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Hey Everyone. My name is Barbie. I am 22. Working full time and in college. I'm here to give advice to serious questions, not to share my whole life story. I've not been active until recently. All of the questions I've answered on here, as you see are very old and out dated. I will no longer answer silly questions, but only more serious ones. If you want my opinon, ask me a question. I'm 100% honest to the best of my knowledge, blunt, and to the point. If that's what you're looking for, then you've come to the right place. If not, then my apologies, but you can go to some one else who will sugar coat things for you and make you hear what you want to hear.



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Okay well my boyfriend lives in England now, we r still together and everything but he said to not let any other boys in my house or not to flirt , I love him to DEATH !!! well This nw boy kinda took his spot, he's nice and everything but he hugs me to much and says he loves me, I kinda feel the same way but , I told my boyfriend about this and he fliped and is now on his way down here, Im scared! what do I do , I dont want to break up with him or anything but were just teens, I mean my boyfriend is really rich and has a band and everything , he even buys me dimond braclets and everything, but I told the other guy to leave me alone and that I had a boyfriend coming to visit, what do I do?
And he said that he didn't care and wanted to met my boyfriend...

~Hurry I will rate all 5's i just need help!~

If you truely love your boyfriend then just explain to him, when he gets back, that you only wanted to be friends with this other guy. That you told him to leave you alone because of your boyfriend. But only you can really decide for yourself what you want to do. It all depends on who you like/love more. Just because your boyfriend is really rich and buys your diamonds, you have to really be honest with yourself. Just follow your heart sweetie. Good Luck.

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Hi, my names Jordan. Im new here.. but I have a question! I need help with snoball. Its coming up soon, and I need help finding a really good idea to ask my boyfriend... so if anyone has any ideas PLEASE help me!

sorry hun, i would help ya out only if i knew what snoball was. get back to me with it and ill be glad to help.

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me 15 boyfriend 17

ok..well i cheated on my boyfreind twice..n he says he loves me alot n i belive him n i really care for him alot...i jst don't know y i did it! but i talked to him tonite about it n he said if i ever cheated on him hed dumb me...so it was jst a plan out emotional convo...n i told him he shouldn't love me cuz i think i might mess up n cheat on him...cuz thats wat happened w/ the last guy that meant alot to me...well i'm scared that i'm goind to cheat on him n i don't want that to happen...but then i don't want to lose him cuz i really love him alot...wat should i do?

you should tell him that you hvae cheated and that you still want to be with him to work things out. When you are thinking about cheating on him the next time like you say then just think about how bad you hurt him or will hurt him. and think f how you said you dont want to lose him. if you care for him as much as you put out to then you wont have no worries saying no to the other person you are cheating on him with.

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ok well me and my boyfriend broke up but we still say i love you and mean it but i kinda like this other guy at my school...what do i do we flirt all the time..
(my EX and i dont go to the same school but talk every night and are plannin to get back wit eachother he says we "seperated" bcz we plan on goin back out like this weekend..when we see eachother on saturday!!)

i say give the new guy a chance. i you will be able to see him more beings you are in the same school unlike your ex. and i say that if things dont work out between you two and you still have feelings for your ex, then you have that to fall back on. You'll never know what will happen until you try. You might get with the new guy and yins might really get involved. So go and explore your options and if after that like i said you will still have your ex. Good luck and hope this helps.

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theres this guy in my grade thats really funny and i really wanna go out with him but like my friends bring up the subject and he's like Idk...then theres another cutie but he's one grade lower than me :' . . he's really sweet b/c every time i see him he's smiles and says hi,....who would be better? please help?!?

Only you would know that answer. If he is interested into you more then obviously he is going to care. There isnt really any one who can make that decison for you tho. Just try to see if when one of your friends brings up a convo about yins two getting together see what he says... if he is for it then he is a better choice. But it is all up to you and your feelings about these two people. good luck and hope i helped

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ok well my mom told me last week she thinks its time i go see a gyno. well i dont have a problem with it b/c i am sexually active and i think i might need to go. well im guessing she obviously thinks me and my boyfriend are doing stuff if she's making me go there. well im really scared to tell her so im going to keep it from her as long as i can. my friends have told me that the questions they ask you are confidentail.. well is there any way i can ask the gyno if i can get birth control and they can give it to me without my mom thinking anything like can they tell her she should probably put me on it to regulate my period? i know this is weird but what do u think?

Yes, thats all you have to say. Just talk to your gyno. Explain that you want to go on brth control and to tell your mom that it is just to regulate your period.

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I'm 16 and my boyfriend is 17. We've been together for 16 months and i truly believe that we are madly in love. I somewhat believe he is the one for me. He's a senior and will be graduating this year, I'm only a junior. I'm really scared of whats going to happen when he graduates. I've seen movies and shows where the couple breaks up because the one goes to college and never sees each other or whatever the deal is. He's not sure where he is going yet but i really hope it all works out. he mentioned something before like "if we're still going out next summer before i go away to college, i'll propose." It's scary how i feel like i could run away and get married with him right now. what do u think about this situation?

