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"There's no other love like the love for a brother. There's no other love like the love from a brother." A lot has changed since I was in High-school and first created my column - almost 8 years ago!!!! I now have two gorgeous Boys who mean the World to me; Brody, who is 3 and a half years old, and Brayden, who will be a year in November. I live my life for these two Boys. They make every second worth it. xxoo ♥ ♥

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i know that in africa and places with little tribes girl marry young, like at 13yrs old, is this when they start having children too? just wondering i know its a totally random question.

I heard that when they're married at 13 years old, they do mostly have children. Some children in other countries get married and have children earlier then 13. Crazy, isn't it? ♥

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do guys like it better when you like shave tha sides of your vegina and leave a pubic hair strip down the middle, or shave it all?

It really depends on the guy and what he likes best. All guys are different, so obviously they're going to like different things. But, that shouldn't matter, anyways. You should do what YOU like best. ♥

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How long does iron on images last on clothing and stuff?
Is it washable?
How's the quality?
Any advice on how to make them stay on longer?

The iron on images last pretty long on clothing. My sister has a little patch on her pants and it's still there. It is washable and the quality is good. How to make the iron on images last longer, just turn your clothes inside out when you wash them. ♥

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what are some good eye shadow colors for brown eyes that make them like really pop? kthanks in advance

There are tons of colors that go great with people who have brown eyes. I myself have brown eyes and I've been trying different colors of eye shadows, just to see which ones look best. If you put on black eyeliner on the top lid of your eyes, that will make your eyes pop, extremely. Also, pinks, purples, greens, browns, silvers and golds are great for people with brown eyes. ♥

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do you kiss on the first date?

It depends on if I liked him or not. If I did, I would totally kiss him. If not, I wouldn't. But, I myself find nothing wrong with kissing on the first date. ♥

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when you kiss where do you put yours hands ive heard hip, hands, below the ear, where it fees comfortable

It depends on what you're most comfortable with. It doesn't really matter where you put your hands, though. You can put them pretty much anywhere; on the sides of their face, their hip, butt, hold their hand, shoulders, etc. Anywhere is good. You can even switch it up a bit. Have your hands on their face, then slide them down and hold their hands. Something like that would be cute. ♥

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ok so there is this guy he is my bf i been going out with him for 10 months now..and i gave him head and drank the sperm will i get pregnant?..

You cannot get pregnant by swallowing sperm. ♥

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I havent gone all the way with my boyfriend, but hes given me oral sex. Every time he comes over, we do it!! Im 13 and want to be a virgin. Am I considered a virgin or not?

I've heard on TV that if you had oral sex, it is still considered sex. It just depends on the person you ask and what they believe in, since everyone's option on this is different. However, I believe to loose your virginity you need to actually have sex. Personality, I believe you're still a virgin. ♥

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when you have an eyelash curler and you also use mascara, do you put your mascara on then use the eyelash curler? or use the eyelash curler than put your mascara on?

Whichever way you want to do it, you can. I usually put on my mascara first, then I curl my eyelashes with the eyelash curler. ♥

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i think i have started my period. I have told my mum and i have now got some pads of my own. But, Now blood isnt coming out alot and brown marks/stains are coming out on the pads. Im very worried about it so please help me. thanx X

This is normal. When you first get your period, you'll spot. (That is what the brown marks and stains are.) It's just telling you that you're going to start your period REALLY soon.


Make sure if you're leaving to house to carry some pads/tampons (whichever you perfer) with you and an extra pair of underwear, just to be on the safe side. ♥

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Does anybody know any cute quotes about best friends or life or where I could find some?

http://www.holliesquotes.com has some AMAZING quotes. ♥

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do girls go for guys with piercings? if they are good looking that is, and do girls get attracted to guys with piercings,like let's say nose rings?and if they do, can you specify which part of the face or body you find most attractive for a piercing on a guy and how much piercings should your ideal guy have?thanks

Piercings are hot, but it also depends on the guy. Some guys look best without piercing, while some piercing suits the guy. So, I guess it just depends on the guy. However, I do love lip and tongue rings; looks way too hot! ♥

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How old were you when you got your first kiss?

I was in grade 8 when I had my first kiss. ♥

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is it necessary to breast feed? like does it HAVE to be done or will the formula stuff work just as well ?

It isn't necessary to breast-feed. Some mothers do, while others don't. I guess it just depends on the person and what they're most comfortable with.


However, most mothers that do breast-feed their babies help out their kids. Breast milk is the ideal form of nutrition for newborns. It provides ideal nourishment and a special bonding experience between the mother and her newborn. It also helps protect the baby from infection. You save a TON of money if you breast feed, too. Which would be a huge help, since the formal is rather expensive.


Whichever way you choose, make sure it suits you and you're comfortable with it. ♥

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Anyone know any place on the web that I can go to to find cool designs or pictures to iron on to totes and bags and stuff? let me know please!

I know I don't have a site, but you can find those at Wal-Mart and even the Dollar Store. ♥

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What exactly is a tease ? Like if someone calls you a tease. What does it exactly mean ? (I know kind of stupid question). But thanks for people who answer this nicely

A tease is a girl who likes to flirt a lot, without the intention of giving it up to you. ♥

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on eyelash curlers, you know that little white thing they have at the top? how often do you need to replace that? thanks.

You have to replace them every two months. Or, if you aren't able to replace them, just clean it after everytime you use it. ♥

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I'll come out clean. I'm chinese and about 5 feet. Does anyone know the average boob size for a mandrian chinese girl from the south? What's the american average? I know I'll never be the american average, but just wondering. I wear a size 34A. Just a few months ago, I got bigger, which I was happy! I thought I'll never leave 32A. Help if you can. I'm 13 too.

Usually boob sizes are genetic. You're more then likely to be AROUND the same size as the girls in your family and your mom are. But, I really wouldn't worry about this too much right now. Your body is still changing, so that means you are still growing. You don't stop growing until you're 18, so you have awhile to go yet. ♥

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Today, I did one of the workouts in they had in Seventeen magazine. It was the first time I did it. After, I felt kind of shaky and exhausted. I felt like "woozy". Is there something wrong?

You were probably just a little tired. If this is your first time doing this kind of exercises, you just aren't used to them so you get tired faster. Once you do your workouts everyday, you body will adjust and you won't have a problem with doing these exercises. Just make sure you're well hydrated and you should be good to go. ♥

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15/f

okies hey

i've met this guy in the year below me
well we hit it off right away and i really like him and it clear he likes me too , which im really thrilled about :) but the trouble is he is only 13 right now, he does look older though and is mature for his ages. he is just 1 year 3 months younger.

is this too young for me?

please help. xxx

No, that isn't too young for you. My boyfriend is 4 years older then me and I don't have a problem with it, nor does he. Age is nothing but a number. If you like this guy and he likes you, go for it! ♥

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