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Ok...So last friday there was this pool party at my friend esmereldas house...&& i noticed my boyfriend Julio, && my best friend go into the bathroom together...I heard screaming && moaning...so i slammed the door open...Then i seen them havin sex...&& i started cryin' But then my bf said "Hey bbi yu wanna join" I said "Fuck yu"...&& Ran off...My bestie told me she waz sryy...But i still hate her..&& Julio.!!>:(( Wht do i do.?!! Please please help me.! :'( (link)
Think about this simply:

What happened? Your best friend and your boyfriend had sex. By doing so, he violated your trust and so did your best friend. So you need to send both of them packing. Tell the best friend that it isn't healthy for you to have someone around who betrayed you like that and tell the boyfriend to never contact you again.

This removes A LOT of drama from your life. Always be in control of your life by deciding where your boundaries are and what your deal breakers are. Then follow through on enforcing them.

Btw, there is a guy who is just looking for someone like you to cherish. You just have to be paying attention and then go for it when the opportunity strikes. So don't get caught up in petty bs and try to live your life simply and rationally.


My kid's father has a screw or two loose. I left him in 2004 when he choked my daughter. He served one year probation and went to anger management. Now we have a new problem. My kids are 11, 13, and 14. Over the past few visits with their dad he has encouraged the kids to smoke and drink with him. When my 13 year old (very shy) girl said no, he held the cup of beer to her face and demanded she drink it. She said no and slapped it away. (just found this out today).He holds lit cigarettes and tries to get them to smoke it. I confronted him on it and he said IT WAS ALL TRUE!! A yelling match ensued and I asked him if he was insane. He replied, "no, they are my kids and i will give it to them".I told him that they were NOT raised this way and they do not want it..My husband and I do not smoke and rarely drink.He smokes in the car on hour long commutes with my son who has severe asthma, when i asked him not to, he said i cant control what he does. My kids are very quiet, well mannered straight A honor students. I have done very well with them and Can't believe what is going on. He has never been a great person but this is going WAY too far. I promise you this is not a case of a spurned spose trying to get back at the other, I am seriously worried. Why the hell would he want his young daughters to get drunk with him?? Should I go to the court, call childrens services, police? I told him I would have him arrested and his response was "Try Me". Dear lord..HELP =) (link)
You need to contact Child Protective Services and then see an attorney about getting sole custody. Losers love nothing more than to drag others down with them and your ex is trying to do that with your kids. Do not let him see your kids again.


pros.
-babys father
-talented, and with the right mind I know he will have success in the music industry....not lil wayne sucess, or even fame, but he can support us.
-I am somewhat attracted to him
-he doesnt check out other girls or talk about them...wich i find is a rare quality
-he has been a dedicated person (before i knew him) and worked very very hard
-we share and have shared the same group of BESTFRIENDs for 6 years (we were together for 3 of them) really, like a very tight knit cirlce of best friends...that 70s show status.

Cons
-The abuse in the past has clouded my love for him
-I feel like I cant even respect him anymore
-He has bad employment history, (aside from the one timehe was a hard worker) he will work a job for a few months and get sick of it or fired....he hasnt had a job in 11 months now.
-he has said unforgivable things to me..from fat cunt (i weigh 115 lbs and have a small pudge from the baby, and big thighs and a rounded face...im working toward being tiny again though but i dont like feeling like i have to for someone else) to suck your brother's dick you would like it (i was touched by my brother when I was younger...not very badly, not even molestation but it was uncomfortable...and he uses it against me) and how im a huge bitch with no friends (also not true, i am easy to get along with and everyone loves me)
-he tried making em choose between him and my brother (because my brother beat him up after everyone found out he had been putting his hands on me for the last 6 months) I ended up throwing him out and telling him i wont chose, he now says he wont make me and he is back
-I cant leave my daughter with him at home bc he doesnt take very good care of her and throws a fit if he watches her more than once a week...so I have her in day care instead
-he feels entitled to the free ride he is recieveing at my moms house
-he hates my family...he recently tries to pretend he doesnt but i can see through it
-he usually leaves the house and goes frisbee golfing right as I get home with our daughter (now only 2 days a week...used to be everyday)
-I cant file for child support because he lives with me (my thought on that was he would get a court order saying he needs to be paying someone something and realize he needs a job..this was my last resort and i just found out it wont happen)
-not that i wanna...but i feel like he should have manned up and married me a while ago if he really had his heart in this and wasnt in it for the free ride.
-the abuse started when I was pregnant....continued until this valenties day when I called the police...(yes, he fucking ditched me on vday and told me he wanted nothing to do with my fat ass...then the next day got pissed bc he was hung over, I had to work so I needed him to wash bottles so I could take our daughter to grandmas...n he flipped callin me all sorts of terrible shit, said he was leaving.. I said FINE GO..and he wouldnt so I started throwing things at him, so he got up and chased me through the house slamming me against walls, choking me and eventually pushed me down the stairs...that was the worst it got and the last it happened)
-on mothers day, he went frisbee golfing after he promised he wouldnt...i asked him why and he said i dont wanna fucking be around you