I think that if you love him as much as you say then you have nothing to worry about. But you dont want to get married yet... Wait until you finish school. Just until the time comes when you are truly ready for marriage make a promise with each other about staying together. You will have your whole life ahead of you for being together with him or someone else even. But i wish you two the best of luck and i hope everything works out the way yins have planned!

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hey, this is gonna sound so whiny but o well
a few days ago i was a little drunk and this guy asked me out i like him but not like loads loads he wasnt drunk at all but my friends sed he looked like he really meant it, but the thing is i really like these two other guys and i think at least one of them likes me as well and as my b/f is grounded for two weeks im not gonna see him and im gonna see the other two guys every day, im going to a small slpovr with them next week cus their best friends with my m8s brother but we/r probably gonna get drunk and im really worried im gonna cheat on my b/f
wat should i do cus im feeling like a little c**t and really evil.
thanx for ne advice you could give me XxXxXx
Wish_piskie

Well if you have a bf then what are you worried about one of these other two guys liking you as much as you like him.?

Well anyways...
If your worried about cheating on your boyfriend then you could either go to the party and no t drink as much as you normally would or you could not go at all. Or the best way to do it would be to try and hold your alochol. Set a limit on what you drink. Or explain to the guys that you are going to this party/sleepover to have fun and hang out with friends. Let them know that you like them and all but that you dont want to do anything stupid that will mess up your relationship with your boyfriend. Try explaining it to them and see what happens. Go from there. Other than those there is really nothing more you can do. I hope this has helped you. Good Luck!
Have Fun! and if ya need anything else just drop it in my inbox.

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okay well, since the last 2 weeks school has started i've gotten alot of compliments, and i've been in this school for about 3 years now and well i've gotten compliments but the last 2 weeks i've gotten compliments more than i've gotten in the last 3 years!! is it because over the summer i changed alot?? and it seems like the boys are the ones noticing me, yeah i got a little bit taller and i look a lot better but is it me or them?? or is it because my breat grew alot more...

((i rate high))

tnxs

It very well could be that the guys are noticing you more because your looks changed and they like them. And it could be maybe becuae your personality changed to. But i wouldnt worry about it. It not you, nothing you did was wrong. so just go and have fun! Good Luck with everything.

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Ok well I just started high school and i met this dude and we hang out at lunch and everything and we talk alot and all and everyone keeps tellin me he likes me and one day at lunch a boi came up and asked me if we were goin out n i wus like no n he said well he likes u n i asked him if it wus tru n he said my gf wouldnt like that very much n my frind was there n so l8r she asked him if he liked me n he said yeh dont tell nobody cuz my gf will kill me and then my other frind asked him n he said wtf started that rumor i rlly rlly like him !! how do i find out if he rlly likes me and how do i git him 2 dump his gf 4 me? i mean he says all this stuff like shes annoyin n all so i guess he doesnt like her PLEASE HELP!!! [[SoRRy So DaRn LoooooNg]]

Don't do anything to break his and her relationship off. You should try thinking about the both off them instead off yourself. I understand that you like him and all but breaking them up for your advantage isnt a very good thing to do. He may actually like her. He might not want to break up with her just yet. Stay low and keep being friends with this "DUDE". Being friends with him and not trying to break them up will probably be a better advantage to you. Think about it if you break them up you can have that chance of ruining the relationship you already have with this guy. Dont jeopardize it over something as tiny, stupid as this. So with that said i hope this has helped and i hope you dont take anything i have said offensively and i wish you the best of luck!!

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Okay, I just found out 2-day that my ex-bf is dating one of my bff's and I think that I am jealous! What should I do? I'm not the jealous type.

Well the only thing you can really do is talk to your bff and let her know how you feel about this whole situation. But you cant really do anything else about it. Your not together anymore, yins broke up for a reason. At that hopefully it was a good reason. And hopefully you can find another guy that will interest you, so that then you wont be so jealous of either of them. Hope this helped. Good Luck.

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sO...i've been a vegatarian my whole life... but i never have ne protein! is that bad? what can i eat? (not eggs) and am i really unhealthy?
THANX IN ADVANCE!

no, its not unhealthy. You can get protein in alot of foods that arent meat...
Peanuts are a really good source of protein.
and soy foods are also a really good way to get protein. you could try some protein shakes. Hope this helped.

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ok, my boyfriend of 3 years wants to go into the army for about 4 or 5 years. i was just wondering, is there any chance of him getting hurt,dying,etc? b/c if there is..i cant let him go. please help me. ill rate high.

