Hey im a female and im 13. My best friend just happens to be this really hot guy that every girl in school wants, including me. i find im always thinking about him and wanting him. We always talk on the phone and on msn. I havent told him how i feel about him though. Should I or will he just think like im like every other girl in my school? Right now we are talking on msn and im watching him on his webcam without a shirt! I dont want to ruin our wonderful friendship but, i would really like having him as my boyfriend. Should i tell him or conceal it? Please help!
**sleepiesheep**
Dear Sleepiesheep,
I think you should surprise him with a relationship question. Whenever you two are talking on MSN ask him what he thinks of you. If he asks what you mean or says you are "cool" say you want to know if he would EVER go-out with you. If he says he doesn't know- tell him it was just a random question. I had this exact same problem- but I found out he liked me all along- and that he liked me more than the other girls who drooled over him. I hope I helped! Good luck!
--Annerszz_101--
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We were having a Xmas party at my school today. In one of my classes, we were having a mock debate game. The teacher would call up four of us and give us a topic. One of the topics was 'it Santa Claus real or not"? Two people had to debate for the positive, that he was real, and the other two had to debate that he wasnt.
Well when my turn came up, the topic was: does Santa spend his summer in mexico or the North Pole? I was on the negative team, so I had to debate that Santa did NOT spend his Xmas in Mexico.
Well when I started talking I was really on a role. I said that I had been to Mexico 3 times and never once had a seen a fat, pasty looking man with a long white beard tanning on the beach. Then I added "who would want to see that? It's DISGUSTING!! I also talked about how Santa never has a tan, and that if he spent a whole summer in Mexico he would still be a bit bronn at Xmas time. I also added that he had to compile his naughty and nice list and get his elves in order, and that the summer is only 4 months away from Xmas so he would definatley have to spend his Xmas in the North Pole.
Well I got a couple of chuckles during my speech, and me and my partner won a prize for best debate!!
The only thing I'm worried about is now some of the guys in the class are avoiding me, and not being as friendly to me after I made my speech. I thought of two things: maybe some guys don't like girls to be funny and outspoken, that's what guys do, and 2, maybe they were offended by me saying that seeing Santa tanning on the beach was digusting.
Does anyone have any ideas?
PS, not everyone reacted this way. The teacher came up to me afterwords and told me I was hilarious.
I don't think the "guys don't like girls to be outspoken" because guys love girls who can make them laughh and smile and etc. I think this could go both ways. They could either PARTLY think that santa claus is real(( doubtful but you never know)) or that they just think you were being rude about it. You never know with guys though. They are confusing. But, if they keep avodiing you. Just ask them if something you did offended them in any way. If they ignore you more, ask your teacher if you did anything wrong or whatever. Or if it really doesn't bother you- just ingore it.
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I honestly don't think I like my boyfriend anymore. He's wayy too protective, and he'll always say the stupidest things. I just woke up this morning & I really don't like him as much as I used to. Should I ignore this feeling, and maybe it'll go away? Or, do you think you shouldn't have negative feelings about your relationship when you're dating someone? + I'm NOT Pmsing. (: lol Thanks.
I have had the same problem. Write him a note, have a friend tell him, call him, etc. and tell him you want to take a break for awhile. If he goes all crazy about it- he's not worth it. but if he gets really sad and asks why you want to take a break- tell him you think he's being a little over-protective and you don't think he's being the FUN boyfriend you want him to be.
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Hey everyone,
I want to create a calm atmosphere for my new room. What are some key elements? placement of furniture, and colors that can help me relax.
Oh and if anyone has any websites on stress busting you room I would appreciate it ! Thanks.
The colors that make your room seem more relaxed are blue and greeen. a light turquoise sort of blue and a aqua green.
comfortable chairs help relax the room. a pale blue.
Let me know if I helped or not!
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i need to know is right...is it right to get your cat declawed...i rate 5's
Well, depends. If he's an outdootr cat, or spends alot of time outdoors and you have a fence- then he might run away. No matter how spoiled he is. If he's an indoor cat and he has claws- he could get in a bad mood and tear up things you love.
So0- you might want to get him declawed. This also helps in case he might scratch you and you would have to go to the hospitial. It's happened to me before!
Let me know if I helped or not!
