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Q: with an average income, how much would you spend on your 15 year old child?

thanks
500-1000*hope i helped* love alwaiz, aLi

Q: I have been searching for some selfharm websites that offer support to people who self harm. I haven't really found any good ones so can anyone tell me of any?
here? *hope i helped* love alwaiz, aLi

Q: ok, first off, my friends are mostly all girls and they are very pretty girls but, they are like my sisters and they really dont want to go out with me cause were so close. We do everything together, we've been to each others houses many times and met each others parents. Soon were gonna have dinner together and still were just real good friends. They all say that i need a girlfriend and i kinda agree. But, i know and am good friends with most of the girls at my school and the others, im kinda holding bak because ive been rejected once and it wasnt pretty and i dont want it to happen again. WAT DO I DO!!!
u don NEED a girlfriend.. that makes u sound wicked desprate.. jus.. don go out wit one of ur friends..ull no wen the right person comes along *hope i helped* love alwaiz, aLi

Q: Lately I've noticed that my feet are very calloused and dry. I took a pumice stone to the callouses and it worked pretty good. However, the wrinkles on my heels are white...like they are cracking. If you feel them, they are smooth. Any idea what this is? I've soaked and scrubbed and as far as I know it's dry skin. Any ideas on how to make it go away?
lotion *hope i helped* love alwaiz, aLi

Q: ok i know this is stupid.But i have a boyfriend and im scared to tell my parents. They wont get mad at me or anything for having a boyfriend the thing is i just dont know how to tell them. How should i tell them??
u shud tell them because ugh idk jus tell them lol *hope i helped* love alwaiz, aLi

Q: hi im laura 15 female i need some advice about things/People in my school keep on makin up rumours about me like im a slag and i run away to get attention and stuff but the story gets twisted and i always hear about it from other people and people have been saying stuff about me behind my back and it really hurts and loads of people are making up rumours about me and people are starting to believe them.The thing i dont get is that i have never been nasty to anyone in my school before :( help me wat shud i do?
either tell them the truth or be like yup okay w/e u say *hope i helped* love alwaiz, aLi

Q: is it just plain wrong for a 15 year old straight male to babysit?
heck nah.. ne one can.. at my babysitting courses a while back.. 2 guys were thea.. don worry bout it *hope i helped* love alwaiz, aLi

Q: do you think it'll be hard to babysit 2 kids(grl-3)(the boy-6)on the first time ever havin to babysit?
nah.. jus bring movies n stuff any thing entertaining or jus sit them down in front of the TV *hope i helped* love alwaiz, aLi

Q: my room is so plain i got white boring walls..and everything in there is boring..wut can i do to make it pretty?..any ideaz!

go to www.pbteen.com n look up thing there *hope i helped* love alwaiz, aLi

Q: ok so my bff who i've known since 1st grade is being kinda mean to me. we are going to a new school now and well i get the feeling that she just wan to be in the "popular crowd". i'm "popular" in the sense that i have the most friends but not in the sense that i'm bff's with the girls in the "coolest group". i am really good friends with alot of girls in the "popular/coolest" group so i guess alot of people consider me popular. but my bff doesn't, so when i have classes with her and the some of the "popular" girls, which i always do, she completely ignores me or talks to me only when the "popular" girls are. so most of the time she only talks to me when the "popular" girls are and its kinda annoying. she's been ignoring me lately and ditching me alot for these "popular" girls. and it's nto just me who thinks this. our other bff's think so also. so we are all mad at her. me and my other friend the most cuz one time we all were partners for this day where we take care of these unfortunate little kids at a carnival type thing at school. anywayz she ditched us to hang out with my other really good friend who is like the most popular girl at school. she never came back to our group and we had to take care of two kids, but my other friends were helping us cuz they only had one. anywayz so she ditched us while me and my other friend took care of these two little kids. and at the end of the carnival she came back to say goodbye to the little girls. and she pretended that she had done everything with the girls that she had done the most work and that she should take all the credit. so now i am mad at her, and so are 5 other girls. i don't know if i should tell her that we're mad at her or not. or maybe we should just ignore her and ditch her like she does to us. please help me she is really gettin on my nerves even though i love her to death she's being a real biatch!!!!!
heck yea.. knock sum sense into her.. make a chatroom wit all of u guys n calmly eplain that she's bein a bitch *hope i helped* love alwaiiz, ali

Q: the icon on ur column that says "i love matt"
do u want to know how to put pics in? if u do.. IM me at toxic x babii x3

