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to choose or not to choose
My mom and dad separated and last year had a fight about me going to New York. Since that i have spoken to him but havent gone to visit him but he comes to see me at school. The problem is he is upset that i dont come to his house and i feel sad that i made him feel that way but i dont want to go because all he is going to do is pressure me with school work and i dont want that because i want to hangout with friends. I really dont want him feeling that way and i want to visit him so waht should i do.
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He's your dad. You only get one of them, so make him happy.
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well try to talk to him about why you don't like to go there...and tell him he is putting to much pressure on you...tell him you feel about this...hoped i helped some...♥ alley
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go and see him. just because he wants the best for you and maybe you dont want it doesnt mean that you shouldnt go see him. or maybe tell him that you planned a day for just you two to go bowling or to the movies or something where he cant bring up your school work
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well you should try to talk to your dad and tell him how you feel and then maybe he wont do those things that you dont want him to do and if you want to hang with your friends just see if they could go with you and you could call them and email them
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Call him up and tell him that you really want to come and visit him but you just want to be with your friends. If he brings up the subject about school work or something involving school- tell him you don't want to be pressured with school work and anything involving school. Tell him you just want to be with him since your parents split up.
Let me know if I helped or not!
--Annerszz101--
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Well,if you dont want to hurt him it wont hurt you to just go and visit. it all depends on if you want to make the sacrifice.good luck,byes.
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tell him the reason why you're afraid to come over to his house. if that doesn't help him stop pressuring you, at least he'll know that it's not because you don't love him.
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