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Ok.. Im 14.. and I really love my boyfriend.. well.. last night.. we were talkin for a REALLY long time on the phone.. and he proposed to me. Its was really cute the way he did it. I of course said yes cause im so much in love with him.

What im wondering tho is: Do u think it can work out.. hes 16 and im 14... and also... do u think im too young to be engaged?

oh common, no offense, but hes just a sap. There is about a 5 percentile chance if your lucky you guys will be together by the time your at a good married age. You cant possibly be engaged.. i think you should give him the hints that thats just wrong. Im not trying to be mean at all but i've seen guys do this to girls and the next step is usually "lets have sex" so dont go there... gl hun.... srii if i sound harsh, didnt mean to

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okay there is this girl at my skool and she is freak but today she made fun of my friend and i and said we were "the bad altos"!! she can't sing for her life!! What can we do to get back at her??

honestly, if you "get back at her" she'll think what she said impacted you guys. Look her up and down, and walk away as if she isnt worth one fricken second of your time. If you insult her back it will be even worse, leave that bitch to her own problems

;-)

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okay my friend and i are going to a dance this friday!! what can we do to get the boys to notice us??

be yourself, wear a cute outfit. Dont put on any sort of attitude you wouldnt normally- that looks bad.. dont be afraid to talk to them first! good luck!

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if somebody twisted your wrist very hard can it break??

sure it can!

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ok i hav this friend chris who is one of my best friends and now i like him more than that. he wrote me a note and said he liked me too...the prob is my friend brit has really liked him for lik..literlly 3 yrs. i cant let either one of them no how i feel becuz shell get hurt. help

well if he liked her, would she go out with him?? If she would, then whats so wrong about you going out with him? If she wouldnt, maybe you shouldnt either. She'll have to understand if shes a good enough friend. If you dont go out with him, its not like he'll go out with her anyway, theres no point.

gl

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I met this guy I really like at a football game this past Friday.. Well.. he called me Sunday and asked me out. Since he asked me out.. we talk on the phone for HOURS at a time. I mean like 3 and 4 hours for each call.
Im really starting to like him ALOT! Is it possible to fall in love with someone u barely know?

when your young/ (or) a teen, its hard to really fall in love b/c you dont know exactly what its like. Its possible you have a major crush type of thing on this guy, but love is a very strong word, that people overuse. Its more of i want to marry or be engaged with you, see what i mean?? I think you LIKE him a whole lot, just not love, and not b/c its you, its just the way teens are. If your a lot older, then maybe

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I have a really really sore throat, what are some home remedies to cure it?

when my throat gets sore, i suck on Fruit Breezers, every time your throat is really stinging/or sore, and eat ice pops :-) gl

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There is this boy that i love oh so much and we've been dating for a long time and we both go to different schools. there's this other girl though, that flirts with him alot and im scared of him liking her. what should i do??

nothing, if he likes her over you he's a bastard :-D... and tell that girl to shoo fly ;-)

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How do you get someone to like you? Its sounds like a dumb question but i dont know what to do. Whenever i am around a guy and i like him, i have a funny way of showing it. I have never had much luck and never really had a boyfriend who was serious. Do you know what i can do?

be yourself, which means dont take extra time to think up wat you wanna be, talk the way you would to your best friend, except FLIRT! Get his sn, get around him, hang out alot become close friends first, and then try the relationship... it truly helps!! xoxo

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im 13/f and my sister whose 19 moved out about 1 1/2 yrs ago nd recently moved back in. She had a really controlling boyfriend and they were hooked on heroine. My mom had agreed to let her move back in if she stopped doin in. She moved back in about 2mnths ago and got rid of the old boyfriend. She got a new boyfriend but she's still using drugs. it's not just a once in a while thing either, its everyday, and as i said, my mom doesnt know and shes always saying how proud she is that my sister stopped doing drugs. I don't want to wreck me nd my sistersn relationship, but i think my mom needs to know because im afraid my sister will hurt herself.

-confused

beg your sister to REALLY stop. Talk to your sister about it, and explain exactly how you feel and how you wont tell your mom b/c you dont want them having a bad relationship. But honestly, you have a choice. Would you rather see your mom and sister having a bad relationship, or would you rather see your sister in a coffin :-\

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Hey everyone,

I'm playing a character in play where i have to keep a straight face while someone sings to me in German... does anyone have any advice on how to keep a straight face and not laugh or giggle during the performance?

think of something really sad that happened to you and force it into your mind. Or someone who died, or a boyfriend/girlfriend breaking up with you.

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theres this guy in my grade thats really funny and i really wanna go out with him but like my friends bring up the subject and he's like Idk...then theres another cutie but he's one grade lower than me :' . . he's really sweet b/c every time i see him he's smiles and says hi,....who would be better? please help?!?

sweet one. Funny guys sometimes dont know when to stop, and the sweet guys are more sensitive. gl

