Iam a girl with black hair and gray eyes. I like to go to the gym to workout because it relieves stress. I like to help people no problem whatever they ask I won't judge people I'm just a person willing to give you some advice that's all. I think its important to have a good education and a good carrer in life. I want this world to be peaceful which is one of my biggest dreams!I'm back!I apologize to you all for not being able to help you guys in need for help whatever help you ask for just write me in my inbox,I'll answer as soon as possible.
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ok well i got put in one class with the guy i like and i told this one girl i liked him and i was soooooo stupid to tell her cause she CANNOT keep a sercret at all and she is so annoying and im in 3 classes with her what do i do? and my "friends" asked me to sit with them at lunch but i said idk bkuz i dont really want to i want to sit with other people and make new friends and they are putting really gay people at our table and i want to say if there is enuff room ((kuz its 5 on one sdie and 5 on the other)) to invite the girls who i want to sit with over so what do i do?? cause they might have a big group
i will rate REALLY high if you give me long and good answeres!! (link)
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You have to tell your friends that you don't feel comfortable but it's not them it's some else and tell them you can't say who just not to get into problems.But if this keeps on happening you have to be honest with your friends otherwise you would probably have to sit with those people.Tell only your friends to join in the other group you want to talk to but not the ones you don't want to be near have your friends help you with that little problem.If they want to sit with people that are gay ,since you don't like that than hang out with other friends like the other big group.That's what I would do.
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Okay, my brother moved to North Carolina with his gf and his friend [for school] And I met his friend's brother. He's a couple of years older than me. He was visiting them in North Carolina the same time I was and we slept on the couch together and watched tv almost everynight. I think i like him, but I wanna know if he likes me too. He's kinda shy though, so I don't know how to exactly like bring it up and talk about it. It kinda gets me nervous. I have his screen name though, and next year we're going to go to the same school. What should I do to approach him with this?
*I rate high (link)
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Basically make a friend, if you see him again,get your friend to talk to him for you.Tell her to tell him that you would want to be able to get to know him a lot better about him.Or try talking to him when he is alone about why is he quiet then I'm sure he'll respond back and if you're shy too then tell him and you will both have something in common which is good for a start!Give him a compliment to him, he will thank you and even give you a compliment too!
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Alright, there's this kid that I've known for like more than a year. I met him when I went over one of my best friends house. He lives like next to her. So we would always go over and chill with him and his sister. We have sooo much fun. But the other night I decided to sleep over his house. So we stayed up all night and we kinda cuddled and he knows I like him a lot, but he won't tell me how he feels. Like from the other night I have a feeling he likes me, but I wanna know for sure. What should I do? I like really like him and I see him and talk to him a lot. Also I can be myself around him.
Please help, I rate high for good answers. (link)
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You need to tell him if he likes you or if he smiles a lot at you or see his eyes glow or sparkles in his eyes its because he really I mean really is into you.Ask about his family,things he enjoys doing,hobbies,what makes him happy,and other things you could talk about.It is best to be yourself most guys like that about a girl.It makes a girl look honest with herself.
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to lose stomach fat, is walking the same as running? im not very good at running and i really want to lose my stomach fat so can i just walk? will walking help me lose my stomach weight? (link)
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It will help but not that much running is more effective.When I had to run a lot believe me it was hard but I got used to it and especially breathing from just your nose.And now it is easy it took like a couple of weeks to get used to it.You could do some jump roping,dancing exercises,a lot of aerobic exercises like punches,kicks,other moves they'll show you if you go to a special program like YMCA or Bally total Fitness.If you are having problems to workout at home there is always the gym you could go follow my example and you will have a personnal trainer to help you out.He will also give you a food plan and they will ask if you want to lose weight or gain weight.Best of luck!
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what does drinking 8 glasses of water do for you? like will it help me lose some wieght? (link)
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It will help you burn fat from the food you eat and for the grease on it.But you must go along with a diet like you could go buy some chicken from KFC then you peel off the skin which by the way I like KFC.You should eat wheat bread instead of the regular one.Eat a whole lot of fruit and vegetables when you are hungry don't eat meat a lot and eat half of a plate of food.Like I told someone it takes three hours for the metabolism to break down the food you eat so that's why it is very important not to eat every one hour or two but three hours!Also you need to do running at least 45 minutes because you will burn 80%fat and 20%carbohydrates which is some serious fat burnin!Or you could do more.
