uncle the situation.
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Just let it go.
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what do you do when a guy you dont know and its like a internet relationship and like you're not even that close and he just pops and asks wil you marry me??????????? what should i do????????? (link)
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Say no?
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This was rated a 2? Fine, say yes then.
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