Lately, after I have made it clear I am done with the bull...he is poutting an 80 percent effort in. He says he is looking for a job, but I dont really think he is....I HATE living at my moms, I feel terrible about it, this is MY problem I dug MYSELF a hole and I want to get out of it and into my pwn place....My dad wants to actually buy me a house but wont because babydaddy isnt doing his part and my dad doesnt want to help him....My bestfriend literally since I was three has a baby now too, and we have talked about taking advantage of that house offer together and my dad is totally for it. but i dont want to give up. I want my baby to have a daddy who is there all of the time, which i know he isnt right now but he swears hes gonna change and everytime he says he will he does for a minute, then he backtracks and theres only a small amount of change that stays. We had alot in common, but now its like were two different people...I mean we were 17 when we got together and now we are 20/21. I am not who I was when I was 17, I am much more mature than most 23 year olds I have ever met and he is still stuck at age 17. I know in my heart what I need to do, I just wish there was a better option.
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Yet another instance of a woman falling for a guy who treats her like crap. It is a veritable broken record.

Now the question is, how much control of your own life do you want to take? No matter who your friends and family are, you are the only one who can experience and live your life. My advice, of course, is to stop associating with the loser. But do you have the gumption to do it?

You can probably forget about child support since he can't hold a job. And artists, especially guys in the music industry, and I have been in that field myself, are notoriously undependable in terms of the normal world. Learn from this and don't make the same mistake.

As for your weight, as a number, you are fine. If you want to do some body sculpting, you can get a personal trainer to help you with that. A lot of what happens with your body is genetic anyway, so as long as you are in the healthy range for your height then don't worry about it other than just remembering to stay on a low fat diet and get plenty of exercise everyday.


I am a 18 year old female that is 5'4 and all my life i struggled with my weight, before the depo i weighed 200 pounds and i finally got enough self motivation going to lose weight and i lost about 8 pounds in a month so i weighed 192. Then i stopped weighing myself, i got on the depo about two and a half months ago it was my first shot and my next shot is june 28th which will be my second shot. i used to eat fast food everyday (when i weighed 200) and eat chocolate and ice cream every day, yes literally and when i got on a diet and lost eight pounds i went down to eating fast food once a day, 3 days a week and no ice cream or chocolate. I decided to get a more strict diet since i was going to get depo shot because i heard any type of birth control will cause weight gain. So i cut fast food out of my diet completely and cut sodas off and only ate fast food when i absolutely had to , and this diet has been going on for two and a half months.Today i went to the doctor and i weigh a HORRIBLE 208 pounds my highest weight EVER, i was baffled because ive been in such a strict diet, i am furious all my hard work caused me to gain weight!!! I assume it was the depo, now im considered going off it but my friends tell me the pills are the same and my bmi is to high for implanon, and i dont trust the vaginal rings because my sister had my niece and nephew being on the vaginal ring and two of my cousins got pregnant on it. So my question is if i continue to be on this will i continue to gain weight?! Will i lose the weight if i get off it? Is this weight permanent or temporary i really am already obese and am trying hard to lose weight, and this is re (link)
Different people are going to react to different things. The depoprovera shot is definitely not for you, so either go to an IUD such as the cervical cap (and you will have to use a spermicide with it when you have sex) or the pill. I personally don't think the rings or the sponge are that practical.

