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So the other day I was talking to my crush and he told me that he liked me and I told him that I liked him. Then the next day my friend Dylan walked up to me and said that Wesley, my crush was shy and he wanted to ask me out but he thinks we don't talk enough. What should I do!!!

The obvious has been stated. Talk to him! Dont be worry or shy or nervous... just keep talking to him. Plus if you keep talking to your crush, he will eventually not be as shy b/c he'll know you better. Dont be afraid to talk to him on the phone or online alot. Really bring up some deep conversations. Life situations. I sware you guys will become close. Just dont be afraid to take the first step, b/c otherwise you might miss out on a big chance. GL

LYL
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how come people say it is bad for a 13 year old to be friends or have a realationship wit a 16 year old?

because most 16 year olds dont want a 13 year old for their personality. They dont want whats inside them, they want whats inside their pants!

GL
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me and friends are being moulon Rouge for halloween. we got skirts that are really short and a tangtop and it all goes rlly well but do u think its tooo slutty.

sounds slutty but its not what you wear on a normal basis, your just dressing up. No harm done there...

GL !
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i have a Sony Psyche walkman. it's about a year old and it worked great. well just recently the music only started coming out of the left ear. i thought the batteries could be going, so i put new ones in and it's still the same. so whats wrong or how do i fix it? im pissed off cause it was a $50 walkman.

Dont be pissed, it probably has a lot to do with the headphones. You can get new ones for cheap, im sure they sell them seperately maybe at walmart or something. Or if you or someone you know has an old discman, ask them for it (if they no longer use it)

gl sweets xoxo

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I am starting to have feelings for my best guy friend but I don't want to do anything to hurt our relationship. What do I do? I'm in a weird situatuion now. I haven't told him.
xo0x CoNfUsEd xo0x

ok sweetie, heres what I have to say. I promise you this question is the most i've ever had experience with and if you listen, you'll totally find good results, im not trying to put the pressure on or whatever. Here goes. Alot of girls come on here having feelings for guy friends and stuf like that, no matter how close you are to them if you really like them and you've waited like a week or two to make sure your feelings arent just random overflirt then you like him! You can't deprive yourself the guy you like when it has a total potential of working out! The only way these relationships get bent and twisted if you dont go out is if when and if you break up, you start fighting, so if that happens keep it cool and except the friendship back. Easy? Of course. Please dont deprive yourself a possibly really good potential boyfriend when you could be worrying over nothing!

gl i hope absolutely everything works out

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I really like this guy, and he says he likes me too or atleast he did. Well the other day, he didnt talk to me at all. I called him and he didnt pick up, i texted him and he diditn answer, and then i talked to him online and he said he was goin to some party when actually i saw him at our schools football game. When i saw him he just smiled at me and walked right on by. I dont understand it, last weekend he wanted to be my boyfriend and then this weekend he doesnt even talk to me. What should i do, call him and ask him whats goin on, or just wait for him to call me since he didnt pick up his phone last time i tried.
Please help,

call him and yell at him!! Tell him your feelings are hurt because hes acting all wierd. Maybe hes mad at you or something because his behavior is really really wierd. I dont know why someone would do this in their right mind-- but hold on tight sweetie, its a stupid guy thing i could just SEE happening. We all have our bad days... maybe this was just one of them? You might find he still likes you hes just shy or something... geese idk good luck hun!

xoXoXo
sincerely yourz - blu i`z

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when i was on the bus the other day i was talkin to my friend chris (he's a boy) lol and my friend was like stop flirtin...what would be a good come back b/c she's always puting me down and i don't wanna do that sweet thing and ask her why she does it and stuff like that ... please help :)

say ok wow have you ever heard of a thing called "Friends" not every guy you talk to is like your love... or your flirt buddy. Plus-- friends flirt-- its no big shes immature

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my boyfriend says im not fat at all but im cubby..what i dont like bein either one of them! but he says he likes it and its "sexy" and a "turn on" i dont see how it is and im self cautious and so when this is started i was like WOAH!!..you know what kind of guy likes a girls belly??..its not real big but i dont like it!..and last night he said im going to keep talkin about it and you cant do anything..anywho..so my question is does anyone know why he would like it???

