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Q: Um, is there like an actual way to play darts? Or do you just throw them really hard at the board? If there is an actual way...what is it?
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line yourself up to the board and aim very carefully.. bring ur arm back to some degree and fling it forward the same amount *hope i helped* love alwaiiz, aLi
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Q: I put a question like this on here a few days ago, but I'll go over whats going on again.
My friend and I both liked a guy, then I backed off so she could have him, then she didn't want a bf. So I stepped up and now I like him and he likes me and outa no where she says she likes him again, so I told her I liked him too and now shes all wierd about it. I told her I didn't want a bf though, and now me and Andy (the guy) have been hanging out alot and I really like him, and when I come home from our dates I hear "Amanda really likes Andy, what are you doing?" and stupid stuff like that. What the hell am I supposed to do? I mean I can't control my feelings, and she had her chance with him. And I'm not going to date him right now anyways b/c I want to get to know him...so people are making it into a lot bigger deal than it is...what do I do?
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niknik is totally rite.. she had her chance n u gotta tell her that.. say "Amanda, you had ur chance with him.. and you know that we really like each other a lot.. i repect you enuf as a friend to have backed off but now your not doing anything so since i like him.. i thought id take a shot' *hope i helped* love alwaiiz, aLi
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Q: Dear People,
I have this little problem. See, I like this guy but he has a girlfriend. I know that there's definatly something between us because he came to my house the other day and we totally kissed!! (YaY!) But see, his girlfriend & me are not the BEST of friends, but we are friends. I feel kinda weird because I know that its wrong but WHO CARES! HaHa.. anyways! I wanna tell him that I like him but I know he'll never leave his girlfriend. Hmm.. What would you do??
Thax,
Stephanie
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see... this is one of those situations where you gotta be careful.. if he cheated on his girlfriend n kissed you.. wuts not to say that if u guys do end up going out he wont kiss another girl?? well.. hes never gonna leave his girlfriend eh? well do sumthing totally out of character so hell fall for you n end up liking you more thean his g/f *hope i helped* love alwaiiz, aLi
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Q: what does it mean to pop your cherry? i have heard it tons of times but i never really understood what it meant x3
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its when i girl has sex.. her hymen breaks *hope i helped* love alwaiiz, aLi
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Q:
I've lost my voice, and I was wondering if anybody knew any useful remedies to help me to a speedy recovery, as I'm supposed to be singing in a carol concert on Sunday and in the coming week. I've heard honey and lemon is good for throats, and obviously not trying to strain my voice any more. Any additional ideas?
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yea.. a humidifier.. thats wut i used.. n throat lozengers *hope i helped* love alwaiiz, aLi
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Q: my boyfriend and i have been dating for almost a year. i have no idea wat to get him for the holidays. i dont have too much money but im definatly not going to give him anything cheap. i love him a lot and want to get him something special. thanks!
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take a picture of the both of you and buy him a teddybear with a picture frame w/ ur picture in the middle *hope i helped* love alwaiiz..aLi!
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Q: I love my boyfriend very much, and he is just the sweetest thing to me. I wouldn't trade him for anybody else. My parents don't think he's a good influence on me, and want us to break up. If he doesn't change soon they'll keep us from seing each other and talking.
He's 2 years older than me, in high school when I'm still just a middle schooler. I met him through my younger brother's theatre group, he is a wonderful actor and an even better singer. I knew who he was for almost a year, but never talked to him since he was older, and I wasn't even in the play. some time in september he noticed me at the theatre group. We began talking on the computer and on the phone for several weeks until he asked me out. my parents had been sorta skepetical about the whole thing with an older guy from the begining, but let me go out with him anyway.
There have been a few times that I couldn't do or go places with him because he was older, or because my parents didn't think I was ready to do things. He takes things rather personally and got really upset with them, being extremely rude about them in his online diary. Later, after the problems had been solved, my dad found the website, nad was really disappointed in what he saw. That was about 3 weeks ago. My parents have never let go of the fact that he and I made out in front of my little bro, something both of us will never do again. They also like to rub in my face that he is very emmotional, and materilistic and they point out all his bad traits. They fail to mention how sweet he is to me, how well we get along, how he calls me every day no matter what, and comes to watch me ride horses when any other guy would be bored to death.
