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dont want to hurt him...


Question Posted Monday December 6 2004, 3:38 pm

Well I have this friend. He is really nice and I can be honest with him about almost everything. The problem is there is this one thing I'm not sure I can be honest about.He thinks my other friend (one of my bestestest friends) likes him. I asked her if she really did and she said no. I know I have to tell him so he doesn't get hurt by asking her or something but I don't know how. Any tips on how to break it to him? Should I really tell him? I'll rate high. Unless youranswer doesn't help at all. If you don't have anything to say to help please don't answer. Thank you.

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Additional info, added Monday December 6 2004, 6:40 pm:
He wouldn't think this out of the blue someone told him. He also didn't like her from the start but he gets really different when he finds out someone likes him cuz its kinda not normal for him..

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Daisy answered Thursday December 9 2004, 11:10 am:
Well, perhaps you could tell him that she isn't looking for a boyfriend at the moment?

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jenymca answered Tuesday December 7 2004, 6:43 am:
Ask around to some girls and see if they would consider going out with him. Then talk to your guy friend after you find one and say. "Hey, my friend actually doesnt like you. But (other girl) said she would consider going out with you! You should hang out with her more often!" Or something like that.

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SweetThoughtz answered Monday December 6 2004, 9:34 pm:
hey gurlie!well does he like her?? if he does i think you should ask your bf if she can hang out with him and then make up her mind. if he doens't then i think you should just tell him straight up that u know i'm sorry but she doesn't like you...<3!

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americanxidiot answered Monday December 6 2004, 8:46 pm:
dont just boldly tell him "she doesnt like you!" ask your friend 'well.. do you think hes a little cute?' and questions like that but if it doesnt really turn out so great, say something like "well she said she doesnt like you enough to actually go out with you, but she thinks your nice and cute though!!" something that will keep him happy. =]

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SexyHelper answered Monday December 6 2004, 7:39 pm:
Listen. I was in the situarion like the guy in this one. The girl was my best freind and she told me and i was sad. But in the end I relized that she was tryin to help me. I am still best freinds with her so please tell him she dont like him.

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XSugarPieX77 answered Monday December 6 2004, 7:32 pm:
Just tell him straight up that she doesnt like him, not in front of people and i think you should do it in person. He will probably really apreciate it comeing from you and not some weirdo lol. Your a really good friend thinking of your friends feelings.
~Brina~

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punkybabegurl900 answered Monday December 6 2004, 4:55 pm:
You really need to tell him!!!!! Your hurting him even more by not telling him!!! i know he's gonna be upset but theres other girls out there. Also imagine if you don't tell him the things he might do before he ask her out how more upset he'll be when she says no also how embaressed!!!!!!!!!!! YOU HAVE TO TELL HIM!!!!!!!

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~!YOUR LITTLE HELPER!~

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-LyL-RyAh- answered Monday December 6 2004, 4:21 pm:
I know that's a hard thing to do. Sorry sweetie. Just tell him that your friend only likes him as a friend right now and tell him that he should no so he doesn't think she's leading him on. I think you should tell him because he does have the right to know. So tell him that she may act like it sometimes but she acts like that to people she likes as a friend and really respects. Hope I helped. <3 Ryah

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BeFABULOUSxo answered Monday December 6 2004, 3:59 pm:
just come right out n say it to him.. don candy coat it cuz he mite not get it.. just say "----- im so sorry, but ----- just doesnt like you like that. i talked to her for you and she says she just wants to be friends" *hope i helped* love alwaiiz, aLi

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