If you have sex, you're eligible to be pregnant. But only if you're a female,of course.There's no set age to lose your virginity, chances are you'll end up regretting it sooner or later. I don't know if he or she likes you. I can't tell from where I live. If you need to lose some weight, run, excerise and eat right, but you can't lose 30 pounds in a week. Please don't ask me questions like that, I've answered them all in the paragraph you just read. Thank you.
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i have been babysitting scince i was 11 and now i am 14 and the kids start gettin out of control what should i do ???
sighned undicided (link)
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Fake a phone call to mom and dad. If it gets out of hand,really call them.
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ok like what do i do to make a guy like me what turns them man an i don't wanna look like a slut so please help (link)
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Show up.
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hi, i have a neighbor and i like him alot and i think he knew before i called him and really told him what i felt and i asked him what he thought and he asked me if he could get back to me...do you think he WILL get back to me? :-/ i wana know i cant stop thinkin about it!!! (link)
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No. If a guy doesn't show immediate interest,he's not interested.
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I love my dog a ton!!! How can i make it so she lives as long as possible. What can i do to help her? (link)
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Feed it,give it fresh water,give it flea and tick medicine. Make sure it doesn't like to chase the UPS man. I lost my little Jack Russell because he had a UPS fetish.
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I went on that site am i fat and it said that i need to watch wat i eat and exercise more...im 5'7 and i weigh 150 but i mean all i do is exercise i walk run play sports situps everything my doctor said that i weigh more cuz i work out so much and i get it all the time that i look smaller then wat i say i weigh should i listen to the website or should i just keep up wif my routine i mean i dont think im fat but i dont no now!
Thanks tons,
Confused (link)
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If you're a guy and you're 5'7 150 you're fine. If you're a girl,you may just be naturally big. Your weight may be made up a lot of muscle if you work out a lot. Go easier on the working out and work out like a normal girl does. You may not be fat,you may just be freakin strong. I'm 5'10 160,3 inches taller and only 10 pounds heavier.
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This guy and I just started going out. We go to the same school so I get to see him every day, but on weekends he's always with his friends. The thing is, I don't really want to hang out with them. I've only met a couple of them and I didn't like them very much...plus I've heard from him that they like getting high(not necessarily him) and I'm really not into that. How am I going to tell him that I don't want to go places when it's him *and* his friends? I mean I could give it a try but if I don't feel comfortable I won't know how to tell him that, since, you know, he likes them a lot(duh). Anyway, I just wanted your opinion. Thanks! (link)
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Yeah,this is indeed a problem. By the way,I appreciate that you typed correctly and made this very easy to read. On one hand,if you try and tell him who to hang out with,he's going to think you're controlling. On the other,if he likes you,he's going to see your point about not wanting to hang out with druggies. What I'd do is I 'd say " Babe,it's not that I don't like hanging out with your friends,but I'm not into weed and drugs like they are. It makes me feel so uncomfortable when they do that. If they're going to do things like that,I'd rather not be around." If he's doing it too,you can tactfully tell him what he's doing is harming him,you really care about him,and you don't want to see him hurt himself. Mary Jane is a gateway drug you know.
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hi. i got my belly button pierced already but i REALLY want my tongue pierced...my mom keeps telling me 'no way..never' but i really want it done soo bad but she wont give in. i know she'll probably still keep saying "no" but any really good ideas on how to get her to say yes? (besides begging her for HOURS at a time) lol. ILL RATE U!
-X Lissa X- (link)
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Lissa,your mom sounds very stubborn. And the more you ask,the more she'll dig her heels in and keep saying no. She just let you get your belly done,so she thinks "If I give a mouse a cookie,he's gunna want a glass of milk." Translation,if you give an inch,I'll take a mile. Give it some time and then bring it up later. Much later. Like in a few months.
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me an my girl wen tout for a while and i really found out that i do love her , she just never wants to open up to me or act like she trully loves me and everyone says she does but i dont know what to do so we took some time apart i asked for it so we could get things figured out and i love her but what should i do ? (link)
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Give her some time and space to think it over. If she really likes you,then she needs it. If she doesn't,she'll give your favorite and mine. The Let's Be Friends Speech. Just don't come on too strong and be confident. If she's not into you,her loss.
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Im very hot and everything great y wont the perfect guys ask me out? (link)
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Well,there are no perfect guys,just as there are no perfect people. Secondly,you may not be giving off good vibes. Do you go up to a guy you're interested in and talk to them or do you just sit and watch from afar? If a guy doesn't think you're interested,he's not gunna waste his time with that. Would you? Do you smile a lot at parties and make it clear you have no bf and occasionaly seperate yourself from the group to make yourself available? Studies show that an average looking person smiling is sexier than a great looking person not smiling. And bury the ego,ok toots. I can name girls hotter than you ok?
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what do girls do when they start to get sick of a guy? (link)
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You've asked the right person. In my cases,they'll start to show less interest,they'll make it seem like they're doing me a favor for letting me pay for a date. On another occasion,she'll call another guy to go on a date and when I call her to see what's she's doing she sheepishly says "I'm at the movies with Aaron." I of course invited myself along. Troy was a pretty good movie by the way. Anyway,when you put your arm around them,they'll act all uncomfortable,or they wonn't want to return your calls or talk to you. They'll talk about other guys to you,that one's the worst. If they have the balls,they'll dump you. But they're usually too lazy for that.
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my boy friend cheated on me. should i dump him? hes really srry and i really like him but i dont think he should get away with it (link)
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Yeah,dump him. He'll learn next time not to do that.
