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Me and my friends are having a sleepover this weekend what sort of things can we do besides the usual stuff like watch movies? any ideas? thankyou xxx

Hello if this is shelly and kim hi. If not never mind you could play truth and dare make overs (dont tie roxie down to the floor if it is shelly or kim) Listen to the music, dance go on pc loads.
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Every gel I use for my hair, makes my hair greyish and flakey. I have used numerous types and its always the same.
Is it my hair?
If not, what gel would *you* reccomend?

Thanks (any advice appreciated)

Hair gel makes hair greesy and oily. Best using mousse or hair spray.

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I don't know if i should do scateboarding pro-athlete, or if i should do football when i get to chose which sport i get to be in in my fiirst yr of high school. I'm thinking scateboarding, but i don't know which one to chose. Please help me chose. Love-Lacey

Which one do you enjoy more? Then choose that one, Skateboarding would be fun why not go for that.

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well i found out a boy likes me and we were talking on aim and he kept saying that im pretty and stuff. . . i am shy and i know how to respond to that but its only nice to say somthign aboutt him back but what should i say, i feel funny :/

Just regular chat. If he likes you that much he will ask you out. Dont feel funny its normal to have feelings for him, if he says ur pretty and stuff just say thank you and say something you like about him back.

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Okay so I have broken out pretty bad latly and they are starting to go away but not very much. I was picking at them but now I stopped. But how can I get rid of them and the redness of the ones i picked at? And please don't say proactiv or anything really expensive. And only things that will REALLY help!

Soap and water wash your face everyday with that, DONT PICK YOUR SPOTS! thats one of the worse things you can do the spread, drink lots of water and fruit and veg it will soon go away.

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What are the benefits and bad things about eating sunflower seeds?

There isnt really any benefits because it high in fats which is bad. Try nuts or raisens.

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Hey, Im 15/f and I have been having some problems with my breasts> (Yeah, I'm sorry...it's sorta ugh). Anyways, recently my breasts have started to hurt. It's not major pain or anything or severe. They've just been feeling like their stretching or something.... Also if it helps, I'm not exactly well- endowed right now....Thank you so much! ~West

Your breast are probley growing thats why they hurt so much. If the pain gets worse go see a woman doctor and she will help.

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Hi all i had a misscarriage april last year and ever since we have been trying for a baby but no luck it is a year later now.. i am due my period but am 5 days late i had few cramps that been coming and going and have very sore boobs more then normal but i dont know wat to do i took a test 2 days after i missed but was negative please help me i would like sum advice thankyou..
clairesie. x

cramsp and sore boobs, are the simtons of period coming, But it also a good sign that your pregnant go to the doctors and see if they can give you any advice and cheak up to see if your really pregnant.
good luck!

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if space wasnt there then what would be?

It could be anything a park,college,university, libary. just wait till its done.
Or it could just be an open space that will stay that way!


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last month i got my period on the 9th ..it is now the 11th and i still havent gotten it for this month .. is there any way to not get my period after exactly a month ...and is there any way that im still going to get it for this month?

You might just be late. Not all girls are on time most girls are very irregular and sometimes its hard to make out with your next period is going to be! which is a downer. It will come soon dont worry.

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i realize what problems i have but i dont know how to deal with them. What should i do?

Well it hard to answer this because you havent said anything about them! Well get your friends to help you out and they will be there so you have somewhere you can go to get a boost.

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does anybody have a quick and easy way of learning to swim?

You will have to get lessons. Mabe your mum or dad could help you to swim.

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im about 3 stone overweight (roughly 48lbs)
i eat healthily i just snack way too much.
i really want to loose the weight because in september im starting collage and i want like a new begging in life or w/e.
i am really determined to do this...
i am not very good at keeping to a diet and not snacking.
i do excersise a bit... walkin
i need sum tips and advice on healthy eating i can actually stick to and how to loose weight quickly
thanks a bunch
xx

Try eating less food, and if you get hungry have a little snake because most people end up having a packet of crisp or chocolate to fill them up, but thats just going to make you gain more weight. after school/work instead of getting the bus or a lift home walk if its too far to walk then get the bus and get of a few stops early and walk the rest of the way, Walking is a great exercise take up a sport! like swimming,football, tennis anything that makes you feel good and that you enjoy join a local diet group and they give you information and tips how to lose weight. go to this site: www.itv/health if that comes up they have great tips and exercises to help you lose weight. If it doesnt work type in health in google.