**please dont delete!!**

OK, maybe hes trying to make you feel good. But the fact that he called you chubby as really frigen mean. Ask him why the hell he would say that and tell him whether or not he "likes it" it hurts your feelings anyway. Hes kinda... rude :-/

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how do you get a guy to bug off? i mean, he stares at me touches me, and sings to me. EEWW!!! and if it isnt bad enough, there is this other guy, and he keeps telling me that he loves me. ew to him to! He says hes just kidding, but he does it like everyday. its disgusting!!

Its simple say "Please go away", "Im in a bad mood" or "shove off" ..... and if it doesnt work the nice way "your ugly. Move!"

Lol... srii to hear
GL

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My boyfriend told me he didn't love me but he likes me alot. He doesn't know that I love him and he keeps trying to get me to tell him but I wont, I think he's guessed. I just want to cry, I knew he didn't love me but when he told me it just made everything 10 times worse. I really love him, what shall I do?

hun, dont worry. Love is more like a marriagey thing... for people who are soo attatched they like need eachother every second of the day. You could possibly be using the wrong word.... or mayeb you really do love him. Dont cry tell him the truth. He may love you too!! A lot of people get confused of the definition between like and love....

GL
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hope i helped you...
cheer up

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After I take a shower my hair is alwyas knotty. After I comb all the knots out it gets knotty again. Then my hair get really frizzy when it dries. Do you have any ideas on how to get the knots out and how to get my hair frizz-less.

after you condition it, put on really cold water and brush the conditioner out while its running in the cold water. You will have non frizzy hair

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I'm planning a Halloween party... what should I do? We want to be able to have it be kind of like a make-out/Halloween Party. Help?
Tips n' such. Thanks! (I rate high)

DO spin the bottle, 7 minutes in heaven.. u get the point.... maybe tell ur girls to wear bikinis and wrestle in chocolate syrup ?? ;-)

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Ok, this question is for the girls out there!! Have you ever pierced your belly button by yourself? Like how did you do it I mean like all the steps from start to finish, even the small ones lol? Today, I want to pierce my belly button by myself but I'm afraid that I'm gonna do something wrong like piercing it too thin like I didn't use the skin. Can someone please tell me how you pierced your belly button by yourself? Thanks

dnt recommend that! some random girl i knew got paralyzed on the right side of her body from screwin up.. no matter how careful you think you'll be its nooo good idea

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okay there is this guy i have always had a crush on... he is friends w/ me but jus cause my best friend is his girlfriend.
hes always rude to me and has made me cry on several occasions. What do I do, and what should i tell my friend?

hes a jerk!! ignore him and stop being around him, if he wasnt goin out with your best girl hed be bitchin to you. Hes a bastard dont give him a pennys worth of your time.... i know its hard... but dnt hang around him no more.... tears r bad

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my girlfriend has posters on her wall of a bunch of celebrities that she thinks are "hot". She claims to me all the time that she doesnt check them out or think about them in any way but i think she is lying to me. I dont know what to do now. Is she lying to me about checking other guys out or what. She claims they are stupid little pictures, well if they are so stupid why are they up?

Ok let me explain the difference. First of all-- im not trying to be mean but you might be the slightest bit controlling. Ok, the difference between me thinking my boyfriends(lol i dnt have one right now.. but hey lets pretend) hot and me thinking ashton kutchers hot is this-- i LOVE my boyfriend for who he is... i dont love ashton kutcher b/c i dnt know him.. he has a nice body and hes cute.

