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(Rating: 5) Well I do have sole custody of my son, due to his father refusing to be there at the time of his birth. I let him know throughout the pregnancy how the baby was doing and he would just hung the phone up on me. Even when I was on the delivery table and I called him and told him that I was having the baby, he hung up the phone on me. He is now threatening to take my son from me because I don't want him in my apartment. He doesn't want to be with me, we do not have sex. He has made up 3 excuses why he doesn't want to have sex with me. I feel like he is just wasting my time. If I want to move on with my life and meet a decent man who respects women, who is just as financially stable as he is and is a legal citizen in the U.S. who would help me raise my son, I can't really do it the way I want to and have a peace of mind, because he's saying that he wants to take me to court to take my son. My son doesn't even have his last name. My son have my last name. So I have sole legal custody of my son. My son's father doesn't even want to get married. He asked me to marry him before he moved in. He just told me yesterday that a lawyer told him not to get divorced from his wife of whom he was seperated for nine years because of his immigration status because he can be deported. He doesn't want to split the children up. But what about all the trouble he's caused and what about me? I am 26 years old ,he is 40 years old, I have a life to live. I want to get married. I feel like my life is on hold because of him and its just not fair.

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(Rating: 5) this guy lives in cali, i live in VA, so i doubt anyone here would see them. but, i have virgin mobile (pay-as-u-go) so he buys cards and texts the code to me. so i cant call my company to request a cheaper plan, they dont do that. i have been looking for a job, its not like im that lazy haha. but i live in the country like 10 miles from everyone, so odd jobs and asking are obselete, i have no family here besides my mom, who doesnt have $ either. but its ok, bc as of yesterday, i got hired as a waitress :) which pays good at that restruant. i was going to stop sending pics anyways, but now i can pay by myself. thank u for all your help!! <3 (A)

(Rating: 5) Lol, no way in hell am I asking my history teacher that. :D

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(Rating: 5) ah, ok. good to know. I just thought that i would format it from the begining but i guess that would work. :)

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(Rating: 5) Thanks so much for that answer!!!! I dont think that the other people that answerd it understood the question that I was asking. Thanks so much.

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(Rating: 5) thank you so much! i am really worried and i feel so bad about it! i kind of practiced how not to let it show wen i smile too... but its good to know that people don't thinks its THAT major

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(Rating: 5) I think you are 110% right. He is jealous.

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(Rating: 5) thanks, that helped. just one thing...not that i didnt like doing that, because i did, i just cant bring myself to do it again. and i know he says he doesnt care, but we both know that he does

(Rating: 5) i talked to her and things are back to normal :) thanx for your help anyway.

(Rating: 5) Thanks, thats a good idea. If his parents would let him over here, and my parents could meet him, I think my problem would be totally solved. THANKS! Your advice is helpful!

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(Rating: 5) thaaaank you lots! the worse part is that he knows that sometimes it was his last chanc and still did things like replying emails just becuase he thinks that becuase it is an eemail or a post or anything its not as importante as in flirting in real life , yeah i think ill wiat then give him a chance thanks anyway help me too much =)

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(Rating: 5) Thank you! But the chart doesn't have my age on it... I am less than 18.

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(Rating: 5) that's true. but it still hurts and is wrong.

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(Rating: 5) Well I don't know if i should compare myself to my dogs since I'm low in iron, i'm always freezing.

(Rating: 3) ive looked there.. they dont have ones with the couch underneath

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(Rating: 5) then how do anorexics get skinny?

(Rating: 4) thnx *smack forehead* i hadn't even thought of that=] p.s. ummm i kind of am (potternerd, not 11^_^)

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(Rating: 5) No,accually it didnt sound wierd at al!! i really liked ur advice thnk u so much!!!

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(Rating: 5) it helped me knowing that she is an expert and gave me advice on when to start and to actually try!! THANK YOU....now i wont feel like a loser taking classes!!!!

(Rating: 5) thank you :] i'm not gonna ask my friends about it; cause some of them i know would make it weird for me. but my mom already does that for me sometimes. & the lip thing is kinda helping; i just started doing it a minute ago. aha; thank you!!!! :]

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(Rating: 5) I ended up staying, but thank you so much anyways!! <333

(Rating: 5) are you serious. omgosh. i think im going to cry. you dont get how much i appreciate the advice. thank you so much..

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(Rating: 5) thanks that is really true, you made me think what it was like when i moved towns a few years back and its hard! thanks im going to talk to him!

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