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Peace. it's ya girl Z here. lemme get to the point.. my name's Zainab, 17 years old, and from Montana(and NO i ain't no cowgirl). i am muslim and insha'Allah i am going to be married next month to a wonderful guy named Alim. love ya baby. so if y'all need anything just holla atcha girl. peace to fingers
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ok. i dont smoke. But alot of people in my grade do. im only going into 8th grade and i turn 14 in january! alot of people that i know have at least tried smoking. recently i have been having these dreams that i smoked and i liked it..then i'd wake up. is this bad? should i have already tried it. i think want to. thx for any advice!

smoking is terrible for you. it causes cancer, enphyzema...... and alot of others. your too young to start smoking. it's addicting. so the best way to stop is to never start as you see on the commercials. don't be a part of the crowd be ur own person.

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hey i need help, i dont know what to do. i found out that my boyfriend doesn't like something about me and i dont know if i should confront him or just pretend i never found out.

you totally need to confront him. just be honest.
if you are going to change do it for yourself not for anyone else.

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I have a serious issue with cocaine. The saying is "If you've tried it once, you are addicted", and I am no exception. I tried it for my first time around February earlier this year. I then stopped for about 1 1/2-2 months when a lot of my friends and peers were doing it. Then another break, and then about 2 weeks ago I started summer school in a suburb town of my city, and my class was full of coke heads, which then made it extremely dificult cause I either got it free, cheap, or very easily. What would be some good advice to quit and/or avoid peer humilition because of the issue. Thank you.

u need to go to a rehab center

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my best friend has changed soo much since last year.. her brothers are stoners and drunks and now she is starting to smoke and she also drinks some.. and i love her dearly and i dont kno what to do i try to talk to her but i am afraid shell get mad at me or something, somebody please help me!!!!

you can't be afraid just talk to her and tell her the truth.

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its wierd i know like everything there is to know...

but whats streaking?

it's when you get nude and go runnin around

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wut would be a wicked cool sn for a gothic chick???

how about: !wicked_goth_chick!

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i've always wanted a nickname for my friends to call me but they can't ever think off one but can you think of one my name is riley

how about rie or ri or li or ley

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I need a new screenname... but i dont want anything to bouncy... alot of itmes my screen names are kinda depressing... my screenname right now is x2lostwithoutyou my name is Kati and im 13...

how about: XO_katie_4_uOX

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I've been goin out with this guy for about a year now. We both really like each other and I believe it could be love (I'm 18)... we've talked about having sex, we're both virgins and he told me he's ready to have sex with me and wouldn't push me if I wasn't (and he hasn't pushed me at all)... but I don't really know if I am or aren't... so how can I tell for sure if I'm ready?!

it's just a feeling of security. but also you have to be ready to except the possible consequences to sex(pregnanacy). but when you are you'll know.

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Ok my boyfriend and I just started going out. But the other day i was out with him at a club and this girl came to us and told us that she's pregnant and he might be the father of her baby. Im really confused i dunno if i should stick with him or lose him. bcuz he told me he wuz a virgin. HELP

well the chick mite be the one lyin. but if it's the guy who's lyin then he lied to you. and you can't be wid a lyin prick. so just go wid ur instincs.

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um i was wondering...what does an orgasm feel like? like right before it happens and when it does. im not sure if i almost had one bc if felt like i had 2 pee..it was really weird thx for the advice..xoxo..i rate good!

there isn't really any words to explain it. it's just the best feeling. it's like butterflies mixed with excitement.

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My boyfriend and I are going to become sexually active soon and I just have one problem. I told him I'm a virgin and I'm really not. No one knows that I've had sex once before and I cannot tell him or anyone because of specific reasons. He's not a virgin either, but will he be able to tell I'm not?

yes he will be able to tell that you have had penitration easily. just be honest. if you aren't
then he mite leave you because you lied to him and didn't even try to tell him.

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I'm 14 and going into the 9th grade. Guys pressure girls to have sex and I might be ready but I dont want to be called a slut. What should I do?

well for one i think youre tooooooo young. but if you are completely ready be safe use plenty of protection. and only have sex wid a guy if you two are ready and you trust him. but if you don't then wait. you ain't goin no where.

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Mi B/f is So0 hoTt n a ToN oF gUrLz lyKe Him..
iM sCaReD heZ gOnnA dUmP mE
HoW cAn I mAkE sUre ThaT He Is/IsNt!?!

just talk to him and be honest. and be yourself. if he does then he doesn't deserve you.

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I found out that my Dad looks at porn.. and I think my mom knows too.. my brothers know too.. what should I do? Is this wrong?

no it's not wrong. almost every guy does it.

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what's a good way to make friends?

be yourself and you can't go wrong!!!

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Do you think my brother's gay? He got caught looking at male porn once and hasn't had a girlfriend.. he's 23..

probably. but he is probably just goin thru a phase. if so then it will pass.

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help please!!!!! i need to figure out how to text message my friends from my computer!!! thanks x0x0x0 please help ASAP

if your on yahoo messenger then go to the cell phone that says text. click and enter their phone number. then you can start your own conversation.

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ok has anyone seen that movie thats called Thirteen??...well its like my favorite movie and i have watched it like 1000 times seriously!..well anyways...i like the way tracy and evey act,look and stuff...is that bad that thats influencing me ...im not tlakin about the stuff they do...but if you seent the movie you'll know what im tlakin about me and i hope you'll help!!

thanks!!

well, i don't believe in influencing. everyone has their own choice. so in my oppinion no it's not influencing you.

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ok well i like someone alot and that person likes me alot too, i wanna ask the person out but everybody tells me not to that i should wait for the person to ask me...should i just ask the person or should i wait? cuz it does seem like the person is gonna ask me...what should i do?

follow ur heart. go wid ur instincts. don't listen to everyone else. listen to urself.

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