As for your weight, you need to cut out the fat in your diet as much as possible and limit yourself to 1500 calories a day while getting at least one and preferably two hours of vigorous exercise a day. If you join a swim club, you will be exercising every muscle of your body, it burns calories like a mutha and it will tone your body very nicely. You will likely put on some muscle, but that is a good thing. Shoot for 140 pounds. A woman who is 5'4" and 140 pounds but toned is not fat. In fact, women are built to have a certain amount of fat in their bodies and it is what makes you guys so soft and huggable. I used to go out with a swimmer, so I know.

The best thing you can do, if your parents can afford it, is to see a nutritionist, who can put you on an efficient and workable diet. Don't get into fad diets. They don't work. Controlling calorie intake combined with exercise is the only way (and you will find yourself sleeping better, too).


So today I had sex with my bf and the condom broke but he onlyed pre cum, and I just finished my period on Monday is there a chance that I'll will end up pregnant (link)
Technically, anytime you have sex you can get pregnant. It is all about probabilities, but no probability is an absolute value. It's just like playing the lottery: everytime you play it there is a chance you will hit the jackpot, but it may be very low on a general percentage level.

There is sperm in precum. So that can indeed impregnate you. If you dodge the bullet this time see that as a warning and either get on the pill or use some kind of IUD like the cervical cap or get a depoprovera shot.

A guy who I used to hang with in high school had unprotected sex with his then girlfriend using the pull out method. The precum he leaked out during sex made him a 17 year old father of twins. Understand?


what do i do when someone i am interested into asks his friend to ask me out for him?
i am 13 and a girl (link)
Abby is right on. Get it done!


20/f. So, during the spring, I was taking this science class, which I heard was suppose to be easy. It turned out everyone did REALLY bad because the teacher was terrible. We all picked a bad teacher. It happens. I got a D-! I am a smart girl with a high GPA and I cannot bear to see that D-. So, I can take it again, get a higher grade, and have that "forgiven," as the policy in my university states. If I do, I am certain that I will get an A, with whomever I take it with, as long as it's not this guy. His questions were tricky. I didn't learn anything. And I would like to keep my GPA high for scholarships and awards. Also, I am going into my third year now. This class was a pre-requisite class, so it's not like I need it for my major. I am also planning on applying to grad school, so it's just good to have my numbers high.

So, during the spring I started studying with a guy who was in my class. I started to understand things a little better when I had a friend to study with. But, after a couple of study sessions, he whipped out his penis in the library. It made me EXTREMELY uncomfortable, needless to say. They are offering the course this summer at my school. After that incident, the guy tried calling me and adding me on facebook. I guess he doesn't understand how disgusted and scared I am. My mom came to pick me up at school the other day because she was using my car, and saw him wandering. I'm a little bit scared and I think he's going to take the summer B class because he actually DOES need this class for his major. i don't want to take a class with him. I'm a little scared after that and I don't want him to be in a class with him.

Please help! What should I do?!?!?! (link)
I assume you go to Stanford since they are the only school I know that allows students to retake courses until they get the grade they want. I'm sure Stanford has a sexual harassment policy. Report the guy to the appropriate folks (maybe the campus PD so that they can keep an eye on him because he also broke the law by exposing himself in the library).

After you do that, you retake that class and just avoid the guy. Don't let other people sabotage your life! If he tries to keep approaching you, tell him off very publicly and then go to the appropriate people and have them handle it. File another report with the campus PD as well. If you don't get any satisfaction that way you can file for a restraining order.

Good luck.


I'm alisha 21 yrs. For last one year v r in love with each other, and he's caste-class iz greater than mine. And his fly is against this so he is nt ready 2 marry me. (link)
Alisha sweetheart, read closely what I am going to write here:

Caste systems are totally counterproductive. As human beings, only we can live our own lives, nobody else. Therefore, to be prevented from associating, loving or marrying someone due to an artificial construct such as race, caste, economic class or ethnicity, is an impediment to one's personal happiness. So if you guys are truly in love I say get married. If you or he is a doctor or has some other job that we can use here in the states or some other foreign country (England? Canada?) I recommend that you emigrate.

Look, there are all kinds of social organizations, but we must be rational. Caste systems are basically rolling human rights violations and for good reason. Please, please please, be adventurous in your life and don't let anything hold you back.

Also, read "Escape from Freedom" by Erich Fromme. There are some tremendous lessons in there about how people sabotage themselves by giving in to the herd thanks to their own insecurities. Please check it out and it may help you get past what you are experiencing now.


