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15/f
dating my boyfriend for a year && a half; hes 15 too. were serious about our relationship, dont doubt our age. anyways i really have no idea what to make/get him for xmas. i just bought him a shirt && made him a pillow that said i love you. hes not really into jewlery, has plenty of shoes, doesn't play video games.. he wrestles. but i have no idea what to make/get himm! ah help? =) (link)
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Here you go. =)
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=518322
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i am a female. me and my partner wanted to have sex, so he tired putting it in, but it wouldnt go in that far. is it still considered having sex even though he didnt put it in far? (link)
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Even though it didn't go fully in, it's still considered that you had sex. Which means you are not a virgin.
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uh, to begin -- i dated this guy, Jason, from 8th grade to sophomore year, but then we broke up. However, throughout that whole time, i was best friends with a guy, Chad. He was always there for me, and i could always talk to him. However, going into junior year [single, that is] chad and i went to the homecoming dance together, and from there he told me how he has had feelings for me since 8th grade. The first thought that came into my head was that i did not want to wreck our friendship. Sometime in December though, i started to get feelings for him. We were very good together, but we never officially dated because i thought that we were ever broke up, we would never be friends. Later in April, Jason broke up with his girlfriend, and wanted to give "us" a try again. I gave in, and obviously Chad and i ended our fling. Now almost 8 months later, i am still dating Jason, and Chad has a girlfriend. and i still have feelings for Chad, but Jason treats me so good. But uh, im just so frustrated because Chad has a girlfriend now and i am so jealous. Chad and i already discussed how we both felt towards eachother, but he got frustrated with me that i didnt do anything with my feelings towards him, and thinks Jason is wrong for me. It's my senior year, and college is just around the corner.. What do you think i should do? Should i give Chad a chance? I really just need advice please =D (link)
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First off, my apologies for taking a few days to answer your question.
Who do you have more feelings for? I would say stay with that person, however, it obviously isn't that easy. Jason sounds like a great guy, but I'm afraid if you don't try something with Chad - you may regret it for a very long time. You have to think though, if you chance it and go with Chad - if things don't work out, you may never get Jason back again.
Also, it's difficult because Chad has a girlfriend. And if he isn't willing to break up with her, for you, then it isn't going to work either. So this is a toughie, but it just comes down to if you're willing to pay the consequences, go with Chad. If not, stay with Jason.
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with hue (link)
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I'm afraid, I don't understand. =/
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Hi, I saw that on your column you have the links to frequently asked questions. But how do you get them to be what they're actually about, not just a link that says [Link](Mouse over link to see full location)? How do you do that? Thanks! (link)
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From my understanding, on Advicenators, that only works in advice columns. When I answer questions, I use the exact same HTML code - and it comes up "[Link](Mouse over link to see full location)." So I'm not sure there is a way to get it to work, but it would be great if there was. =)
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ok you seem good with sizes and things. I am super skinny but I have really long legs!! It is really hard to find pants that fit. I am a Zero in womens jeans. and my feet are so small I still have to buy little girls shoes! It is so stupid Is there any where I can go to get decent clothes?
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Unfortunately, I'm not too sure about this one. I know "Dots" is a great store for good sizes, would you happen to have one of those, where you live? If not, I would think stores like American Eagle, or Body Central would be good. Is there anyway that you can write my another inbox question, telling me what stores you have tried? That would be helpful.
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Well I wanna hear from people their opinions on teen series' that I haven't read, I've read most of the popular ones but I want some more.
I've read:
Gossip Girl
The It Girl
The A-List
The Clique
The Insiders
Inside Girl
Private
Pretty Little Liars
so can anyone reccomend some more for me? (link)
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*Summer Boys Series
It's a must read!
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i don't know what do give one of my good friends for christmas. i want to get her something good cause she's been there for me 6 years, what should i get her?
15/f (link)
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Here you go. =)
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=518322
If she's a girly girl, you could get her a gift set from Bath & Body.
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hey. Ive been with my boyfriend for just over 5 months and i have NO idea what to get him. i love him and want to get him something special.
Any ideas possible would be great thanks :]
and he's not into cars and stuff hehe.
Thanks :]
x x x (link)
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Here you go. =)
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=518322
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Heyy!!!
At american eagle, Im a size zero jeans, but maybe i just have a big butt because their underwear only covers half my butt! Wher can i find cute underwear that cover me completely? (link)
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Victoria's Secret for great-fitting underwear. It's all I buy, however, it can get expensive.
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ok there is this guy i like im 14/f and he is 17/m i really like him and we have talk here and there but have never really got to hang out to get to no eachother but i really like him so i dont no really what to do so any advice would be great! (link)
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Hi, I think this should help you out. =)
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=507294
P.S. Be sure to talk to him really often, that way you two will become more comfortable with each other and be able to hang out regularly.