Last friday one of our friends told him that I was cheating on him with my ex. Which so didn't and will never happen. I told him so on saturday, and he believed me until he talked to her again, and on sunday he was mad at me. I felt so bad, being accused of something that he knows that as a person, I would never do that. Anyways, he hugs all his friends that are girls. I told my mom, and she almost had be convienced to break up with him.
Yesterday, I was talking to him on the phone, and I told him he needed to be more respectful to my parents. He replied with "I dont give a what your parents think" I then told him that why my mom was letting me use the phone before I was finished with homeworkd and chores was because I was supposed to break up with him, but that I didn't want to. He got all upset and got off the phone.
I dont know what to do, I want him to be able to get along with my parents, and I want them to see all the good things I see in him. How should I let him know that my parents thnk he is a bad influence, emotional, rude in his diary ect. ect. without making it sound like thats how I feel, and that they still like him well enough as a person. I agree with a few of the things they say, and I want him to know and to fix those things, but I dont want to sound rude, or demanding. Sorry about the question being so long, thanks so much if you can help me!
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alothough parentsw can be soo frigin totally thickheaded..ur gonna half to try and get it through to them that hes not totally a bad kid.. yes he has horrible manners but everyone's a lil ruff around the edges... and for the lil rumor thing.. just call n be like "you know thats not ture, i love you more than you could ever imagine and i would never cheat on you and i truely hope you know that." what he did on that site tho was totally imature, stupid, and rediculous. how you let him talk sh*t bout ya parents hun i dont know.. but you should always defend your parents.. any waiiz just tell him that he needs to get his act together and just be a little more polite.. *hope i helped* love alwaiiz..aLi!
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Q: Hey people! Um...let's see. I really have liked this guy for a long time and we have dated but at the moment we are not. By the way his name is Kyle if that would help any. We always go on and off fooling around and stuff. Like in the beginning of the school year we were hanging out and one thing led to another and we were making out and I gave him a hj and he fingered me. So it's not like it's a random crush I have or anything. Well like for the past month like basically almost all of November he was acting way different. He would call me EVERYDAY and we would talk to a while and he would tell me how much he loved me and he was just so cute and he hasn't really ever acted like that. I mean some of the things he said were so sweet like once out of no where he's like 'I'm in love...with the best thing ever and her name is Ryah' (that's me lol). Well anyways, he told me he wanted to have sex with me and I told him I'd think about it and that maybe if we were to do that we should go out first so he said yeah. We weren't going out though it wasn't definite. He said he would have felt bad if he pressured me into it and I told him he didn't really so it was ok. Well then he just stopped calling me and talking to me all the time and he still doesn't. I don't know what's up! Does anyone see what I did? I don't know if I should call him and get things started back up or something. I'm afraid I'm going to loose him. I'm so attached right now and I don't know what to do. I'm thinking about calling him tonight and just talking to him, maybe get things back to where there were...but I don't know how. Sorry it's so long.
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maybe he thinks ur gonna tell people that he asked you to have sex or make fun of him or sumthin like that..idk thats truely a tuffy.. try givin him a call.. it might brighten up from there *hope i helped* love alwaiiz..aLi!
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Q: this kid (corey) likes me ALOT. i only like him as a bestfriend, but i love him to death. he asked me to formal. at the same time, this other kid who I like is supposed to ask me. well when Corey asked me online to the formal, i said without thinking "well no because im waiting for someone else to ask me, but if he doesnt i'll go with you" and then i realized thats the WORST thing anyone could possibly say. and hes CRUSHED! i freaked out and apologized. he replied "its okay, i should have known not to ask you, you wouldnt go with me anyway" and now i feel like SHIT! i told my parents and they said im an asshole for saying that. they said if i end up not getting a date, that i SHOULDNT go with him because thats insulting and he deserves better. i feel SO BAD. what can i do/say to make it up to him?
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thats truely cruel.. not mean.. cruel.. but thts besides the point.. just apologize sooo much and you need to go with him.. u ask him toi go with you! jus apologize a lot n send him a lotta cute lil notes n stuff.. *hope i helped* love alwaiiz..aLi!
