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How Do I get over the drama at work??? Everyday I wake up in the morning, My body is so tense from the nerves because I have to go to work and experience the same drama. I'm actually still in training too so the drama is intense. It's really hard for me to relax too knowing that I have to go through the same phase everyday at work. (link)
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I worked at a restaurant as a hostess...and I know what you mean. Drama, Drama, and Drama. It was so much there were days where I would call in sick because of the drama. If thats the case you need to either try and stay from it meaning don't talk to those people or get involved with the drama. Maybe go talk to someone about it, if you're getting tense before work then theres a definitely a problem. Or in the meantime keep working and look for a new job...if its that bad you need to make a change. It got so bad for me I looked for a new job and left and I haven't been back there since. Good luck! :)
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i asked a question a few days ago about my boyfriend not calling me for a while. and everyone who answered told me to either give him some time or call him to see whats up, like he might be testing me to see if i would call him. anyways, i didnt really pay attention to the advice but then after a week of absolutely nothing from him, i decided to try it. i called him, and no one answered. and then i called again, and the phone stopped ringing abruptly and went dead. so i'm assuming he ignored my call, which means he ISN'T testing me, and he's actually mad about something.
for those of you who didnt answer my question or didnt see my question before, i will tell you guys now i have not the slightest idea of why he'd be mad at me. i don't remember being a brat or a bitch about anything to being mean at all. and the last time i talked to him was on new years eve when he told me we couldnt hang out that night. i was a little disappointed because he had invited me over when there was a possibility that he'd have other plans, which i thought was rude. isn't it? or was i the one out of line? anyways, we didnt fight about it, i just told him "whatever, i'll talk to you later" he said bye, and i hung up. and now he won't talk to me.
can someone give me any ideas on what to do/say/think/believe/wait for? thanks again, and if anyone answered my question before, thanks so much, but i hope you won't mind answering again ^.^ (link)
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This guy sounds REALLY immature if thats why he's mad! I would ignore him and I know its hard but honestly it doesn't sound like this guy is for you anyway...and I know you don't want to hear it but look at what he's doing now? How can you trust him that he won't do it again? If he's going to be this way don't bother...he's either craving attention or he's just being a jerk. I would say move on and do what you gotta do...who knows when he's going to stop being a total idiot. Good luck!
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So me and my bff went out with the same guy (not at the same time) and she still likes him and so do i... i think he like me in a friendly way and her in "that way" but id' rather be w/ him because she gets hurt and falls in love w/ guys at this young age (13) but i dont take it seriously and i dont want her to be w/ him because she falls for guys too easily instead of just being a kid and having (non-sexual) fun yuhknow? so do you think im jealous???huh? (link)
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I think it would be stupid to have a guy get in the way of your friendship. No guy is worth losing a friendship over and if he's being a jerk he's definitely not worht yours or her time. Personally I think you shoudl get rid of the guy and concentrate on more important things...like your friendship and having fun there is plenty of time to date. Plus guys at 13 are pretty immature...well most of them! Good luck! :)
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I take my sadness out on myself. I don't eat normally like other people. I know it's bad. But I can't stop thinking about it. The calories, the food, it's always in my head. But I'm so happy when I weigh a little. Like today I weighed 103 and I was in a good shock. I was scared that I might weigh more, but I weighed less.
I know that people view this as hurtful and I know in some part of me that it is. But it's not so simple. I like to see my bones. I like to not fit in a size 1. And I joke about my thinness with my friends. But it's not always a joke. I still see that pouch on my belly and I hate it.
I don't hate myself. Today I found that I looked beautiful. I haven't seen such a beautiful me in a long time. And I thought for a moment that I do love myself because I have a beautiful face. I don't have to be like these people whose lives I wish I was living instead of mine. There are individuals that I idolize, certain people, I wish I could be like them. But today I thought it's okay to be me. But these people aren't skinny necessarily. That's not why I do it. I just feel happy when I am thin.
I am not looking to tell my parents about this. They already force me to eat more. I don't even think I can change this. It's a part of me now. And I honestly don't think that any advice can change it. (link)
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When I'm sad I don't eat either...I lose my appetite and I just don't eat or even eat very little. The thing is its just whatever you're not hurting yourself its just how you cope...so what if you lose a couple of pounds...just make sure its not 10 in a week. Maybe you should just talk to someone about it if you feel sad often. I've recently lost some weight but now I've maintained a diet that is healthy and works for me!