--Annerszz101--
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my friend moved away. like, really far away. like, in another country far away. sending mail to her is really expensive, and she's not allowed to have aim or email. she says we'll stay in touch, but how?
Phone might not work- because of long distance. Write her ONE letter explaining the difficulties of staying in touch with her. Then give her your number and tell her to call you if her mother will let her. If her mother won't let her call you- then include in the letter that the only way you two can stay in touch is by AIM or EMAIl. if she says her mom won't budge on that, then your relationship will slowly fade. :[
Let me know if I helped or not!
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My boyfriend broke up with me in october because he thought i was cheating but i wasnt. After it happened it was like nothing, but now i really miss and i want us to get back together but i dont know if he still has feelings for me. My best friend said she was going to talk to him for me but if that doesnt work then what will i do. i would write a letter but he isnt the type of person you give letters, he is a really sweet, kind person and im still in love with him. PLEASE tell me what to do.
Well, the way to know if he still has feelings for you or not- is to talk to him. Call him and tell him that you defienlty WEREN'T cheating on him and you just have a lot of other guy friends too. Tell him you wish you 2 never broke-up and that you two were still together. If he is as kind and sweet as you say he is, he'll forgive you.
Let me know if I helped or not!
--Annerszz101--
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I have a freind whoes my guy freind, and kinda avoding him. like for a month since he had a Gf. and this summer we closer we ever was. well thing is I 2 year older then him, he 18 and i am 20. well thing is i still want talk to him and i still having feeling for him, but this is that i don't want tel him i sad bout that he had gf and told me that he hase gf and wanted be with me.. well thing is I i try to spell right and corret my grammer it hard . i am deaf and hard for me try make since, any one give me ur email u reall help me, couse i know on here they strike on spelling... I not best speller in world, plesase help me,
My email is simpleplanrox07@adelphia.net
can help you. Don't wory
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I want to walk into my babysitting job with the kds running up to me saying yay _____ here! How any tips? I'll rate you high for trying
Well whenever you're babysitting them- don't make them mad. Play with them and do the things they want you to do- just make sure nothing gets out of hand or anything. Fix them snacks often whenever they're hungry. Treat them good and that will happen quickly.
Let me know if I helped or not!
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Is there a website for people in high school to get help with homework?
Try here.
http://www.refdesk.com/homework.html
Let me know if I helped or not!
--Annerszz101--
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My mom and dad separated and last year had a fight about me going to New York. Since that i have spoken to him but havent gone to visit him but he comes to see me at school. The problem is he is upset that i dont come to his house and i feel sad that i made him feel that way but i dont want to go because all he is going to do is pressure me with school work and i dont want that because i want to hangout with friends. I really dont want him feeling that way and i want to visit him so waht should i do.
Call him up and tell him that you really want to come and visit him but you just want to be with your friends. If he brings up the subject about school work or something involving school- tell him you don't want to be pressured with school work and anything involving school. Tell him you just want to be with him since your parents split up.
Let me know if I helped or not!
--Annerszz101--
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does any one no any websites with...
- make up tips and techniques? or basically anything to do with make up and beauty?
- different hair styles i could do. ive got long hair thick hair.
im fed up with the same sytle of make up and hair do's all the time i need new ideas.
please answer asap i rate!
My friend was over a couple days ago and we searched the web for the same thing. Here's some websites. Let me know if I helped!
http://www.movingmakeup.co.uk/tips.htm
http://www.2promhairstyles.com/hairstyle_ideas.shtml
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This is also like the hair color quetion. Y do guys like blondes so much?By the way this question is for guys only.
Im not a guy, but no one had answered and I already knew that answer. Most guys think that since blondes are supposedly "stupid", the guys think that they can get them into bed easier. I know it's mean- but thats the way ALOT of guys aree.
Hope I helped!
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I have had my heart set on adopting a child for years even though I plan to have my own. My spouse on the other hand... doesnt quite agree. I told him why I wanted to and then he gave in to the idea but he absolutely refused to adopt a boy because he "wants his boy to be his own." I told him over and over that I would like him to come with me to the adoption agency so we could fall in love with a child any young age, race, or sex and he said no. He does not want a boy or a child that is not a newborn. I dont want to comprimise my life long plans.