There is always a chance of someone getting hurt or killed when joinging the armed forces. Whether it be the army, nave, air force, or national guard. You always have that chance. And it is the risk you have to be willing to take.

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Alright...So, I've always been the rebel type. Stayed out late...never did what I was told. I couldnt WAIT til I was 18 and could do whatever I wanted. You know the type. As my 18th birthday is coming up...i've felt completely different. It's like I dont want to grow up. Its not that I dont want to deal with the "real world"...its just that I dont want to be grown up? lol Anyone else going thru this??

It is just because you are maturing for your age. Everyone goes through it but some people react differently toward it. Its not that your afraid of growing up it is more so your afraid of losing all of your childhood and thinking that you cant have anymore fun.... and thats not true! there are still going to be many of times were you will have fun. Believe me. But this is normal to feel like this. So i hope this has helped and good luck with all you do! Have Fun!

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Hi,
Maybe u guys might think i am stupid or ignorant but right now i am really worried.
I never have had sex, but did indulge into foreplay with my bf.
Yesterday though, my bf rubbed his penis on the surface of my vagina (till he could ejaculate)but he didnt ejaculate near my vagina, could this cause me to be pregnant?
Need some advice....

no. If he wasnt in you or even near it for that matter, then it is impossible for you to be pregnant. You have no more worries!

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if your 65 inches.. how tall are you?

if you are 65 inches then you are five foot five inches.

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Ok, I just started becoming closer friends with this girl this year, and now she WON'T STOP CALLING ME!! Like, every single day, twice a day! I don't wanna talk on the phone with her every day. How do I get her to stop calling without hurting her feelings?

just tell her you have things to do. tell her that your busy and that you got to go. you could tell her that your grounded from the phone and cant talk.
Or you could just tell her the truth... tell her that you can be friends but you have a life and have other things to do then talk on the phone with her all the time.
Good Luck

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so i need some advice.. i don't get to see my b/f that much, i'm used to seeing him all the time, we practically spent the whole summer together.. but now that school has started and stuff we don't really get to see each other.. plus he has football practice tues-fri.. games on sat.. so i got to see him sat. for like an hour? maybe. i didn't see him yesterday but i was with him today, at the library, with one of his friends.. so yea it wasn't that exciting.. but anyways.. when we were leaving he asked if he could get a hug which should have been obvious b/c we always hug/kiss when we leave each other.. so it was like 7:00.. but i said no (but i was jokin) b/c ur mean.. (b/c i didn't want him to leave) but i guess he didn't know i was jokin or w/e b/c he kinda walked away and left.. so i called him while i was walkin home and i was like ur mean and he like hung up on me so i was like ok.. so now i'm home and i'm like real upset cuz i didn't get that hug/kiss and i was kinda lookin forward to it and now i regret that.. so i called him around 7:30 to see if he could come back out or if he was mad at me or w/e but i think he turned his phone off.. and i can't call his house phone i just can't.. so now i dunno wut to do.. i left him message and after i wrote this i was gonna e-mail him.. but my only other option is to wait until he gets online but i dunno if he will cuz he might be mad at me or something.. so wut should i do??

well if you dont talk to him because he either doesnt call you back or he doesnt talk to you if he gets on line, then just call him and leave him a message telling him that your sorry, you didnt mean it. Let him know that you were joking and tell him it was because you didnt want him to leave! Let him know why you said it and how much you regret it. and tell him to call you back. Good Luck and hope this helps hun

XoXo~Barb~oXoX

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ok me and my EX boyfriend havent seen eachother since june 25...right thats along time!! well last night he saw a pic. of me and his cousin that we took like 2days ago at the mall and he was like "so who u goin out wit" i said "no one" and he said he wasent wit no one either!! then he was like "so when ya gunna giv me my pic?" and i was like o ya saw it and he said "yea u look fuckin fine in the picture!!" and he said he still loves me...sooo should i get back with him cz i still love him and umm... im gunna see him on saturday!!..help!!

Yea, if you two still love each other then go for it. By the way it sounds you already know what you want to do. You dont really need any advice on this. It seems like you set your mind to getting back together and thats what you should do. Have fun on Saturday!! GoOd LuCk!!

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There's this kid at my school...we are both freshman and at this oriantation, we were together a lot...( in the same groupd )Well, now i see him one to two times a day, and i dont have much time inbetween classes b.c they have a strict schedule...=(...Anyways, i really like this kid...I had the dream that you have, like when you are crushing...well I saw him today...and i literally stopped breathing...I`m trying to get his screen name and im hoping i can talk to him sometime...but my question is...What can i do to get him to notice me? Like for a minitur betweet classes or a minute after school, or online even...We both play soccer so we can talk about that but what else...? Thanks to anyone who took the time to read this...! =)

well bump into him in the hallways or drop your books or somehthing right in front of him. and if you do gt his screen name just im him and when he asks who you are and everything then just start talking to him. Good Luck!

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