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Q: i used to go out with this guy. he wasnt exactly a loser but some ppl thought he was. so i got really insecure about it and stupidly dumped him. this happened about 4 weeks ago. lately i have started to regret dumping him and i miss him so much!! should i tell him this?
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why do you care what other people think?.. who cares what they say.. if you like him.. just apologize and say you wasnt using your head and that you really want him back. *hope i helped* love alwaiiz..aLi!
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Q: Ok..our uniforms are the navy shirt w/ khaki pants or plaid squirts..i have brown hair(past my bra strap) and brown eyes and i have no acne and i have a natural tan..so what kind of eyeshadow should i wear to go to school?
Thnx in Advance!
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hmm.. im thinkin like a smooth brown.. maybe a little shimmery.. yea that sounds good.. ot maybe like a darker blue.. or you could do dark eye shadow and then get lighter in blues as you head to the back of the eye lid? (my friend does that with pink n it looks really good) def. some mascara tho! *hope i helped* love alwaiiz..aLi!
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Q: ok i have been going out with a girl for quite a while now. we love each other both very much and we know what "love" is...but we have been thinking...about sex. we have already did a couple of things with each other already but other than that we are both still virgins but we are thinking about sex and we are going to go ahead and try it soon possibly even tomorrow or within this week...is this moving too fast...since we know each other and talked it through? and what should i do about this since its our both first time having sex? (we are using protection by the way) thanks for listening
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well.. this totally depends on how old u r lol.. well.. as long as you are ready for even the slightest posiblity of becoming a father.. go right ahead.. things can happen.. like the condom cud rip or sumthin.. just think of everything that could happen.. please dont think im gettin mad er ne thin but seriously.. if that condom rips.. both of your lives will be changed forever and theirs no turning back..but ya no.. most of the time it dont rip.. so u can.. its totally up to u lol*hope i helped* love alwaiiz..aLi!
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Q: OK, there are 2 parts to this. There is this guy at my school that I really like and I know he likes me back!! But I don't know how to tell him!! I had a crush on him since last year and people say I should ask him out. But you see, I have NEVER been on a date and I'm 13 years old!! Everytime I think about him I feel like I want to kiss him so badly. He just got a haircut and now he looks even cuter, that it's driving me crazy!! OK, the 2nd part is that ever since these 2 girls found out that we liked each other they have been teasing like "So, how's your boyfriend?" He has been acting weird like we used to flirt a lot and he would always smile at me and do nice things to me now he doesn't do that anymore!! Do you think he dosn't like me no more!!?? PLEASE TELL ME!! Sorry it's so long!!
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oh ignore those girls! who cares what they say! you totally shouldnt care what they think. and you should ask him out.. i know its a little more easier said than done but if your that nervous.. do it online or through one of your friends or one of his friends lol if you feel that deeply about him.. just do it! the sooner you do it the happier you will be! trust me on this lol and if he says no (which he probly wont cuz u sed he likes you too)big deal! keep on flirtin with him and try out other guys..well good luck! *hope i helped* love alwaiiz..aLi!
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Q: okay so .. i broke up with this guy a little while ago. But when i see him i still think about him. My friends say i should go back out with him .. but i dont want to .. i dont think im the type of girl to have a boyfriend but i also like having one too. I dont know what i should do. I dont even know if he still likes me. I think i just still have left over feelings for him but i dont think i could go back out with him. I kinda want to .. but then again im talking to another boy .. so i dont know what to do ..
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if there's even the slightest feeling in you telling you not to go back out with him... dont.. just dont because while ur going out with him.. that once little feelings gonna get bigger n bigger..jus dont if u dont want to..*hope i helped* love alwaiiz, aLi
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Q: Ok, well, my guy friend's dad just past away a few days ago. My friend is really hurt and it's weird cuz usually he comes to me to comfort him when he needs it, but he doesnt wanna talk about his dad. Doesnt wanna talk period. He wasnt close with his dad, they didnt live together and didnt see eachother for the longest time. I know he's hurt becuz at his grad (a few months ago) he told me how he was jealous that all his friends dads were there except his. I just dont know how to be there for him, what should i do? I wanna be there for him, Ive always have and now something like that happens, I just really dont kno what to do..HELP!