I'm a female,35, and my boyfriend's 32. We started going out 4 years ago and things were good and he said he loved me, then after about 8 months he broke up with me saying the last couple of months had felt more like a friendship and the spark had gone. I was devastated as I really loved him. We stayed in contact then about 4 months later things happened and although he had some reservations, we gave it another shot. Anyway it worked out and he said he loved me again, he didn't know what had been going through his head before. He moved in with me about 2 years ago. Our sex life over that time has got less frequent. About 3 months ago we decided to buy a flat together (my idea and I did have to persuade him a bit), but the purchase fell through and he's now just ended our relationship again for the same reason as before. He's been thinking this for the last 4 months or so, thought that buying the flat might help, but now that's fallen through he's not willing to try to inject a spark back into the relationship as he says that for him it's over. I really love him and don't know if I should let things go or if not how I can try to get him back. (link)
The flat issue might have been more pressure than he wanted in terms of responsibility. It thus seems that when things get too heavy emotionally and in terms of responsibilities he flees.

Thus, I think you need a different partner who is a little more settled in his thinking.

You might also ask yourself if you are into guys who aren't totally there for you. For example, many women, if they had a father who wasn't very present either physically or emotionally, women will often repeat that in their personal lives in the men they choose to go out with. Humans are funny that way in that we often tend to settle for what we know, even if it is destructive or counterproductive. If what I have said is accurate in your case, seek some counseling so you can work past this. Good luck.


I am 14 years old. I know for a fact i am not pregnant because i have never had sex before. I have missed my period the last 3 months. The longest ive ever missed it was 2 months. I have been stressed out latley and i do get nervouse when it does not come around. Could it be that i will never get it again and somethings wrong with me? i would rather not go to the doctor, i am very shy and do not like to talk about these things. Also the last time i got my period was the first time i used a tampon. Someone please help. (link)
Perfectly normal, as the others have indicated.

As for using birth control to regulate your periods, that is a good idea, but I wouldn't tell anyone at your age. The immature boys in your hood and at your school are going to make all kinds of crazy assumptions. Birth control isn't shameful at all, but we have to live in the real world here. Americans are really screwed up about sex thanks to the religious nuts.

Also, just remember that you have to use it AS INSTRUCTED in order for them to be effective in preventing pregnancy. Your safest bet is to use both condoms and the pill when you have sex a few years down the line since the condoms also reduce the likelihood of getting STD's (but condoms will not prevent herpes).


Im 18/f and my boyfriend is 19/m

me and my boyfriend were fooling around last night, im a virgin and im about as innocent as they get...meaning before last night i hadnt even had a guy finger me or anything. The furtherest id ever been before my boyfriend was kissing.

The thing is last night, he put one of his fingers inside me, it was VERY painful. Im very tight down there and we are both aware its going to take a couple of tries and getting used to for the pain to go away. However, what i want to know is why i felt like i had to go to the toilet the entire time he was touching me down there. Is that normal? (link)
Sweet Honey is right on target. The spongy area of what feels like little ridges just inside the opening of the vagina and on its upper wall is called, "the Graffenberg Spot," or "g spot" for short.

When it is initially stimulated, you will feel an urge to urinate, but that soon disappears and will be replaced by very pleasant sensations. If it is rubbed gently long enough it will result in a rollicking orgasm for you. There is nothing dirty or bad about this. Enjoy.

As for why you felt pain, that could happen for either one or both of these reasons: one, you're just not used to having anything in there (you can past that by fingering the g spot yourself during masturbation, which is also a normal and pleasurable activity). Two fingers inside is perfectly okay.

Secondly, because you likely have been programmed by your parents, the local culture or religion that sex is dirty (not true, incidentally), your pubococcygeus muscles immediately contracted attempting to fend your boyfriend's finger(s) off. It was a kind of conditioned reaction. You can get past that just by being more relaxed when he is about to put his fingers inside you again. Take a deep breath and then let it out, making your body limp in the process. And it is also okay to moan, gasp, sigh or however you react. It is also okay to tell your boyfriend to stop when you have had enough. It's your body, not his or anyone else's, so do what is right for you and stick to your guns.

It would also help if he provided stimulation to your clitoris before his fingers go inside you, but you will likely have to show him where it is, which means your panties will have to come off.

