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strictly friends...is it possible?
(i'm 14/f, if that helps at all)
I have a really good friend that likes me. or did like me... i dunno if he still does. but i don't like him. things aren't really awkward typically, but he seems to get annoyed with me when i hang out with his best friend. his friend and i are really good friends too, and (to an outside person) it seems like we flirt, but we don't really. People think both Guy 1 and 2 like me, but its very unlikely that guy 2 does.
so my question is: how do I de-drama this? I don't want to hurt anyone, and i don't want either of them to like me. I just want to be friends with them, cause they/re both amazing guys. If there any guys who might have a guy perspective, that'd be amazing. but I'll take any advice i can get! :-)
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talk to guy number 1 first and tell him that nuthing is going on between you and guy number 2 that you just want to be friends with both of them and that they are amazing then talk to guy number 2 and tell him that you just want to be friends or the easer way might be just to tell them both that you really like some other guy like when you r with them and a guy that you kind of like be like omg i have liked that guy forever and that way they both know that you dont like eather of them like that and they also know that you r there friend because you trust them with that "secret"
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Okay the best I got here is talk to both of them and see what they say and just tell them if anything is going on that you just want to be friends and that should really smooth things down.
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