OK so I was friends with my bff who i've been bffs with since i was 5, and now i'm 13/f
but at the beginning of this year the schools merged & we met this girl lindsay. I HATE HER SO MUCH! first we started hanging out with these girls molly & kayla who turned out to be pretending to be our friends the whole time! *hate them too* that's what lindsay told us. so then we turned out being bffs with lindsay until the point where me and kristen (my other EX-bff) got tired of the drama. lindsay is ALWAYS TALKING ABOUT THE POPULAR GIRLS & HOW JEALOUS SHE IS & HOW THEY backstab each other, when she doesn't realize SHE'S EVEN WORSE! She told me not to be friends with my other bff, Lynnette, & lynnette is my only good friend at the school right now. shes trying to turn me agains EVERYONE! I HATE HER! So then i was gonna tell her i'm not gonna be her friend any more because i couldn't take it but she was w/ molly & kayla and wanted to be popular so she said "lauren, if ur gonna be like that then WHAT THE HECK IS UP YOUR BUTT!?" she's just jealous her EX boyfriend broke up with her bcause she doesnt HAVE ONE! I HATE HER I HATE HER I HATE HER I HATE HER I HATE HER I HATE HER I HATE HER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!SHE MAKES ME SO MAD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!and she lies to get a reaction. she said this girl sophie makes fun of me for my curly hair but she doesn't! she also said her dad used to live in a haunted house where she said the bed lifted up by itself! as if! she even went up to the guy i liked and practically made fun of him twice!!!! now he hates me!! so then she emails me saying she wants to work things out so i start yelling at her online and then she says "WHATEVER! ILL JUST BE FRIENDS WITH KRISTEN!"
i don't even know what i'm asking....
how can i get her back in kind of a nice way?
but not so nice...???
thanks
Drama. Cheers to teenage years. Yeah, hunny, this isn't the only problem like this you're going to face. Just remember this, don't spread anything, no matter if you heard it, saw it, or read it, don't spread it. It's only going to come back and bite you in the butt. My advice, next time she tells you anything, hold your hand up, stare her straight in the eyes, and say, "I`m done with this. I don't want to hear it. Anymore." And then walk away. Ignore whatever she has to say. Just do it. And you`ll feel a heck of a lot better, trust me.
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She is everywhere. Won't let me breathe, all the time we have to be together. Do everything together, all the time! AHG! It's driving me crazy! I've tried telling her, but I couldn't do it, I'm like her only friend! I've given her hints but she's not picking them up or she is just ignoring them. What can I do? I am actually ahsamed of being seen with her! I'm got a good friend, she's really nice and all and she desevres a friend who can give her all she wants but I'm not that friend.....But I still don't want to call it an end to our friendship, seems a bit drastic. And, we hang in the same gang so she's 100% unavoidable!!! She wants to be BFF's and I just can't do that! She's driving be crazy, alll the time she needs to prove to everyone that we are close friends and I'm sick if it because we're not! I really like her and all but it's just way too much! What can I do without huring her feelings?? I have one plan in mind and that is to come drunk to school! yes! That is a good plan! She hates people who drink, and yes, i party from time to time even though "she doesn't approve"...sooo If I came to school drunk, she would stop hanging out with me! Right? Does that sound like a good plan??
Whoa, calm down there. Coming to school drunk can fuck up your grades and that would just piss her off. You don't want that or need that apparently. So, in my opinion, sitting her down and telling her that you enjoy being her friend, but lately she's been a little clingy and that you need your space. Tell her that you don't want to ruin the friendship, but you just need some space.
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ok so there is this guy who is two years older than me. i don't know him that well but he's cute and he reminds me of someone who passed away. i have a crush on him and i really want to know how to talk to him. how do i start a conversation with him? how do i keep a conversation with him? how do i get him to feel conforatble with me? how do i get him to like me back? help me please
Ha, shy? Aren't we all. First, walk up to him and say hey, what's up. Weird way to start it, but hey, it works. Then just ask how things are going. For example, "how's life? school? family?". Show him you're interested in how he is feeling. Then ask him if he would like to go out and see a movie, or goto the mall, you know, something of that sort. If he says no, or says he has other plans and doesn't give you a raincheck, you know he's not interested and that you shouldn't push it. Be casual. Don't overdo it and try not to talk fast and be nervous. :]
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21/f
there is something nagging at my brain and that is my boyfriends ex. she started messaging me on facebook saying that they met up over xmas and he told her he doesnt fancy me etc.
i showed him and he seemed a little shaken by it as well and well basically we talked like grown ups about it and i believe i can trust him that she is making it up. it did help that i asked a mutual friend of both of his and his ex and he told me there was nothing to worry about.
however all said and done i am still thinking about whether he has lied to me and i am just a fool for believing him.
can anyone tell me how i should deal with this problem?
