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I work with an elderly lady who can't seem to mind her own business. I'm the office manager and so she blames me for all her failings, like not getting raises, not being allowed to check voicemail, etc. She won't be honest with me about the way she feels yet she has no problem running her mouth about me and everyone else to anyone willing to listen. We have a very small office, there is only 5 of us here. So of course everyone knows what she says b/c that's how gossip is. Anyway, she's making my work difficult and making up lies to the boss and I want it stopped. How can I do this without stooping to her level?
hey, forget about it. i know its hard because she is just going out of her way to make your lfe harder. but dont let her bring you done. honestly she will get what she deserves. in the end all the lies will catch up with her. so just hang in there. cait ♥
Hi, I downloaded Grisoft Virus control yesterday, and ran a scan. It said I had two viruses, and I can't delete either of them. For one of them, under result it says "Virus identified Java/OpenStream", and under result for that one it says "Infected, embedded file". When I click it, it says "Selected object is in the archive and cannot be healed..."
Basically, my question is what am I going to do about this?
hey, im not sure. call a comptuer place like best buy. plase rate. cait ♥
okay well i have old beanie baby and pokemon cards left from about 8 years ago when they were very popular and now i no longer want them. i want to sell them on ebay but am i better off selling them now or waiting a few years. is the value of them going to go up or down in the next 5, 10, 20 years?
hey, sell them now. there gonna be out of style completly in 5 years or more. please rate. cait ♥
Dear Advicenators-
I just got a 5th generation 30gb ipod. I got it Sunday, yes Yesterday and I dropped it in my sink today! After that it worked for less than 5 minutes, then had a low battery sign, and completley shut off.. now I have a symbol that pops up wiht a sad face on it, and an ecalimation point. What does this mean and how do I get my iPod to start wokring again?!?
hey, its broken and you need to get a new one. there is no way of fixing it. it happened to my cousin too. bring it back and get a refund or buy a new one. you could try blow drying it but i dont think it will work. please rate. cait ♥
im 15 and me and my boyfriend have been going out for over 5 months..we had unprotected sex but he pulled out before he came..im really worried that i am pregnant, and i could never tell my parents..i have been gettin pains in my stomach, but it could jsut be me worrying..or my period is coming..what should i do..i cant keep the baby..and im jsut really worried..is there ways i could get an abortion with out my parents knowing?..like the morning after pill
please give me some adivce what to do before i go insane
hey, take the pill. please rate. cait ♥
You know when people write PS: on messages or notes? Well what does PS stand for and what's it for? Thank you.
hey, it means post script. like if you forgot to tell someone something you would write ps meet me at 8. please rate. cait ♥
ok so on friday, my freinds and i are going ice skating. i told this guy who i know and we flirt together all the time. I like him but I don't want a b/f right now... I just want to flirt. So, he is coming as well with his freinds and of course we are going to flirt like crazy. I'm just nervous because I don't want him to ask me out and then get turned off..AND I don't want him to go out with this rude snob that I hate. What should I do to prevent him to asking me out? If he does, what should I say?
hey, you just can prevent soemone from asking you out lol. but if he does just simply say i have to think about it. then the next day polietly tell him your not looking for a boy right now. hope i have helpe;d. anymore questions drop a message in my inbox. please rate. cait ♥
I am as flat as my back. I have no boobs. I wear a padded bra, but I have no boobs! Is there a kind of bra that will make me look bigger? I'm short and not as develpoed... I develop slower then others. Will they get bigger? THANK YOU SO MUCH!
hey, it depends on your age and bra size. if your like 13-15 its usually slow growth. but if its older and your boobs are smaller than an A32 then its looking bad. keep wearing padded bras. any more questions dorp a message in my inbox. hipe i helped. please rate. cait ♥
how do u tell if a louis vituonn purse is real or not..my cousin gave it to my sister and my sister handed it down to me...is there anyway you can tell
Ill rate 5 for helping
hey, yes you can def. tell. first things first the leather on the fake ones look fake. 2ndly if the tag says made in china is a knock off aka fake. any more questions drop a message in my inbox. hope i have helped. please rate. cait ♥
The thing is my dad suspects me to be perfect and the thing is I'm not. And i can never be. I can never be the girl he wants me to be and i dont know what to do anymore, i'd tell him all that but he would just kick me out and i would have no where to go , can you help me please?
hey, okay nobody is perfect, and he should know that. sit him down and explain to him thats nobody is perfect. if he doesnt listen and kicks you out the best thing to do is to go to a relatives house or freinds house. im sure he will understand tho. any more questions drop a message in my inbox. hope i have helped. please rate. cait ♥
I want to learn to make my own myspace layouts. I know how to take premade ones and manipulate them to be what i want.. but i want to be able to make my own instead of using a premade code.