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Hi, I want to get into human resources. The reason I want to get my dimploma online is becasue I want to go at my own pace becasue im working full time. I was wondering if anyone knows of any online schools that offer a diplome in Human Resource and your advice on online schooling? (link)
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I know that Northeastern University has ways to earn your degree online.
Here is what I think you are looking for:
http://www.cps.neu.edu/bs_human/
Hope I helped!
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Not actually 'with' this guy, we just hang out/ text and stuff, only when we do, it;s never really great or good conversation, it's mostly just physical stuff..He only really texts when he wants something, and seems uninterested, I'm not dumb, I'm thinking to ditch this guy.
Opinions? (link)
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Ditch him! He's not worth it...be with someone whose not such a jerk!
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This isn't a cry for advice, I just wanted all y'all to have a Happy New Year! (link)
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Happy New Year! :)
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My condom broke while I had sex with my girlfriend yesterday, what do I do? (link)
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First off you need to tell her! Its important that you tell her and of course support her. She needs to be told though as soon as possible.
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im 15 years old and in the 9th grade ive been best friend with this girl named rebecca, we've been best friends since 6th grade and we were pretty much inseperable! we hung out every chance we could, she's slowly starting to change though and now its like she doesnt even want to hangout with me anymore. everytime i ask her to hang out with me shes always like ''i cant im grounded'' or ''my moms being gay and wont let me do anything'' and then like 20 minutes later on myspace she'll post her status as hanging out with so and so! when she just told me she was grounded. why would she lie to me? i mean i understand shes going to have other friends but that doesnt mean she has to get rid of all of her old ones.i'd rather her tell me the truth then lie to me, if she doesnt want to hangout with me i'd rather her just tell me instead of her just making some lame excuse! i mean why would she tell me shes grounded and then post that on myspace when not only is she my friend on there but i was online too! im her only true friend and she treats me like dirt, she doesnt even talk to me at school she just walks past me and looks at me. she took me off her top and everytime i try taking to her shes really short with me expecially when shes with her other friends. i even bought her something for christmas i messaged her on myspace saying that i got her a gift and that if she wanted me to i would bring it by after my mom gets off. all she replied back with is i have a friend over and then she signed off! i still havent been able to give her gift, because she still has no time for me. i want to confront her about it but i have no idea what to say i dont want her to hate me because she is my best friend i just dont know what to do. i actually care about our friendship and is willing to do anything i can to fix it so any advice will help! (link)
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Whoa! A very similar situation happened to me with a girl who use to be my best friend. We were so close since 3rd grade...but once we got to junior high things were different. She started hanging out with a new crowd and I felt like I was left behind. We would talk but it wasn't the way it use to be. I ended bringing up the situation to her but she didn't want to hear it and didn't care! Right now we're no longer friends...I'm civil to her but I don't talk to her much its a shame. I miss the times we had and it took me a while to get over it and start hanging out with other people. My advice to you is tell her the truth, tell her how you're feeling and how you don't like hows she's treating you. And if she isn't going to even bother with it then sadly you need to move on. I know its hard to hear that and that you couldn't possibly see your life without her but some people change. Some people come in and out of our lives for a reason...at least I believe that. The truth is if there is a friendship two people need to make it work it can't just be one.
Just be honest with her and talk to her face to face and say what you need to. She is your friend afterall you should be able to talk to her about anything. Good Luck!
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Hello im 18/f i want to become more healthier right now i eat alot of fast food and i drink a ton of pop and little water. I'm 5'6 and 143 pound and i want to lose a few pounds and not just lose weight but become healthier. I'm just wondering what are foods that are very good for you when you're trying to diet i've heard high protein low calories and carbs. Any examples for food that i could eat regularly would be appreciated! Thanks I rate! (link)
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Well first you might want to cut down on the soda and go for more water. I found that to be a great help...I was so addicted to soda now I only have it on special occasions every chance I get I drink water everyday. I also have wheat bread instead of white bread, I eat yogurt with granola, and fruits and veggies. I LOVE stir fry. Another thing is portions of the food you eat! Excercising is also VERY important...I walk everyday! Good luck!