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What is your view on long distance relationships? I started one today.. and I am nervous because I've heard both positive and negative things about them... (link)
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They never work unless the person isnt away for very long. Why tie yourself down anyway? I mean,seriously,how can you say that he/she is my boyfriend when you can't even see them? It's sad that relationships have to end sometimes,but you'll find somebody else. You owe yourself and your ex more than just a phone call a week and calling that a relationship.
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my boy friend is a really kool person and great bf. he calls me and pays attention to me and stuff but im so over him... im just not interested anymore. i want to dumb him.. how can i do it nicely? (link)
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Give him the Let's Be Friends speech. But you'll regret it later,nice guys aren't on every street corner. For the record,this dumb person later accused me of calling her a hooker because I said every street corner. Earth to Mrs.Dumbass,it's an expression.
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ok here it goes: i have some kind of persperation problem. like i sweat all the time! i put on deodarant, wash and everything. i dont have b.o either. ive tried many different brands 2! it shows up on my clothes and its embarrasing. how do i control this problem? thanks 4 the help! (link)
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You can eat foods with less salt,drink less caffeine,and drink more water. Be sure to drink milk,orange juice,and plenty of water each day. It also helps to be thing as well. But you have to remember that some people just naturally sweat more than others.
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Since ur a guy, I gotta question 4 ya! Haha. I was just wondering, wut are some good present/gifts that u can get for or give 2 ur boyfriend 4 an anniversary or birthday type deal? My boyfriend is around ur age and we have been going out 4 about 9 and a half months. Sorry, this question may be lame or w/e, but I figured I'd give it a shot and ask since I'm clueless when it comes 2 wut a guy would want. Thanks! (link)
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This really depends on your guy. I mean if he's into video games,get him Grand Theft Auto if he doesn't have it already,or Madden NFL 2005.I'm not really into video games,but he may be. If he's into sports,get him a shirt of his favorite team. Or cologne is always a good gift and tell him "I think you'd be really sexy wearing that around me." He may be a fisherman or a hunter,so you can go to a bass and pro shop for things like that. He may need a new rod and reel or new hunting clothes. If he's a straight guy,he's into at least ONE of these things.
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im 15 and a female! ok i went out with this guy about a year and a half ago and i made a big mistake (whole other story) and since the day we broke up i have had a major crush on him and EVERYBODY knew it cuz i have a big mouth and i don't keep it shut lol and well me and my cousin are very close or at least we were. she never met this guy untill a few months ago but she knew i would do anything to go back out with him. even though she was aware of this she still went on with her usual ways of flirting with him. this made me furious, but after about a month she forgot all about him. then one day i invited her to a party with me where i knew he was going to be there not thinking of the conciquences! she was all over him and it made me soooo angry. NOw they talk on the phone all the time i mean they don't even live in the same state! she told me that she wasn't even interested in dating him cuz she doesn't date guys out of state! so i am confused she is constantly calling me asking me to go places with them but i am not up for all that junk i don't want to sit there while they flirt. i think she might be doing this to be mean. but im not sure, i am now over this guy but it still P's me off to know that she is getting the attention of the guy i once dreamed of! please help cuz i really am confused about what i should do about the whole thing! (link)
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That's your problem in your second to last sentence. "the guy i once dreamed of!" implies that you chased him and he didn't have to work for your affections anymore. He saw a challenge with your cousin and he took it. Your cousin wasn't intending to hurt you,I don't think. I mean if they don't even live in the same state,then come on. I can see your point about not wanting to go over there and see them flirt;that's a real drag. Don't worry about it and ask your cousin the real story why she flirted with your ex. She had to have a mild interest,she did flirt with him.
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i like this boy..alot...buttttt i dunno if he likes me..and i DONT WANT TO ASK HIM but back in middle schooll he alwayz flirted wit mme an all but now i dont know noo mo..r u gonna help or what? (link)
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If you like him,don't be afraid of rejection and go for it. If he says he doesn't like you,it won't be the last time you get rejected in your life. You can't get any dates if you don't put yourself out there. Be confident and ask him out. You never know. Besides,I've been turned down so many times and I'm still here. So don't worry about it.
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i ahve this problem i just moved to a new stae and met a rly cool guy and we were talkin but stuff happened and we stopped talkin and were jsut freinds but it seems like whenever i am round him i kiss him and stuff but i dont want a relatioship so should i keep doin this i feel like i am leadin him on or just stop...if you could tell em anything it would be great i am so comfused!!
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If you're not intending to build a relationship with this guy,then you really need to break it off. You're leading him on and you have to ask yourself how you would feel if the shoe was on the other foot. Why don't you want a relationship? It sounds like you like him,he likes you, what else do ya need? But you could also ask him what he expects out of your relationship and if he says making out is fine with him and you both mutually agree that you don't want a relationship,then that's ok. As long as you two are on the same page.
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i rly need a boyfriend but i dont have the guts to tell ne one that i like them...please help (link)
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You dont NEED a boyfriend. But if you like a guy just walk up to him and tell him you're interested. Don't fear rejection,you'll get rejected a lot in life. But in order to get dates you gotta put yourself out there.
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Is it possible to get cold sores on your skin? I have something on the skin above my lip which is either a small zit or a cold sore. I don't want to put anything on it until I know what it is; as benzoyl peroxide will irritate it if it is a cold sore, and if it's a cold sore I'm not gonna do anything. Also I don't want to be popping a cold sore. (link)
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Yes,people get cold sores above their lips all the time. Try popping it,but if it doesn't then it's a cold sore.
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