so anyways, i like this kid jamal alot.. and supposivly he likes me, but the thing is that im too shy, like when were around each other we hardly even talk, all we do is like shove eachother & like play fight/flirt and like yeah whatever we've kissed before, but it takes forever for it to even happen, because were both shy. and he doesnt think i like him and i want to show him that i do like him, but im to shy to show my feelings or even tell him how i feel, and im petrified to even make the first move. i think its because of insecurities i have or something i dont know but yeah anyways like if he kisses me or whatever im alright with it .. but i just want to show him that im not that shy .. how can i like over come my insecurities & be able to express my feelings ?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? brianna_shay answered Wednesday December 6 2006, 4:49 pm: If your shy around him, then all you need to do is get to know him a little better. You need to start talking to him first, and then maybe he'll feel more comfortable around you. Then he'll start talking to you more, too. If you have trouble finding things to say, then think about what you want to say before you talk to him. Another suggestion is to get a group of people, and call him to hang out with all of you, and it wont be as uncomfortable, since its not just the two of you. Just try to work up to being good friends with him first, before you worry about getting in a relationship. If you were to go right into a relationship you wouldnt have anything to talk about, and it would be really akward. [ brianna_shay's advice column | Ask brianna_shay A Question ]
kiran answered Tuesday December 5 2006, 6:08 pm: To stop being shy is really hard you are just gonna have to work on it like just go up to him and talk about something you guys have in commoon and if you don't know what you two like then find out! And then soon you will be able to tell him how you feel and what I always say if you don't want to say anything then have a friend tell him then either way you two would probably be together. [ kiran's advice column | Ask kiran A Question ]
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