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i really need help im going out wid some1 but dont feel ne thing 4 him ne more just like him as a friend and really like another lad plz help i no he will cry wen i dump him but i fink its 4 the best wat bout u?
emmaxx

You just need to be honest with him and tell him the truth if you feel like there isnt anything between you and you dont fancey him then its obious you should just be friends. Say that to him that you dont think there is any attraction to him and you see him as a friend, if you just be up right and truful about it he should be ok with it.

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well ive been going out with this guy tha i love and ever since ive been going out with him my best friend has been gettin all pissed at me and trying to break us upp....and now im not friends with her anymore cuz of this...and she said she wont be mad at me if i just break up wit my boyfriend but i love him and im not going to do that....i think maby she is kinda jallous that i have a bf n she dosent...but than again i dont know....help!!!
~*! *~panda~*-!*~

Well talked to her, Ask her why she fell out with you over your boyfriend and that you want to break you up with him. If shes been stupid leave her to it because you dont need someone like that messing around if shes your best friend she should be happy for you, and should support you in what ever desitions you make.


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well my friend is really upset right now because she was REALLLLLLy close friends with this girl till this year and now that girl has a "new" best friend. Every time that her friend's new best friend is in the room, hedr friend pretends thT she is not alive-she is really sad now-this is not the 1st time her friend has done this-help me please!
-dorinflower55

You need to get your friend to talk to her close friend. Or you could help out Just tell her that your friend is ok about the fact that she has a best friend but she feels like your pushing her aside and that she misses talking to you anymore and when she wants to chat to you, she cant because your best friend is always with you.

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okay..
im 16/f and live in the uk
i need sum advice on how to change ma image
im not preppy and im not total goth/grunge.
i wanna change to look kinda hippy/uni
i love shops like topshop, hm etc...
just need sum ideas on how to get into the clothes cos im not very confident in changin the way i look cos im overweight.

Just be happy in your self. Look at all the people round you every one is different and some people like bits about them and hate other things. I live in the uk! i hate it do you? Shops well what about international thats cheaper than topshop, Try tammy and new look, get some cheap braclets and different bright round earings and dangly ones there are in at the moment. Get a cool new bag thats a bright colour and thats whats in right now colours that people see as in at the moment are: brown,green,white and yellow You can get stuff cheap at matalan and they have nice stuff, get your self a long brown skirt it goes all the way down your legs lots of girls are wearing them my friend has one there really cool.

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My parents want ot get a new TV and throw away our old one which is kinda crappy but still works! and I want it in my room but how can i convince them to let me have it?1

Tell them that your old enought to have a tv, and that you can handle one, Say i might as well have it if your going to throw it away because its just a waste, DO stuff around the house make them breakfast in bed thats a good way of buttering them up.

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Ok, i think i have the flu, and i keep coughing and my nose is all stuffy, but i don't have allergies. Would this be the flu? I already got my flu shot i thought though, so i wasn't sure... Anyway, does anybody know good ways to get rid of it fast? I an having a party in a week, and dont want to be sick for it. I tried all sorts of medicines, not all at the same time, but they just make me sleepy, and dont get rid of the cold. What else can i do? I've been drinking a lot of fluids. 14/f btw.

Yes it could be flu. You will have to take a couple of days of rap up walm and enjoy been at home if you have to go to school. try lemon and honey sprup. Cant spell it well but hey. Get some fresh air aswell that will unblock your nose.

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ok, this is weird, i know, but i am going out with this guy who i really like and we just started going out like 3 days ago and i only see him in the halls because he's a grade younger than me. should I hug him first or let HIM hug me... or wave to him.. ugh, i just don't want to embarress myself.. please help!
~morgan

Hug him go on why not! there isnt anything wrong with it. its a friendly way of saying hi.

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