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can u please give me some ideas and topics for me and my boyfriend to talk about we seem to have a communication problem and it is destroying our relationship. we love each other so much though. i am a 26 year old female and my boyfriend is 30 (link)
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I am younger than you but what you could talk about is really anything on your mind thats one big thing to talk about and what you both have in common and what happened the other day and stuff like that
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so heres the thing.. when i date people . i dont see [ color ] i see personality & charm (link)
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Yeah there is nothing different from black from white. You really can't change what they think it their choice but you can tell them and if they don't think the same then forget them and do what you wanna do!
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ok well theres this guy at my school and were pretty good friends and stuff.. and me and my friend are almost positive he likes me and were trying to get it out of him but he wont tell us. idk but guys at my school are stubborn and everything. are we being nosy or is he hiding something??
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Find one of his friends and ask him because he probably would tell his friend.
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16,f
alright ive never had a boyfriend and i mean im not ashamed of that, ive only madeout with two guys and done other stuff, well just like touching but nothing else! im stil a virgin. being single is fun..MOST OF THE TIME..i kinda like this guy but he has a girlfriend i try to forget him but i always go for the wrong ones and everyone says im too picky. i mean..i think i am sometimes, but i just want the right one and i dont want my heart to get broken by some jerk who just wants to use me. ive heard alot of different boys think im hot but alot of them are younger like one or two years, but i get along so good with them and im soo comfortable around them. i feel soo selfless though i mean why cant i get a guy the same age as me or older? am i not good enough, whats wrong with me? this is what i think all the time..no guy has ever asked me out and everyone is always soo shocked because everyone tells me how gorgeous i am and they're like are you serious..you never had a boyfriend? and im like yep, and they're like oh my god! woww...why your so pretty i mean you could get like any guy. i dont think im too picky, i just dont go for every guy that walks by me. i do have some flaws that bug me and that im self-conscious about like my NOSE. =\ im a huuuuge flirt. but im not annoying about it. i just dont know what im doing wrong! all the guys ive like in the past have had girlfriends, but yet they still flirt with me when im around them. we're still friends because i love hanging out with him, but it just reminds me of how much i like him. i just have the worst luck with guys. im not really that shy, im pretty outgoing. im not gonna change anything about me
just for one person. but to me, i think im a
normal teenage girl. alot of people say their jealous but i dont know what they're talking about i mean im not conceited, but i do have alot of confidence in myself. i dont know. what can i do!? me and my friends always go out, but NEVER any luck
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Look at a guy and see if he's your type but make sure he dosn't have a girlfriend because if he finds out you like him it could break them up and break the girls heart. But if you don't see any guy thats your type then go for someone younger than you it won't hurt unless they are using you. Just frind the personality. Just go for who is right.
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I recently got a haircut...and ALOT of my hair was lost..and now I have a little below shoulder hair!
I love having short hair..but i can't find a nice hairstyle to go with to events.Celebs are always having their hair down...and no one i ask has any good styling tips.
My hair is dark brown, midi-long, thick (RELLY) and pretty fizzy sometimes. It's in steps and had a nice soft texture! (link)
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Thats my hair too, dark brown, thick and yeah but what I do with my hair would be braids or ponytail or back in a clip even headbands look cool or you can create your own personal look.
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okay there is this guy that i like nd me and my freind have been talkin to him online....the only thing is he doesn't know that it is me and her..he thinks it is this girl named brooke and i haven't been talkin to im later and now he is all tellin my friend that he loves her....but he thinks it is brooke how do i tell him that it was me and her in thebeginning witout tottally hurting our relationship now? (link)
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Try to talk to him face to face and tell him calmly about what happened then he might take it okay or he might take it harshly but if he takes it okay then he's worth hanging around but if he takes it the wrong way then whats the point he has to like you for who you are and not brooke.
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okay I have a friend that has went to a knew school. she has changed to be this girl who wants to ignore people and she's doing wrong things. I am trying to be there because she is kinda gullible, so since we don't see ech other I try to call her or email her. She doesn't give back the energy towards our friend ship like I do, but she keeps saying she wants to be frinds. Now I guess she has changed her email address and she ignores my other friend when she calls. SH eis totally acting like the victim. Is she right in this situation or am I wrong. What should I do? I give good ratings to! (link)
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She just might not want to hang around you or anyone right now or she could be having troubles. If you could go over to her house maybe you could talk to her and stuff. But if she dosn't do annything about yo could find more friends to hang out with but check whats going on with her first
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i am 13 years old and in seventh grade (female)
all the girls in my grade wear eyeliner except for me. My mom won't let me. (i asked her one time over the summer) what can i say to her or do so that she will let me wear it? (link)
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cool I'm 13 and in 7th grade too and my mom won't let me wear eyeliner either. I told my mom about all the girls wearing eyeliner she says I'm to young. All you are gonna have to do is convince her you are old enough to wear it and just find time to talk to her about it and there is a chance that you could wear it soon.