It is also okay to tell your boyfriend what you like, whatever that involves. For example, if you want more kissing, if you want him to lick or suck your nipples a particular way and for a set duration, if you want to be kissed, licked or bitten on a certain part of your body, or whatever, tell him. And if you're about to orgasm, tell him! Partners who communicate freely about sex have the best sex lives and the most satisfaction. It's not embarrassing, it is just a regular part of life.


i am wondering im 13 in middle school what are the cool fasion trends for spring (link)
You can find clothes that look good on you all year around. Thinking seasonally is counterproductive, especially considering what it does to you financially.

The fashion industry and its allies in the publishing business (in other words, girls and women's magazines) have brainwashed ladies young and old into believing two things: one, that their worth as individuals is based solely on how they look and how much attention it gets from men; two, women have to have a different outfit for every day of the year. Both of those assertions are false.

What they count on is human insecurity. In short, you're being manipulated by advertising to make bad decisions. Now you can be a sheep and give in to this or you can start thinking for yourself and simplify your life dramatically.

Btw, when you get into college, read a book called, "Escape from Freedom" by Erich Fromme. It will help you understand why you fell for the advertising bs and the horsecrap from your herd animal friends, classmates and the media.


Why is the culture in southern california so diseased. I've been to plenty of states and countries, and its only socal where i see sluts who disrespect their parents, vomit in their cars their parents bought them, only think about sex, and even at such a young age! Why is this? Why are girls so indecent here. (link)
There is nothing wrong with California girls. Yeah, some of them are wild. Rich kids or those who come from very religious homes tend to be the most screwed up due to a combination of overindulgent parenting, sacrificing time with their kids in the name of their careers and the "money solves everything" mentality of the first group and sexual and cultural repression by the second.

It sounds like you want to control other people. What gets me is that in the south, everybody seems so polite on a surface level, but when you get past that front you see a lot of cruelty, fear, anti-intellectualism, nosiness and superstition. In fact, a goodly share of this country's social ills are most pronounced not in California, but in the South, including that of teenage pregnancy (Mississippi is number one in that, so be proud denizens of that state! Okay, maybe not).

Most Californians are hard working, which is why it is still the eighth largest economy in the world. It is also creative, which explains Hollywood, the tv and music industries and Silicon Valley. Orange County, which was founded by a couple of white supremacists (true story) is very conservative, as is San Diego. Riverside County has a lot of transplanted southerners, which may explain the meth problem there (like the meth problem in Kentucky, for example), the Klan's presence and how generally white trash it is.

The Central Valley is also very conservative and, again, gangs and drugs are rampant there, as are foreclosures.

Finally, look at the history of this country: Americans are a rowdy, rebellious lot, which is why we kicked England out of it. Respecting authority has never really been our thing, which may be why we often glorify outlaws like Jesse James and Billy the Kid.

California has always been a place where people came from the uptight and more socially stratified east coast or from overseas to remake themselves and they continue to flow in not just from Mexico, but from all over Asia and Europe for that reason. That creates a more easy going and tolerant culture where folks mind their own business (well, not to mention that if you disrespect the wrong person you may get a bullet in your head). If you can't handle that, move.


if you get a girl on your lap and you get a boner and it goes up her butt considered sex (link)
Ah, the junior high school crowd checking in again.

Moderators, come on. Do your jobs.


Hi.
Sorry if it's kind of long but PLEASE bear with me!:(

My name's Kitty, I'm 17 and I'll be turning 18 in more or less six/seven months (so that's January) and I really really need your help coming up with ideas on how to celebrate it.

I thought about having a party but then my mom started talking about all the disadvantages (i.e. what if some of my friends don't show up, etc.). That kind of discouraged me, but then I thought about it. I already had a sweet 16, so probably the only difference my 18th birthday party will have is that it'll be bigger and my college friends will be invited.

But I don't like the people in college that much. I feel like only my high school friends are worth throwing a party for (if ever).

So, I considered traveling abroad for my birthday but school already starts on January 4 and my birthday's on the ninth. I wanted to go someplace really far but it'd be a hassle because of the jetlag and missing school.

So basically, I'm considering other options! Going out with my family is nice but I really wanna do something cool (maybe with friends) for my birthday.

Any ideas? Your replies will be really appreciated. Tell me about what you guys did for your 18th! It doesn't have to be your ideas, you can talk about a cool 18th birthday celebration you went to and share about it or something. Haha.