I know where you're coming from. Ask him quietly and calmly again, and if he gets all defensive, you know he's not telling you the entire truth. If he does get defensive, you should let him know that you want to trust him, and that you really like him, but you need him to be completely honest with you. If he's still being defensive, you might want to end it, because he might still have feelings for his ex girlfriend, you never know.
Just try talking to him about it, and see where it goes from there. :]
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Ok, here is what is going on. I have been dating this wonderfully amazing guy for 3 years now. He proposed very early in the relationship, so we have been engaged for most of our relationship. He is amazing and sweet and romantic and was there for me during some of my hardest times. I love him very much.
Ok, now the conflict. A few months before I met my fiance, I met this other guy and we instantly hit it off and became friends and hung out all the time. We had chemistry and flirted and kissed and hung out all the time. We both really liked each other, but we were both too chicken to say anything. So we never dated.
I have kept in touch with this guy for 3 years. We have kissed and fooled around (which I am very ashamed of, because I know it would kill my fiance if he ever found out.) This other guy told me that I was the first girl he's ever loved, but I knew I'd never leave my fiance for him. I never did leave my fiance, and this other guy eventually moved on and started dating another girl. Things got pretty serious, and he said he's over me now and that he loves her.
However, this other guy and I hung out the other night and kissed and cuddled and just held each other. We didn't have sex, just held each other.
I am getting married very soon, and I do not know what to do. This other guy and I were never officially an "item", but we have remained in each other's lifes for 3 years. He was in love with me for 2 some years, and then when he got a new girlfriend, I started getting really jealous. He said he's over me, but then why did we fool around the other night?
I just... I don't know what to do. I am getting married in a few weeks and moving to the West coast. I love my fiance and have never left him for anyone. I love him so much, and I don't want to hurt him. I still think of this other guy sometimes, but I think I do only because it's a "what could have been" type of scene because we never actually dated. I think it's also because it's natural to be nervous before you get married.
Is it normal to think of an "ex" before you get married? Part of me wonders what would have been with this other guy, if he and I would have lasted, or whether we'd broken up 2 weeks later. I love my fiance and want to and need to move on. THis other guy and I never worked because of timing, and we don't work now. We both have other people. Please help!
Wow, well, I`m young and I honestly don't know if it's normal for you to think about your ex before marriage. But, I've been through relationships, and I know that if you and this other guy were both scared to say anything about a relationship, you were meant to just be friends. You both obviously wanted to say something, but you had second thoughts. Now, the second thing I need to tell you, is something you aren't going to want to hear. You need to tell your fiance about him, or you`ll regret it. Trust me, just be open and honest, and tell him the truth. He might get angry, but think, if you tell him before you're married, don't you think it would be better than when you WERE married? Just sit him down, and calmly tell him. It's going to be hard to do, but trust me, it's the right thing. If you don't love this other guy, you should just brush it off your shoulders because it's either cold feet or you're just crushing. Good luck, and don't wreck true love.
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short version: I met someone who supoosedly is talking to someone else, should i pursue it and if so how because i just met him once and i dont wanna be too straight forward or a prude..
long version: the other day i was hanging out wiht my friend *chris, and his friends ( i didnt know any of them) and i met one of the people there and want to start "talking" to them, becuz that kid, *justin was really flirty and told me he was single and chris told me he was flirty but justins supposed to be talking to this girl *tera, but when i asked him he said not reall and that he was single.. so should i pursue it and if so then how cuz i dont wanna be too straightforward but i dont wanna be prude either..
Just be a little flirty, because this justin kid might like the tera girl, but he might like you too, and he doesn't want you to think he's taken and off limits. So, don't be too flirty, but try to make it a little obvious that you're interested.
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I'm looking for some more MSN display pictures. I've seen some about music that say like 'music is my passion' and things like that. I have one with pianokeys that say love.
Art is my passion and I'm wondering if anyone has seen any MSN DP's about art.
Thanks.
try avatarhell.com or iconator.com =]
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how long does skin fungus take to go away?
You`ll have to try google and try to label all the symptoms, because there's a lot of different types of skin fungus. Good luck.
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When buying a used car what are the proper steps to take in order to keep from geeting a piece of junk and getting tricked?
This looked helpful, so try this website. =]
http://autopedia.com/html/Used_car.html
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does anyone know where they still sell 'beanie boppers?' my cousin really likes them, & collects them, & her bday is comin up. i dont want one from ebay...
Try a walmart, or a convenient store, you never know what they have. But, I'm pretty sure Hallmark has them.