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so anyways, i like this kid jamal alot.. and supposivly he likes me, but the thing is that im too shy, like when were around each other we hardly even talk, all we do is like shove eachother & like play fight/flirt and like yeah whatever we've kissed before, but it takes forever for it to even happen, because were both shy. and he doesnt think i like him and i want to show him that i do like him, but im to shy to show my feelings or even tell him how i feel, and im petrified to even make the first move. i think its because of insecurities i have or something i dont know but yeah anyways like if he kisses me or whatever im alright with it .. but i just want to show him that im not that shy .. how can i like over come my insecurities & be able to express my feelings ?
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To stop being shy is really hard you are just gonna have to work on it like just go up to him and talk about something you guys have in commoon and if you don't know what you two like then find out! And then soon you will be able to tell him how you feel and what I always say if you don't want to say anything then have a friend tell him then either way you two would probably be together.
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I'm a teen and I want a boyfriend badly. I'm not desperate, its not like I go around begging for guys. I guess I'm inwardly desperate, lol. I don't want someone to make out with or even go farther; I just want someone to be able to talk to about anything, except different from a normal friend... I don't know, I can't explain it. I just want someone to be there for me. I have tons of friends, but only one I can really talk to about anything. I want someone to tell me they love me and really mean it. I've never had a boyfriend... I'm 14... I know the best things (or guys, lol) come to those who wait.. but I guess my question is how do I find a really sweet, nice guy who doesnt *just* want to make out? Seems like there just arent enough of those type of guys. (link)
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I understand what you are saying and first if you want to find a cool guy like what you were talking about then look at the guys and see if they are your type if they are nice and stuff like that then you would probably find the perfect one.
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so i have been going out with my boyfriend for a year and for months. we have had our ups and downs in it because it is a long distance realtionshiip(about 20 miles away) i see him once a week. on friday i am going to disneyland with the school on friday. a lot of my friends are going to. i havent told my bf yet because i know he wont like the idea. he will tell me that i am going with another guy and that i am hiding stuff from him. i dont know how to tell him. i cant really keep it away because i am going from 8:30 am until 11:45 pm so i need help. what is the best way to tell him about this. thanks so much. (link)
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He might be thinking that stuff because he dosn't see you often and is hoping your not doing anything with another guy. Just tell him and if he says anything just talk to him about the sittuation if he disagree's with that then ask him if he trusts you.
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Ok, im 13/f. I have a huge crush on my best guy friend. I trust him with everything except for I can't tell him that I like him. He thinks I like this one guy (all girls like him so its pretty normal) but I just can't stand it! So many people say we flirt all the time though I dont really notice it. He always smiles at me and when we talk we do like shove eachother for fun or playfully punch eachother's arm when we say something stupid. For some reason all I can think about is him lately and its killing me! I CAN'T tell him I like him, and lately he won't tell me who he likes. He used to say he was confused and usually would end up asking me who I like and I wouldnt reply. When I finnally wanted him to stop asking him that's when I told him I like the "everyone guy". He then told me he's sure he doesn't like the girl he was confused about. Soo many people say i like him and he likes me but I can't believe it. I think he likes my best girl friend (lets call her Susan). He and every other guy likes to flirt with Susan all the time. She is my best friend but it's getting annoying. There's also the fact shes really shallow and dumb becasue she cant tell you what 2+2 is and she says if a guy doesnt have nice shoes theres no reason to like him. I really want to tell him I like him but im scared he'll hate me if I do. What should I do?
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Okay you could try to tell him how you really feel about him. There is a chance that the girl he said he was confused about could be you because when he said he didn't like the girl that he was confused about he didn't want to say it anymore because he thinks that you like someone else. So either tell him yourself, note, email or face to face. If you don't want to do that you could have it go through a friend besides "Susan" There is a hug chance that you guys would be together soon!
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the only good thing in my like right now are my friends and my crush. those are the thigs that are keeping me alive right now. me and my parents fight constantly and im just sick of it. they make me feel like im worthless and stupid. ive been cutting for the past 2 years and my parents dont know that and im starting to smoke and both of those arent helping, everyone said it would but it doesnt, it just makes things worse and now i just dont know what to do. i almost ran away like 3 times and my relationship with my parents is worse. the other day they were talking and my mom said to my dad "why the hell did we have kids?!" so that made me feel even worse. and now i just wanna give up cuz ive tried so hard to be a good girl and be nice to everyone but i just screw up everything. so if u can help me in any way, i would appreciate it. (link)
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Friends and your crushes always keep you going. I might not be where you are right now but just try to find time to talk to your mom or dad separetly and tell them how you feel and whats going on because they've got to love you and if you don't think that just try to think positive because maybe someone else is having something worse go on. Just think positive and talk to your parents it might make things better.
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14/f
k, so theres this guy and I like him sooo much, and i really want him to be my boyfriend. But the problem is that hes in a different grade, and the only time i see him is at lunch. but like the only reason i know him is because at luch, me and my friend started hanging out with her boyfriend(her boyfriend is My crushes best friend, so hes there) so its just the four of us, so i only get to have a group conversation with him. And I dont see him that much.
