SiNGLE FOR 16 years. starting to get old. what am i doing wr
Question Posted Tuesday December 5 2006, 5:27 pm
16,f
alright ive never had a boyfriend and i mean im not ashamed of that, ive only madeout with two guys and done other stuff, well just like touching but nothing else! im stil a virgin. being single is fun..MOST OF THE TIME..i kinda like this guy but he has a girlfriend i try to forget him but i always go for the wrong ones and everyone says im too picky. i mean..i think i am sometimes, but i just want the right one and i dont want my heart to get broken by some jerk who just wants to use me. ive heard alot of different boys think im hot but alot of them are younger like one or two years, but i get along so good with them and im soo comfortable around them. i feel soo selfless though i mean why cant i get a guy the same age as me or older? am i not good enough, whats wrong with me? this is what i think all the time..no guy has ever asked me out and everyone is always soo shocked because everyone tells me how gorgeous i am and they're like are you serious..you never had a boyfriend? and im like yep, and they're like oh my god! woww...why your so pretty i mean you could get like any guy. i dont think im too picky, i just dont go for every guy that walks by me. i do have some flaws that bug me and that im self-conscious about like my NOSE. =\ im a huuuuge flirt. but im not annoying about it. i just dont know what im doing wrong! all the guys ive like in the past have had girlfriends, but yet they still flirt with me when im around them. we're still friends because i love hanging out with him, but it just reminds me of how much i like him. i just have the worst luck with guys. im not really that shy, im pretty outgoing. im not gonna change anything about me
just for one person. but to me, i think im a
normal teenage girl. alot of people say their jealous but i dont know what they're talking about i mean im not conceited, but i do have alot of confidence in myself. i dont know. what can i do!? me and my friends always go out, but NEVER any luck
well thank you so much <3
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Zephyrius answered Tuesday December 5 2006, 11:14 pm: There are some reasons to this. Guys tend to...um..feel when someone is really wanting a boyfriend. to them, girls like that seem desperate. Girls who flirt ALOT are never that attractive. Do you ever display some interest about them or about something they like. ANd don't think aobut your lack of guy-getting skills as something wrong with you because when you believe something is wrong, so will others.
I suggest you think about your values, likes, dislikes and what you would really like in a guy. When you are certain of something go for it. And people who say you are too picky of your boyfriend/girlfried and ignorant. You can't just choose whoever comes your way.
kiran answered Tuesday December 5 2006, 6:40 pm: Look at a guy and see if he's your type but make sure he dosn't have a girlfriend because if he finds out you like him it could break them up and break the girls heart. But if you don't see any guy thats your type then go for someone younger than you it won't hurt unless they are using you. Just frind the personality. Just go for who is right. [ kiran's advice column | Ask kiran A Question ]
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