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-My mother's a whore who doesn't care to sleep wit several guys within days, married or not
-My father used to serial cheat on her, ever since the first 3 days of their marriage, and now she's gettin revenge
-No one could give a shit about me, so their shipping me off to another country
-Their pretendin to care, and sayin they want me to stay, though i'm not stupid, they both want to make me suffer(if i live wit my mom, i live wit her 2 BF's, and if i live wit my dad, i live wit his GF
-I don't know anyone in the Dominican Republic, what the hell am i supposed to do there, where the hell am i supposed to go to high school, and where the hell am i supposed to live, my own family members can't decide were to put me, since none of them want me there
-There's SOOO much more pain in my life write now, there wouldn't be any space to write it
-I have a serious addiction to cutting myself, and i think i may even be developing an addiction to pills, i mean, why wouldn't i be depressed
-And i know it's not a sex question, but it's a popular topic, and i just want to know, is there anyone who cares, anyone who can help me, anyone who can tell me, why haven't i killed myself, what the hell do i have left to care for, and what in the world am i supposed to do with my piece-of-crap-for-a-life
-I've tried proffesional help and advice, it seriously doesn't work
P.S.:plz, no wiseasses, i really don't want to deal wit that right now, cuz ur not gonna get a pleasant reaction
Sincerely,
Life Falling Apart(13/f) (link)
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What you should do is talk to your mom,dad of how this is all affecting you if they don't care about you than your parents will regret it sooner or later.If I were you I would call the teen help line or go to the church speak to the father and ask for his advice and even confessing what your parents did.Pray as much as you can which is what I do every single day so luck will always be there and so god could protect me.Don't think your life is crap and I do care even though I don't know you I want people to be happy not sad.I would want to be your guardian angel and believe me life is beautiful but you see that it's not because you're suffering but one day you will be happy have faith in god and always believe that you could go on with your life.As far as your parents they outta be ashame of themselves take good care of yourself live!
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Alright well a little while ago I found out that this girl I know gave head to my now boyfriend 5 days before we started going out (we have been going out for about 8 days now) even though it was before we were going out for some reason its still bothering me. Any suggestions on how I could make it not bother me?
x0 love maddie (link)
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What you should do is think that he wants you because he picked you and that she just was someone who's his past.Most importantly your his present that is what really counts so your stressing out for nothing relax I'm sure he has no feelings for her but you only.Be happy that you too have a nice relationship together.
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what is the difference between a Baptist and a Cathlic?? (link)
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A baptist traditionally baptizes those who are able to make a personnal confession of faith and a catholic summons to be a part of christ.
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im 14/f and i know this guy through my friend..and i just found out that he liked me.. but he doesnt show it much..and my friends are sort of telling me to go out with him.. and im not sure what to do.. hes not hot. but he is cute..and if we DO go out.. im not sure how long it would last..i dont know what to do.. please help in any way possible! (link)
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So you must get to know the guy go up to him and speak to him start a conversation.Become his friend then ask him that if he likes you phsyically not like a friend if he says yes then tell him you'll like to go out with him.Don't lose your chance and don't wait longer when you see him do what I advice you to do.It's good to take this a little slowly so he would gain trust in you.Good luck!
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i feel like my friends never want to hang out with me unless i call them. they never call me and always hang out but not with me. i feel like i don't have any friends right now and that nobody likes me. i want to tell them that i'm feeling left out and stuff but i'm not sure how to tell them without them getting pissed off or sumthing. idk... so can anyone help?? thnx. (link)
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Ask them why they don't call you and if they don't have a good excuse it's because they're lying to you.Tell them to give you a call.And don't forget to check if they left any messages for you.If they still don't call don't talk to them anymore so they could feel the same way you're feeling.If they have your phone number they should at least call to ask how your doing!
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do guys have something against redheads..im jw? (link)
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Well some guys dislike blondes because of how they see many of them with a bad personality but not all of them have some have a nice personality.But I don't know any guys that are against red heads and if they do well they got problems because it's just haircolor what does that got to do with disliking the person?!
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this isnt really sex but i didnt know what to put it under. anyways i trimed down there and shaved near where the blood comes out (i forget what its called) and now where i shaved has little red bumps. is this bad and how do i get rid of them? (link)
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Use rubs for cold simply put the rub on the red bumps and sleep with it overnight.It may have a stinging sensation at first then it'll stop after a little bit and you'll get rid of them.
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I have two friends that I like to hang out with seperately because they are a lot of fun and they're nice when they are not together.
Whenever we all meet up together, which is pretty often, they'll find a way to gang up on me and I never show it but it hurts me. Sometimes they'll be eating sorbet and say, "SOrry..Only the smart eat the sorbet" and they won't give me any...or we'll be having a pillow fight and they'll both gang up on me, and they do that every single time! It really makes me feel like they are just using me. When I'm with just one of them, or we're hanging out with a different group of friends when they're not together, they can be nice, but together they are inseperable and they act like they don't need me.