.... checking out is just looking at someone to see if their good looking. Shes not cheating on you with anyone but face it theres celebs out there that are hotter cause of all like the massive surgery and crap they go through.. so ashtons unreachably hot, and to your girlfriend your "her man" hot. Lol.. get it?? ... Im sure theres celeb girls out there you think are hot... just let your girlfriend slide.. shes not doin anything wrong

good luck sweets
xoxoxo

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im a 17 female and need tips on how to lose weight. i cant go to the gym so ill need tips on what to eat and how to exercise at home .. thanks soo much !!

Alot of people have all their little specific methods, carbs, fats, etc. I think you should just learn how to eat healthily and carefully. For instance, cut all your sugar out of your diet. No cakes, candies, ANYTHING--- not even a tiny piece, because if you have that little piece you'll get hooked and you wont be able to stop. When you stop for a long time you just start having no craving for it anymore. Workouts-- try getting on Ebay and just look for some really good Excercise Videos-- those really help! My friend watched did one in the morning and one in the evening and lost wieght realllly reallly fast !! Just remember, avoid fast foods, sugars, stuff that just appears obviously junky, it may sound too simple but its the easiest way to loose wieght, fast. Some snacks i could suggest-- graham crackers, veggies and fat free salad dressing, rice cakes (you can put lots of stuff of rice cakes that tastes good, like different cheeses).... hmm... hope i've helped. If you need some more help, dnt be afraid to inbox me :-D

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alright well i dont wanna be like another girl saying oh my relationships arent workign out its only been a month blah blah .. yeah thats not a real relationship .. see for about 3 years now on and off i've been with my boyfriend .. this is the third time we've been together adn its been about 2 months but for some reason it just hasnt seem the same at all .. and he is completely obsessed and always says to me how im like his life and idk what to do because i know how badly i'd hurt him .. and im scared because what if me and him really do have a future with eachother but just not right now and if i ruin it with him now he might not want me later in life .. please i could use any advice

if its meant to be "later in life" it will happen later in life. Break up with him for now, because if you dont, you could be denying yourself that person that really is meant to be with you forever. It may hurt him but you'll have to go with your gut feeling, you cant live a lie by going out with him. If you ever feel like you guys were really meant for eachother, you can ALWAYS get back together if fate allows,I believe everything happens for a specific purpose, and it really does show up in the end.

Sooo much luck 2 u!
if you need ANY help, box me
tell me what happens !! :-D

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This might be a stupid question, but how do you know when you're in love with someone? How does it feel?

you know because its the person you CANNOT live without. You could EASILY see yourself marrying them, and lasting a life time together ,with tons of kids. Lol.. love is more of a marriage thing.. foolin around when your kids is more of a crush thing...

GL..
xoxo

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Okay, this guy asked me out and I really like him in all but he is shorter than me. Please don't leave well if you like him then it wouldn't bother you. I know that I need advice on how it won't affect me, if that makes any since?! PLease Help!!!

well honestly, most people do say if you like him it shouldnt bother you. I dont believe that you should care what others think, but some people just do and they cant help it. Do you personally mind the fact of walking around with him and him being shorter? Do you care? Plus if its not a big hieght difference, dont worry, he'll grow soon. If its a major difference... id say dont do it.... it may sound cruel but it will get to you. And also his hieght really wont effect you if its not that different in hieght because you guys can do the same thing every other couple does... theres nothing your being stopped from doin`.. all it is is appearance..

gl
best wishes girl!
If you need more help, BOX ME!

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My friend and I were exchanging secrets, and i found out that she had been cutting every time she got stressed out; she swore she'd stop, but then I saw two more marks... she just said she'd stop again, and she was talking about it like its no big deal.
(she's been through a lot... she was adopted when she was six, and she thinks her real parents sexually abused her (and beat her)).
I'm worried... what should I do?
-_concerned-friend_-

get her psycological help ASAP. tell an adult. Maybe your afraid she'll be mad but better that than her be dead

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