But I like him Sooooooooooooooooooo much, and i just really want a boyfriend, because i always have to watch my friend cuddle and hold hands with her boyfrined, and its soo depressing because i wish that its me and my crush. Plus, i think he thinks im weird. but my freind thinks he likes me for some odd reason, even though he shows no signs. I think shes just trying to make me feel better.
I dont even know how to flirt with him, because of the situation im in. Please help
i need to know how i can let him knowd i like him without telling him to his face. how should i flirt with him? i need help, bad.
GUYS: tell me how you like a girl to flirt with you, and what you look for in a girl.
GIRLS: tell me what you would do in this situation. Also, any flirting tips you may have for me would help, and which ways work best for you.
PLEASE HELP ME. IM LIKE IN LOVE WITH HIM, AND ILL GO CRAZY IF I HAVE TO STAND BEING JUST FRIENDS ANY LONGER (link)
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Okay I've been there before and what I've had happen. You could have it go through your friend either have her tell him that you like him or have her hint him about it. Hope I helped and if he finds out theres a chance that you two will be together soon!
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ok so my mom .. does not agree with me geting a lip peircing.. but i .. REALLY REALLY want one and have for the past few years and obviously i need her aprovil to get it done she things its gross cause its a hole and she thinks its grose cause its around the mouth but i would love to have one i put fake ones in all the time but i want permanemt and i wouldnt wear i fake one to school so how should i come about this.. how could i convince her what can i do ?
PLEASE HELP
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You are gonna have to respect ywhat your mom says. Even though she may think its gross then you are gonna have to wait till your older then you probaly could
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what fun things can two teenage girls do on a snow day for tomorrow besides sledding or make snow angels? i really want some creative things that are fun. (link)
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Snow men I know those are ordinary but they are fun and you can add lots of stuff to make it creative and funny! Also you can do a snowball fight thats usual too but also still fun.
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15/F
I am a grade ten and I am required to take 'Planning 10' this year. It is a mandatory CAPP (career and personal planning) class. I was going to hand in an assignment today (on time) but asked the teacher if I could borrow her holepuncher (so I could put it in the required folder) but she said she didn't have one. She also said that I would lose 50% on the assignment automatically.
Hole punching was not part of the criteria so I feel like I should not lose so many marks. On my last assignment the whole class got 90-100% but I got 54%. I am a straight A student and try exceptionally hard on my work yet she gives me terrible marks for no reason. I even do assignments when I feel like they invade my privacy.
I have had enough. Am I overreacting? Who can I speak to about this other than her? She doesn't have a whole lot of common sense and I do not feel comfortable talking to someone so unfair.
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Well you can talk to your parents about that and they can try to talk to her and even the principal might help too.
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i have a boy friend (kevin) and this other boy asked (chris) me out and i told him i have a man! i do think that chris is cute but i think he will break my heart and i don't want to break up with kevin and then get hurt by chris! wat should i do?????????? (link)
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Stick with the guy you truly like and if you think you'll be hurt by the other then why break up with the guy you have now? So if you like Kevin and you think you'll be with him for awhile then thats good and if you think Chris is cute but he will break your heart then what do you think would really do best? Well anyways good luck!
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I try to eat healthy, not like extremely low-cal or anything, cause I'm not trying to make myself skinny, but I just want to look like a normal, healthy person. Lately I have been eating a LOT at dinner time. I can't help it, I never feel full. I try to take my time when I eat, since it takes awhile for you to realize you are full, but I still am hungry. I eat a large breakfast ( about 500-600 cal) and about the same at lunch. I eat a snack when I come home from school, and I drink enough water. I have not gained any weight yet, but it's possible I could, the way I've been eating. I eat like two dinners every night now, sometimes like 1000 cal. What could be my problem, why am I getting so hungry now? How can I turn it around, or should I? (link)
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Well most people eat when they are bored or watching tv and just relaxing so they just go and find something to eat. I always end up doing that while I watch tv. You could also eat alot when you are stressed like as you said you came home from school and just started eating you could have been stressed from the schoolwork or that you have a bunch of homework or that something happened at school that you didn't want to happen.
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(i'm 14/f, if that helps at all)
I have a really good friend that likes me. or did like me... i dunno if he still does. but i don't like him. things aren't really awkward typically, but he seems to get annoyed with me when i hang out with his best friend. his friend and i are really good friends too, and (to an outside person) it seems like we flirt, but we don't really. People think both Guy 1 and 2 like me, but its very unlikely that guy 2 does.
so my question is: how do I de-drama this? I don't want to hurt anyone, and i don't want either of them to like me. I just want to be friends with them, cause they/re both amazing guys. If there any guys who might have a guy perspective, that'd be amazing. but I'll take any advice i can get! :-) (link)
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Okay the best I got here is talk to both of them and see what they say and just tell them if anything is going on that you just want to be friends and that should really smooth things down.
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