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jus don mention your dad or your family.. and just tell him that youll always be there for him.. what he needs now is support from his family and friends.. the only thing you can do now is just tell him that all of his friends love him and that you will alwaiiz be thea for him *hope i helped* love alwaiiz, aLi
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Q: Well i have a boyfriend that ive been with for almost 6 months but ive known him for 5 years. He is a very jealous guy because that is the way he was brought up he is very sweet and loves to buy me things! I have another guy who is very nice and sweet also. LIke last week i went to his house and he had a cute teddy bear for me, when i talk to him on the phone he talks to me like he's known me for ever. He says stuff like "i love you", "i want to be with you forever and i will never leave you". He's very sweet like. I dont see my boyfriend only on weekends because he works 2 jobs. Like i said everytime i talk to him he is so sweet and my boyfriend is not that sweet. well i dont want to fall i love with this guy what should i do? please reply!!!
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hmmm... sounds like you like guy #2 more than your boyfriend.. what you should do is.. break up with your boyfriend and be single for a while so you can gather your thoughts, feelings, and emotions, and then once your concluded who you like.. go out with them *hope i helped* love alwaiiz, aLi
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Q: Well I have this friend. He is really nice and I can be honest with him about almost everything. The problem is there is this one thing I'm not sure I can be honest about.He thinks my other friend (one of my bestestest friends) likes him. I asked her if she really did and she said no. I know I have to tell him so he doesn't get hurt by asking her or something but I don't know how. Any tips on how to break it to him? Should I really tell him? I'll rate high. Unless youranswer doesn't help at all. If you don't have anything to say to help please don't answer. Thank you.
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just come right out n say it to him.. don candy coat it cuz he mite not get it.. just say "----- im so sorry, but ----- just doesnt like you like that. i talked to her for you and she says she just wants to be friends" *hope i helped* love alwaiiz, aLi
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Q: Yesterday, me my bff brittany and my family went to burlington for my little brothers hockey tournment. there me and brit spotted these 2 really hott guys and decided to try nd talk to them later. well so we did and it was actually quite fun we spent the whole night hanging out with them and just some younger immature boys. one of the 2 boys we spotteds name was shawn. i flirted with him alott and a few of the other kids kept telling me he likes me and stuff. the hotel was going to be filled with security guards at 11 and it was creeping there and a little before shawn asked for my number. i gave it to him and gave him a hug be4 i walked in my room but my friend keeps sayin guys just ask to make them look cool and its not like hes gonna call or anything. but he acted so nice and mature and everything so i didnt know if this was different or do all guys just like to lead us on.
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hmmmm sounds lke he likes you.. call him! or jus wait till he calls u.. ull only no if he like su if and when he calls u back.. BUT! he mite lost ur fone number..*hope i helped* love alwaiiz, aLi
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Q: Does anyone know any good CD's that i can ask for for Chirstmas. I dont like Rap or R&B, i like rock/pop. But nothing like Brittney Spears or Xtina. And i'll like anything with electric guitars blarring. Any suggestions?
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eminem, chingy, good charolette, nirvana, now 17 *hope i helped* love alwaiiz, aLi
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Q: Sry so long!!! well theres this guy that ive had a thing with for a like 3 months or so and its been off and on. Well the other night i was drunk with 2 of my friends. And this guy came over and he was sober. One of my friends was pretty much passed out and she has a bf too...well this guy decided to take advantage of her and make out with her and i think maybe even more...not so sure though...after he made out with her he would come over to me and start taking advantage of me...well i didnt know that he was doing that until my other friend the only one who didnt do anything with this guy told me the next morning what went on. I want to end this thing with this guy because of what happened, but i still like him and i cant help it. what should i do?
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how can u like him after him takin advantage of you AND YOUR FRIENDS!!!! ditch him hun u can do much better! *hope i helped* love alwaiiz, aLi
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Member Since: November 27, 2004 Answers: 667 Last Update: October 1, 2012 Visitors: 44505
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