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i'm seventeen and i'm just living my life. going out to parties, hanging out, you know just living.
what are some songs about being young and just living life?
stuff like seventeen forever by metro station and forever young by we the kings.
i like really soft music. some of the favourite artists are: jason mraz, john mayer, nevershoutnever, owl city ... you know stuff like that. (link)
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You know what you might enjoy is the new OneRepublic CD! The music on there is very soft there are some beats on some of the songs but for the msot part its soft. The lyrics are really great too! The one song I can think of that you might like is Good Life by OneRepublic which is one that CD. Hope I helped! :)
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i was in love...scratch that...i AM in love.. completely head over heels...and i know it wasn't infatuation, it was love. and to top it all it was my first love. this guy was amazing and treated me like a princess...like it sounds corny but i felt like i could fly when i was with him. we dated for over a year then like a couple months before we broke up, he just changed...he would blow me off to do absolutely nothing...then he dumped me because he said it wasn't fair to me, which i agree...but i have this hole in my heart and it won't go away...and its been 3 months since we broke up...
he also tells me he doesn't believe in love lasting forever. his parents are getting divorced so i could see where he's coming from, i think this is a big thing to do with it but i don't want to seem desperate for him back...but its so hard....i've already tried talking to him about it but it seems like he's made up his mind that he doesn't want to be in a relationship...advice? anything will help ...thanks. (link)
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It hurts there are times where anger is a huge emotion then being sad because the guy isn't with you. Its time for you to move on and but take some time to yourself. The heart will mend day by day and with the help of your friends. I love having guy freinds i can depend on who make me feel better about the situation. It can be really rough when you can't be with the one you want the most but in the end you realize it was their mistake and their loss. Sooner or later the guy will realize what an idiot he was with what he let go. Take sometime to yourself and hang out with friends! Good luck and Happy Holidays!
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I found out today that my ex-boyfriend from a couple years ago was invited to the same small new year's party as me. I haven't been able to stand being around him since we broke up, and every time I'm in a room with him, we end up fighting. I would love to hear anyone's suggestions as to how I can work through these bad emotions. I really don't want my new year's eve to be ruined by negative feelings for one person. I get really worked up every time I even think about being around him, though. How can I stay calm? (link)
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Its hard. I've been there done that... its hard to have a simple conversation with an experience from my experience he still has feelings. Well the best way to handle it is be the bigger person be civil with him. For example "Hey _____! Hows it going? Listen can we just call a truths?" Or something to that affect tell him you don't want to ruin the new year and that be civil with each otehr maybe hard but youboth can work it out. If he refuses or is just being ignorant than just ignore and go have fun with other people. In the end its his loss not yours.
Good luck and Happy Holidays!
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i hope this is the right category.
16/f
sorry its so long.
so this is the story: my (ex)bofriend and i met in a class that we have together and we fell hard and fast for each other. i love him. he has a terrible home life and he told me was moving so we decided to break up so it wouldnt so hard when he left, but i still loved him and it was sohard to see him everyday and know that i'm not with him. shortly after we got back together because he said hes not moving. i was so happy, the happiest i've ever been in my life. i was attracted to him in everyway physically and mentally. i loved about him the most that we had the same perspective on EVERYTHING and we could talk forever and about everything, it was astounding. but because of his deteriorating health and home life he says he cant be in a relationship but he still has feelings for me. i never cry because it doesnt solve anything and i hate it, but i cried so hard the night we brokeup i'm so crushed. i used to cut and i feel so depressed that i just want to go really deep but i dont want to start that addiction again. i really dont know how get past this, everyone says its going to get better, i'm sure it will but i dont know how to deal with my broken heart. any words of wisdom is welcomed. thanks (link)
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I know how you feel. There was this guy I dated and his home life wasn't great either in the end he broke up with me and I was devastated. I felt as if I lost a huge part of me because we talked about everything. He was my first kiss and my first boyfriend I felt so much for him I wasn't in love with him but he was a big part of my life. Sometimes in life you can't control things...things happen for a reason and we need to accept it. Your ex boyfriend's home life isn't good right now which might have affected you in the long run. Maybe it was best to end it because things may have gotten complicated...I understand however that you still have feelings. The thing is though is that maybe this was for the best maybe this was a good thing. A broken heart is hard to deal with it but it will soon mend and before you know it you'll look back and remember the good times you had. For now though take care of you and talk to someone because you don't want to go back to those addictions. Good luck and Happy Holidays!