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Me and a friend saw eachother at a dance last friday and there was a lot of flirting. This friday we're seeing eachother again. Last friday he said he was going to dance with me at the dance this coming friday. The thing is he has a girlfriend and when it comes to dancing i freak dance. I told him "yea ill dance with u....but what about ur....nevermind?"...then he said "Girlfriend?"...i said "yea!"....he told me "dancing is dancing". So i don't know if its going to be wrong to freak with him while he has a girlfriend?...also i can't stop flirting with him because he flirts with me....What should i do???
Ask him and make sure it's okay with him first.
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i don't know if this is the right category, but i'm 15 - and i have a boyfriend. we've been together for almost a year now, and in november - his mom asked if i would like to join them on their spring break in colorado. my parents have been going along with it for the past 4 months, they haven't exactly said yes .. but they haven't totally declined it either. today, my mom said that she was leaning more towards no because "i'm only 15 and she doesn't think it's sending the right message .. staying with my boyfriend for a week" i TOTALLY understand their concern, but WHY didn't she tell me this earlier? my boyfriend and i have been talking about this since i first found out in october! we were SO excited! my parents said that i had to get all a's and b's .. and progress reports just came out .. guess what - i have all a's and b's! what can i do to prove to them that i am responsible enough to go with him? PLEASE HELP!
If your boyfriend's parents are going, have them talk to your parents so they know that you're safe and everything is going to be okay. :]
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my name is missy_504 and im 20 years old and i need advice
how can i make my vigiana tight afther having a baby??
Check out this website, and see if it helps any.
http://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-37438.0.html
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Hi. I'm a huge fan of theknot.com. Its extremly helpful. I also like that you can make a website with them.
Does anyone know any other websites similer to this?
I already know of brides.com but thats about all.
Thanks.
try some of these websites.
http://www.organicweddings.com/
http://www.topweddingsites.com/
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Ok, I know what a pushup bra is so please do not tell me what a pushup bra is. (For ex: "it pushes your boobs so they dont sag" or wahtever)
I never wore one before, so I was just wondering exactly HOW it works?? (NOT what it is! lol)
try looking at this site. and see if it helps.
http://www.howitworks.net/how-bras-work.html
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Hey. I'm 15 years old. I have never had a boyfriend, but guys have been interested in me...eh immaturity in guys sucks..but thats besides the point..totally diff. story ha. Basically, i'm scared to grow up & Be Alone. Not find somone out there for me. And turn into some cat lady. I know i'm young but i cannot picture myself being with anyone. Have you ever felt this one at one point or another? Help =[
Yeah i know how you feel. The best way is to try and find someone you really are interested in, so you can feel comfortable with them. Try forgetting about it, life's too short, live your life to the fullest. =]
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omgoodness. i'm so jealous of everybody and everything. i get jealous of people i don't know and people i do know. i can't help it. it's like a disease i can't get rid of. i don't know what to do about it because not only being jealous really sux for a personality it really brings me down inside. please help me find a cure for this disease! so what should i do?
Try reading stuff on this site.
It talks about people with the similar problem & tells how they coped or cured it.
http://www.healthboards.com/boards/showthread.php?t=465669
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my boobs have been itching! ugh its kinda annoying and its like inbetween them too. they've been itching all day, its annoying! okay 1, why? and 2, how do i fix this?
1. You're either pregnant, or you're allergic to something and it's making them break out, or they're getting biggger.
2. Put lotion on the entire area every night and morning.
-- try lotion without a strong scent or a no scent so it doesnt irritate it.,
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HELP. okay so i go tmy period for the first time. and like i am trying to use a tampon but im scared. ahh. help.
its a tampax pearl. idk if that helps ha.
if it's your first time, you shouldn't use a tampon, and if you're scared, you should wait until you feel more comfortable.
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I don't know why, but I always feel like all I ever do is work. I go to school and work my ass off. I come home and work hard on my homework only to worry if I did it right and if I'm going to get a good grade. I have to make good grades because thats how I've been raised and I think to be able to become something important I need to. I worry about everything. I've been going through depression for a while for a few reasons. One is I feel ugly and need a better body. I pretty much hate myself. Another is I always feel when someone is nice to me there is something they want like a hidden reason. I'm negative and tend to think the worst of people. I don't trust people easy and can't believe anyones genuine. I just can't get past any of this especially how I look. I know that sounds shallow, but with all this I feel like all I do is work and feel horrible. I feel like I'm constently under stress. I mean yes I have a great boyfriend, but that is about it. I have good parents, but my friends werent real friends if you can understand that. I started a new school and I'm working on making new friends. I always feel different though. I just want to be happy so if you have any suggestions or thoughts on this or can somewhat relate anything would be appreciated.
I always say to write things down and get your feelings out and on paper so you`ll have them out in the open and you`ll feel better. Try talking to your boyfriend and maybe he can make you feel better. Don't stress about homework, take some time to do things for yourself too.
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