im 5'4 n i weigh 90 and my friends and family are always telling me that i look like im loosing weight but i think im fat! i havent eaten anything in like 5 days and i feel really sick. what should i do???
xox rica
damn!! just eat. your not fat at all. if anything your under weight for your height so just eat something. it will also help you from being sick. your body needs food and you'll start feeling better.
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Ok..all my friends have either madeout or done more with there boyfriends. But i havent done nething not even madeout yet. Ive been pressured to do it by my friends but i really dont want to. Im 14..is that bad?
not its not bad. when your ready to do things then go for it. dont let ANYONE pressure you into doing something you dont want to do. if your not ready then your not ready. good luck.
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Hey, I was on vacation n i lyked this guy that was always having sex n stuff n i dont talk to him ne more n my frens still do but they wont give me his number or sn. Now that i have a boifren my frens r saying hes asking about me n saying that he wants me to go outside my confort zone and do stuff with him if u noe wut i mean. but i still lyk him a lil bit but my fren told that to my boy fren n now there both questioning me? N i think its my frens fault but its mine too i think? wut shood i do?
forget about the guy from vacation. he is only trying to use you. and talk to your boyfriend and telll him that nothing has ever happened between you and this other guy and it never will. that the only thing that happened was you were talking to him and that was before you got with him.
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There is this guy that i like alloott and i go to school with him. when i asked him if he liked the class we have together he said yes and the reason was because i was in there with him. He hugs me everyday after class and he asked me if he could have my number......... he told my friend that he does like me but he just got out of a relationship that lasted a year and a half so he doesn't want to be in another one.... do you think he likes me or is he just being friendly?
i think he likes you. but i think the problem is he is still hurt from the last relationship that he wants to take it slow with you and not rush into things. give him your number and hang out sometime. take it slow and give him time. he'll let you know when he is ready to be committed into a relatioship with you. just be patient with him. good luck.
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ok, i have another question just becasue i have no clue on what to do! lol well here is my problem that guy who did that with my best friend yeah well anyways omg i was going to fall and just cry today. isaw him and i melted so fast it was so unbelivable! i want him back badly but mom and dad and bro hate him with a passion and im just haven a bad time with guys rate now! help me please gimmie some gewyie advice! lol plz helpz mez!
ok well just forget about him. he is not worth it. you deserve so much better than him!! dont stoop so low just to meet his level. don't worry about not having a bf right now... you will find the right guy for you when your ready. it takes time but believe me, your day will come. and until then, just be yourself and have fun. live you life to its fullest. but with out that guy. your so much better than he is! if ya ever need anything else, you know i am here for you. you can talk to me anytime and you know that. I love ya hun! good luck in all you do!
*barb*
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i had sex with a guy a few times and now im looser down there. is there any way to get things back to how it used to be before i did anything with him ?
no, once you have had sex there is no going back to the way it used to be. if you dont have sex for a long period of time it will get a little tighter but not like it was. you cant do to much about that. just wait a while and it will help a little.
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I'm on my high school cross country team and we've been having practice everyday since early august. Well anyway, a few days ago, i saw this really pretty girl that i didn't recognize. So i went up to her and asked her if she was new to the school district and she sed yes. I introduced myself to her and tried to make her feel at home. I figured that if I made her feel at home, we could become friends and maybe more. She's really nice and i like her alot. What should I do now?
just ask her to hang out with you by going to the mall or something one day afetr school. all you gotta do is keep talking to her, strike up a convo with her. talk about her. ask her where she mnoved from and what school she went to. and find out things she likes to do for fun. just kep talking to her, you've already got past the hardest part by introducing your self. so good luck and hope this helps you out.
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okay heres my story! me n my friend went to the beach together n i took her there for her birthday! and we met this guy who we both thought was hott there..i talked to him first cause she was too scared! and he is realli intrested in me and i'm into him too! but i don't wanna hurt my friend! and i feel bad now cause i told her i would take her to the mall when me n him went but i didn't..we went last night but she doesn't know we went cause i know shes gonna get mad! i don't know what to do cause i realli like him! and i've had rough relationships in the past and he feels right for me! and i don't think talkin is gonna do much good with her feelings so instead of talkin to her what else can i do?! i feel kinda bad..but i realli truely like hiM! he's a sweetie!
ugh! help me please! i'll rate high!
