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Ganging up
I have two friends that I like to hang out with seperately because they are a lot of fun and they're nice when they are not together.
Whenever we all meet up together, which is pretty often, they'll find a way to gang up on me and I never show it but it hurts me. Sometimes they'll be eating sorbet and say, "SOrry..Only the smart eat the sorbet" and they won't give me any...or we'll be having a pillow fight and they'll both gang up on me, and they do that every single time! It really makes me feel like they are just using me. When I'm with just one of them, or we're hanging out with a different group of friends when they're not together, they can be nice, but together they are inseperable and they act like they don't need me.
What can I say to make them realize I feel left out without them laughing at me?
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Okay, I've delt with this a lot. Just tell them how you feel && if they don't like it then you don't need them.
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Tell them to act seriously with you and that you're feeling left out because they are always ganging on you.If they don't change you are just better off without them and find friends that you could talk to that won't hurt you.You have to do someting about this or not they will hurt you emotionally and lower your self esteem which is really bad.They should say there sorry,mean it because if they don't they'll most likely do it again.Go get help if you must.
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this happened to me plenty of times and they usually end up not likeing me and to find out just plain out walk up to them and say "im starting to feel that you dont like me because, when your around me alone you are fine, but when you are together you treat me like crap""do you like me at all??" and if they say no get new friends...dont waste your teenage years or childhood away with stupid girls who dont even wnt you unless they are bored...hopei helped
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