Well, why don't you just have a child of your own? Unless, you don't want to of course. But, you could try a website on google that shows the benfits of adopting a child- and then you could leave those randomly out and show your husband.
Hope i helped!
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how old do you have to be to work at subway.and if you can think oif any jobs a 14 year old can get please tell me.
ill rate a 5 for a usful answer
Babysitting.
Dog walking.
etc.
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Okay well i have acne and i don't like it.I was woundering what are the best products to get it to go away fast. cause having acne can be pretty embarassing and i don't really like it. so i was woundering if anyone knew any good products to use
Well, theres some that only work for certain people. Alot of my friends and I use Clinque. If you goto the mall and look for a counter with Clinque, ask her about acne soulutions. if you try those and they don't work, order Proactiv.
^^ PLEASE let me know if I helped or not.
**hope it works out**
x-O Annerszz_101 x-O
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A guy that I wasnt going out with but used to be really good friends with has been acting like a total jerk to me.
He used to be SO nice to me. He was always teasing me, and winking at me, and flirting. We would go to hockey games together and watch movies.
We used to always email each other too.
Well something in him has changed. He never emails me anymore. I phoned him up and he was being a total jerk, I asked him why he hadnt emailed me in several months and he snapped "well I don't sit around my computer all day". Then he said he was preoccupied and had to go.
He also snapped at me when I phoned him on his cell before 6 o clock. He announced that he would be moving to a new house for a job 10 hours away from me and that he still wanted to be friends.
I havent heard from him in over a month.
Should I just end it? I think I deserve better. Also I heard long distance relationships never work out.
I would stop talking to him for awhile, and if he tries to reach you, then take him back. maybe something is going on in his life that he has no answer too. give him time and then try to talk to him about you twos relationship.
^^ PLEASE let me know if I helped or not.
**hope it works out**
x-O Annerszz_101 x-O
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I'm going away on a 10 day field trip with my school to Alabama ( I live in Georgia )I'm afraid of getting homesick. I used to get homesick all the time when I was little, then I just grew out of it. Now since I'm going to be away for a long time I don't know what I'm going to do. Any tips incase I get homesick?
use a phone to call your family back home and tell them about your entire trip each time you get homesick! it helps relieve the stress!
^^ PLEASE let me know if I helped or not.
**hope it works out**
x-O Annerszz_101 x-O
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hey so i like this guy and he lives 2 hrs away from me. and i saw him last weekend and i got nervous when i saw him and didnt know what to say. now he thinks im mad @ him. what should i say to him?? what could i say to him so im not so nervos???
i rate.
thanks
Tell him you think you like a guy that lives 2 hours away from you and then smile and look down at your feet or the ground or something and if he asks who, tell him to guess and if he guesses himself, tell him "would you like me back?"
it worked for me!
^^ PLEASE let me know if I helped or not.
**hope things work out!**
x-O Annerszz_101 x-O
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I'm 17/f and my boyfriend is 18/m and he doea not understand the meaning of time. He is constantly late to everything. And I mean everything! I used to put up with it (we've been dating for almost 2 years) but I just can't anymore.
About a week ago, my dad threw a party for his company and instead of going with my family, I went with my boyfriend. My family left for the patry and I left to his house. When I got there, HE WAS STILL ASLEEP! I got him up and he had to take a shower so he did that. About 30 min. later, his parents were leaving for the party and asked me if I wanted to ride with them. Of course I said no. My boyfriend and I ended up being an hour and half late to the party. My dad was really mad.
The next day, we were supposed to go to the mall at 2pm. Of course, he wasn't on time. It got to be about 3:00 when he finally got to my house. I told him that I didn't feel like going anymore and we got into this big fight about how he's always late.
How can I get him to understand that it's important to not olny me but to ohter people as well that he get's to where ever he's supposed to be the time he says he will?
You can't really control what people do, but there's a way to somewhat convince them. The next date you two sced. tell him you'll be at his house at let's say 2 pm on a saturday. get there at his house at 3 and see his reaction. If he gets mad, then tell him that's how he makes you feel, and that he's getting you into trouble.
^^ PLEASE let me know if I helped or not.
**hope things work out!**
x-O Annerszz_101 x-O
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