What can I say to make them realize I feel left out without them laughing at me? (link)
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Tell them to act seriously with you and that you're feeling left out because they are always ganging on you.If they don't change you are just better off without them and find friends that you could talk to that won't hurt you.You have to do someting about this or not they will hurt you emotionally and lower your self esteem which is really bad.They should say there sorry,mean it because if they don't they'll most likely do it again.Go get help if you must.
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well i was dating this kid jon for a while and he has a twin named jake. me and jon brokeup and he went out with this other girl. eventually they brokeup and she went out with his twin. i think she still likes jon and he really likes her and i sort of like jake now even though he has a g/f. he slept over the other night and kissed me. he always comes over and calls me beautiful and i really like him but i dont know what to do. i dont know how to tell him this and i really think he should breakup with his girlfriend before doing these things with me. what can i say to him? PLez helpp! (link)
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Tell him in a caring tone that for nothing to get get in their relationship,for the benefit for you too that he has to break up with her if he really wants you.If he doesn't want to don't be with this guy go out with someone else who is single which is better.I have a friend named John who has a girlfriend and he's a really nice guy which I saw that that his girlfriend is very fortunate to have someone like him because now it's hard to find a guy who is not a cheater or a player.It's better that the girlfriend doesn't know about you and him just not to get into trouble with her or a fight!
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im going out to a party tonight. i have hair down to my shoulders and side bangs. im need a cute hairstyle. i usually just straighten it but im getting bored of it. any tips or ideas? or websites with details would help. thanks! (link)
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I have some good websites you could go to like www.hairboutique.com or www.askdoctrish.com or www.aubrey-organics.com Have fun at the party!
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Field hockey tryouts are coming up. I've been training all year, but since this is the first time I'm trying out, I'm nervous. VERY nervous. They're on Saturday, and I know I've trained as hard as I possibly could, but I'm still probably one of the least conditioned people trying out. I keep on trying to convince myself; "You've done the best you could," but it's not working! I keep on getting scared that I'll end up left behind or the last person. Even telling myself that I would be doing my best doesn't work. I'm so panicked. It's like getting on this team is [sorta] ruining my life! Does anyone have any tips to make me feel more relaxed and at ease? Aything. . .tips to tryout, what I should do the next few days exercise wise so I'm not sore, how to calm me down... and advice [except for stupid answers] will be greatly appreciated.
♥ Panicked athlete (link)
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What you can do when you go to play hockey don't observe the people if that is what makes you nervous just pay attention to the game that is what I did when I was on a basketball team with a big crowd watching me, the other players and it sure worked!Drink some tea for your nerves and go have hockey practice ask your coach for some tips or someone that is very good at it or even a pro and ask them what they did to be able to concentrate and play without panicking.
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Is it possible for one's main vein to be cut open with a nail clipper??? I'm just curious (link)
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It is possible because it cuts and it's a silver metal like a knife to cut it or more like a blade of a shaver.
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Hey! I am a girl, and a sophmore!
I am taking Geometry this year! today was my frist day, and my Geo. teacher has different teaching styles, and I am finding it very difficult to learn. He is really into using logic, and I am totally a streat smart person.
Do you have any tips or sugestions to help with this? is there anything that I can do with my notes or anything to help?
thanks so much!
-Kels-
I'll rate and leave feedback! :) (link)
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Keep your notes in order,write things clearly so you could understand.Talk to your teacher during class or after class to help you out and that your having trouble understanding the way he teaches and to use an easy way so people could not have trouble learning.Believe me it will work if he forget's about what you told him remind him because he may have to grade things or check homeworks or other things or many other students he has to keep track of that he will most likely forget.
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what do you do when your parentswant to do something you dont want to do for example church? (link)
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What you do is simply tell them you don't want to go and that they shouldn't force you to do something you don't want to do.Tell them that if they care about you forcing is not the way to show it and how would they feel if they were forced.Ask them if they ever were forced to do something they don't want to do or go somewhere?If they say yes then tell them "just because they did that to you now you're going to do it to me that isn't fair and you should know better than that".If they say no,say"So if they didn't why are you doing it to me and that would be very unfair because you were treated like an adult not like a child which is what you're doing now and I wonder what your parents would say if they were here".Tell them what you want to do or go or get someone you can count on to convince them.
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ok so its only 6 days into school and i have so much hmwk! its horrible im already stressing out will it be like this all year? i want to do a sport also but i dont want to risk failing to play
female/freshman (link)
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what you should do is do some practice for the sport and when you feel you're ready then you could get into tournments to win trophies.Being a freshmen is no big deal but you will get a lot of classwork,homework,and progects!I went through that already and thankfully passed the grade.With your stress chill out,relax,go have some fun with your friends or family members while you still have time.Once you get into school it's going to be hard but if you try your best you'll do fine and study a lot to get good grades.
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