Please help! Thanks in advance! (link)
Celebrate your 18th birthday by registering to vote. Doesn't sound like a big charge, but it does give you a small say in how this society operates for the first time in your life. That, for me, beats the hell out of any party.

After that, wait until you turn 21. Then you can REALLY party and legally at that. Plus you will be, or almost be, finished with college and you will know more about yourself and what you really want out of life.


17/f
My brother just said I was a slut because he saw the hickey on my neck.
I made out with this guy, he's one of my friends and I've liked him for over a year. We like each other and stuff but aren't dating, he's 19 though, which is why we aren't dating and are planning to wait.
Does it make me a slut for making out with him? It's not like I'm doing this with every random guy right?

Then my friend told me I wasn't a slut, I would have been if I had sex with him.
Does that mean if I had sex with him it would have made me a slut?

I know this isn't really a big deal but it kinda bothers me so I might as well get people's opinions on it. (link)
Remember this: there is no such thing as a slut. Such terms were created by an insecure and screwed up by religion patriarchal society in order to prevent women from freely exercising their natural sexual inclinations.

Listen, it is your life and yours alone. Nobody else can live it for you nor should you let others dictate to you how to live it (though you have to be responsible about the latter point). So do what you want and find your own happiness.

To wax hypocritical a bit, though, personally, I don't think you should be getting tied down to a guy at your age. Your brain will keep on developing up until age 25 and so your sensibilities will evolve a lot over that span. In other words, what you want now and what you want as a fully realized mature adult could be two different things. So stay in exploratory mode for this phase of your life, position yourself so you don't get hamstrung by things that reduce people's options (early marriage, pregnancy, debt, criminality, addiction, etc). This means you need to have some guts. So be in charge of your life and don't be so tempted to follow the instincts of the herd around you.


My boyfriend and I have been together for 1 year and 3 months. He is 18 and I am 16. We used to be the happiest couple around. We argued like every couple but we didn't do it all the time. I started talking to another guy but all i wanted was a friend, this other guy wanted more and i knew but i never told my boyfriend. Things got bad for a while but we decided to put the past behind us and start fresh. We were at a friends house and i was talking to him about fixing our relationship when he cut me off cause there were boobs on tv. And he is always talking to me like i dont matter anymore. What is really the problem? (link)
There is a saying that the person who has the least emotional investment in a relationship has all the power. I think this is true.

It sounds to me like he is telling you he is about to check out. Having decided to put one foot out the door, he can now push you anyway he wants and if you decide to cash things in he would be okay with it. He is just waiting until he can hook some new poon and then he'll hand you your walking papers. This is called "passive aggressive behavior."

Of course, the more he treats you like crap the more you love it, right? Because he is making you fight harder for his attention now. Now if you have any dignity left, you will throw in the towel and seek a new guy. But you won't until he hits the eject button on you. Just don't say you weren't warned.


So I was making out with my boyfriend on my bed, we were all clos and everything. A felt his bonerthrough his pants on my stomach. He started to kinda slowly pelvic thrust but was trying to make it not so noticeable .. I think. As he started doing this, we were still making out, and he was breathing heavily and kinda let out a moanish like little squeal (it was quiet and went with his breathing) why was he doing this?

Oh. And he was also grabbing my boob at the time. (link)
Your boyfriend came in his pants, which is why he let out the squeal. And he was dry humping you because he was hard and wanted sex but knew it wasn't forthcoming, so the rubbing against you was the next best option.


why my boyfriend is to much possesive for me? (link)
The reason guys are possessive is due to insecurity. He thinks so little of himself that if you meet other boys, even platonically, that you will see them as better offers than the one you have now.

Possessive guys are a nightmare and not good for you emotionally. If it really starts getting out of hand, where he gets uber controlling then it is time to pack it in and put him in the rear view mirror in favor of more secure males.


Um so well I had a dream 5 nights ago and it was about me having sex with a girl who lives next door to my grandmother. But my problem is she's 8 and I'm 13 and I want her so bad but I think it might be rapist so should I have sex with her or not and if so what can I do to make it happen because she likes me to (no rapist jokes)



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Does this site even have moderators? How does a question like this make it through?

This guy has to be a troll. I mean, any kind of sexual interaction with an eight year old is just flat wrong and nauseating to contemplate.




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