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hey. i have a bf and im not supposed to. so he leaves me comments and stuff. and my sisters have a myspace and i dnt want them to see the comments hes leaving cus they will tell my mom that i have a bf. is there anyway i can like hide my comments just from certain people but not to all my friends? haha i doubt there is but can u give me some suggestions. thanks

There's no way to hide your comments from just certain people, but there is a way to hide your comments from everyone. If you don't want to do that, you may have to tell your bf about your problem. You could ask him to contact you only though messages, or to make sure his comments are just "friendly" sounding, and not all lovey-dovey.

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haha. most of us know how addicting myspace can be, and I had a myspace account for a while and now in high school they ban me from myspace because of drama that happenend with three of my enemies which involved alot of cussing and drama. I want to know the best way to approach my parents and get hem to let me have a myspace account because I'm an addict! :) ;)

As you said, your parents don't want you to have the same problems with myspace that you had before. So you will need to find a way to assure them that those problems won't happen again. For starters, tell them that you understand why they don't want you to have a myspace again. Then tell them how sorry you are about what happened and that you learned a lot of valuable lessons from it. Next, ask them if you have have one again on a trial basis so you can prove to them that you've learned your lesson. Tell them that you'll let them know your password so they can check it whenever they want; or tell them that you will only use it when they are in the room. I know that might be a bit annoying, but it might be the only way they'll let you have one. And if you go for a while without getting involved in any drama, they'll probably ease up and not be so concerned about it anymore. Good luck!

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Okay, so whenever a couple or a few of my friends get together and do anything, I always get VERY jelous. Like just now three of my friends all had "out for ice cream at kimballs" on their away messages. But it just makes me sooo jelous. What can I do?

It's normal to feel a little jealous and left out when these happen.. and it happens to everyone sometimes! Just try to remember that your friends probably aren't leaving you out on purpose; they just happened to be together or make plans with each other this time, but another time you will be included (and perhaps someone else will be left out, but not on purpose.) It's just impossible to do things with ALL your friends at the same time every time, so sometimes people get left out. The best thing to do is keep your feelings to yourself and be cheerful and happy when you see them. That will make them want to invite you next time. If you act mad or pouty about being left out, that will only make people NOT want to be around you.

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