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I'm a 14 yrs old girl, my boyfriend and i have been going out for about 2 months now and he's changed. He also thought i was cheating on him because i thought we were broken up so i told another boy we would talk. well I know my boyfriend still likes me and i still like him too. He never shows emotion like i never kno if he's mad sad or if he even cares but i know he cares. Since i don't kno he gets mad a lot. We also hardly talk and now he's talking about sex. Which i've been thinking about but why should i give him what he wants if he doesn't give me what i want someone to talk to. Should I stay with him to find out why he acts this way or if somethings going on that I don't know? or Should leave him alone and find someone new? but you have to keep in mind he doesn't tell me alot so there is alot I don't know about him.

Well, it sounds like he's not very open with you. The most important thing in a relationship, is communication. Communication is one thing you two don't have. If he's thinking about DOING IT, then he doesn't care about anything else. Tell him that you like him alot, but you need to get to KNOW him better before it goes any further.


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i have to write a research paper on Maya Angelou and how she influenced the world. and i cannot find a thing! like literally. i've only found one thing and i really need to get a good grade on this! so will anyone please just give me ideas if you've ever done something on her and i know this is completely wrong to be getting ideas from someone else but i am in complete need for it! thank youu

She inspired people all over the world to set goals and try their best to reach them. She told people about her travels over the world, and her triumphs. This made the people want to acheive their goals.

Thats all i really know lol.


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ok this is long but PLZ resond!! ok, my best friend rachel is all over and obsessed with this guy in my class named tyler and he is a jerk and she doesnt see that. SHe thinks that all the disgusting things and weird things he does is hot. well I he hates her because she is so into him and he knows it. he is now bragging to alot of ppl that she is obsessed and i know ahe is going to be hurt really really bad, you know haow much she likes him, she thinks he is hotter than jesse mccartney and well I hate both and I try to tell her that thier are alot of other guys out there but she wont listen and all she wants is him!!! what do i do to help MY BESTFRIEND!!!

I know it's not good to lie to your best friend, but sometimes you NEED to, just to knock some sense into them. Tell her that he thinks she's weird and stuff. Also tell her he HATES girls who are obsessed with him. It will defiently make her stop being obsessed and mellow out.


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ok well im 13 and i like this guy and me and him have been hanging out alot and he was my first kiss,first makeout,first person to finger me,first person to eat me out all this in like 3 months that we have known each other. he isnt a virgin and he told me that he wanted to be my first everything and i said ok because i really do love him and he claimed that he loved me and he swore to god that he wasnt using me. well the last time me and him hung out was like 3 weeks ago and that was like the 4th time he fingered me and i swear im not a slut but now hes ingnoring me because one of my friends got him really mad so he took it out on me and now he doesnt like me anymore but i want him to and i try to get over him but i just cant.
what should i do??

Uhm, you're 13. you shouldn't be letting him take advantage of you like that. Just give him some space and if you notice that he QUICKLY forgives you && wants to finger you again. he's DEFIENTLY using you!


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Whats a good sport for me. I like to run...a lot. But I feel like thats not enough. I am very scared of balls though. Even a Ping Pong ball...so I really dont know what to do!!

AM

P.S. something cheap...I cant really afford expensive equiptment.

Track is good.
Track or swimming. Even though swimming has NOTHING to do with running, it keeps your legs in shape!

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K so I hung out with this kid today.. and we amidiatly hit it off (that I know of) and we hung out all day. and he held me and we kissed and everything.. But he always teases me by looking at me but not kissing me and just looking away in a teasing way. Well Im not sure if he likes me if he is playing me or what. I have really bad trust isues because I have been hurt by so many guys. I would really like to think he really likes me, because If so id like to go out with him maybe! What should I do? Im going to be seeing him tomorrow also!

Well if he looks away and teases you and smiles and KISSES you, that most likely means he likes you! the next time he teases you, just be like "but you'd go out with me, right?" and say it quickly and then stare at him for ahwile and wait for his reply.