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How do you get over someone you still love but you know you aren't right with? (link)
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You're always going to have that feeling for them but it might not be as strong as before. I realized in certain relationships there were things that I didn't notice while being in them. Maybe there was something about the guy that was something that strained the relationship or maybe something was lacking. Whatever it was towards the end of each relationship I realized I could do better and be with someone better. And although there are no prince charmings among us I have to believe there is someone out there for me and when it happens it happens. I still care for the people I've dated whether I talk to them or not...but they weren't the right ones and in time the right one will come. It takes time but it will happen. Good luck and Happy Holidays!
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i have a pretty good voice. not trying to brag but thats the fact.
however, i am absolutely TERRIFIED of singing in front of anyone...like i don't know why, i'll sing with my friends like jokingly and stuff but i don't sing seriously...but i kind of want to. and my ex boyfriend is really into singing and when we were dating i promised him that i'd sing to him but we broke up shortly after...but i kinda want to....soo how can i overcome this fear? (link)
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I was a vocalist in high school...the feeling of being on stage is definitely a HUGE rush. I love having the lights on me...the audience in attention and the music blaring...but I quit. The stupidiest thing I ever did. I quit because of a guy and I always to this day regret it...I know I'm still young enough to start but it was just something that always stops me. I use to sing to my ex all the time and my other ex boyfriends would always encourage me to sing. To this day my first boyfriend stops me from singing.
If you practice in your room and start singing infront of friends you'll adjust. It can be very terrifying but remember that you shouldn't be. If you have a great voice use it and know that practicing infront of friends or family will help you. It takes time its not going to happen suddenly you have to work at it. Maybe after posting this I'll figure out something that will get me back into music. Don't give it up! Good luck and Happy Holidays! :)
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So my boyfriend never pays for me, like when we go out to eat or out to the movies. It's not like he doesnt have the money, im pretty sure he does. Anyway, I dont really care, but my parents are so judgemental, they think that its only appropriate for a guy to at least offer. what do i do? I wouldnt let him pay for everything, of course, but it would make me feel better if he offered. Opinions? (link)
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I agree with your parents he should know that a guy always offers to pay...even my guy friends that take me out and offer to pay. You can refuse which is fine but him not doing that is showing he isn't well-mannered. Talked to him and see if you can figure out a solution because if he is dating you he should take you out on dates and pay the bill as well. Good Luck and Happy Holidays!
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ok sooo i have a bf and i love him..we have been datin for 1yr..weve beenthrough everything together...but heres the thing...there are to other guys that like me....and i might like them...i get butterflies in my stomach when im around them...and i dont know wat to do??? plz help!?!!? (link)
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Well first off you need to be honest with yourself do you really care for these guys or are they just cute. Weigh the pros and cons about your boyfriend and about the two guys. Are you serious with your boyfriend to the point of possibly wanting to marry him? You need to figure things out but you also need to be honest with yourself and your boyfriend. Before you make a huge decision think about it...and then talk to your boyfriend about it. Good luck and Happy Holidays!
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this is kind of a weird question but I was wondering if anyone knows of a movie with a really good sex scene in it. Not a porn movie or anything like that, just a regular movie with a pretty steamy sex scene like the note book or something. Thanks! (link)
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I would say "Cruel Intentions" check it out it has Reese Witherspoon and Ryan Phillipe!
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Is it normal to worry a lot about someone when you're in a relationship with them?
Been around 2 years and I worry a lot about something happening to him...like if he's not with me and stops texting me for an hour or so I worry that he got into a car accident or something (not ridiculous, he drives really fast sometimes and often drives very tired).
It's under control, I don't like call him freaking out or anything, but I still worry. Is this normal or not? (link)
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Of course it's normal to worry. Don't the worrying ruin your life though...maybe you should talk to someone if its gets out of control. Maybe talk to your boyfriend and let him know whats going on. Of course its normal to worry though. Hope I helped a little! Happy Holidays!
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