Does anyone know of anyone online tutorials to do this?
Specific Sites would be quite helpful.
Thanks
Hey, I dont have sites for you but i know someone who does this. Well you go on Paint which comes with most computers. go to start then all programs then assesories then paint. there you can design your own backgrounds for my space. any other questions drop a message at my inbox. hope i have helped. please rate. cait ♥
i love chris ladoux..but no one i know listens to him or even knows who he is. i know. crazy.
so the point is, i'e never heard anyone say his name before. how do you pronounce it?
Hey, I have no clue who that is. But the last name is def. french. Ask a frecn teacher maybe? Hope i have helped. Please rate.
I'm doing a project for science on cellular respiration and i can't think of a good idea (it needs to be creative, i can't just outline the steps) does anyone have a good idea? thanks!!!
Hey, Umm maybe you could get a tri-fold poster board and find a bunc of pictures and glue them on. Then explain what each one is and how is works. Then mayeb the pros and cons of it? Hope i helped. Please rate.
what was the dred-scott decision?
Hey, the dred scott descision was about slaves being peoples personal properties. Hope i helped. Please rate.
how do you heal a nose ring infection?
i tried looking online but i keep hearing different things, so i don't know what to go by.
is it safe to use hydrogen peroxide?
some sites said yes, and some said no.
help?
Hey, hydrogen peroxide is the best thing for it. Ive used it on a number of piercing infections in my ears. Hope i have helped. Please rate.
This is really weird and random, but has anyone seen the movie or opera "The Phantom of the Opera"? You know how Erik has that mask that covers half of his face? How does he get it to stay on? I didn't see and strings around his head to hold it in place
Hey, they use a special kind of glue to make it stick on. Hope i have helped. Please rate.
someone once told me on this website that if you take a cold shower you can burn off extra colories because you body has to warm up and by doing so you burn off more calories. is this true? if it is would it be the same if i took a run during the winter when it was cold would i burn more calories. please help. ill rate 5's!
Hey, It could be true. But the number of calories you would be burning would not be alot. Your better off running or doing crunches or walking on a tredmill you would burn more calories doing that. It would be better then freezing your butt off too. Hope i have helped. Please rate.
i weigh about 150 pounds and i want to weigh about 120 or 110 by the summer so i can wear cute bathingsuits and stuff. how can i do this. i play basketball and softball and for softball we have winter workouts and we run alot. but what else can i do , my problem areas are my butt,stomach,arms, and thighs. please help ill rate 5's!!!
Hey, okay first of all dont just pick a number to loose. I wouldnt recomend that. It depends on your height. Say your 5`0 then your perfect weight is 100 pounds. Say your 5`1 then your perfect weight is 105 pounds. Keep doign that up to your weight and everytime you go up add 5 pounds. Do a 100 crunhces every other day or a number that your comfrotable with. ON the days your not doing crunches run or walk on the tredmill. Only eat 2 meals a day. No snacking in between. Drink diet soda or water. The better choice is water tho. Hope i have helped. Please rate.
I was on my space music pages for various artists and I saw you can download some of the songs. After i download them (they usually go to my pictures for some reason) I don't know how to put them on my Dell Dj mp3 player. Does anyone know how to do this? thanks!
Hey, you cant download them on any mp3 player. Hope i have helped. Please rate.
ok i have an ipod video. i was wondering if anyone knew what type of format it takes. mpg, mpeg, ect. i tryed mpg, but it wont work. is there anyway to format a movie to another format? thanks.
~Ank
Hey, yep it takes a .mp4 format. Hoope i have helped. Please rate.