Ps:she is just a friend..not a best friend
well i think that you should talk to her... just let her know why you didnt take her. Boyfriends will come and go but a true friend will be there for you until the end. dont let a guy come between you and your friends, its not worth all the trouble and aggrivation you will have to go to. i wouldnt suggest any other way to tell her you went ot together with out her. just talk to her and be honest with her. hope this helps and good luck.
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well i had a bf but my best friend screwed him and i hated her but then i couldnt cuz id miss her as a friend and i hate him and he hates me but what should i do with my friend? should we stay friends wok things out or should i say somthen! its over but im worried for next time! help!
well if you miss her then try and work things out, but you could still let her know how you felt about it. and if your bf cheated on you then dont even worry about him... hes not worth your time or anyones for that matter. you deserve so much better than him. Good luck!
lol- i luv ya sami!! gurls for life!
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I'm going to be a freshman this year, and last year i fell in love with a guy who isn't going to my highschool, but i won't go into details about that. anyway, i don't want a bf this year at all like ever ever ever, but like i don't want guys to think i'm mean or anything, and i don't want to hurt anyones feelings. can i just say no with out guys getting all pi$$ed off?
yes... just tell them your not ready for a relationship right now and ask if you can just be friends with them and then who knows, you might wanna go out with them someday. (if ya get to know them better as friends). good luck
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I've been going out with my boyfriend for a couple months and I very much enjoy kissing him. The problem is, he always makes the first move. Out of all of my boyfriends, I've never made any first moves or anything. I want to just try something new and make my boyfriend realize I'm spontaneous, sexy and not shy. Any kissing techniques I could use on him? I really don't want to come off like I'm trying too hard, but I need help to get over this shy thing I have with my own boyfriend!
well dont be shy... instead of him making the first move then you do it before he does one day. or when he kisses you and the kiss is done go in for another one. i dont know how far you want to go with him or anything so thats about all i can tell ya. hope this helped
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omg ok...im so pissed right now...i was supose to go to the movies with the guy i like today...he has to bring his little bro every where so i was just gonna go with my lil bro too bc ther the same age and all my friends have started skool already...so we planned this 3 days ago..i called n asked wat he wanted to see and he sed a.v.p and i HATE those kinda movies so i was like ok..i was gonna see it bc i wanted ot b with him! so i called n found out the time for it and we agreed to go today (wednesday) ...and we planned this on like monday...and we used to c eachother ALOT but now we just never get around to it and we hold hands n stuff when we do see eachother n hes just sweet and so i was really excited i did chores to get the money n everything...well so i called him yesterday just makin sure he can stil go n he sed he can..so today i called him n he didnt asnwer so i figured he l eft to go...and i got droppd off with my brother and we waited...i kept callin bc there was no answer...and then he called me on his brothers cell and was like..."oh ya i cant go now" i dont have a ride ..i wa slike um ok....and he was like r u mad i was like no and then he was like yaaa...and then he was like o well i can get a ride but its from a gurl ii was like do wat u want..and then he was like ok well ill call her n see if she can take me and ill call u back...AND HE NEVER CALLED ME BACK! he didnt come, call or nothing to let me no wat was going on...so i was stuck seeing avp with my lil brother...im soo mad he hasnt called or nothing..wat shuld i do??
i'm not saying your right about everything but he should of atleast called you and told you what was going on. dont stay mad at him... just call and talk to him and find out the whole story before jumping to conclusions. let him know that you got stuck wathcing that movie with you little brother all by yourself and tell him how you dont like those kind of movies and that5 you oly agreed so you could be with him. then see what he has to say about all of it and try to make plans to do something and tell him if he needs a ride then you'll see if you can give him a ride. just dont stay mad too long and ruin the friendship you have with him.
