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Hes My Best Friend!
Hey im a female and im 13. My best friend just happens to be this really hot guy that every girl in school wants, including me. i find im always thinking about him and wanting him. We always talk on the phone and on msn. I havent told him how i feel about him though. Should I or will he just think like im like every other girl in my school? Right now we are talking on msn and im watching him on his webcam without a shirt! I dont want to ruin our wonderful friendship but, i would really like having him as my boyfriend. Should i tell him or conceal it? Please help!
**sleepiesheep**
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i think you should tell him because if you dont it will just build up inside of you and eventually you will end up saying something by accident, so tell him so you can think about what you are going to say. He also might like you too, if hes showing you him without a shirt.i hope i helped<3
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first off, you are so lucky :)! this happened to me last year (but he wasnt hott....i dont know how i fell for him haha) and i revealed my feelings. (we broke up after two months, but we stayed really good friends.) i think you should wait a little while to see if there is any possibility that he likes you, too. and if there is, go ahead and tell him how you feel. if yall decide to go out, tell him that you still want to be friends if you break up. that is what saved my friendship. we are still good friends. i hope i helped! GOOD LUCK!!! :):):):):):) <3 <3
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Dear Sleepiesheep,
I think you should surprise him with a relationship question. Whenever you two are talking on MSN ask him what he thinks of you. If he asks what you mean or says you are "cool" say you want to know if he would EVER go-out with you. If he says he doesn't know- tell him it was just a random question. I had this exact same problem- but I found out he liked me all along- and that he liked me more than the other girls who drooled over him. I hope I helped! Good luck!
--Annerszz_101--
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Hey,
Your in a tricky situation. Because, ive seen so many people ruin perfect friendships (like yours)by stepping forward and turning it into a relationship.
Of course it will make you happy, but what goes up must come down. And eventually it will come to an end. And someone will break someones heart, and becoming friends again wont really be an option.
If you love him so much that you want to take that risk, go right ahead. But personally if i were you i would keep it friendly...relationships really complicate things. So you need to watch out for that.
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wow i have so been there my self... two years ago i met this guy named Steve. we became really good friends and alot of girls wanted him (they still do) i couldnt help but think about him and want to be his girlfriend.. i really liked him.. finally i told him and he was like wow.. i like you alot too.. and we dated for 8 months.. and to this very day i still love him and were still best friends.. you should tell him.. obviously he feels comfortable around you. tell him.. if your the good friends you say you are he wont think anything bad of you.. he might even be wondering the same thing about you!
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First try to find out if he likes you more then a friend. Find out by asking like trick questions. Tell him how you feel if he likes u as more then a friend. Good luck
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