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Many of my friends say that I am a good listener and advice giver. Because I have experienced many good and bad situations, I know what it is like to feel down or confused. I am a mother, daughter, sister, girl friend, and friend. And if I can't figure out how to answer a question, I'm sure I know someone who can. And I've come to notice that most of the questions people ask they already know the answer to, they just need a little reassurance. But I will warn you that my policy is, if you ask a stupid question, you will get a stupid answer. But i will say that it is my joy to help anyone with a real problem, so ask away!




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Im moving in a few months, i hate it that i have to leave all my friends and everyone. i mean ill never forget them but im scared well loose touch and i dont want that. and when i go 2 a new school im gonna be so scared i hate it! ahh im so scared!

relax! you'll get usedot it and you'll be fine.

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how can i check what people rated my answers?????????????????

click on view feed back on your column

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when is the best time to have sex without having to worry about getting pregnet?

there never is. there is always a chance of getting pregnant. trust me. get on birth control or atleast always use a condom

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my boyfriend is really short, its kinda embarresing to be seen w/ him, and his breath always smells bad! what should i do?!

stick a piece of gum in his mouth and make him wear high heels

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what the heck does "I'll rate you" mean?

its a death threat... dont answer those questions that say that

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do guys like no pubic hair or pubic hair on a girl down there? i need a guy to answer this one.

some guys do and some guys dont... just depends on the guy

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okay so, i have an inny penis, and my girlfriend wants to get into my pants, i do not want her to be disapointed with my problem, what should i do?

if she really likes you she wont have a problem with it

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okay... if u go to ur regular doctor or u gyno. can one or the other or botht tell that u have been fingered, or nething happen down there... lol??

no they can not. technically a doctor can not even detect if you still have your virginity unless you have already had a child, otherwise you would have to tell them you weren't a virgin. the only other way they can suspect any sexual activity is if you ddi it the same day b4 you went to your appointment. hope that helped.

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Me and my girlfriend have been goin out for 2 weeks but last night she wanted to fuck but my dick was monsterous she changed her mind and left, how do i fix this problem?? The bigger the better right?

well how old are you guys? if she is still young then she probably got scared by your big thingy. in some cases the bigger the better, but if shes frightened, maybe you should tell her you be careful or something and use a lubricant (not vaseline). good luck! :)

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heyy i just got my first bf about a month ago but i broke up with him in lyk 4 days! i did not feel lyk i was ready for a relationship and even though my parents said it was ok i knew that they were not thrilled about it! He got mad at me a i felt really bad! What do i do not?

P.S. I am goin to a party later this week and ik he is goin to be there idk what to say to himeven though he knows my reason for brekin up with him! plz help me!!

well if you werent ready to be in a relationship then you werent ready. its good that you trust your inner instict, it will help you alot more in the future. and as for seeing your ex at the party, just be like whats up? small talk, nothing serious. and if you feel really uncomfortable talking to him then dont.

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whats a innie dick?

i have no clue. but if its any thing like a innie belly button, i'm sure its strange looking and probably small.

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On my advice column it doesnt show my average ratings even though i have been rated. Could someone help me figure out the problem?? thanks a bunch! Twizzler

just wait a while the next time the site gets udated or whatever it will change. mines has said the same rating for the past like 2 days and i have been rated more since then. so just wait its no big deal you're ratings arent gonna go anywhere.

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ok me and my guy friends girl friend became like best friends and we really wanned to sleep at my house but when ur parents found out that i have a step father they said no. and that i could only sleep at her house....what should we do to try and get her to sleep at my house?

she needs to talk to her parents about being so over protective. alot of people have dads or step dads. maybe you shoild have them meet your parents so that way they can see that they are people that they can trust.

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can you have sex while your on your period?

sure you can, but it might get a little messy

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well me and my bf tried to have sex the other day, but by the time he got the condom on he wasnt that hard anymore..any sudgestions to keep him hard for awhile..or can u not do that?..i gave him a hj afterwards..but that didnt help much..

yeah you're probbaly gonna ahve to give him head

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my friends were all at a party.. and they started talking smack about some ppl they didnt like... these happend to be my friends.. so i just sat there and didnt say anything.. later i went and told my friends what others were saying .. and now some ppl are mad at me.... i meean shouldnt they be careful about who there talking crap about... well i apoligized and told um sorry.. but there still mad... plus get this.. last time someone was talking shti at a party it was about me.. and im glad someone told me... so waht do i do...? signed tell the truth?

~*a*M*y*~

so what they shouldnt have been talking about anyone if they didnt want any shit to go down

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i am dating my mom's brother's cousin's grandpa's son's daughter, are we related?

no

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hi. im a model and im very thin. im about 5'6 and only 98 pounds (good matobolism, im not anerexic) and everyone thinks im anerexic, and i dont really care. the only thing is theres this fat girl who tortures me. shes ALWAYS calling me anerexic girl n anerexic n stuff. she even writes it on my stuff when im not looking. i no shes jealous but its so annoying!! what should i do! shes even threatening to come to my modeling shoots! :( ahh

smack that fat bitch in the face

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how do you get the absolute freshest breath for like, the whole day? im tired of having bad breath after lunch and stupid things that shouldnt even cause me to get stinky breath. any products? like: gum, toothpaste, mouthwash, toothbrushes, methods of cleaning, mints, etc!

ice breakers gum or listerine pocket strips or altoids mint or gum

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15 female..been dateing for bout 3 months
me and my boyfriend fight almost every nite! n sometimes they get pretty damn bad! mean we love each other more then anything in the world...and almost all the fights are started by me...and we hate fighting i mean we hate it more then anything in the wrold! and i'm so scared that were going to get into one fight and that will be it! i mean me and him have been trough so damn much! and i'm jst terrified that i'm going to lose him...but he tells me that no matter wat he want leave me...but sometimes the way he gets mad at me makes me think his bout to break up w/ me...but he tells me that he has never got that mad at me....wat can i do to stop us from fighting so much...cuz we hate fighting

okay well when something really gets to you, try not to bring it out. try to avoid fighting. but you have to remeber that fighting is okay because after you are all done you always learn something new and making up is the best.

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