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Where can I contact to see about a job for a local paper route? What are the hours and salary like? And what neighborhoods would I be visiting? (link)
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None of us really know the answer to all of these questions, except for the ones who do this, but even then, it would be difficult. We all live in different parts of the world, so we can't really answer what neighborhoods you would be doing. But you can contact your local paper, and they will tell you all of those answers. =)
I've seen both biking and driving.
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my speakers are plugged in my computer
but i dont hear any sound at all!!!!
I CANT EVEN WATCH VIDEOS ON YOUTUBE!
and i cant listen to music!
What do i do? How do i hear again? (link)
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I had this exact same problem, and even though I never clicked it onto must, turns out, the speakers were on mute. Here are the steps...
*Go to Control Panel
*Click on, "Sounds & Audio Devices"
*You'll see "Mute," be sure that it's NOT checked. If it is, uncheck it, and your speakers should work. Please, let me know in feedback if it worked. If it didn't, please ask me an inbox question and I'll be happy to help you more.
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Ok i have gym in next semester and my friend told me that you have this test to see how long can you hang onto a monkey bar.
Well, I shave my armpits but like you can still see the dots and it's the same with waxing too because i have black hair and the area around the armpit is kinda dark too.
And I can't change my outfit because we have uniforms. Any advice would be great, thank you. (link)
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I've got the perfect thing for you - and it's painless! I personally use this, so I've had a lot of experience with it. It is called, "Sally Hansen Spray-On, Shower-Off." All you do is spray it on, leave it on for about 3 minutes, get in the shower and wash it off, and you're done. It's that simple, believe me, it's worth it and you won't be disappointed.
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last year i was talking to this kid. and i guess we some what hooked up. but it really was nothing.
then my friend started talking to him and they've been close until recent. they were together all summer [what she says] and he says like four days.
now hes saying hes wanted to hook up with me since last year blah blah blah. and now he considers me girlfriend material. and he says he likes me a little.
would you hook up with him if you were in this situation? (link)
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Since "hook-up" can mean pretty much anything. This is a little hard to answer. However, if you're meaning he wants to makeout, etc. with you, I think that may be the only reason he called you, "girlfriend material," just so he can get what he wants. Now other than that, I can't say too much, since I don't know that much about him. As far as your friend, talk to her FIRST and see what she has to say.
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I haven't gotten my period in three months... I'm not sexually active, what could it be? (link)
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It could be that you're having an irregular period, but just to be safe, I recommend going to a doctor and making sure what it is. That way, it should ease your mind, since you'll know exactly what's going on and if it's something you need to fix.
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who's christina aguilera's husband? And is she pregnant? (link)
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1) Jordan Bratman.
2) Yes.
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okay well, there is this kid i REALLY like lets call him chad..
chade claims he like's this girl sally he is always like ct texting sally and stuff which kind of bugs me
anyway he was saying all the stuff about sally when we first started to become close and i didnt really like him then we got to talking alot and i started to like himm..
anyway i didnt tell him i liked him but he hasnt been talking about sally alot in a while..
so today we where at our friend jacobs house and we where together the WHOLE time!!! we didn't leave eachother. like when i moved somewhere he would follow.. and he kept like touching me.. he would like rest is elbow on my knee he put his head down on my shoulderrr and MUUUCCCHHH other stuff like when i was sitting on the couch and there was this whole open space on one side but he decided to squeeze into the tight side of me i dont know if what was like just to be close to me? he was smiling alot and making eye contact too..
but there are 4 main problems here iss
im kind of confused because i think he still like's sally so i dont know what he's doing with me.. ??
also does this mean he likes me?? what about sally??
and when he's doing all this stuff like putting his head on me.. leaning on me.. touching me.. getting VERY close to be we are squshing eachother what do i do? just stand there? HELPPP!
alsoo.. i feel like after this night nothing good is gonna happen after itt?
if something good happens after it does that mean he likes me? and if nothing happens does that mean he doesnt?
if someone can please answer all my questions in as much DETAIL as possible that would be great thanks so much (link)
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This should help you out. =)
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=507294
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Hey,
I really have NO idea what to get my best friend for Christmas. She is 12 and tom-boyish. She likes Basketball and I've known her forever. She (link)
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Hello, here is a link that may help you, then I'll give you a little bit of my insight on it. Actually, the link has my insight, but more personal, haha.
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=518322
You can get her the new Chris Brown cd, "Exclusive," if she doesn't already have it. Trust me, I'm a HUGE fan of him and would love to have it for Christmas! If she likes bath and body stuff, you can get her one of those great gift sets. You can find them at Bath & Body Works or for cheaper, at pretty much any dollar/drugstore, and my favorite - Walmart. =)
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i heard this awesome rap song "soldier boy" i think that was its name but idk it said that alot, does aomeone know who its by??? (link)
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*Soulja Boy - Crank That (Tell Em)
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