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Ok first of all Im changing this guys name to No One Special or N1S. Ok see its a long story but I met this guy over the summer. He is really really hott. People always ask me how I know him. Hes just so incredibly hott and everyone thinks so. Its a curse for him and I know what he needs is someone who likes him for him. I do like him. Hes really nice and he can be sweet. He always makes me feel better and I think I might possibly love him. I think he likes me too. I am two years younger than him though. I am also freakishly tall for my age, about 5'10" to be exact. Hes about 6 foot I think. hes told me I look his age which is 15.He also is in a band. He kept sorta staring at me and looking away when i looked back and kinda blushing. (that also could be cause hes the singer) He also really cares about my opinions and stuff and he got really close to hugging me one time. (i got scared and he apologized) Then again he hugs alot of people. he hugged my stepsister the last time he saw her before she went to New York and he hugged my friend. But he was just kidding around. He even hugged his teachers! He also gets really deep when we tak on the phone and he told me that he liked the fact I dont need to be dating someone to feel complete. He does stuff like this all the time. He is a really good friend and I want to be friends with him forever. I just dont want him to think Im only his friend cos hes hott. He has really good taste in music too. I always get in trouble in school cos Im constantly thinking about him. I dont want to be rejected also. My friend is also "in love" with him but she is in love with both of her ex's as well. I feel a great attraction to him. Like I said, I dont want to be rejected plus I dont want to ruin our friendship. So if you can tell me what to do, with him and how to deal with my friend, please do! Thanks!

no offense, but a simple relationship hardly can trash a friendship. As long as if you ever did 'break up' you didnt curse him out and yell at him and screw things up.. all that means is 'be a little more careful'. Plus this guy sounds soo cool !! Seriously, i dont even know what he looks like, but by the sounds of him, i'd date him in a flash!! So he already sounds like he has a perfect personality. I think you should complimennt him alot on his qualities the way he does yours so he knows how you feel about him. Plus the fact hes really hot is a good plus to the relationship, so what if a girl appreciates a guys hotness, as long as you dnt forever like worship it.. lol. He cant expect every girl that likes him likes him for his looks. And just to add on, it shows in your personality why you like the guy. If you were more flaky and a player he would know it was b/c of his looks. DEFINETLY dont let the chance pass you by. GO OUT !! GL.. dnt be nervous, and dnt be afraid to tell him how you feel eventually.

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I really like this guy... lets call him M. Well M is SO incredibly nice, and hes cute and funny too! We're good friends, so he's usually easy to talk to. I wanna talk to him, about being more than friends though, because I really like him... Well, everytime I go to talk to him, I can't. I guess he intimidates me because he's so GREAT. How do I approach him without seeming nervous or unconfident?

Look into his eyes. Dont look at everyone else around you. Pretend the rest of the world isnt there, and its just the two of you alone. Say what you would if no1 else was there. As long as you dont bring up awkward conversations, your fine. Plus guys aren't picky, they would care more if you didnt talk ... gl !! xoxo

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Well, ok my b/f moved to Oregon like 1 month ago and we are still goin out..coming up on our 11month anniversary. I miss him sooo much and i dont know what to do. There's this guy at my new skool that likes me and i donno if i like him...but i kinda flirt with him. I think that i do that cuz i miss flirtin with my b/f..even though me n my b/f talk every night..my heart aches all the time. I really donno what to do..i love him and yet we are so far apart. I dont wanna loose him :`(

well depends where you live, but if your young it will be hard to work this relationship out, most people dont. But all the more reason to show us teens you CAN work out a long distance relationship, sometimes love needs a fighting chance, and I think you'd be an awsome role model to all us teens that long distance relationships do have hope. GL

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Hey I'm 14/m and I think I may be addicted to porn... I mean... I think my mind is like corrupted or something... I really want to forget it all... what can I do to do this...?

Adminstrators.. I really am worried.... please don't delete this question...

Block that from your computer, so you cant get back onto it. There you go.

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so me n my bf broke up cuz i was grounded for like a month n he was sick of not bein able to c me. so anyway we r still friends and he invited me to his house this weekend. the problem is...everytime even now when he invites me somewhere i cant go cuz one time wen we were goen out i did something with him .. if uk what i mean .. and my mom found out. we had this whole fight about trust. so ne way i want to prove to him i can hang out so maybe well be bf n gf again but im afraid shell so no..which she prob will. HELPPPP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!

never know till you try. Sometimes love needs a fighting chance, and you need to give it your all. Ask your mom. Tell her you want to be 'friends' with him. And if you guys do go out does she HAVE to know, its not like your really lying, just parents shouldnt be involved with EVERYTHING.

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im 13 and never had a boyfriend. How old were you when you got your first boyfriend??

honestly, most people get them at 15 ,14 if lucky. And no, we dont count those immature jerks that go out with you for four days and you guys never talk. Dont worry, barely anyone has 'real' boyfriends at 13

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I have a really really low self confidence, if someone compliments me I immediatly think they're only saying it to be nice or they're taking the mickey. How can I be more positive and self confident?

Know this, most people dont lie just to 'be nice'. In nowadays world, especially if you don't normally talk to the person, they're definetly making a compliment, b/c otherwise they just wouldn't have bothered. I think every day you should grab a piece of paper and write 10 things you like about yourself, it really helps! And if its a really bad DAY you can include things you like about your life. Everyone has something good in their life even if it's something as minor as your mom's making what you like for dinner, it helps make you appreciate things more.

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Okay, sorry if this is a little long, but please read it. There is this kid I met at the beginning of this school year. He's in some of my classes and I talk to him online. I like him, but I'm not sure if he likes me. He talks to me a lot online, and he looks at me in class. He also waves to me sometimes. I just met him too, so it's not like we are close friends. So what do you think about this? Thanks!

Hey first off your questions not long at all, hehe. Second of all maybe he's crushing the way you are, you don't have to ask him, i just think you should hang out more, before you do anything. Invite him over, to a movie ... anything, but if you're closer it will be easier to tell and he will be easier to talk to. Once you guys know eachother a little more and its nothing TOO soon, have a friend ask him if he likes ne 1.. and go from there. Good luck.. xoxo

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