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I've got some questions on how to do a back walk-over. You start with the back bend, but I haven't been able to bring my legs up and over. Does anyone have any tips of exercises or anything that can just help me to do it?

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blue_bunny

Try stretching your legs and try to gete your back into shape. If you buy SEVENTEEN magazine, they have some exercises in them that strecthes your body.

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please dont judge me for this iam looking 4 help not to be yelled at. i am 15 and a smoke. i want to knoe how can i quit?

There are a lot of different ways to stop. Try some of these.

1. chew LOTS of sugarless gum instead of poppin a cigarette.

2. try Nicotine Gum or a Nicotine Patch

I know im 13 but like. i just researched these for you.

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im 16.. im in love with a guy that is 15. we went out for 4 months. but ive known him for almost 3 years now. i lost my virginity to him. one day we did it and everything was normal. the next day he calls me and says, "lets take a break, then when i think we are ready to make this a serious thing ill ask you back out." i was just like um okay? well then a couple days later i hear hes going out with some chick from his school. so hes "taking a break with me" to go out with some other chick. that really hurt me. because im in love with him. well i saw him and he didnt say anything to me. he kept like 10 feet away from me. and i was pissed off about the whole situation. then the next day i call him to talk about everything going on and he called me a b**** and i was like why are you calling me that? and he was like i heard what you said to people last night about me. i was like what did you hear? hes like you just trash-talked about me the whole night to my friends and family. and he hung up on me. so i call him back and left him a message, because he didnt answer, and i was crying and i said "the only thing i said to anyone was that i was in love with you". and that is the first time i told him how i felt about him. ive never told him i was in love with him before. and i havent heard from him since. what should i do about this whole situation and the next time i see him? and i see him quite often because my mom works for his dad. i dont know what to do PLEASE help. this may turn into suicide. he was the only thing i had.

Furst off hun, don't commit suicide over a guy. I know it's hard to live without someone loving us nonstop. Try to schedule an all girls night out. It will help clear your mind. To me, it seems like he used you just for the sex. I know guys suck sometimes, but we still love em. Don't try crawling back to him, just keep it low and he'll miss you sooner or later, if you two had something.
He's just a player.

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i just got braces about a month ago and i keep breaking them! does anyone know how much it costs to get braces repaired? i have regular metal ones and he glue came off. i rate high

Well, about the breaking issue. Try not to eat hard candy or anything chewy for awhile. Tell your dentist that you keep having trouble with them, and he/she will most likely try to fix the problem. Some dentists repair them for free, and some charge. It shouldn't cost that much, but again, just depends.

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This guy that I'm friends with invited me and another girl over to his house to watch a hockey game. Well I had already made plans with my father to go to the show, so I couldnt go. Well my the other girl (who has a severe crush) on this guy didnt have a problem with going alone without me to his house.
Well anyways I found out the next day that he was choked at me because he had to give my friend money for a cab ride home, since she doesnt have a car. I have a car but couldnt give her a ride there and back because I had already made plans with my dad. This guy is acting really cold towards me now.
Well I have two theories about why this happened. Either A: he's jealous I have a good relationship with my father, or B. He likes me as more than a friend and was upset that I didnt go to his house? And maybe he just invited the other girl cause he's shy and would be more comfortable with her and me there?
Either way, I think he was being a jerk. The other thing I thought was maybe something happened between my friend who has the crush on him that night. Like maybe she made a pass at him, or was telling him nasties about me.
What do you think is going on?

I think he's mad that you turned him down. Truthfully, I don't think he likes your friend, and I don't think it has anything to do with your dad. Talk to your friend and see what went on. If she says that he talked about YOU alot, he was just mad that you didn't join him to watch the game, which typically means yeah he likes you!