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ok so theres this new girl at school whos really cool and stuff and she invited me to her birthday party coming up this weekend and i dont know what to get her and when i ask her she just says "oh you dont have to get me anything" which means get me somthing but im not gonna tel you what i want got anyideas for what i should get her?
get her jewlery from like icing or claires or something like that. a gift card to one of her fave stores, a card with money, a cd of her fave singer/group. those would all be good gifts. talk to one of her friends that would be able to tell you some things about her and what she likes.
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okay well i really like this guy lets call him joe, well everytime i look at joe i catch him looking at me and he blushes and his whole face turns red it is really cute anyway well my friend said she would ask him if he was going to the dance and if he would go with me [we are having a dance] i also found out he likes me too. so she asked him and he said no to both questions. what does that mean??
well if you found out he likes you then, no he doesnt hate you. maybe he isnt going because he has other plans or he just doesnt wanna go. try asking him yourself to go to the dance with you and he still says no, then its not he doesnt like you, he just doesnt wanna go to the dance. but i would see if maybe that by you asking him personally face to face would work and if not ten there will be other dances.
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hey sweetie..question!:) my boyfriends birthday is coming up on sep. 3rd..and the same day is our 6 month ann. my first varsity soccer game and his 17th birthday. i already got him gifts, but i wanted to know what else can i get him..or surprise him with. i was going to hang out with him that night and do stuff with him like normal - but make it all about him..but i have my game..are there any little things you can think of? thanks!!
x0x-dani
well since you cant be with im on his birthday then on saturday(the 4th) get together with him and hang out with him. yoiu could take him out to dinner or take him somewhere he likes to go to have fun with you or something like that. or if you can cook, cook him a meal and put a candle on the table or something like that. i am sure he will understand about your game and everything. but when you make plans to get together, tell him its important but yet dont tell him what you have planned. and i am almost sure that with the gifts you already got him and the day you plan to have with him will be good for him. have fun and hope this helps.
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hey my name is sami and im 14. i really like my guy friend as more than a friend *again*. long story short we were going out but then i broke up with him for no good reason. but anyway after he stopped being mad and everything we became good friends again. i try hinting that i like him in my AIM profile and stuff and then he trys to guess who it is. and when he guesses himself i just say no. im too embarassed to say yes cause i dont wanna make our friendship too akward if he doesnt like me too.. ive asked my friends and they dont think i should tell him. i dont know im crazy about him but what should i do? thanks in advance. -sami-
just tell him. when he guesses, just say yes and explain to him that you didnt want to tell him because if he dint feel the same way abput you again then you dint want to make him feel uncomfortable about being friends. just follow your heart, tell him. good luck and if ya need anything else, leave one in the inbox or IM me.
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Ok if u have sex in a pool or like in the shower pretty much in water and u dont wear a condom can n e thign happen like when the guy busts?!?!?!?!
plz answer and DONT delete!!!!!!
NEED TO KNO!!!!!
yes... it doesnt matter where you are, you can still get pregnant. so be safe and use protection.
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does age matter cause im 13 almost 14 n i like a 17 year old n a 18 year old n my friend is bout ready to get me n the 18 year old out..plz help me
yes at this age it does, becuase your a minor and he is not. he could get in some serious trouble over you. so play it smart!
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I like this new kid at school a lot its taken forever to have new people come and hes really hott! We have a lot of fun together and he is my neighbors best freind... so i talk to him wenever i talk to my neighbor n stuff... and hes soo funny and nice, but i dont think he really likes me "that way" like when we're around eachother hes soo funnny and sweet... but i think that he likes one of my other friends and i think she sorta likes him and that makes really mad as happy as i should be for the two of them it makes me mad especially considering im the one that intorduced them... if i would have known they were gonna swoon i would have never done it! But what do u think i should do about him should just continue talking to him or should i like tell him or what? please help!
well if he really likes her and she realy likes him htey are onna hook up either way, with or with out you saying something. talk to him and if he just wants to be friends with you then just be friends and as for your friend, just be happy for her and be there for the both of them if they need you.
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I am 15 years old and have never had a boyfriend. Is that normal?
yah, its normal. there are alot of people at your age who havent had a bf/gf yet... dont worry about it tho. your day will come. dont compare your self to some one else who has had many bf/gf's in your age group. just be you and it'll happen one day.
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