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plzz help!!!!!
ok, well i have a b/f we been goin out for 2 months... well'z it was going really great for the first month... but he has basketball alot.. and so i harldy get to see him alot... and well its sort of a long story but he always says i love you so much to me and stuff like that!! but anyways i need help wellz my friend lets call him bob(and my b/f's bestfriend) keeps telling me that my b/f is talking bout me.. saying stuff like i dont care about her!! and stuff welllz then bob said that my b/f told him about me and my b/f's secret.. then that he told him that he (my b/f) didnt want to go out wit me anymore... but wen i ask my b/f about it he always says no... today i asked him about if he said that he was gunna break up wit me then he said no relly low and his eyes were all watery and stuff!! then he looked really sad/mad.. i dont know!! wat should i do? im confused!!
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Sports and other stuff that guys are passionate about can take up a lot of time, but it's important to them, and you should respect that. But yeah, maybe he wants to break up but doesn't know how, or maybe he's just trying to be cool around his friends. I think you should talk one-on-one with your boyfriend and sort all of this stuff out, and take everything "Bob" says less seriously.
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Maybe he doesnt wanna show his true feelings for you to his "guys" and i know that things like basketball can get in the way and make a relationship difficult, but i think that he is just scared to show his true feelings about you, espically around his friends, because he doesnt wanna get hurt either!
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Okay, well, you're not the first person this has happened to, i'm sure.
I think, he may not love you anymore, but he's afraid of hurting you, becuase he still wants to be friends. It may just be too difficult for him to keep up with the relationship. Maybe you should talk to him more about it, and get more evidence. If it turns out he doesn't want to go out with you anymore, tell him, if you're up to it, that you don't think the relationship is working out. Tell him that you still want to be friends and that there should be no hurt feelings here. But don't jump in saying that if you're not sure he doesn't want to be in a relationship with you. It'd save him the pain of breaking up with you. BUT if you don't want to break up with him, don't. Do what feels right. Does that make sense? i hope so.
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Well you should really have a serious talk with your friend, bob, and your b/f all together because it semes that since your friend said something it's started all of this and you need to find that story and then you should have a talk alone with your boyfriend and tell him your serious and that you really need to know because the more time you don't know the more your getting hurt!
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Maybe Bob likes you and wants to start rumors? If not, then Bob might be telling the truth. Its your choice wether or not to break up with him. But I think you should. you dont see eachother a lot, he doesnt care about you, and he does not love you. Thats crazy! Love? Only after 2 months. Yeah, right.
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