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Here goes my story I already know this girl for almost two years now and lately she is quite acting really wierd for the past three months now.. It goes like this I usually hear my name with one of her friends. Whenever I get close to her,her friends kinda laugh and they do some signallings with her. I usually catch her staring at me or doing eye contact.. And one thing she really cares for me like always keeps on telling me what things to do, What to wear and etc...At one time we have this contest about a play in English class.. At the back stage she suddenly said that she wants to put her hankerchief inside my pocket oh for pete's sake she could just put it inside her own pocket.. Im quite sure her pockets is empty.. And sometimes whenever I tease her she get's really mad Im mean not that Mad like in joking manner..and to top it all off when me and my classmates went on a practice at her house I notice something's wrong I noticed that all her relatives (ie, uncle,cousins,her mom) kinda smile at me and stared at me for a few seconds maybe she told her relatives about me. Well that's about it well I could put more examples but it's gonna be quite too long for just an advice hope this helps..

She might like you. Girls tell their family members more things than boys do. Girls are more open. (( sometimes anyway haha)) if you have feelings for this girl, try talking to her. Flirt with her. If she flirts back and giggles, then she has a crush on you. Don't make it obvious that you think she likes you.

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Well this guy, he asked me out and then we dated, for a week and a half, until i kind of thought he was getting closer to my friend, Emma.I talked to him on msn and asked him if he liked her, but he didnt say anything and then i go "Look i dont care about anything, all i want to know is do you still love me?" and he goes "Look there is no point, you have lost my trust what more can you lose?" and i go "I just want to know Do you like Emma?" and he said "Im sorry i cannot go out with you anymore." and he dumped me. Then next week, he blocked me and deleted me on msn..oh and he looks at me alot in class. We were playing volleyball in sport, and he would look at me alot and yeah. My other friend is in his roll call class and she said he looked upset in roll call class after he dumped me..Please help!! and also he is a goth

Well, first of all. He had no reason to get mad at you for asking about your friend Emma. Try writing him a note telling him you're sorry, but you just felt weird about him if he liked Emma, and that you didn't lose your trust.

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I know this sounds really weird, but is it normal to have a little crush on a character in a movie? Not the actor, but the character. Because, I have no idea why, but I kind of have a crush on the Phantom from "Andrew Lloyd Webber's Phantom..." I don't know why. Maybe it's because he's so dramatic, you really feel for him, has a great voice, and/or the unmasked side of his face is goodlooking. Is this pathetic?

Haha no it's not pathetic! Don't worry.
I think some characters are cute too!

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is there a way to use animation shop 3 to make graphics like http://www.boomspeed.com/paleslypink/glitter_1.htm ??
thanks

Yes there is. Here's a tutorial to make glitter graphics.

1. goto http://cutehuggelz.org/thugdrop.html
2. scroll down until you find tutorials
3. click on glitter sigs
4. good luck!






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HOW do i get a layout for my advice column????
i really want one.. and im a 14/girl who is really girly and fun to be around.. and how do i set it up. lol
love .mystery.me.

on the lft side of adviceenators, there's a thing that says Miscellaneous. click page backgrounds and read and follow the instructions!

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Hi,
Well can some one tell me some good song I've been listening to the same old one forever and I need some new one.

Here's some good songs:

dirty little secret- all american rejects
my humps- black eyed peas
so predictable- good charlotte

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i am a 14 year old girl who has REALLY SUCKY & UNRELiABLE friends. i really need to make new ones, but its just so hard. im trying to become more outgoing but its hard !! ANY ADViCE ?!!?!

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Aw im sorry about your ahem EX friends haha but here are some tips to making new ones

first say hi and then just ask them abiut their interests and get to know them. see if they want to hang out with you sometime soon. if they say yes, you're really close to having a new friend!

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im doing a math project and i need a creative way to display my notes. i have 21 topics, and i could do a poster or powerpoint, but i want to do something more creative. any ideas?
ALL FIVES

make a collage!


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what's a good place to get cute/funny/at least interesting icons?
the 100x100 pixel ones

Try these sites!

http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=taylor_jaye_01

or

http://www.xanga.com/A_icons


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