Q: Okay usually i don't mind when my boyfriend does stuff with me but not in class! i already am failing that class and i have to get my work done..plus i don't want people talking about me in a bad way like i think they were today. Today i was sitting by my boyfriend in class and he kept going down my pants and rubbin my back and ass and shit and trying to make out with me but i kept telling him no not now! But he wouldnt listen and it was really buggin me i couldnt get him to stop even when i moved my chair away he'd pull it right back by him it was annoying. So my question is: What do i tell him when i don't want him to do that kinda stuff to me? Because obviously telling him to stop doesn't work. He's usually really respectful but i don't know what to do. Thanks so much!.
tell him to stop being like that.. tell him to let you focus *hope i helped* love alwaiz, aLi

Q: im 13 yrs old, and last may one of my friends died. he was 14 and i wasnt really that close to him so i got over it pretty quick. but november 19 my friend (also my crush) died.. he was 14 also.. i dont no what to do.. i've been sleeping in class thinking about him and i just keep dazing off.. i cant pay attention to anything anyone has to say. i no its wierd..but our teacher told us to write letters and burn them so thay will make it up to heaven.. i burn like 3 a day! im really depressed and havent been acting normal.. i cant just "move on" or "get over it" Helllp!
awwww!!! im so sorry about your crush! that must suck.. well.. jus keep writing the letters.. but dont burn them.. keep writing them and look back on them.. you will eventually learn to move on.. i know you probly dont want to hear it but your gonna have to move on eventually.. jus hell alwaiiz be in your heaert n i bet he's thinking about you right now! *hope i helped* love alwaiz, aLi

Q: ahh i bite my nails!!! its a really bad habit! i do it when im not paying attention anyone have any tips for stopping?
lol nice answer snakeeyes.. but i have a more "painless" solution.. wear gloves or cut ur nails really short *hope i helped* love alwaiz, aLi

Q: In school, I always feel like people are judging me. Only the popular ones though (because I'm not popular, I'm just average). I always watch what I do, to make sure it's something the popular kids would "agree" with (I guess?). It's not that I want to be popular (because, believe me, I really don't), but I just want to feel comfortable around them. It's kind of a weird topic, but I want to get it off my mind. I hate not being myself and I want to stop, but it's hard. I want to know your opinion on this. Thank you so much
why in the world would you want to live up to sumone else expectations? thats stupid.. one thing i want the world to know is to be urself..not what others want to see.. b/c one day.. if you do become friends w/ them.. they'll eventually see that you were only trying to be like them... jus get ur friends to smack u in the head when you try n be like them *hope i helped* love alwaiz, aLi

Q: yah i really dont know what to do anymore i swear my boyfriend is going nuts on me. just because i dont tell him what is wrong. i mean i cant tell him my feelings he has to go all pyscho on me. i dont like it i dont know what to do. plz help me.
tell him that although you are going out.. there are sum things u want to keep to urself *hope i helped* love alwaiz, aLi

Q: There was a kid in our school who was 14 and he died. Many Ppl knew him so our school has this big assembly, we didn't have to go to class for weeks, we didn't have to do any work or anything like that. 6 months after that when one of my Verry close friends died, it was like the teachers and schoolboard didn't even care. My mom told them my friend and i were upset that there was nothing for him..no assembly..and a ton of work. it wasnt fair.. They told my mom they weren't going to do anything because "nobody signed a sign we made" but 100's of kids signed it! its bullshit! and its not fair.. what can i say to the school people to make them at least have an optinal assembly!
well... your schools messed up lol.. tell them that they are being stupid lol tell them how you feel.. you and a buncha kids get together n talk to them..and another question... wut do u mean a sign?

Q: My brother is gay and a lot of people will always mention about it. They make fun of me because he's gay.. They keeps sayin Ohhh Your brothers GaY!!! and sometime's it doesn't bother me.. but other times it does. Surprisingly, most people are cool with it and say he's the coolest person they ever met.. what should i do!?
tell them to go screw... thats soo stupid.. tell them they r idiots n walk away :) *hope i helped* love alwaiz, aLi

Q: how did u make the icon thing on here?
what icon thing?

Q: I met this guy back in September over the computer.He is from the same state as me and he lives pretty close too.I'm really in love with him,and he loves me too.He is the sweetest guy I've ever met.He treats me so right.Yet I get upset with him alot and we fight.He calls me every day and we talk online.The only thing I hate is that he has a girlfriend from another state who lives like 4 1/2 hours away and they never see each other.I'm always getting mad at him over that.He told me he wants to marry me in 2009.I don't know what I'm suppose to do.Should I get over the fact he has a girlfriend,and that I probably won't have a chance with him? Please help me,I'm not sure about what I should do.

I'd appreciate the help...Thank you!
think about it.. if he has a girlfriend n is flirtin BIG TIME with another girl.. he cud do it to u too!*hope i helped* love alwaiz, aLi p.s. jus keep that in mind

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